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MeghaneMorgane:
Amen. I want to have his baby. I feel blessed to have him.

You can always invite me to officiate the wedding. I don't charge much, just one goat and brown envelope and I'm ok.

I'll prophesy goodness into your life.

DMCY:
I guess when he starts cheating, you cheat also🌚?

what makes you think he will cheat first 😒😒😒

Belurved1:
Dem still they rehearse, una never enter the main game (marriage) which is the reality. I'm 98.5% sure this trategy won't be applicable when married. Weather you like it or not, if you can't give total respect to him, there'll be problem.

Time will tell 😁

FalseProphet1:
You can always invite me to officiate the wedding. I don't charge much, just one goat and brown envelope and I'm ok.

I'll prophesy goodness into your life.

Ok noted 😁

DeeScan:
what makes you think he will cheat first 😒😒😒

We’re not cheating people.

Both of you are forking childish

DeeScan:
what makes you think he will cheat first 😒😒😒

It will get to a time the guy will stop been petty with her and look elsewhere for unpetty character🌚 and trust me babes plenty d!e for outside, lol.

MeghaneMorgane:
My guy doesn’t have childhood trauma. We both don’t have childhood traumas and I’m grateful for that. We correct each other in love and kindness until the other person is not changing. Then we go petty.

If you say so then goodluck

DMCY:
It will get to a time the guy will stop been petty with her and look elsewhere for unpetty character🌚 and trust me babes plenty d!e for outside, lol.

Doesn't mean he would cheat first.

Bongadu:
Both of you are forking childish

I don’t think we are childish 😌.

Bongadu:
Both of you are forking childish

but it works for them and that's all that matters...

DMCY:
It will get to a time the guy will stop been petty with her and look elsewhere for unpetty character🌚 and trust me babes plenty d!e for outside, lol.

What is outside is mostly rubbish these days. As we are, we’re not intending to break up and we intend to make our relationship work no matter the issue. This is one way we do it.
I think we are imperfectly perfect for each other 😌.

MeghaneMorgane:
We aren’t wasting away precious time my dear . It is our own way to bring the other person to check without talking too much about it. For now, it works perfectly.

Dumbiest thing i had in the last 48hrs, for now the retaliation make sense cos you guyz are still both immature maybe kids sef

So if your boyfriend impregnate another gurl mistakenly ... you too will get pregnant mistakenly.. that what wil keep him in line .. lol

If your boyfriend buy you a car will you also retaliate abi this retaliation is limited to meaningless things

chidiokay:
Dumbiest thing i had in the last 48hrs, for now the retaliation make sense cos you guyz are still both immature maybe kids sef

So if your boyfriend impregnate another gurl mistakenly ... you too will get pregnant mistakenly.. that what wil keep him in line .. lol

If your boyfriend buy you a car will you also retaliate abi this retaliation is limited to meaningless things

We are both in our late twenties. We’re not kids. Did you miss where I wrote that cheating and domestic violence is not part of this strategy

Did you also miss where I said when either of us does something that the other person doesn’t like

I will be more than excited if my boyfriend buys me a car. And I will not get pregnant for another man if my boyfriend impregnates another girl which he will not do 😌. My boyfriend is a good man 😌.

MeghaneMorgane:
What is outside is mostly rubbish these days. As we are, we’re not intending to break up and we intend to make our relationship work no matter the issue. This is one way we do it.
I think we are imperfectly perfect for each other 😌.

Kare lai😁

Hmmm, its just for the main time. Please dnt do that again, it will make it a boring one.

MeghaneMorgane:
I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly.
My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one?
If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic?
NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.

I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.

He won't marry you

No man has time to put up with a woman with sick attitude when I'm the one providing

Vyzz:
He won't marry you

No man has time to put up with a woman with sick attitude when I'm the one providing

I’ll send you my wedding invitation 😂. He is head over heels for me. His mum loves me too 😁😁. She loves me so much and she is always calling to check up on me. Be deceiving yourself 😂😂.

Ebigwei007:
Hmmm, its just for the main time. Please dnt do that again, it will make it a boring one.

How will it become boring ?

MeghaneMorgane:
We are both in our late twenties. We’re not kids. Did you miss where I wrote that cheating and domestic violence is not part of this strategy

Did you also miss where I said when either of us does something that the other person doesn’t like

I will be more than excited if my boyfriend buys me a car. And I will not get pregnant for another man if my boyfriend impregnates another girl which he will not do 😌. My boyfriend is a good man 😌.

No wonder ! genZ .. a guy primes from 30 .. hopeful you both hit maturity at 30

Hiliarious so you guyz sat down, agree to retaliate but set a boundary 😃 interesting

Can two live together and not offend each other, so everytime una dey retaliate and you think you or him won't get tired somehow ... it will shock you both what age will do
If you won't retaliate to buy him a car or retaliate to carry belle from outside ... then yòu both aint serious 😀 you don't need advice what una need is prayer that you both become grown ups

Wokeness?

tnerro1:
Wokeness?

I don’t know if it is wokeness oo. But it has been working so far 🙈.

MeghaneMorgane:
I’ll send you my wedding invitation 😂. He is head over heels for me. His mum loves me too 😁😁. She loves me so much and she is always calling to check up on me. Be deceiving yourself 😂😂.

OK let's make a deal


if you send me ur wedding invitation...


I'll try my best to come even if I'm in China 🤝

Hey

Na childishness dey worry una two..

But be careful so you don't lose him because no man wants a woman who's kind of involved in "do me I do you". So that, few months/years later, you will not come crying on social media of how your ex of how many years left you for another woman, after your years of loyalty to him. E be things o...

One day he will nack one of the babes in your neighborhood, naso you too go retaliate to nack one uncle who is jobless in your neighbourhood since two of you have chosen retaliation to communicate dislikes

Your eyes go soon clear

MeghaneMorgane:
I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly.
My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one?
If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic?
NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.

I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.

That’s the way it should be.

I believe in retaliation in equal measures. Retaliation is very good, let people feel what you felt when they did what they did. It is a better way to make others feel empathy and obey necessary boundaries

MeghaneMorgane:
I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly.
My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one?
If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic?
NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.

I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.

I'm very sure that if you suspect him to be cheating, you'll also start sleeping around to retaliate.
This is mistake most of you make that will end up ruining your life and future... CONTINUE

MeghaneMorgane:
I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly.
My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one?
If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic?
NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.

I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.

Both of you are childish, as you grow older and come across more pressing issues or challenges in life, you ll do away with such childish behaviour

This is a toxic relationship. The toxicity is even a dangerous one.

And by the way. One of you is a master manipulator.

If thats not you, you will cry.

The small relationship advise I have, I am reserving it for my Children..

Munzy14:
The small relationship advise I have, I am reserving it for my Children..

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂