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Osanoghodua1:
You're not telling the truth, maybe you married wrongly. God instituted marriage and here you're telling them to give birth to children without fathers otherwise known as the I-generation.

Marriage is the best thing that happened to me after salvation.

Seeing my wife cook for me, wash my clothes, ask me what I want to eat, take good care of me and telling my children to kneel and greet me, telling me to kiss our baby. This life is beautiful.

Glory to God.

Oga shutup..

Is it everyone in the Bible that got married?
Also if u say it's.is d best so does that mean everyone's marriage will be like yours ?

And besides anything can still happen tomorrow and stop bragging .

We have seen marriages of 30years that crashed even with the so called rich families inudingthe richest woman in Nigeria Alakija..

Have u read about her too?
Her marriage is about 40years + and still crashed so don't brag yet ..

Tomorrow is just impossible for me to conclude about u .

Just thank God u are lucky about it but don't brag as if others must be lucky as you do .

occfx:
You just miss bachelorhood, after 40yrs you will thank God you married. That's if you married good woman ooo otherwise, you will be in hell by then.

Exactly you are truly an adult.

Although marriages can be tire ring and probably sometimes can cause commitment to spending and d likes but at some certain age or as u grow older u will realize it's also a good idea u took d bold step to get married because d reality of life will set in.

You will need a partner and someone u can plan with including raising of your children etc.

Marriage is a challenge but can't be left or ignored too in life 🤔

That's how our parent faced it too during their days .

May God help us 🙏

luminouz:
No one!! The notion that your kids will take care of you when you're old is bull crap. They are all adults and away from you. Your spouse might be dead or worse. You need to learn to take care of yourself and get a helper/maid or support group. If you rely on your kids or wife, you will die sorrowfully and painfully.

U are logically right because even presently in my area an old woman died all because all her grown up children left for marriages and other stuff and couldn't even take care of her during old age.


Old age care depends and ur child is not a passport that u will have a proper care then .

Start thinking otherwise on alternative from now.

Fryx:
Marriage is actually useful for passing your legacy to your offspring so that you won’t be forgotten after your demise.

If you have a legacy, focus on it, your children are your future. That’s why a reasonable man don’t just choose a woman because she knows how to fvck or she get big ynash. A man with a future chooses a woman to build it with.

Deep.

Currently have a Slim pretty that comprises of all the Qualities that a Man will wish for but my love for Big yansh keeps discouraging me from taking steps 😃😃.

Holluwhakemmy:
I'm I harassing you?

Nevermind

Osanoghodua1:
You're not telling the truth, maybe you married wrongly. God instituted marriage and here you're telling them to give birth to children without fathers otherwise known as the I-generation.

Marriage is the best thing that happened to me after salvation.

Seeing my wife cook for me, wash my clothes, ask me what I want to eat, take good care of me and telling my children to kneel and greet me, telling me to kiss our baby. This life is beautiful.

Glory to God.

Wow! Pls where are you working?

Tayorshd87:
Exactly you are truly an adult.

Although marriages can be tire ring and probably sometimes can cause commitment to spending and d likes but at some certain age or as u grow older u will realize it's also a good idea u took d bold step to get married because d reality of life will set in.

You will need a partner and someone u can plan with including raising of your children etc.

Marriage is a challenge but can't be left or ignored too in life 🤔

That's how our parent faced it too during their days .

May God help us 🙏

Yes human being is wired to miss fun but life is short so the fun doesn't usually last. However, it is better to chase the fun ahead than the current fun.

NO BE SMALL THING

davies:
You'll miss those ur kurukere waka

Osanoghodua1:
You're not telling the truth, maybe you married wrongly. God instituted marriage and here you're telling them to give birth to children without fathers otherwise known as the I-generation.

Marriage is the best thing that happened to me after salvation.

Seeing my wife cook for me, wash my clothes, ask me what I want to eat, take good care of me and telling my children to kneel and greet me, telling me to kiss our baby. This life is beautiful.

Glory to God.

God give U better wife bro... U are one of the lucky few but that doesn't mean those other guys are lying. Thing is, a larger percentage of Nigerian women are not marriageable. No too blame guys when they opt for children out of wedlock no man wants constant problems inside house when problems already full outside. These girls have no respect or submission, they don't even know God or have any form of real relationship with him how can such a woman that doesn't reverence or fear God be of any good to the man? Yeah ur just a very lucky man so be grateful and hold that woman very well. Her kind no common. Na BBN warriors, social media addicts, porn queens, selfish and self centered users, disrespectful and stubborn, diabolical and deadly, lying, no good, manipulative and vile women full earth now and the worse is they still never own up or see their own faults. That's why we treat them like they deserve until we find the right one or not. Anyhow them want am we give them. I can't die young because of one idiot

Tayorshd87:
Oga shutup..

Is it everyone in the Bible that got married?
Also if u say it's.is d best so does that mean everyone's marriage will be like yours ?

And besides anything can still happen tomorrow and stop bragging .

We have seen marriages of 30years that crashed even with the so called rich families inudingthe richest woman in Nigeria Alakija..

Have u read about her too?
Her marriage is about 40years + and still crashed so don't brag yet ..

Tomorrow is just impossible for me to conclude about u .

Just thank God u are lucky about it but don't brag as if others must be lucky as you do .

Spot on

Tayorshd87:
He didn't say he wants to go back to bachelors hood he was just trying to pass a message.

Only an adult will understand.. SMH

Adult, can you show me in my comment that you responded to where you saw where it was said that he said the above?

its not too late to walk away from your marriage and back to bachelorhood

What is the message he was trying to pass?

Pls what does the highlighted below mean?

PheelzAlmighty:
I got married....and honestly I'm still trying to process it all.

There's a baby on the way and that's enough incentive..I guess 😏
Guys but honestly if you can, don't get married. Nothing special about it, just more responsibility, liability and routine serenren😔

PheelzAlmighty:
I got married....and honestly I'm still trying to process it all.

There's a baby on the way and that's enough incentive..I guess 😏
Guys but honestly if you can, don't get married. Nothing special about it, just more responsibility, liability and routine serenren😔

I'm sure you have heard other men complain about getting married before and advised that it's not worth it.Why did you not take their advice and avoid marriage?
But alas, you got married, your baby is on the way and here you are advising others not to. The same advice you did not take yourself. I blame anyone that takes some useless advice from random people online.

lexy2014:
its not too late to walk away from your marriage and back to bachelorhood

Don't mind him. Marriage is bad but he got married and here he is deceiving other gullible men

chatinent:
Why not divorce so that you can become the epitome of your advice?

Don't mind him. Online warrior. I pity people that come online to take advice from deceivers like this man.

We4all:
It is not too late to file for a divorce.

And if he doesn't SHAME ON HIM.

So this one is getting married with the intent that he will cheat.
, Majority of Naija guys are badly raised, imagine a newly married man saying "if I want to call my woman outside I have to hide". No $hame at all cuz he wasn't well brought up. N0nsense

PheelzAlmighty:
I got married....and honestly I'm still trying to process it all.

There's a baby on the way and that's enough incentive..I guess 😏
Guys but honestly if you can, don't get married. Nothing special about it, just more responsibility, liability and routine serenren😔

You never send your own home, you de advise others not to get married.

Mariangeles:
He hit the jackpot with her.

responsibilities everywhere...

PheelzAlmighty:
I got married....and honestly I'm still trying to process it all.

There's a baby on the way and that's enough incentive..I guess 😏
Guys but honestly if you can, don't get married. Nothing special about it, just more responsibility, liability and routine serenren😔

Why can't you divorce your wife and become single as you say na useless advice you wan dey gibe innocent single men out there come take your time

PheelzAlmighty:
I got married....and honestly I'm still trying to process it all.

There's a baby on the way and that's enough incentive..I guess 😏
[b]Guys but honestly if you can, don't get [/b]married. Nothing special about it, just more responsibility, liability and routine serenren😔

So in other words you not happy in the marriage cuz you made a mistake doesn't mean other will...carry you cross properly and stop spreading fear

PheelzAlmighty:
I got married....and honestly I'm still trying to process it all.

There's a baby on the way and that's enough incentive..I guess 😏
Guys but honestly if you can, don't get married. Nothing special about it, just more responsibility, liability and routine serenren😔

What an advise, when you're still married.
You have an option of divorcing pls, it's not by force

Veste:
I'm still regretting why I am married . 90% of Nigerian women these days are not worthy to be called wives. Stay single if you can, or better get a child out of wedlock.

I walked out, bro a fortnight ago and regained my sanity. Though, my only challenge na to how to juggle between my 2 boys age 5 and 3, and their school. I work at home in a large house alone.

luminouz:
No one!! The notion that your kids will take care of you when you're old is bull crap. They are all adults and away from you. Your spouse might be dead or worse. You need to learn to take care of yourself and get a helper/maid or support group. If you rely on your kids or wife, you will die sorrowfully and painfully.

Words on marble!

YoungDaNaval:
So this is what marriage is all about Make Una carry on smartly. I'll pass

Don't do it bro. I'm out oo. Unless you wan enter, but you must come out. That shit has lived its importance tey tey.

PheelzAlmighty:
I got married....and honestly I'm still trying to process it all.

There's a baby on the way and that's enough incentive..I guess 😏
Guys but honestly if you can, don't get married. Nothing special about it, just more responsibility, liability and routine serenren😔

Honestly

Oh sorry dear ma...how's she protecting me pls? Does one get harm at he club?

Mariangeles:
First of all, I'm not bro.

Secondly, it's for your own good.
She's protecting you.

luminouz:
See your life. You are engaged and still looking at someone else's penis...

Shioor

You need common sense to enable your brain 🧠 function well

If your wife dies first, we can say its natural.
But normally, na ur wife suppose dey by ur side in old age for care-giver duties.

YoungDaNaval:
nonsense talk. What if the wife die first?

I disagree. One option must be available(either wife or children). But that is not my issue. My main concern is, ur wife will always be the one to do the care-giver duties in your old age. The children might be sending money but ur wife will do the house chores.
So if you have only children and disregard your wife, its not advisable because your children will always go their separate ways.

luminouz:
No one!! The notion that your kids will take care of you when you're old is bull crap. They are all adults and away from you. Your spouse might be dead or worse. You need to learn to take care of yourself and get a helper/maid or support group. If you rely on your kids or wife, you will die sorrowfully and painfully.

KIDfurniture:
Marriage won’t stop you from mingling with other women. Just be very careful

But it's definitely stressful and too risky

Osanoghodua1:
You're not telling the truth, maybe you married wrongly. God instituted marriage and here you're telling them to give birth to children without fathers otherwise known as the I-generation.

Marriage is the best thing that happened to me after salvation.

Seeing my wife cook for me, wash my clothes, ask me what I want to eat, take good care of me and telling my children to kneel and greet me, telling me to kiss our baby. This life is beautiful.

Glory to God.

It's possible he isn't happy. It doesn't have to be the woman's fault. Some men just don't like responsibility. Let me list a few things that have made men regret marriage I have read here.
1- wife asked him to come home after work instead of going clubbing
2- Wife likes to arrange the bedsheets when he is too tired and just wants to sleep on the scattered bed
3- Having to now carry random women secretly instead of openly as he did when single
4- Being a provider for wife and kid(s)
Lol. Can we say those men married wrong?

Okortor:
Oh sorry dear ma...how's she protecting me pls? Does one get harm at he club?

It's a woman intuition thing that men do not understand.