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Starboytwo:
Omo me I no fit gree oooo...

It's not like the pregnancy will turn twins if I enter again.

Honestly, I will start thinking this babe na bad market...

You too the husband. You nor get work, still give am belle, still Wan Top-up. Wahrah ni eeh.


God will provide a good paying work, I want you to marry that girl and live happily ever after.. We need healthy kids for this our country.

Couldn't stop laughing at the bold.

Her game is about to cut. The pregnancy was her bargaining chip and your contract job being epileptic now may be trying to save you but you're not understanding yet. Yes, a woman may not be happy that you haven't completed her dowry but acting the way she is currently acting shows two possible situations. One, she is not reasonable enough to understand that you're broke which it's normal now under t-pain. You will experience more troubles after you are married, this is just a tip of the nagging that is coming. Two, the pregnancy may not be yours and her plans to rope it on you may be in jeopardy. Right now, she will continue to be close to you to make sure her plans are intact but deep inside her, she hates you already.

Not like am supporting the lady but you should be able to understand her reason do you know the insult she received daily from her family, she's only staying because of the baby please try to gather money and pay her dowry, base on what she said about being s.x machine means her parents don use am insult am weller.

vanbonattel:
This is not right guys, the way we make a demon out our women is not good enough. This is a guy that picked a girl and got her pregnant. Am sure no decent girl will allow that if she is not expecting to be married off properly.

Now the story changed, work no dey again and it's not this girls direct fault. We don't know what she is going through with her family, and the priority of my guy is to knack her because she visited. Girls take too much rubbish from us o.

My guy should man up and get something doing, even if its enough to pay only the bride price, take her home and then take care of the new family, with her help of course.

Guy, stop capping rubbish here. Did she not enjoy the sex? Why must you say he just got her pregnant like there was no consent? Nigga has done introduction and was doing everything to complete the process but life happened. Everyone knows how this country is now. What has she done to support the marriage process or she is just waiting for the guy to steal from bank to marry her. This is 2024, everyone should wake. If their plans failed due to unforseen circumstances, life must go on. If her man makes advances, she should at least give him reason for turning him down, not giving him cold treatment. Stop supporting nonsense

Nonexisting:
Guy, stop capping rubbish here. Did she not enjoy the sex? Why must you say he just got her pregnant like there was no consent? Nigga has done introduction and was doing everything to complete the process but life happened. Everyone knows how this country is now. What has she done to support the marriage process or she is just waiting for the guy to steal from bank to marry her. This is 2024, everyone should wake. If their plans failed due to unforseen circumstances, life must go on. If her man makes advances, she should at least give him reason for turning him down, not giving him cold treatment. Stop supporting nonsense

So you support getting a girl pregnant before marrying her?

The pregnancy is probably not yours. See, women give men signs, that's what we call the red flag. As an OT man and an intelligent man you should always use your 36 and not let love or any women becloud your sense.

angelboy01:
The pregnancy is probably not yours. See women give men signs, that's what we call the red flag. As an OT man and an intelligent man you should always use your 36 and not let love or any women becloud your sense.

I think you have a point there with the pregnancy not being his. It's possible.

But the right way to marry is to see a girl you like, prepare yourself to marry her, marry her and take her to your house. Full stop.

Any other waiting game is allowing the devil to step in between you and her, and this kind of thread will happen and people will start advising you and here from different quarters.

Nonexisting:
Her game is about to cut. The pregnancy was her bargaining chip and your contract job being epileptic now may be trying to save you but you're not understanding yet. Yes, a woman may not be happy that you haven't completed her dowry but acting the way she is currently acting shows two possible situations. One, she is not reasonable enough to understand that you're broke which it's normal now under t-pain. You will experience more troubles after you are married, this is just a tip of the nagging that is coming. Two, the pregnancy may not be yours and her plans to rope it on you may be in jeopardy. Right now, she will continue to be close to you to make sure her plans are intact but deep inside her, she hates you already.

Tell Ai to edit that cigar to igbo it will make more sense.

vanbonattel:
I think you have a point there with the pregnancy not being his. It's possible.

But the right way to marry is to see a girl you like, prepare yourself to marry her, marry her and take her to your house. Full stop.

Any other waiting game is allowing the devil to step in between you and her, and this kind of thread will happen and people will start advising you and here from different quarters.

Where will he see money to marry now since he's managing, he should get back on his feet first before marriage. Marriage no be beans o. Wife that's already forming now will form harder if there's no enough finances in marriage.

vanbonattel:
So you support getting a girl pregnant before marrying her?

Two people had sex and it resulted in pregnancy is totally different from getting a girl pregnant. No girl today gets pregnant without wanting to. Please stop the blame game already.

vanbonattel:
Why your DickThomas is still standing after you cannot pay common dowry is shocking.

Let your hands stand strong instead, to earn money to settle her family.

nothing person nor go see for naija..

You dey call person wey u never marry ur WIFE? You dey OK so?

Nonexisting:
Two people had sex and it resulted in pregnancy is totally different from getting a girl pregnant. No girl today gets pregnant without wanting to. Please stop the blame game already.

Oga you didn't answer my question.

Do you support girls getting pregnant before marriage?

stainzvill:
You dey call person wey u never marry ur WIFE? You dey OK so?

It's shocking really. Someone that should be praying for forgiveness because he has got the girl, her family and friends in a situation of confusion is here asking of his conjugal rights on a girl he has not even paid her bride price?

What's this world turning to?

Zeal0000007:
My wife of 3 months pregnant has constantly being rejecting sex, we did our intro couple of months ago, I have being trying to safe up to complete the marital rites along the line she took in. The family expressed their sadness especially her mom, but the whole family now knows she's heavy. My job is a contract job and couple of months now I have been out of contract. The family to a point has been understanding , though we're both separated in different states but close to each other. Currently she visited and stayed 2 days she didn't even allowed me stay with her as partners this someone that we communicate often on phone telling how we missed each other. She visited and repelled all my advances towards her. I don't know what is going on the next day she left the house . Is it because of pregnancy that is making her behave like this. How could she repelled my advances after not seeing her for 2months now, when I asked her what's the problem for her rejection she was asking me if she's a intimacy gadget , this is someone i have not seen for 2months .

Caption is misleading, she isn't your wife yet. If someone else comes to marry her with that pregnancy, the baby becomes his. You better go and pay her dowry

If she reject sex, go ashawo quarter, 1k short time,1.5k for the girl to ride you. Or you breakup with her.

vanbonattel:
Until then, learn how to endure konji, it's a sacrifice. Allow the poor girl bear the shame of carrying belle without a proper marriage in peace.

God punish you,is she a virgin

No values again...Completely eroded

vanbonattel:
It's shocking really. Someone that should be praying for forgiveness because he has got the girl, her family and friends in a situation of confusion is here asking of his conjugal rights on a girl he has not even paid her bride price?

What's this world turning to?

Baronthecelebri:
God punish you,is she a virgin

Probably another yoruba person. We know them by the unprovoked insults they throw.

lionphil:
Caption is misleading, she isn't your wife yet. If someone else comes to marry her with that pregnancy, the baby becomes his. You better go and pay her dowry

Imagine his confidence to feel bad even after getting someone's child pregnant. The only thing which concerns him is his knacking rights.

vanbonattel:
Imagine his confidence to feel bad even after getting someone's child pregnant. The only thing which concerns him is his knacking rights.

My dear, I'm surprised as well o. I don't think the guy understands how these stuffs work.

vanbonattel:
Oga you didn't answer my question.

Do you support girls getting pregnant before marriage?

I already answered your question in a more reasonable way but it's obvious you want me to spell it out to you. Yes, I support it with my full chest, the man that created this thread seems to supports it too by not wearing condom and the girl in question agreed to it. If she didn't agree to it, she wouldn't be pregnant. Her pregnancy is not by chance, she wouldn't be if she didn't want to be. That's the whole point. Now that their wedding is not going as planned due to current economy, blame should go both ways and not just to the man. If you give him money today, he will marry her but as money no dey, he will not kill himself. If she likes, let her deny him sex forever. Nigga can easily seek it elsewhere.

Mtcheeeeeeeew 🙄 make all of una getat.

vanbonattel:
Until then, learn how to endure konji, it's a sacrifice. Allow the poor girl bear the shame of carrying belle without a proper marriage in peace.

Which poor girl? when she dey ride dick, dey hang leg, turn 360 on top pipe like a pro, screaming the name of our lord in vain she nor poor na now she poor ahbi?

dkidd:
Which poor girl? when she dey ride dick, dey hang leg, turn 360 on top pipe like a pro, screaming the name of our lord in vain she nor poor na now she poor ahbi?

You are just assuming this, what if he raped her? That's also a possibility. Remember that.

Nonexisting:
I already answered your question in a more reasonable way but it's obvious you want me to spell it out to you. Yes, I support it with my full chest, the man that created this thread seems to supports it too by not wearing condom and the girl in question agreed to it. If she didn't agree to it, she wouldn't be pregnant. Her pregnancy is not by chance, she wouldn't be if she didn't want to be. That's the whole point. Now that their wedding is not going as planned due to current economy, blame should go both ways and not just to the man. If you give him money today, he will marry her but as money no dey, he will not kill himself. If she likes, let her deny him sex forever. Nigga can easily seek it elsewhere.

There's something you are forgetting in this whole story, we are analysing only the story as told by the male. But to objective, we should analyse it from a more realistic point of view, that will remove the bias in our minds.

You are already biased by supporting pregnancy before marriage, and that sets you apart from people like me who doesn't support it. I was raised with high morals, yes I have girlfriends, but will never engage in unprotected sex with them, because of stories like this.

My advice to young men is that if you want to keep your ways trouble free, do things properly. Treat friendship as friendship, and treat marriage as marriage. Mixing friendship with marriage will bring confusion to you, your girlfriend or wife, and to the society.

We shouldn't support unprotected sex because it seems like the girl supported it. And even if she dis, its the man crying online now.

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Zeal0000007:
My wife of 3 months pregnant has constantly being rejecting sex, we did our intro couple of months ago, I have being trying to safe up to complete the marital rites along the line she took in. The family expressed their sadness especially her mom, but the whole family now knows she's heavy. My job is a contract job and couple of months now I have been out of contract. The family to a point has been understanding , though we're both separated in different states but close to each other. Currently she visited and stayed 2 days she didn't even allowed me stay with her as partners this someone that we communicate often on phone telling how we missed each other. She visited and repelled all my advances towards her. I don't know what is going on the next day she left the house . Is it because of pregnancy that is making her behave like this. How could she repelled my advances after not seeing her for 2months now, when I asked her what's the problem for her rejection she was asking me if she's a intimacy gadget , this is someone i have not seen for 2months .

The real question is why do you want to marry a woman, that you haven’t touched in 2 months but still reject your sexual advances, when y’all finally meet for a friendly match

You better think on the matter well, is this something you can live with or not. That decision is yours only. The child shouldn’t be a determinate in the decision, whether you marry her or not; it’s your responsibility to provide adequately and be present in the child’s life. By the way, do a DNA test to confirm it is actually your child.

Harddiskng:
The real question is why do you want to marry a woman, that you haven’t touched in 2 months but still reject your sexual advances, when y’all finally meet for a friendly match

You better think on the matter well, is this something you can live with or not. That decision is yours only. The child shouldn’t be a determinate in the decision, whether you marry her or not; it’s your responsibility to provide adequately and be present in the child’s life. By the way, do a DNA test to confirm it is actually your child.

Good submission. Let the girl go, he has ruined her life enough. She might meet a better man who will appreciate her better. The man should also do DNA like you said, I won't support paternity fraud.

Then again, someone who don't have money to pay dowry, where he go see money do DNA?

Person wey you never pay shishi for her head self go give you Back to back talkless you wey don show face... Oga bia, make I tell you something.... You fit blame yourself Las Las for this wedding wey you wan do cos the girl go deny you sex on a regular basis...it's better you call her to notice now before its too late.

vanbonattel:
There's something you are forgetting in this whole story, we are analysing only the story as told by the male. But to objective, we should analyse it from a more realistic point of view, that will remove the bias in our minds.

[b]You are already biased by supporting pregnancy before marriage, and that sets you apart from people like me who doesn't support it. I was raised with high morals, [/b]yes I have girlfriends, but will never engage in unprotected sex with them, because of stories like this.

My advice to young men is that if you want to keep your ways trouble free, do things properly. Treat friendship as friendship, and treat marriage as marriage. Mixing friendship with marriage will bring confusion to you, your girlfriend or wife, and to the society.

We shouldn't support unprotected sex because it seems like the girl supported it. And even if she dis, its the man crying online now.

Yes, I was raised with low morals for supporting pregnancy before marriage. No problems about that. With the rate of body enhancements, abortions and sexual immorality among the youths today, I will make sure that the reproductive organ of a woman I plan to raise family with has not been compromised. Innocent husbands will be beating themselves thinking that cigar and beer have destroyed their sperm counts not knowing that their wives have fuccked the doctors behind the curtains and have test results manupulated. I believe in traditional method of testing now. People like you learn the hard way.

vanbonattel:
I think you have a point there with the pregnancy not being his. It's possible.

But the right way to marry is to see a girl you like, prepare yourself to marry her, marry her and take her to your house. Full stop.

Any other waiting game is allowing the devil to step in between you and her, and this kind of thread will happen and people will start advising you and here from different quarters.

Please marriage isn't compulsory... Stop this archaic mindset. This is 2024.

vanbonattel:
Oga you didn't answer my question.

Do you support girls getting pregnant before marriage?

You're d<mb and can't reason properly.
Stop the bait.