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Ekrenji:
But that was not how the marriage of Khadija and Mohammed was, what the wealthy Khadija had became Mohammed’s own

ShoeGetSize:
Embarrassment will never allow them to admit this.

Solitechworld:
Regardless of what meaning one may have and understand in using this phrase, the teaching given in Islam is that when a man and a woman become married, then it is not permissible for a man to lay claim over the wealth/property/possessions of his wife, and in a similar manner, it is not permissible for a woman to lay claim over the wealth/property/possessions of her husband.

When a man marries a woman, he is required to provide food, clothing and a shelter for her. He becomes the breadwinner of the family and must look after fulfilling the needs and necessities of his wife. In this respect, there is no issue of ‘his and hers’, rather, it is about fulfilling the rights of one another.

The husband will be required to fulfil the rights that his wife has over him, and the wife will be required to fulfil the rights that the husband has over her.

During the course of the marital relation, whatever he owns as his personal belongings including wealth and property, will continue to be owned by him, and will be termed as ‘His belongings’.

Similarly, whatever the wife owns as her belongings including wealth and property and that which she comes into the marriage with, will be owned by her and will be termed as ‘Her belongings’.

Whatever the husband has given to the wife from what he owns, will be the property of the wife, and whatever the wife gives to the husband from what she owns, will be the property of the husband.

Thus, although they continue to live together as husband and wife, there will be items etc. that will be known as the ‘belongings’ of the wife and the ‘belongings’ of the husband.

If a divorce takes place between the spouses, then whatever belongs to the wife will remain as her property, and the husband will have no claim over it. Likewise, whatever belongs to the husband will remain as his property, and the wife will have no claim over it.

It will not be permissible for one to seize, usurp or make a claim over the belongings of another. It is about this situation, the phrase may be used which says, ‘What is hers, is hers, and what is his is his.’ As for the statement, ‘what is his is also hers’, this is wrong, and it does not represent the teachings of Islam.

And Allah Knows Best.

Ekrenji:
But that was not how the marriage of Khadija and Mohammed was, what the wealthy Khadija had became Mohammed’s own

doffman:
Nice one . We Muslims do not steal people properties in the name of inheritance unlike some people we all know .

Antoeni:
If you Know

Antoeni:
What the Gain of Being a Woman in Islam?


Islam is the fastest growing religion because:

1. Muslim women remain at home and their only job is to make babies.

2. If you leave Islam, you are apostate and can get killed.

3. Anyone marrying a Muslim must convert to Islam.

4. In West, more children you have, you get more state benefits.

5. A Muslim man is allowed upto 4 wives.

AntiChristian:
Those ones are mostly easterners!

Women can't inherit.

Ekrenji:
But that was not how the marriage of Khadija and Mohammed was, what the wealthy Khadija had became Mohammed’s own

AntiChristian:
She submitted to her husband willingly!

Solitechworld:
What you don't understand is that , it was willingly handed over to him by Khadeejah to control it and not to take over the ownership, He didn't ask for it....

doffman:
Nice one . We Muslims do not steal people properties in the name of inheritance unlike some people we all know .

ShoeGetSize:
Embarrassment will never allow them to admit this.

AbuTwins:
Absolutely!

Lovely deenul Haq!

The wife can give alms Zakaat to her husband if he's poor!

And the wife can give anyone she wishes her property!

Khadijah gave the Prophet salallahu alayhi waslam all her wealth after marriage! She's an epitome of Submission! A woman of Jannah!

Islam freed women 1500 years ago!

English woman no fit own property after marriage before 1882's Married Women Property Act!
Even their inheritance was extremely limited.

Ekrenji:
Please can you tell us where we can read what you wrote here


How? Which wives of Mohammed had her own business or means of livelihood apart from Khadija who had her own business before she and Mohammed married?


Which religion ask husband to beat their wives?

Ekrenji:
The narrative has now changed from “her money is hers” to “she submitted willingly” ?

ShoeGetSize:
Embarrassment will never allow them to admit this.

Hussein035:
Khadija proclaimed/pronounce that she voluntarily gave her properties to the course of Islam and to the prophet being her husband

"Voluntary" not a situation of claim that we see everywhere today.

Infact no woman will do such to a man and allow the man to marry another wife.

This is a sign of voluntary gift for the cause of Islam. Had it been it is because of normal marriage to the prophet Khadija might had withdrawn whatever she proclaimed to be gift to her husband (SAW) but all was gifted to the cause of Islam

Allah knows best

Solitechworld:
Deuteronomy 22:13-21) calls for stoning a new wife to death if she's found to not be a virgin.

Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior." Ephesians 5:22-23

I still have more where this came from, but I want you to Yabb first