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tensazangetsu20:
I don't even know the appeal of being abroad and dating a Nigerian. I don't even want to touch a black woman again in this life. I don see shege for their hand. When I see them on the road I carry my head up as if they don't exist

Kwakwakwakwa

I think the problem is their entitlement mentality coupled with survival mood to pull out of poverty.

The ones over here are so much interested in the visa one is currently on and whether one is pulling in serious hard currency. Once they hear student, OYO .

As for me, I don't really care about race. My only mantra to myself is "Don't settle for less".

lastkingsman:
Kwakwakwakwa

I think the problem is their entitlement mentality coupled with survival mood to pull out of poverty.

The ones over here are so much interested in the visa one is currently on and whether one is pulling in serious hard currency. Once they hear student, OYO .

As for me, I don't really care about race. My only mantra to myself is "Don't settle for less".

The only way I will marry a black woman in this life is if she holds an American passport even that one it depends cause I won't like to marry a black American they do think and act like Nigerian women. I would like to probably maybe marry an afro Latino that has an American passport. Aside that, I no wan use eye see negra

tensazangetsu20:
The only way I will marry a black woman in this life is if she holds an American passport even that one it depends cause I won't like to marry a black American they do think and act like Nigerian women. I would like to probably maybe marry an afro Latino that has an American passport. Aside that, I no wan use eye see negra

Dey play

.every woman is the same be it black or brown


Pussy is pussy

tensazangetsu20:
I don't even know the appeal of being abroad and dating a Nigerian. I don't even want to touch a black woman again in this life. I don see shege for their hand. When I see them on the road I carry my head up as if they don't exist

I swear you be big werey

Too much Hollywood don finish ya fish brain


Na when you go enter 50+ , you go see the effects of yt pussy that's if she never divorce rape you

Kaczynski:
I swear you be big werey

Too much Hollywood don finish ya fish brain


Na when you go enter 50+ , you go see the effects of yt pussy that's if she never divorce rape you

What be your own? I thought it was fake

The op has not said what his problem is all about. Is he talking about lack of money to finance his taste or what else. It seems that Having sex with escort or olyfan stars is not his problem but depletion of his savings.

My advice is to set a budget of what you can spend on escorts end what you can save. Stick to it.

Secondly as someone suggested get a homeless gal who can pay you back with sexx but you people must sign some papers in order to protect you

Thirdly stop sending money to your girlfriend in Nigeria. Na another man you re feeding. Ficus on yourself. Reduce impulsive hiring of escort.

pansophist:
Try to bring your woman to Canada to live with you, or relocate to be with her, in any case, just be together physically.

The idea that a man can get over dirty sexual addictions without a woman is tough. Just like food cures hunger, a woman that you both love each other will go a long way in helping you stop it.

The reason why you don't see many women doing this stuff is because they control sex. Every woman can get sex. Attractive men don't fall into this either because they have women everywhere.

No fap, semen retention, being born again, or undergoing deliverance won't help you. If it were, you wouldn't be here again after many years of struggles.

If you are having real sex from a woman who desires you, and you empty your balls often, the urge to go spend money on some internet prostitute will be appalling.

The secret also is to be attracted to your woman. She should be your type or the proverbial spec. It would help if you found her attractive, it would help you a lot.

Just as men save women, women make men better. For example, a man marrying a slut has taken away her shame, that's how men save women. And women make men better by giving him love, and in your case, tame their lust and save you from exploitation by other women.

Oga you are as wise as Solomon.
You are also mature. And real wisdom comes from maturity.

Canada and other western societies have the same problem: LONELINESS.
And the fact that this young man is in Canada without a steady woman by his side is the MAIN PROBLEM.
He is in his sexual prime. This is NOT the time to be away from a steady woman. I prefer a wife.

His addiction to escort and onlyfan is partly because no woman is by his side "draining" him steadily, leaving him with no extra sexual energy to spare. Once that part is solved, his addiction will come within his ability to solve permanently.

An aside: Nna when I saw the type of money dis guy dey blow for olosho I was like WTF!

To folks like myself, money is farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr superior to sex.
Give me money any day I don't have sex, and I won't complain.

@OP, your problem is location. You are LOCATED AWAY FROM YOUR WOMAN.
Stop wasting money on vanity. Invest that money instead. Try to grow that money so that you can either relocate your woman or go back to her.
You will not remain young for ever.
That money you are wasting now is your lifeblood: the ticket to your ultimate freedom.
A lot of Nigerians would kill for the opportunity you are wasting. Think about that.
Let that thought stop you.

I’m considering visiting Nigeria soon , don’t know if that would help too or?

canada123:
I’m considering visiting Nigeria soon , don’t know if that would help too or?

Lol, bro. I took the time to read your posts.

Don't go to Nigeria o. The cost of tickets by now in this ember period would be high, you'd get Billings from your gf or ex-gf and other people, and those days of debauchery you want to have, you may not get it, and Naija is a bit unstable in many areas at the moment. You are not even in Naija yet, you are getting billings from strangers on Nairaland already.

You have to build and take out time to learn the game. Don't rush. I see you are going on a date soon. Good for you. But I don't think thriving to get a girlfriend would help your current state. If you get a girlfriend now and you relapse and she finds out about it, you are going to be creatively dealt with and you would prefer so badly to lose 20k in sex than for you to be in that situation. They don't tolerate cheating lightly there. And moreso, you sound quite naive to female nature.

My advice would be:

1.⁠ ⁠Network and see where you can get cheaper transactional sex when Hot. Massage parlors, nightclubs, referrals etc. Or masturbate responsibly. Don't listen to the advice to camp a homeless girl.

2.⁠ ⁠Get on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and what-not and like away. Just like, don't initiate convo. Let the girls initiate the convo first. That'd help sieve those who would want something to do with you. The direct approach is not for online activities. Although you might end up with girls, not your spec it doesn't matter, you are just using them to move up and increase your options. I call it, starting with the obese.

3.⁠ ⁠Take yourself out. Amusement parks, clubs, barbecue parties, cinemas, zoos, Parks, Pubs, conferences, Google meetup, etc. This is where you can now apply the direct approach. Talk to a girl who also came alone, you can even pay for her activity at the place(They'd appreciate it. They don't get that regularly). Be smooth with your words and confident.

4.⁠ ⁠Have an abundance mindset. Don't operate in scarcity. Talk to new girls even in Nigeria, and tell your Naija friends to introduce some Naija girls to you. Have a lot of them. It's long-distance but it's just to trick your brain into abundance. And for you who love the only fans' shenanigans, the Naija babes can give you a private perverse show at low or no cost depending on your game.

5.⁠ ⁠Have a good Instagram for social proof. Nigeria has the numbers. Once you take some pictures of yourself in nice places in Canada, flaunting some cars that are not yours, and all, you'll get many Naija followers who want to be like you. Or you can even buy an IG account sef. So that when you meet girls online or offline in Canada, instead of giving them your number or Whatsapp, you give them your Instagram(for social proof as most of them won't even have that amount of followers). I am sure some of those Onlyfan models and Tryst people don't even have followers up to a normal random Naija dude doing basics on Instagram.

6.⁠ ⁠Lastly, go to the gym, lose weight by taking note of your diet, and build muscle. This would make you attractive by the day. And also when you eventually get a lay, you'd be mentally prepared to devour that juice like a proper black man with steeze so they can keep coming back for more at no cost. You don't want to end up a one-minute man after all these hassles.

I wish you good luck, my friend. You might also want to consider taking the Redpill while you are at it because your game levels need to be on par to pull all this off and to be safe out there.

imustsaymymindo:
Lol, bro. I took the time to read your posts.

Don't go to Nigeria o. The cost of tickets by now in this ember period would be high, you'd get Billings from your gf or ex-gf and other people, and those days of debauchery you want to have, you may not get it, and Naija is a bit unstable in many areas at the moment. You are not even in Naija yet, you are getting billings from strangers on Nairaland already.

You have to build and take out time to learn the game. Don't rush. I see you are going on a date soon. Good for you. But I don't think thriving to get a girlfriend would help your current state. If you get a girlfriend now and you relapse and she finds out about it, you are going to be creatively dealt with and you would prefer so badly to lose 20k in sex than for you to be in that situation. They don't tolerate cheating lightly there. And moreso, you sound quite naive to female nature.

My advice would be:

1.⁠ ⁠Network and see where you can get cheaper transactional sex when Hot. Massage parlors, nightclubs, referrals etc. Or masturbate responsibly. Don't listen to the advice to camp a homeless girl.

2.⁠ ⁠Get on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and what-not and like away. Just like, don't initiate convo. Let the girls initiate the convo first. That'd help sieve those who would want something to do with you. The direct approach is not for online activities. Although you might end up with girls, not your spec it doesn't matter, you are just using them to move up and increase your options. I call it, starting with the obese.

3.⁠ ⁠Take yourself out. Amusement parks, clubs, barbecue parties, cinemas, zoos, Parks, Pubs, conferences, Google meetup, etc. This is where you can now apply the direct approach. Talk to a girl who also came alone, you can even pay for her activity at the place(They'd appreciate it. They don't get that regularly). Be smooth with your words and confident.

4.⁠ ⁠Have an abundance mindset. Don't operate in scarcity. Talk to new girls even in Nigeria, and tell your Naija friends to introduce some Naija girls to you. Have a lot of them. It's long-distance but it's just to trick your brain into abundance. And for you who love the only fans' shenanigans, the Naija babes can give you a private perverse show at low or no cost depending on your game.

5.⁠ ⁠Have a good Instagram for social proof. Nigeria has the numbers. Once you take some pictures of yourself in nice places in Canada, flaunting some cars that are not yours, and all, you'll get many Naija followers who want to be like you. Or you can even buy an IG account sef. So that when you meet girls online or offline in Canada, instead of giving them your number or Whatsapp, you give them your Instagram(for social proof as most of them won't even have that amount of followers). I am sure some of those Onlyfan models and Tryst people don't even have followers up to a normal random Naija dude doing basics on Instagram.

6.⁠ ⁠Lastly, go to the gym, lose weight by taking note of your diet, and build muscle. This would make you attractive by the day. And also when you eventually get a lay, you'd be mentally prepared to devour that juice like a proper black man with steeze so they can keep coming back for more at no cost. You don't want to end up a one-minute man after all these hassles.

I wish you good luck, my friend. You might also want to consider taking the Redpill while you are at it because your game levels need to be on par to pull all this off and to be safe out there.

Wow, this is so helpful

Looking at going in November or early December to Nigeria

Like I said earlier broke up with my Nigerian girlfriend already, maybe I just go for detty December and have a good time or bad idea?