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Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Gerrard59(m): 4:33am On Sep 21, 2024
Cousin9999:
lol

I hope no one actually believes this.
Your posts' history on Nairaland is notorious for lying. I give you a 👍 for the consistency.

P.S. Chile is markedly different from other South American countries. There is a reason American PassportBros don't visit there compared to Columbia or Peru.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Cousin9999: 4:53am On Sep 21, 2024
Gerrard59:
Your posts' history on Nairaland is notorious for lying. I give you a 👍 for the consistency.
Which posts are these?

P.S. Chile is markedly different from other South American countries. There is a reason American PassportBros don't visit there compared to Columbia or Peru.
That's cool. F-CK Chile.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by lastkingsman: 5:28am On Sep 21, 2024
Gerrard59:
Nigerian men will marry Nigerian women. So, I don't understand the fight both genders keep involving themselves in. On Twitter, South Africans already know Nigerians by their ethnicities and what they indulge in.
Kwakwakwakwa grin

I see one post like that from that Mandela country, I shock oh
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Karleb(m): 5:59am On Sep 21, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
If I was in the west, I will get western women too. I have gotten western women here too. They call them gringos lol 😂😅. They are everywhere here.

The truth is that a lot of Nigerian men abroad are very fat liars. They say no job. You know how many jobs I have. They say no woman. Woman wan kill me for Chile and this is Chile o. Country that is not even an a list country. Then if I dey Canada, Germany and such places, I will be a dollar millionaire in 3 to 5 years.
This is just the tweet.

Nigerians lie a lot! They lie too much.

If you follow what they say on the internet about anything, you will be misled.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by tensazangetsu20(op): 6:04am On Sep 21, 2024
Karleb:
This is just the tweet.

Nigerians lie a lot! They lie too much.

If you follow what they say on the internet about anything, you will be misled.
Bros ask Gerrard59. Due to the lies perpetuated on nairaland about how Nigerian men aren't loved abroad and that sex no dey. I almost paid bride price before I japaed grin cheesy grin grin. Thank God say my money no reach o. With how Chilean women have spoilt me, I can't love a Nigerian woman again. I used to read so much about genuine desire and always thought it didnt exist but I have seen and experienced it. Omho they don spoil me o. I am gone cheesy cheesy
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Sparrk007(m): 6:14am On Sep 21, 2024
No body is ugly Na just the struggle for the country make our face strong
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Karleb(m): 6:16am On Sep 21, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
Bros ask Gerrard59. Due to the lies perpetuated on nairaland about how Nigerian men aren't loved abroad and that sex no dey. I almost paid bride price before I japaed grin cheesy grin grin. Thank God say my money no reach o. With how Chilean women have spoilt me, I can't love a Nigerian woman again. I used to read so much about genuine desire and always thought it didnt exist but I have seen and experienced it. Omho they don spoil me o. I am gone cheesy cheesy
Thank God say the marriage no go through, I for don block you. cheesy

When you left and was always complaining about Chilean food, I was always like, what is wrong with this one?

Most Nigerians don't integrate. Imagine say you dey Chile still dey find Nigerian women. Even if them dey, your chances of finding love would be way lower than when you were in Nigeria.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by jorion(m): 7:28am On Sep 21, 2024
tosinhtml:
Maybe I'm wrong on this but I see that you're using one country as a reference to "abroad" & the country itself is not fully Western. Your comparison of experience of women in South America is night & day compared to places like Canada or other Western countries. It's like comparing Brazilian women to women in other parts of the world who are less beautiful than them by a mile, It is not a true comparison.

Also, most Nigerians don't usually Japa to South America so their experience of women will be completely different from yours. Nigerians moving to Germany or UK/Canada where black African men are not in demand, they won't experience this at all.

Only 1% of Nigerian men who Japa can relate to your experience.
WHO TOLD YOU THAT BLACK AFRICAN MEN ARE NOT IN HIGH DEMAND IN GERMANY??

DEY PLAY...

EVERY CULTURE except horners of east africa WANT NIGERIAN MEN AND THAT IS A FACT ESPECIALLY IN USA...
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by ShoeGetSize: 7:30am On Sep 21, 2024
Didn't MrCork expose you as a man with a beard?🤣

meobizy:
Nairaland mongrels will boost this thread. I know what bingos in this forum like. Front page any time soon.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by jorion(m): 7:31am On Sep 21, 2024
revolt:
We know naija gurls are messing u p but can freaking stop dissing our girls online. Stop demarketing them. Which abroad are you in sef? The girls we meet abroad are not the high class ones.. theyre the left overs. They nay look fine facially but the mileage on the honey pot and mouth na 1 million dckies.. plus yeast infection eerywhere. So be careful.
Another SIMPANZEE spotted..
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by ShoeGetSize: 7:33am On Sep 21, 2024
Horners are animals pretending to be human beings. You'll see a horner who comes from a useless, backwards country like Somalia acting arrogantly around black people, but becoming subservient slaves in the presence of Arabs and Pakistanis. They're subhumans

jorion:
WHO TOLD YOU THAT BLACK AFRICAN MEN ARE NOT IN HIGH DEMAND IN GERMANY??

DEY PLAY...

EVERY CULTURE except horners of east africa WANT NIGERIAN MEN AND THAT IS A FACT ESPECIALLY IN USA...
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by MrCork: 7:36am On Sep 21, 2024
meobizy:
Nairaland mongrels will boost this thread. I know what bingos in this forum like. Front page any time soon.
.....^^^^^^^^^^^KNOWN MALE FRAUSTER EXPOSED PRETENDING TO BE FEMALE ON NAIRALAND.........AND PLS NOTE THAT 80% OF FEMALES ON NAIRALAND ARE MALE SCAMMMMERS!!!!!. angry


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ShoeGetSize

Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by jorion(m): 7:37am On Sep 21, 2024
Cousin9999:
South America...has a lot of problems.

When a male goes there and raves about the women, he's likely clueless about how messed up the country and/or society is, or he's a lowlife that thinks exploiting poor women is okay.

If you're a guy and you go to one of those countries, these are some of the reasons women will be all over you:
-She wants to set you up to get robbed.
-She's a hooker.
-She's a known hooker and no other men will date her.
-She's bait for human trafficking.
-She thinks you make at least 40,000USD annually, which is a ton of money to them. And you're her potentially "rich" boyfriend to squeeze money from that her and her local boyfriend/husband spend.
-In her insanely racist/colorist country, the fact that she's slightly darker than an albino causes all kinds of problems in her life, and she knows she'll get the opposite treatment from you. But the fact is, she's racist as well.
-She thinks you're her ticket out of the hellhole country she's in.
-Men in those countries are known to smack women, and she's trying to escape that culture by marrying you.
-It's a purely sexual relationship that will go nowhere because she will only or already has married a local.

ETA: It doesn't matter what one of these women does for you or how many different ways you have sex with her, she's still racist.
Sell your phone or throw it into a river because in your hands, its useless

I doubt if you have stepped out of the shores of this country
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by ShoeGetSize: 7:38am On Sep 21, 2024
Thank you for exposing him. You're doing God's work. Meanwhile he is still pretending to be a woman. Maybe he's a transgender with mental health issues

MrCork:
.....^^^^^^^^^^^KNOWN MALE FRAUSTER EXPOSED PRETENDING TO BE FEMALE ON NAIRALAND.........AND PLS NOTE THAT 80% OF FEMALES ON NAIRALAND ARE MALE SCAMMMMERS!!!!!. angry


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ShoeGetSize
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by MrCork: 7:46am On Sep 21, 2024
ShoeGetSize:
Thank you for exposing him. You're doing God's work. Meanwhile he is still pretending to be a woman. Maybe he's a transgender with mental health issues
there are many of them on nairaland scammming people. Another on is Jeon, male fraudster who pretends to be a lesbian. This fagggggot has also been exposed. PLEASE BE CAREFUL OF MEOBIZY AND JEON (scammmers)
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by CandyOps(m): 7:53am On Sep 21, 2024
tosinhtml:
Maybe I'm wrong on this but I see that you're using one country as a reference to "abroad" & the country itself is not fully Western. Your comparison of experience of women in South America is night & day compared to places like Canada or other Western countries. It's like comparing Brazilian women to women in other parts of the world who are less beautiful than them by a mile, It is not a true comparison.

Also, most Nigerians don't usually Japa to South America so their experience of women will be completely different from yours. Nigerians moving to Germany or UK/Canada where black African men are not in demand, they won't experience this at all.

Only 1% of Nigerian men who Japa can relate to your experience.
Lol guy travel first. You go use your hand come edit that 1% wey you write for here
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Gerrard59(m): 2:37pm On Sep 21, 2024
Cousin9999:
Which posts are these?
That's cool. F-CK Chile.
No be Chile talk say make black dominated countries no dey developed or prosperous. I get your pain though. cheesy
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Gerrard59(m): 2:39pm On Sep 21, 2024
Karleb:
Thank God say the marriage no go through, I for don block you. cheesy

When you left and was always complaining about Chilean food, I was always like, what is wrong with this one?

Most Nigerians don't integrate. Imagine say you dey Chile still dey find Nigerian women. Even if them dey, your chances of finding love would be way lower than when you were in Nigeria.
Most migrated as adults, and even in Nigeria, we don't integrate fully. People still stick to their ethnic delicacies while living in a different region. Also, we tend to be very monotonous. Humans are tribal though, so it is not overly surprising.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by id4sho(m): 3:01pm On Sep 21, 2024
shocked
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Karleb(m): 3:06pm On Sep 21, 2024
Gerrard59:
Most migrated as adults, and even in Nigeria, we don't integrate fully. People still stick to their ethnic delicacies while living in a different region. Also, we tend to be very monotonous. Humans are tribal though, so it is not overly surprising.
But when it's hurting your chances and lifestyle, common sense would require that you integrate. Migrating as adult shouldn't be an excuse.

Me like this, I'm like water. As long as the environment is favorable, I'll blend. The last atom of attachment I had for an ethnic group (mine, Yoruba) was shattered when they supported T-pain.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by tosinhtml: 5:33pm On Sep 21, 2024
Gerrard59:
On what level of income is that applied? Another thing our people need to understand is that to earn extremely high salaries in some countries especially those that historically did not experience black migrantion is the purported glass ceiling. Management positions in most if not almost every non-Anglophone country are kept for the natives. So, anyone who wants to attain wealth in a country like Germany, Norway, or Korea should be entrepreneurial.
There is no way to become a multi-millionaire in EU unless you start a business which you cannot until you have some residency in EU after some considerable number of years.

Even management positions here earn peanuts, VP of Goldman Sachs is on 120k. That's not a lot of cash when you remove cost of living and tax of 45%.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by ObalendeCMS: 6:19pm On Sep 21, 2024
Okay!

Na how We go take enter Chile & the total cost be the next update I dey expect from the OP now.

Men dey VEX!



Ps: my bro for Yankee seriously warned me to steer clear of Nigerian girls till I'm finally able to JAPA.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Cousin9999: 8:23pm On Sep 21, 2024
Gerrard59:
No be Chile talk say make black dominated countries no dey developed or prosperous. I get your pain though. cheesy
The way you defend Chile...isn't masculine.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Cousin9999: 8:24pm On Sep 21, 2024
Gerrard59:
No be Chile talk say make black dominated countries no dey developed or prosperous. I get your pain though. cheesy
Also, you said I lie a lot.

Show me the posts.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Cousin9999: 8:43pm On Sep 21, 2024
This thread actually reminds me of how beautiful and sweet black Panamanian women are.

Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by Gerrard59(m): 11:31am On Sep 22, 2024
tosinhtml:
There is no way to become a multi-millionaire in EU unless you start a business which you cannot until you have some residency in EU after some considerable number of years.
Interesting. So, a non-citizen who has a work visa cannot start a company? shocked

Even management positions here earn peanuts, VP of Goldman Sachs is on 120k. That's not a lot of cash when you remove cost of living and tax of 45%.
In Germany? Chisos! shocked shocked

Well, I am not surprised. It is Europe - na only to regulate dem sabi.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by InteliJ(f): 1:28pm On Sep 22, 2024
You became a better You (better job, better body, better standard of living etc) that's why you're attracting better women now. If you come to Nigeria, you'll get the women you couldn't get before.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by jorion(m): 2:06pm On Sep 22, 2024
InteliJ:
You became a better You (better job, better body, better standard of living etc) that's why you're attracting better women now. If you come to Nigeria, you'll get the women you couldn't get before.
Stop lying... If he came back to Nigeria without telling anyone where he has been, Nigerian women will ignore him
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by tensazangetsu20(op): 7:12pm On Sep 22, 2024
InteliJ:
You became a better You (better job, better body, better standard of living etc) that's why you're attracting better women now. If you come to Nigeria, you'll get the women you couldn't get before.
I wasn't poor in Nigeria. I was earning well by Nigerian standards too.
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by optimusprime2(m):
ravensckar:
I think the OP is right, however, he did add a bit of exaggeration.

Having interacted with quite a handful of white ladies, I've come to realize that their taste in men is quite different from our typical Nigerian women.

A typical white lady for example is easily fascinated by any of the following guys; humorous guys or smart guys (who know a little bit of everything), or guys who can hold conversations. Physically fit guys (with nice abs & six packs) or guys who dress well and smell nice.

If you fall into any of this category, even your village people won't stop them from loving you.

But you see our typical Nigerian ladies; they desire only two qualities in their men. Have plenty money or a big CUCUMBER. cheesy cheesy

#Picks_tooth
I understand where you are coming from, but quite frankly the OP is not exaggerating.

I can attest to it 101% both from a personal point of view and from a 3rd person point of view.

In the US, Nigerian guys are in extreme demand currently, and thats due to a whole host of reasons, that is to be spoken about another day.

However, the average Nigerian guy is a hot commodity for women on a wide scale globally.

Even Arab women and Asian women that used to be mostly homogeneous, have recently joined the bandwagon- for Nigerian guys.

FYI Nigerian guys have a very wide mix of those traits you mentioned;
1. Most are smart- Most naija guys abroad have multiple advanced qualifications i.e triple Masters, double phds etc (which is not the norm to men these days)

2. Most are social live wires... they can sing, dance, gist and will not give a dull moment in any social demography.

3. Most are respectful... I mean super respectful (a trait that is getting lost in this modern era)

4. Most are Hardworking, ambitious and goal focused (the average Nigerian guy is a hussler)

5. Most are Godfearing (regardless of the religious orientation, the average Nigerian guy no dey carry spiritual matter play)

6. Most are Physically very good-looking (and this is what many Foreign women keep saying)

7. Most are Sweet talkers, can rizz women very easily and can also easily lavish wealth on women (a rare trait in men these days, but very common & normal with naija guys) in fact this one alone, is what makes many Foreign women to go bananas for Nigerian men

8. Most are business savvy(Heebo Kwenu grin)

9. Most are family oriented and can take care of a home

10. Most have big Willie's... infact a foreign lady once told me point blank that she likes only Naija gbola...

In these 10 things I listed, most Nigerian guys can have all traits individually. And the world is coming to know this gradually but steadily.

So the op is not exaggerating at all...
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by RealityKings: 10:17am On Sep 23, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
I can’t explain it, but if you’re a Nigerian guy and you’re single with plans to move abroad, preserve that status. The quality of women I’ve met in terms of beauty and their achievements is far beyond what I ever imagined getting back in Nigeria.
That's what happens when a man changes location and he dress sense
Re: Everything You Heard About Dating Abroad As A Nigerian Man Is A Lie. by ednut1(m): 1:35pm On Sep 23, 2024
Most of the guys who went to uk on study /care visa are complaining of lack of sex. If 9ja guys are in demand why is that sohuh

In America sha there is surplus women/ sex to go round for the average 9ja guy 😂
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