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Short and simple answer:

Invite her to a public place.

Tell her you are disgusted by her actions and consistent pestering.

Tell her if she doesn't stop stalking you, you will file her case at a police station.

After that, order a bottle of your favorite drink and drink it to her face while she looks with an expectation of what she should also be ordered. Don't buy her any drink, bro. Drink it and belch the carbon oxide to her face.

Don't think of accepting her, then, to use and later dump her. It may not end up well with you. She will do worse than before.

Then, leave her there.

Ignore her for life.

Focus on a more beautiful and wholesome woman to spend your time with.

Thanks.

Who said she’s in charge of your break through how ?
What is yours will find it way to you with ease be it Love or money
Go and ask the shepherd David who was in the bush when the prophet Nathan came to look to anoint a king … read the story well


Many pastors link up members in their churches to marry ?
Since you are a Christian
Go and read what the Bible said about a wise and virtuous woman …
Then compare to your jezebel girlfriend who left you for another because of looks …

The funny part is no matter what we tell you
You will still obey your prophets and later along the years , your eye go clear…

Before you step out to revenge… dig two graves 🙃

Your story is a lie.. no Nigerian girl will beg man they rather go into hookup

She never believed u could survive the trauma but seeing u surviving it is a surprise to her and letting her back into ur life is you going to rest in pieces, dig ur grave is the meaning

EreluRoz:
look beyond some of my comments and you'll see clearly. Shalom

Your comment that I can't overlook is you supporting tinubu

geewean:
Understand this fact about majority of Nigerian women.

The are transactionary minded in the space of love.Women don't love men but they are in love and loyal to their feelings.Dont ever trust a woman's words no matter how sweet it may sound but trust their patterns that's why you must be vigilant when you are with them and be unemotional else they will use you like rollon.

She left you for a guy because he is handsome.This confirms that she was never in love with you but was monkey branching.

Sit down think about how she and her ex fixed a dinner date, sent sexual WhatsApp messages and she said he is the best thing that happend to her.It graduated to them bathing together naked and her sucking his pipes ravishingly and him now stroking it into her couchy while she screams his name and even deeps it in her self.Remember how he spanks her ass well and keeps thrusting it inside her with her eyes deemed in awe of the sweetness of his moses rod and possibly swallowed his cum 😂😂😂😂😂.Is it that kind of fellow you wanna welcome into your kingdom?


It's obvious you haven't healed from her totally and I will advise you do that or else you will miss out on more beautiful women in the future.You see that missing her is fictional not real.Its just a combination of chemicals( oxytocin) playing in your psyche.Delete her number and don't ever I mean don't ever stalk her for 6 months consistently I bet you that she will evaporate from your mind easily.


Remember that by default, tomorrow is better that yesterday.She is your yesterday.Somebody better I mean 100x better than her awaits you ahead and if you don't build yourself to attract and keep that person na you loose again oooo.


You are just an emotional asylum she is trying to seek refuge in and once she sees another handsome guy she will move.

The best way to revenge her is to IGNORE her totally my brother don't pick her calls don't utter a word just be quiet and watch how she will be tormented mentally even if she sees the handsome guy.


The world is counting on your for that big invention, solution and innovation.You might be the next Elon musk or Tech guru.Forget her Baba when money enter you take a trip to Maimi you go see better babes wey you go say knock your head for ever loving her sef.


Baba make money ooooooooo

You forgot to add that the niqqa called during the sex romp and she look at the phone and told the colleague that " it's my stupid boyfriend that's calling"

luminouz:
Boss...this is a long my own experiences. I have a story to tell you. I am coming soon...


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I'm still awaiting you boss.

Nicepoker:
She finished you years ago. Guess what? She wants to come back and FINISH YOU COMPLETELY

Ha! At the moment the only thing that can finish me is money. You know, it's never about her. It's about me. I didn't want to miss my chance at wealth due to my hardness of heart.
Forgiveness is prolly the hardest thing for me to do.

But just like MrBrownJay1 said. Ain't no such thing. Make I basta. Where are the atheists on this platform sef. I need some morale.

cc: FRANCISTOWN
LordReed
Jaephoenix
HopefullLandlord
MindHacker
1Sharon.

yommysure:
Bro NO take am back….

Yes sir.

Kingking001:
After 5yrs she switch to a fine dude and u wan take her back.ok.listen to ur heart bro.once bitten...........?

Twice shy my boss.

geewean:
Understand this fact about majority of Nigerian women.

The are transactionary minded in the space of love.Women don't love men but they are in love and loyal to their feelings.Dont ever trust a woman's words no matter how sweet it may sound but trust their patterns that's why you must be vigilant when you are with them and be unemotional else they will use you like rollon.

She left you for a guy because he is handsome.This confirms that she was never in love with you but was monkey branching.

Sit down think about how she and her ex fixed a dinner date, sent sexual WhatsApp messages and she said he is the best thing that happend to her.It graduated to them bathing together naked and her sucking his pipes ravishingly and him now stroking it into her couchy while she screams his name and even deeps it in her self.Remember how he spanks her ass well and keeps thrusting it inside her with her eyes deemed in awe of the sweetness of his moses rod and possibly swallowed his cum 😂😂😂😂😂.Is it that kind of fellow you wanna welcome into your kingdom?


It's obvious you haven't healed from her totally and I will advise you do that or else you will miss out on more beautiful women in the future.You see that missing her is fictional not real.Its just a combination of chemicals( oxytocin) playing in your psyche.Delete her number and don't ever I mean don't ever stalk her for 6 months consistently I bet you that she will evaporate from your mind easily.


Remember that by default, tomorrow is better that yesterday.She is your yesterday.Somebody better I mean 100x better than her awaits you ahead and if you don't build yourself to attract and keep that person na you loose again oooo.


You are just an emotional asylum she is trying to seek refuge in and once she sees another handsome guy she will move.

The best way to revenge her is to IGNORE her totally my brother don't pick her calls don't utter a word just be quiet and watch how she will be tormented mentally even if she sees the handsome guy.


The world is counting on your for that big invention, solution and innovation.You might be the next Elon musk or Tech guru.Forget her Baba when money enter you take a trip to Maimi you go see better babes wey you go say knock your head for ever loving her sef.


Baba make money ooooooooo

I will take consolation in the fact that you said tomorrow is better than today.
Honestly, she had me doubting my self esteem for a very long time.
I didn't know what I did wrong. Even the wrong things I did were oblivious to her.
These are the kinds of words that I need at the moment. Thanks boss. Forward ever, backward never.

Fidecoo:
Ahhh
Chairman, you no die again??
As you Been yearn last year.

You been say na only 6-12months you been get to leave.
So wetin come happen, any new update?

I was misdiagnosed. Some Nigerian hospitals should really be shut down and some professionals' license revoked.

I met with someone on NL who invited me to his friend's hospital. I ran series of test and I was on medication for 1 year. He bought all the drugs.
Forget what people are saying. There are really rich people on NL, and the nicest of them are the harshest of them.

CaveAdullam:
Short and simple answer:

Invite her to a public place.

Tell her you are disgusted by her actions and consistent pestering.

Tell her if she doesn't stop stalking you, you will file her case at a police station.

After that, order a bottle of your favorite drink and drink it to her face while she looks with an expectation of what she should also be ordered. Don't buy her any drink, bro. Drink it and belch the carbon oxide to her face.

Don't think of accepting her, then, to use and later dump her. It may not end up well with you. She will do worse than before.
Then, leave her there.

Ignore her for life.

Focus on a more beautiful and wholesome woman to spend your time with.

Thanks.

Cave Baba. Thank you sir.
I kind of have this feeling that leopards don't change their spots.
A person who lacks loyalty doesn't automatically gain it overnight.
The prophecy thing got my head messed up but thanks for the clarification. We will heed the words of the elders.

Remmedy:
Then compare to your jezebel girlfriend who left you for another because of looks …

The funny part is no matter what we tell you
You will still obey your prophets and later along the years , your eye go clear…

If I wanted to listen to my prophets I wouldn't be here.

What got me waivered was because one of the persons who told me the prophecy has a track record of 100% precision. She has never said anything that didn't come to pass. Every of her prophecy came on board and she even prophesied she was going to return.
But think of it. Is it not better to die broke than be with someone who considers you a supplement?

Autobot05:
Before you step out to revenge… dig two graves 🙃

Why sir?

Verydarkhearted:
Your story is a lie.. no Nigerian girl will beg man they rather go into hookup

Well. She did and still doing.

Mopeola:
She never believed u could survive the trauma but seeing u surviving it is a surprise to her and letting her back into ur life is you going to rest in pieces, dig ur grave is the meaning

Any advice that comes from a female moniker on this platform isn't something I'm ready to joke with, because, I'm sorry but, you guys rarely speak the truth. But when your words align with men. It's an authority.
No one knows a woman more than a woman.
Affliction shall not arise the second time.
"Fool me once, and you are a fool but fool me twice and I'm a fool"
We must stay brutal.

Meaning:
I don't want to bore you with much worse.

I dated a girl for 5years. We started dating back then when we were in the university. She was very kind and very understanding.
But she broke up with me and went ahead to date her colleague because he was more handsome (I'm not really that sweet to look at)

She treated me like a piece of shit, like a used rag, not considering the fact that we were together for 5years.
Now she broke up with him again and she's been begging me consistently for two years now wanting a relationship.
I've blocked her on all platforms but she always uses new numbers to get with me which they all go into the "blocked zone".

Back when we were dating. I was told by someone that I shouldn't leave the girl no matter what. Now this year, revelation has come out from two different people that I must take that girl back. That she holds a key to my financial breakthroughs. Not like I believe that bullshit anyways but It's kind of bothering me.

1. I feel like she lacks loyalty, how could I taie back someone who doesn't understand what loyalty is.

2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for?

3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now.

4. My ego is bruised because, she chose her colleague who had a GF over me who all I had was her.

5. I feel like her colleague is the person she really likes. She might be back because she isn't getting what she wants from him.

Guys please advice me, How do I date who I hate and please teach me how to avenge myself?
She hurt me so much when she left that I was bleeped up mentally up to the extent that I lost a huge sum of money and a source of income, I've been struggling since then. I even fell sick after that.

An eye for an eye. I want to avenge myself please. Please teach me all the possible wicked things I can do even if I must took her back.
cc: Martinez39s
Skepticus
Luminouz
CaveAdullam
MrBrownJay1
Faber
Heartofcity12
Pukkalolo
JESHAL007
Rizzputin
Nonexistent1
@ everyone. Please save a brother.

pls my Nairalanders I really need a job, I live in Abuja maraba side, am a graduate, I lost my job this year Feb ever since then and not gotten another one, pls do help me,
May we not be put to shame pls am dyin silently. May almighty God help us all (Amen)

Meaning:
I don't want to bore you with much worse.

I dated a girl for 5years. We started dating back then when we were in the university. She was very kind and very understanding.
But she broke up with me and went ahead to date her colleague because he was more handsome (I'm not really that sweet to look at)

She treated me like a piece of shit, like a used rag, not considering the fact that we were together for 5years.
Now she broke up with him again and she's been begging me consistently for two years now wanting a relationship.
I've blocked her on all platforms but she always uses new numbers to get with me which they all go into the "blocked zone".

Back when we were dating. I was told by someone that I shouldn't leave the girl no matter what. Now this year, revelation has come out from two different people that I must take that girl back. That she holds a key to my financial breakthroughs. Not like I believe that bullshit anyways but It's kind of bothering me.

1. I feel like she lacks loyalty, how could I taie back someone who doesn't understand what loyalty is.

2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for?

3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now.

4. My ego is bruised because, she chose her colleague who had a GF over me who all I had was her.

5. I feel like her colleague is the person she really likes. She might be back because she isn't getting what she wants from him.

Guys please advice me, How do I date who I hate and please teach me how to avenge myself?
She hurt me so much when she left that I was bleeped up mentally up to the extent that I lost a huge sum of money and a source of income, I've been struggling since then. I even fell sick after that.

An eye for an eye. I want to avenge myself please. Please teach me all the possible wicked things I can do even if I must took her back.
cc: Martinez39s
Skepticus
Luminouz
CaveAdullam
MrBrownJay1
Faber
Heartofcity12
Pukkalolo
JESHAL007
Rizzputin
Nonexistent1
@ everyone. Please save a brother.

LMAO @ keys to financial breakthroughs. This, as you would have guessed I would say, is bladderdash. Don't get sucked in by such trash, maintain your reasoning. This girl is not for you as can be evidenced by your various reasons. Keep her at arms length as you have been doing.

LordReed:
LMAO @ keys to financial breakthroughs. This, as you would have guessed I would say, is bladderdash. Don't get sucked in by such trash, maintain your reasoning. This girl is not for you as can be evidenced by your various reasons. Keep her at arms length as you have been doing.

Exactly! It's just that coming from a deep rooted religious background. I sometimes fear this prophecy thing.

In all shades of whatever, it is very glaring that she isn't the one for me. It's just the spiritual aspect that has got me leg in leg out.

But as you've pointed out. I'm grateful. I wanted to be sure I'm making the right choice.

Meaning:
Exactly! It's just that coming from a deep rooted religious background. I sometimes fear this prophecy thing.

In all shades of whatever, it is very glaring that she isn't the one for me. It's just the spiritual aspect that has got me leg in leg out.

But as you've pointed out. I'm grateful. I wanted to be sure I'm making the right choice.

You are making the right choice. You have no business being with someone who doesn't want to be you cos of looks.

Meanwhile, if it's prophecy you want I will soon be starting my Atheistic Prophecy Service. Free to enter but you need to pay 5 percent of your salary every month, I am not as greedy as the other religions.

Meaning:
I'm still awaiting you boss.

I'm sorry. Got busy and forgot for a minute.


Now,....

I was in a relationship with a girl some years back. She was my usual tall, big ass, dark skinned girl. She came from a very poor family. I didn't realize how poor till I visited her house. Since she is pretty, men will drool over her and promise lots of nonsense. She lapped that attention up. I told her never to collect money from men or meet them up for any reason if she is serious about keeping me. But that wasn't the case. But I have been told by so many people how good she is to my destiny and all that, I was overlooking these minor faults of hers. Many pastors would say our stars are aligned and all that shiiit.

Then something happened. One dude was more mad that the others. Would cry on the phone, send her messages, promise undying love and all that. In my years of living, I never meant a dude who was so needy and emotionally manipulative like that dude. He preferred to be side dude, would beg her for a visit, would send her urgent 2k. If she doesn't answer his calls, he would whine and cry like a child removed from mummy's tits. But because she gave him attention, slowly he wormed his way into her psyche and convinced her to visit him.

She was supposed to visit me that day but said she was too tired but shorty went to another dude's house and got oral sexed and roughhoused by this dude. No sex happened because I saw all their WhatsApp chats(I cloned her phone when I was suspicious) but the fact that she was undressed and caressed by another dude made me loose interest immediately. This dude roughhoused her that he actually bit part of her clitoris and wounded her. The fûcked up part is she never stopped talking to him after that episode, which made me realize that I let her get off with too much because some pastors said she was my sun and stars. I behaved
like nothing happened and invited her to my house.

When she came, I took her phone and scrolled down to the chats and showed them to her. She always talked about this guy as a pest but if you are not a bug, why fear pesticide? She started crying and weeping and all that shiit. I just looked disgusted and sent her away. Guess what,she was still talking to this dude after she promised never to talk to him anymore. Then, I went to two of these pastors and told them what's up. Guess what the two told me? She will change!! She is still my sun and stars. We are so perfect for each other. I looked at them in disbelief. My so-called sun and stars got her fûcking clit bit off and undressed and the only thing that didn't make the other dude sleep with her was that he was a mumu..and yet you lots are still advocating for me to marry a woman who lied to my face, disrespected and disobeyed me? That was when I threw away that religious mumbo-jumbo and put on my redpill cap.

Then, with the redpill, I know that this girl ain't loyal because she is attracted to small urgent 2k(while pretending to me that money doesn't really freak her) and still giving other guys attention and willing to meet them for drinks or some shiit. That this girl is not my sun and stars, no other girl is ..there are millions of women and if I go to Iran, I could find my moon and mercury there too...or Afghanistan or blôody Turkmenistan. No woman is your absolute sun and stars because such concept doesn't exist. I wasn't richer when I was with her, or built a house or bought a car, so where exactly is the so-called good fortune she was supposed to bring me? There was none. I decided there and then to keep hitting the pūssy but even that became an issue because since my heart wasn't with her anymore, I intentionally only satisfy myself and sent her away after, the sex got poorer and poorer because I already got someone else and one day, I just stopped talking to her or replying her messages. I don't forgive disrespect from any woman but I was weak in this girl's case and I allowed her to get away with many little things that became big things later.

My conclusion: There is no absolute sun and stars woman in your destiny, if she is not making you visibly rich or comfortable. Your girl was disrespectful and left you for urgent fine boy. Never forgive or forget that. My experience taught me that once you forgive a woman for cheating or disrespect, they never change. They just pretend to and do much worse because they think forgiveness makes a man weak. Don't take that girl back. She has been ran through and now sees you as the second option. Never be that for any woman.

Depart from evil and trust the Lord to direct you. Read Proverbs Chapter 3 verse 5 - 7. It is well with you

Meaning:
Ha! At the moment the only thing that can finish me is money. You know, it's never about her. It's about me. I didn't want to miss my chance at wealth due to my hardness of heart.
Forgiveness is prolly the hardest thing for me to do.

But just like MrBrownJay1 said. Ain't no such thing. Make I basta. Where are the atheists on this platform sef. I need some morale.

cc: FRANCISTOWN
LordReed
Jaephoenix
HopefullLandlord
MindHacker
1Sharon.

How can the atheists help you?

LordReed:
You are making the right choice. You have no business being with someone who doesn't want to be you cos of looks.

Meanwhile, if it's prophecy you want I will soon be starting my Atheistic Prophecy Service. Free to enter but you need to pay 5 percent of your salary every month, I am not as greedy as the other religions.

Make my mind dey for the first emboldened.
I must be crazy to think God would hand over my financial breakthrough to someone who made a mess of me because of my looks.

Please start the prophetic ministry. It will help some of us to get used to prophecies that will never happen, then we can renegotiate the percentage to pay in.

1Sharon:
How can the atheists help you?

Thank you.
I need the right words to make me stop believing in prophecies.
And I'm sure atheists have zero regards for prophecies.
How can I be like you with this prophecy thing.

Meaning:
Make my mind dey for the first emboldened.
I must be crazy to think God would hand over my financial breakthrough to someone who made a mess of me because of my looks.

Please start the prophetic ministry. It will help some of us to get used to prophecies that will never happen, then we can renegotiate the percentage to pay in.

I don't mind renegotiating. As I said I am not greedy. LoLz.

timagentms:
Depart from evil and trust the Lord to direct you. Read Proverbs Chapter 3 verse 5 - 7. It is well with you

Amen sir.

^{"Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; And lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, And he shall direct thy paths. Be not wise in thine own eyes: Fear the LORD, and depart from evil."}

Yes sir.

LordReed:
I don't mind renegotiating. As I said I am not greedy. LoLz.

Yes sir. Thanks sir

luminouz:
I'm sorry. Got busy and forgot for a minute.


Now,....

I was in a relationship with a girl some years back. She was my usual tall, big ass, dark skinned girl. She came from a very poor family. I didn't realize how poor till I visited her house. Since she is pretty, men will drool over her and promise lots of nonsense. She lapped that attention up. I told her never to collect money from men or meet them up for any reason if she is serious about keeping me. But that wasn't the case. But I have been told by so many people how good she is to my destiny and all that, I was overlooking these minor faults of hers. Many pastors would say our stars are aligned and all that shiiit.

Then something happened. One dude was more mad that the others. Would cry on the phone, send her messages, promise undying love and all that. In my years of living, I never meant a dude who was so needy and emotionally manipulative like that dude. He preferred to be side dude, would beg her for a visit, would send her urgent 2k. If she doesn't answer his calls, he would whine and cry like a child removed from mummy's tits. But because she gave him attention, slowly he wormed his way into her psyche and convinced her to visit him.

She was supposed to visit me that day but said she was too tired but shorty went to another dude's house and got oral sexed and roughhoused by this dude. No sex happened because I saw all their WhatsApp chats(I cloned her phone when I was suspicious) but the fact that she was undressed and caressed by another dude made me loose interest immediately. This dude roughhoused her that he actually bit part of her clitoris and wounded her. The fûcked up part is she never stopped talking to him after that episode, which made me realize that I let her get off with too much because some pastors said she was my sun and stars. I behaved
like nothing happened and invited her to my house.

When she came, I took her phone and scrolled down to the chats and showed them to her. She always talked about this guy as a pest but if you are not a bug, why fear pesticide? She started crying and weeping and all that shiit. I just looked disgusted and sent her away. Guess what,she was still talking to this dude after she promised never to talk to him anymore. Then, I went to two of these pastors and told them what's up. Guess what the two told me? She will change!! She is still my sun and stars. We are so perfect for each other. I looked at them in disbelief. My so-called sun and stars got her fûcking clit bit off and undressed and the only thing that didn't make the other dude sleep with her was that he was a mumu..and yet you lots are still advocating for me to marry a woman who lied to my face, disrespected and disobeyed me? That was when I threw away that religious mumbo-jumbo and put on my redpill cap.

Then, with the redpill, I know that this girl ain't loyal because she is attracted to small urgent 2k(while pretending to me that money doesn't really freak her) and still giving other guys attention and willing to meet them for drinks or some shiit. That this girl is not my sun and stars, no other girl is ..there are millions of women and if I go to Iran, I could find my moon and mercury there too...or Afghanistan or blôody Turkmenistan. No woman is your absolute sun and stars because such concept doesn't exist. I wasn't richer when I was with her, or built a house or bought a car, so where exactly is the so-called good fortune she was supposed to bring me? There was none. I decided there and then to keep hitting the pūssy but even that became an issue because since my heart wasn't with her anymore, I intentionally only satisfy myself and sent her away after, the sex got poorer and poorer because I already got someone else and one day, I just stopped talking to her or replying her messages. I don't forgive disrespect from any woman but I was weak in this girl's case and I allowed her to get away with many little things that became big things later.

My conclusion: There is no absolute sun and stars woman in your destiny, if she is not making you visibly rich or comfortable. Your girl was disrespectful and left you for urgent fine boy. Never forgive or forget that. My experience taught me that once you forgive a woman for cheating or disrespect, they never change. They just pretend to and do much worse because they think forgiveness makes a man weak. Don't take that girl back. She has been ran through and now sees you as the second option. Never be that for any woman.

Strictly speaking, my body is shaking hypothetically.

I think what caused the first mess up was the fact that early stage into our relationship she really did appear like "The One". So I already poured all my hope and trust into her and the relationship that when it ended. I was so drained.

It was like what you just narrated. In fact, many pastors and prophets did tell me that she is indeed my ticket to wealth, but like you pointed out. I was still damn broke when she was with me.
Though she was extremely supportive and kind.
But the lady herself lacks self esteem, how could you end up being a side chic to a guy all because he was handsome? Boss, that sh!t is mental. That's exactly what I can't wrap my head around.
I get people who advised me not to be vengeful, but honestly, not being able to avenge myself is what is hurting me right now.
I'm looking for a way to get even at all costs.

Please boss, what would you recommend?

Meaning:
Thank you.
I need the right words to make me stop believing in prophecies.
And I'm sure atheists have zero regards for prophecies.
How can I be like you with this prophecy thing.

You have to start by thinking critically. What makes you think being with her will get you some financial favours?