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Zonefree:
Ironically, bad boys get virgin and well behaved girls while good boys like you get olosho and non virgin girls.

Na so life be, there's nothing you can do about it.

If the good boys are good boys, how do they end up with oloshos and non virgins?

If the good girls are good girls, how do they end up with bad boys?

atoliman:
They visit the brothel like it is a normal thing and sleep with oloshos like it is nothing and they want a loyal girlfriend. Who is decieving who? That relationship cannot work, neither the marriage will work.

A lady was telling me how her ex boyfriend got another girl pregnant while they were dating. The dude keep begging her to come back.

Bad boys should date promicious women and oloshos- that is a balanced equation, leave the good women alone so serious minded good guy can date them.

If the women are "good women", you won't be afraid of bad boys getting their attention

The same good girl will leave good boy to bad boys.
If a girl notices you are a good guy, she will just be manipulating you any how but will be extremely loyal to a bad guy

atoliman:
You attract who you are.

Lies.. You be learner when it comes to relationships,if you say so about attraction. Go and do your research well,even some so called good ladies wants the bad guys,the bad ladies wants the good guys..

Magnoliaa:

The logic is not logicing

JustPowerApps:
Drop your babe number, mah congratulate her for meeting a good guy.

Inside this hardship!

Magnoliaa:
Big cope lmao.


What's fair about your equation if the "good girls" are gullible and vulnerable, but the "good boys" will not be gullible and shit as well?


If bad girls are wiser and that'll make them pick the best guys, will the wiser bad guys not pick the best women too?


I mean, how is it wiseness on the part of the woman, but deception on the part of the man?

Lol.

You see, the devil doesn't need to deceive bad person again. Na the converted be that.

A bad guy knows the good girl when he sees one. A good guy will take a babe at face value because he doesn't know what's up.

Bad guys of course want good wives and know how to avoid bad girls.

So in summary, in a corrupted world, the innocent is usually the victim.

All men who raise children sired by men outside are good guys. Every time.

A bad guy will have checked out his babe's communication steadily before going far.

Na so.

AreaFada2:
So in summary, in a corrupted world, the innocent is usually the victim.

This we can mostly agree on, even though I don't see life as all that good or bad.


If the innocent are always usually victims, then the 'best guy' you referred to will be gettibg deceived just as much as the 'good girl'.


Or (bad) consequences are only reserved for women in your own world?

Nor be bad boys fault, even good girls like bad boys

chester23:
The same good girl will leave good boy to bad boys.
If a girl notices you are a good guy, she will just be manipulating you any how but will be extremely loyal to a bad guy

For the sake of this thread, what's your definition of;
1. Good girl?
2. Good guy?
3. Bad boy?
4. Bad girl?

Those are not GOOD girls, they're simply BAD girls pretending to be GOOD to get into the head of the foolish guy

Learn

jorion:
SPOILER: EVEN MOST OF THE GOOD GIRLS DEY FIND BAD BUYS...

YOU WILL LEARN AND YOU WILL LEARN THE HARD WAY

Stop this silly narrative

Being a good guy doesn't make a man stupid
It's foolish guys or men aka Simps, that women usually punish
Men who're manipulated are mostly the ones who ignore Red flags about women
Note this, any woman who abandons a good man was never a good woman

chester23:
The same good girl will leave good boy to bad boys.
If a girl notices you are a good guy, she will just be manipulating you any how but will be extremely loyal to a bad guy

Cuck boy talk

atoliman:
They visit the brothel like it is a normal thing and sleep with oloshos like it is nothing and they want a loyal girlfriend. Who is decieving who? That relationship cannot work, neither the marriage will work.

A lady was telling me how her ex boyfriend got another girl pregnant while they were dating. The dude keep begging her to come back.

Bad boys should date promicious women and oloshos- that is a balanced equation, leave the good women alone so serious minded good guy can date them.

Obligatory

Farfalla:
For the sake of this thread, what's your definition of;
1. Good girl?
2. Good guy?
3. Bad boy?
4. Bad girl?

You are a bad girl with good boobs. 🤔

Magnoliaa:
This we can mostly agree on, even though I don't see life as all that good or bad.


If the innocent are always usually victims, then the 'best guy' you referred to will be gettibg deceived just as much as the 'good girl'.


Or (bad) consequences are only reserved for women in your own world?

In my view, a good woman really deserves a good guy, because good ladies are really few nowadays.

I know what I mean. I would not have said so 20 years ago.

I have be advocating for years here on NL now that a man that has not done paternity test on his kids has no biological kids yet.

I have been in the environment to know and it has been shocking.
I thought it happened to those outside that I was used to. Until a relative was deceived by a seemingly innocent girl with 3 kids fathered by hubby's friend and a relative.

He was rich and gave her everything. Tests to relocate the kids/family abroad as required by the embassy revealed the whole poo.

He died not too long after that. A healthy guy o. I have mentioned it many times on NL.

Several cases I know privately but none so close like this. Workwise, such cases yapa.

To raise kids that are not yours, you didn't adopt them but thought they were yours is one of the worst things you can experience.

If a man cheats outside, at least he won't force a stranger/kid on his wife at home.

Being good doesn't and will never equate to foolishness
That's actually a FOOLISH man not a Good man
What do you even understand by being good
What a poor mindset!

AreaFada2:
Lol.

You see, the devil doesn't need to deceive bad person again. Na the converted be that.

A bad guy knows the good girl when he sees one. A good guy will take a babe at face value because he doesn't know what's up.

Bad guys of course want good wives and know how to avoid bad girls.

So in summary, in a corrupted world, the innocent is usually the victim.

All men who raise children sired by men outside are good guys. Every time.

A bad guy will have checked out his babe's communication steadily before going far.

Na so.

Problem is, good girls love bad boys.
Their fellow good boys are boring and just a friend or like a brother

atoliman:
They visit the brothel like it is a normal thing and sleep with oloshos like it is nothing and they want a loyal girlfriend. Who is decieving who? That relationship cannot work, neither the marriage will work.

A lady was telling me how her ex boyfriend got another girl pregnant while they were dating. The dude keep begging her to come back.

Bad boys should date promicious women and oloshos- that is a balanced equation, leave the good women alone so serious minded good guy can date them.

But the so called good girls kinda prefer dating the bad boys

GloriousGbola:
You are a bad girl with good boobs. 🤔

Says a good boy with deadly gbola.

atoliman:
I was not talking about virgin in the 1st place. Whether bad boys get virgin or not, the truth will always come out. You reap what you sow.

True, people reap what they sow however, the real eyeity shows that it is bad boys who nearl nearly always that gets the virgins and virgins love bad boys like Eve loved Satan

Fact is good girls can only be free and do things without feeling judged when dy are with bad boys who treat them softly .
I'm currently dating a chosen girl , the entire hood is in shock , everyone is like how .
Babe geh everything no joke .
And with me she isn't ashamed or afraid to show her naughty side .

jorion:
Buhahahahahahhahahahahaha. Dey play...

Virgin girls will marry anyone whether they are virgins or not.

You can't cheat the woman's nature

Try reading and assimilating instead of letting your wish and desire lead you to respond without understanding for i did not say that they would never marry you.

You go explain tire. A girl who was very loyal to me, once leaked a secret. "I was too nice and calm for her liking". Some will be nice to tell you, others will keep their badt guys on the side. It's a game, play to win to avoid crying on Nairaland. You know ogas at the top here hardly sympathis when it comes to simp matters.

But good girls say they can't stop being attracted to bad guys as they possess the Streeze and rizz to make them wet!

AreaFada2:
Until a relative was deceived by a seemingly innocent girl with 3 kids fathered by hubby's friend and a relative.

So in summary, you're still agreeing with what I said and contradicting what you initially stated.


In everything you've been saying, are you not agreeing then that men, good or whatever, are conned by women too?

If those women ended up with the 'best' of men as you claimed, they would not have cheated on them or did them bad.


Regardless of one's goodness or badness in the past, anybody can end up with a good person. Especially someone who is good to them, by their own standards.

But things don't work like that.

Zonefree:
Ironically, bad boys get virgin and well behaved girls while good boys like you get olosho and non virgin girls.

Na so life be, there's nothing you can do about it.

You can tell the guy is a small boy.

All the supposed good girls nah the bad boys them dey like. They will see good boy and tell him he is not social enough or doesn't have steeze.

Magnoliaa:
So in summary, you're still agreeing with what I said and contradicting what you initially stated.


In everything you've been saying, are you not agreeing then that men, good or whatever, are conned by women too?

I[b]f those women ended up with the 'best' of men as you claimed, they would not have cheated on them or did them bad.[/b]


Regardless of one's goodness or badness in the past, anybody can end up with a good person. Especially someone who is good to them, by their own standards.

Well, what if the women considered "naivety" of the nice men as one of the characteristics they wanted from the onset?
What if the ladies always wanted to keep their "bad girl" behaviour in marriage? And they knew such will be easier to do with a naive, innocent guy?

So imagine a dedicated nice guy, hardworking, provides well for her and kids and yet doesn't suspect her dirty ways. That would be a dream for a bad girl.

It's not so much about agreeing or disagreeing. Both men and women can be conned. It depends on which gender we are focussing on in a thread.

I know of guys I would never let go near my female relatives. Also girls I'd pray for my male relatives not to ever meet. A female friend once told me that she can never be cool with just one guy and demonstrated enough in practice. She also said a man who does not beat cannot expect her respect. She her good side but not in the matter of relationship. Messed up in that area.

Funny enough, the babe is tall and has a sexy shape. The type most guys will want to toast. So a guy who dates her and treats her like a queen is a mugu to her.

atoliman:
You attract who you are.

Not true, opposite usually attracts, I am a quiet person, I prefer quiet ladies but I am always attracted to those wild ones, it's fascinating how their mind work, I know I can't keep up, but I can't help it.

Good guys don't settle down with good girls, good girls prefer the bad boys, if they marry the good boys, they will cheat with the bad boys or become so unhappy until the whole thing becomes a problem and they end it.

Zonefree:
Ironically, bad boys get virgin and well behaved girls while good boys like you get olosho and non virgin girls.

Na so life be, there's nothing you can do about it.

Honestly speaking, they marry the worst set of ladies. Be more observant and see the type of ladies they end up marrying.

They make very poor choices.