₦airaland Forum

Coolsat:
She's a minor in a big body that's all. All her comments are very childish

Very childish indeed!

cococandy:
What they fail to understand is that present day monogamy was started and enforced by them. Now they complain about it.

In the same vein, male centered polygamy can only work through cultural and religious oppression of women such that they are shamed or forced by family and religious institutions to stay with men who don’t think they’re worth being faithful to.

If we really let them achieve their dream sexual utopia without the application of female subjugation and slut shaming, na dem go cry.

Like the wise ones say, toto has no meter.

I’d strongly advise everyone to respect themselves and their chosen partners but they won’t listen to an evil feminist like me 🙂‍↔️

As if anyone is stopping them from sleeping about. They have their female counterparts all over Nigeria to do that with. But no, they want to do it with responsible women. So that these women can raise the kids while they continue roaming like evil spirits. All this cry is because that isn't working out for them.

Magnumproperty:
I beg to disagree.
I know a lady who is almost 37. She's not married and she's not bothered. Her female younger siblings are married. As old as she is she's still using men to shakara.

But then, you can't tell us here that she is a virgin!

So, this means that even though she claims she is not bothered, she still seeks men from time to time, albeit secretly.

Bottom line: She would have slept with so much men in her lifetime that a few years from now, no man will want her again.

So, where does she go from there

Deception! Sheer hypocrisy!

cococandy:
To you, there’s nothing wrong with this arrangement until the baby mamas you intend to have also have their other babies with other men. So you’ll end up having 3 kids with 3 different women and they also have other kids from other men.

Remember that you’re not the only man who wants several kids from several women for diversity’s sake.
One big happy village.

I don’t see the issue. Except that y’all dudes will still be the ones to cry about it

Allow me cry. My cross.

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

This is not true tho

Women problem no de finish. Even when dem dey die,them still dey think who them supposed love pass!

Personally we are not as bad as the AA community. Nigerian men and women are sought after outside Nigeria because of our values, take away the economic burden and you see that we are better off for Marriage.

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

LMAO

When they get married, they start misbehaving and start taking advice from online and their unmarried friends

That's a big fat lie

CaveAdullam:
The average man and woman want a happy family.

Forget all these social media braggadocio.

Underneath such complaints and rationalizations are young men and women who want to have a lovely spouse to call their own and enjoy all the beautiful sides of love and romance.

It's simply a biological imperative across the animal kingdom. The goal is to reproduce a generation of offspring that can sustain their lineage in the genetic pool.

Women love marriage because of the security it brings - shelter and food; protection and provision. Because they are the weaker sex.

Men love marriage because their bloodline will continue in the line of their dominance, power, and control.

A woman who's unable to secure a quality male before she hits the wall is a "failure in the sexual and dating market". Because her early maturity is a preparation for her to quickly scout for that male who will be her angel as she ages. That's why women are more beautiful than men. Nature is simply preparing them for the future.

Her inability to get that quality male also means she will struggle alone through this cruel world without any form of masculine support outside the home. Again, this is another reason that the foundation of a woman is strong and masculine. Else, she will get consumed and damaged by the demands of the cruel world.

Where the demands of the world refine men, even though many still get consumed, women, on the other hand, hardly come out of the furnace without smelling like black ugly burnt offerings.

Men without marriage are simply working for strangers. Because through marriage a dynasty or an empire is built and sustained.

Pragmatically, marriage doesn't make sense if you consider the end of life - death. And so with every other activity and event in life.

However, for the culture and human biological disposition, love and marriage make sense.

With that, the most powerful force pushing humans is not even our intellect. Do you know what it is?

Sex.

Sex is womanly leverage to get a man's commitment and lock him in marriage.

The thirst for sex pushes men to become bigger and better because they want to secure the best of women.

Women are happy when they are married because they can get the best of a man.

Men are happy when married because they know that even in immortality, their control and dominance continue.

Thanks.

What if this quality male dominance only produced female offsprings, whom where later married to other families(higher or lesser dominance). Then, what becomes of his control and dominance in immortality?

Let us not lie to ourselves, we maintain bloodline and dynasty in male children. As a strong man with an empire with only female child, its just a matter of time you lose that empire to another male(whether strong or not). Well, maybe your daughters could bring back a male child of another man to rule over your empire and continue your dominance!!!

I do not agree with this!

Marriage is good, but it should not be your ultimate life goal because you can be married and sad, you can be married and lonely, and you can be married and still feel unfulfilled.

Discover yourself, know and do what makes you happy, develop yourself, meet people, have fun, and be true to yourself, because life is short.

#mytake

PerfectStranger:
No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

Forget this alpha and redpill whatever. You will regret nit married. Even Jesus will come back and marry

As usual, never want to be held accountable for their actions, will always blame men.
One of the qualities he was complaining about.b

EreluRoz:
There are good women everywhere, but most of you are looking for good women in the clubs. Men are actually responsible for whatever you think women have become today, I'm sure we are not ready for this argument

The truth they keep denying.

Men and women are designed naturally to marry before they can attained complete happiness in their lives.
Since marriage is a union of two genders, each spouse is giving roles that suits them, since marriage is lifestime journey.
But the moment one of the spouse either man or woman decides to go beyond his/her responsibilities and rights , the tends to be negativel consequences, no matter how you how little.
Our parents, forefathers and mothes understood ,that's why the lived a nice life.
But am sorry to say today some men are lazy and not men enough to carry responsibility, then the stylishly say that men to must contribute, you must bear in mind if the a woman contribute she will disrespect you because it's your job you pushed to her so you must received the backlash.
There is nothing bad when a women helps financially but not regularly or a must.
Lastly, the way you conduct yourself that the kind of spouse you will get, God is not wicked.

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

for the very first time, you have made sense. Please, continue in the good >>> direction.

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

See as this mami just use style shift goal post.

Do you know eye no too dey on man above 30 unlike ya mate above 30

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What she really means is wedding, they have no idea what the concept marriage means. If you dont like accountability then you re not ready for marriage , think the men know this and avoid 95% of them.

Natbrowny:
Come to zone 4. Me and u get 2 Jack Daniels to drink.

U valid

Una fit pick Goodlady for Zone 2, she the always stand for diamond junction road for evening.

she doesn’t mind 2 people.

SocialJustice:
Allow me cry. My cross.

Sure

I'm over 40 years.
I'm financially OK.
I'm physically, psychologically, and physiologically fine.

I'M SINGLE AND WILL NEVER GET MARRIED.
IN FACT, I HATE THE CONCEPT.

Emmanuel900:
What do you mean by their own admission ? stop taking random opinion of individual male on the internet as the general opinion of all men.

If you don’t agree with them, you should do more to dispel these stereotypes they spread about your gender. Instead of fighting those of us who take them at their word

The hall mark of a real man is self discipline and self respect, in fact serious women that know what they are looking for won't get involve with a man that can't respect himself and have discipline.

I agree with you.

I wouldn’t be with a man who holds these disgusting opinions that men have no self control, self respect and discipline. I’m with a disciplined man and I won’t accept less than he expects from me.

I need men on this forum to realize that it’s asinine to expect certain respectful behaviors from a woman that you’re not ready to give her in return.

omooba969:
Na this kind topic dey give you orgasm, and your energy cum submissions are typically misguided. It has to be 'US vs Them'.

Feminist ìsonu!

You don’t have sense

Or maybe they really like each other and want to be together without sharing themselves with other people. It can be that simple

CaveAdullam:
The average man and woman want a happy family.

Forget all these social media braggadocio.

Underneath such complaints and rationalizations are young men and women who want to have a lovely spouse to call their own and enjoy all the beautiful sides of love and romance.

It's simply a biological imperative across the animal kingdom. The goal is to reproduce a generation of offspring that can sustain their lineage in the genetic pool.

Women love marriage because of the security it brings - shelter and food; protection and provision. Because they are the weaker sex.

Men love marriage because their bloodline will continue in the line of their dominance, power, and control.

A woman who's unable to secure a quality male before she hits the wall is a "failure in the sexual and dating market". Because her early maturity is a preparation for her to quickly scout for that male who will be her angel as she ages. That's why women are more beautiful than men. Nature is simply preparing them for the future.

Her inability to get that quality male also means she will struggle alone through this cruel world without any form of masculine support outside the home. Again, this is another reason that the foundation of a woman is strong and masculine. Else, she will get consumed and damaged by the demands of the cruel world.

Where the demands of the world refine men, even though many still get consumed, women, on the other hand, hardly come out of the furnace without smelling like black ugly burnt offerings.

Men without marriage are simply working for strangers. Because through marriage a dynasty or an empire is built and sustained.

Pragmatically, marriage doesn't make sense if you consider the end of life - death. And so with every other activity and event in life.

However, for the culture and human biological disposition, love and marriage make sense.

With that, the most powerful force pushing humans is not even our intellect. Do you know what it is?

Sex.

Sex is womanly leverage to get a man's commitment and lock him in marriage.

The thirst for sex pushes men to become bigger and better because they want to secure the best of women.

Women are happy when they are married because they can get the best of a man.

Men are happy when married because they know that even in immortality, their control and dominance continue.

Thanks.

The question self is where is even the money for marriage

"Bride price list" can instantly give a man heart attack and change a man's mood from good to bad

Nna na person wey chop belleful and get shelter dey think of marraige

Natbrowny:
Come to zone 4. Me and u get 2 Jack Daniels to drink.

U valid

do u mean: zone 4 in Abuja

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

I'm over 40 years.
I'm financially OK.
I'm physically, psychologically, and physiologically fine.

I'M SINGLE AND WILL NEVER GET MARRIED.
IN FACT, I HATE THE CONCEPT.

EreluRoz:
Did your parents had you outside? What makes some of you think it's cool to have kids out of wedlock? The way some of you try to normalize abnormalities is appalling

See, no one who has gone through a bitter and stressful marriage will ever feel less than a man. The same applies to a woman that has gone through a bitter and stressful marriage. Agreed, marriage is sweet, if you get it right, but if it is otherwise hmmmm

PerfectStranger:
No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

I agree with you.