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Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 4:43pm On Sep 11
when you ask a woman this question, What are you bringing to the table?, some of you add this 'apart from your kitty'.

what does the question mean?
what table are you talking about?
have you asked a female this question in real life?
If you have, could you please share your answer with us,

Many thanks in anticipation of your responses.

No trolling, no war or the sexes or body/money shaming allowed.

let's go

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by donbachi(m): 4:53pm On Sep 11
when it comes to love..its called table for two.if I should pay for the first plate of food,atleast she should be able to pay for the extra.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 5:03pm On Sep 11
donbachi:
when it comes to love..its called table for two.if I should pay for the first plate of food,atleast she should be able to pay for the extra.
bit this doesn't answer the questions i asked. have you asked someone this question in real life before?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Sep 11
To start with, some do not even have a table.

Nah hand to mouth things sure pass for them.grin

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 5:11pm On Sep 11
MariaLavina:
To start with, some do not even have a table.

Nah hand to mouth things sure pass for them.; D
Ahn ahh. Na wa o
But what table are they talking about?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
Ahn ahh. Na wa o
But what table are they talking about?
Abeg ask them oooo. Person wey never feed himself finish go dey ask about table. grin Only on Nl.


I think the table is a figurative terminology to infer to Relationship. Like what do you bring to the relationship?

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 5:19pm On Sep 11
MariaLavina:
Abeg ask them oooo. Person wey never feed himself finish go dey ask about table. grin Only on Nl.


I think the table is a figurative terminology to infer to Relationship. Like what do you bring to the relationship?
ohh

Now i understand, what kind of answer are they expecting sef?

where are the guys na?
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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
ohh

Now i understand, what kind of answer are the expecting sef?

where are the guys na?
destiny6979
longjohnsilver
pensator
jekks
dopemike
Not surprised you didn't know, lol you will never hear them ask this question offline but on Nl? they rant it like hallelujah chorus.Only on Nl do guys want an independent lady. grin
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by RatDead: 5:24pm On Sep 11
Judgement day is coming X 2 You shall stand ! I shall stand in front of *~***~~~~~*****
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by frankkydee: 5:38pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
ohh

Now i understand, what kind of answer are they expecting sef?

where are the guys na?
destiny6979
longjohnsilver
pensator
jekks
dopemike
ornicus
frankkydee












I don't ask ladies such question but i wouldn't want to date someone that is idle

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by pocohantas(f): 5:43pm On Sep 11
It means; WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER?

I have never been asked such in person. I would never ask such in person.

Asking this question implies that you are not seeing the qualities you desire in the other person. So, they would have to "market" themselves. This could portray me as undiscerning or downright condescending.

I believe from asking sensible questions, not the "what are you wearing?" kinda question. You can tell a lot about a person's values- by extension, what they can offer.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by Darevofpeace(m): 5:44pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
when you ask a woman this question, What are you bringing to the table?, some of you add this 'apart from your kitty'.

what does the question mean?
what table are you talking about?
have you asked a female this question in real life?
If you have, could you please share your answer with us,

Many thanks in anticipation of your responses.

No trolling, no war or the sexes or body/money shaming allowed.

let's go
......it's all about what contribution are you bringing to the relationship for it sustainability.
What do you intend to do as your own part of commitment to make the relationship more better than our last?

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 5:45pm On Sep 11
MariaLavina:
To start with, some do not even have a table.

Nah hand to mouth things sure pass for them.grin
even without table, you should still be able to bring something to the hand to mouth

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 5:47pm On Sep 11
MariaLavina:
Not surprised you didn't know, lol you will never hear them ask this question offline but on Nl? they rant it like hallelujah chorus.Only on Nl do guys want an independent lady. grin
how many guys you don date
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 6:48pm On Sep 11
Darevofpeace:
......it's all about what contribution are you bringing to the relationship for it sustainability.
What do you intend to do as your own part of commitment to make the relationship more better than our last?
since you have decided to answer questions with questions, what answers are you expecting from a woman you ask this question? Have you asked lady this question in real life before.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 6:49pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:

even without table, you should still be able to bring something to the hand to mouth
because a relationship is potluck abi?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:51pm On Sep 11
Any woman who (pretends) doesn't understand the question.... are the exact same women who have nothing to bring to a man' s life but a warm coochie.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by G12(m): 6:53pm On Sep 11
She: I want this and that in a relationship (always sounding selfish, endless me, me, me, I, I, I).

Me: So what are you bringing to the table?

She: Mutes lipsrsealed

The most selfish person I ever met.

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 6:54pm On Sep 11
MrBrownJay1:
Any woman who (pretends) doesn't understand the question.... are the exact same women who have nothing to bring to a man' s life but a warm coochie.
who said the coochie was even on this proverbial table?

It's not nice to make such generalisations
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 6:55pm On Sep 11
G12:
She: I want this and that in a relationship (always sounding selfish, endless me, me, me, I, I, I).

Me: So what are you bringing to the table?

She: Mutes lipsrsealed

The most selfish person I ever met.
have you asked someone this question before?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by G12(m): 6:59pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
have you asked someone this question before?

Yes, the above was exactly how it happened.

The person in question was so selfish and egotistic.

She expects everything and gives/does nothing.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:00pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
who said the coochie was even on this proverbial table?

It's not nice to make such generalisations

Come on sista.... what else do these women (with nothing to offer) have to bring to the table but a warm coochie?!

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:00pm On Sep 11
G12:


Yes, the above was exactly how it happened.

The person in question was so selfish and egotistic.

She expects everything and gives/does nothing.
did she ask you for the relationship?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:01pm On Sep 11
MrBrownJay1:


Come on sista.... what else do these women (with nothing to offer) have to bring to the table but a warm coochie?!
do you mean this table?

Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by cooluzi: 7:01pm On Sep 11
feminist thread sad

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Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by G12(m): 7:02pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
did she ask you for the relationship?

We were discussing relationship.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:06pm On Sep 11
G12:


We were discussing relationship.
And you asked a woman what she us bringing, didn't you know what you were looking for?

What were you going to bring to the table?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by niaralandtopuser(m): 7:14pm On Sep 11
funmisticqueen2:
because a relationship is potluck abi?
in relationship you are meant to share everything so I will say it is much more than that
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by ImaIma1(f): 7:22pm On Sep 11
Table indeed. It's not every girl they can ask that question.
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:23pm On Sep 11
niaralandtopuser:
in relationship you are meant to share everything so I will say it is much more than that
i disagree with your statement,do people in relationship share underwear?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by funmisticqueen2: 7:24pm On Sep 11
ImaIma1:
Table indeed. It's not every girl they can ask that question.
exactly


my own is what exactly are they expecting as an answer?
Re: Dear Guys, What Do You Mean When You Ask A Girl This? by iLegendd: 7:25pm On Sep 11
MariaLavina:
Abeg ask them oooo. Person wey never feed himself finish go dey ask about table. grin Only on Nl.


I think the table is a figurative
terminology to infer to Relationship. Like what do you bring to the relationship?
grin @Bold. I didn't know you have a sense of humor. Keep it up.

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