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Shomek:
Why are men losing interest in settling down?

WELLINGTON202:
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Shomek:
Why are men losing interest in settling down?

ZaddyJ:
No b lie
I'm a witness to this my brother. Im presently married to a woman who not only romantic but caring and show empathy .
Ve u had a situation where a woman makes u her next of kin for her life insurance ( even her mom and siblings re alive ) before ?
Na me my wife put as her own and shes not a Nigerian.

Badmashiii:
The reason for most ladies objections to polygamy is not entirely religious,rather it's mostly about power and control.

If she's the only wife and you happened to be a bloody billionaire,she can control you and your billions. using what you may ask? with her pussy of course.

Also,she and her children get to inherit all what you had without having to share with another wife and her children.

If you know how calculative ladies naturally are,you'll be very cautious and clever in your dealings with them.

LeopardX:
80% of the time, it's because there's no money.
But it's hard for guys to admit to that fact so they'll say it's because women are this and that.

But when money show, they risk it all: get married, have kids and hope for the best.

Fearyourcreator:
Dangote sef japa

Shomek:
Why are men losing interest in settling down?

MrNice04:
lol...for real brother...how do you avoid this billings

CHAQUR:
I'm married...but I will advise anyone wanting to marry to calm down especially with the Gen-Z ladies. They don't love, they come into marriage with a mission to be accomplished... To make money from you or just to have a child & start to make the money with other men as side chic, not for better for worse.

LeopardX:
But e first marry born pikin full ground before e japa.

Fearyourcreator:
He still japa still ...

krushdripper:
When did women ever have interest in settling down?? And where is the law that says I must let myself be belittled, mocked or given hateful gestures by a woman because I think i should settle down? Call it forming, not wanting to seem easy, playing hard to get or whatever, it is a clear signal that they don't want to settle down, they just need a man to fund thier existence cos they're letting you stick your dick in them, which is why they switch up on you when you have issues with your financial stability so it's only normal that more men would continue to loose interest in settling down owing to the decietful, self serving nature of women.

LeopardX:
Lol. Maybe na the woman sef japa. Who knows?

Fearyourcreator:
Money couldn't keep the marriage is the thing

LeopardX:
Truth. But getting married without having money get as e be. Even if the woman is an understanding one.

Shomek:
Why are men losing interest in settling down?

CyrusVI:
Are they?

I'm not really a social media person yet my status every weekend is filled with pictures of those that attended other peoples wedding ceremony and its being like this for 5 consecutive weeks

I dont think this things really apply offline

This might just a topic to give hope to single guys, if so, I'm happy to rejoice with them

cucumbar:
it’s nothing exceptional, this man. You expect her to put her siblings as next of kin when she’s married?

That’s what a normal woman or man would do…their wife, husband or children would be their next of kin.

IkeGod9891:
I didn't lose interest. I just don't have money currently.

imustsaymymindo:
The word settle down is such a negative word. Maybe that's why.

LeopardX:
Truth. But getting married without having money get as e be. Even if the woman is an understanding one.

Augustine2244:
I can never lose interest in settling down,no matter the number of bad partners I meet, because marriage is a beautiful and honourable institution ordained by God.
My parents got married and had me, and so my own will and can never be different.
Only fools give up on settling down just because of a few mistakes in choice of partners..
Marriage makes you feel complete and fulfilled, knowing that there someone special you will grow old with, someone to offer you the invaluable COMPANIONSHIP at all times.

Alphamentips:
To find virgin babe for this Lagos be like say you dey find straightforward politician for this current Tinubu government. It's just impossicant. If to say na for East, babes just yapa. Young virgins..

My first babe na divorcee... So didn't make the cut. 2nd babe, single mom.. had to let her go. 3rd babe dey 1st year for school... She wan use billing strangle me

I just tire my g.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Yes it is negative. But most people do settle eventually.

PARADIZEPRIEST:
Ladies are becoming more aggressive and selfish due to negative social media influence ,from feminist uploads on YouTube to tiktok you see d frustrating ladies causing and stressing their finance and bf for trivial issues,is all not getting money they aimed for.