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Dtruthspeaker:
You and I know that she is really not talking about a responsible man.

Ehn, you dey correct. Na lazy men I dey talk about. Leave that side where I mention responsible men; that side no concern you at all.

All women marry for money, its always about the resources.

nwirinedu:
All women marry for money, its always about the resources.

All women? Okay.

All men marry for beauty, it is always about appearance.

Merry100:
I have my own money.

I don't really like rice, I prefer pasta.

Demon.

pasta.

Thief.

If you get money., you won’t bother to write this crap

Codes151:
pasta.

Thief.

If you get money., you won’t bother to write this crap

Thief like how? Who thief this one's money? This one don high o! Get a life; not every babe be 2k girlfriend o! 🤣🤣🤣

And please men, do not marry a woman that put all responsibility on her husband.

Codes151:
pasta.

Thief.

If you get money., you won’t bother to write this crap

When they say be wary of thieves, you too go dey hide your wallet. Wetin dey your wallet? 😂😂😂

And that is why does marriage no dey last and plenty mad lady plenty for outside....olowonimobalo

Merry100:
Thief like how? This one don high o! Get a life; not every babe be 2k girlfriend o! 🤣🤣🤣

thats the point

Merry100:
When they say be wary of thieves, you too go dey hide your wallet. Wetin dey your wallet? 😂😂😂

Dont play

Olabode211:
And that is why does marriage no dey last and plenty mad lady plenty for outside....olowonimobalo

Agba counselor, for marriage to last, women suppose dey marry lazy, pompous, and irresponsible guys! 😂🤣🤣

Codes151:
Dont play

Wetin dey your wallet? You say "don't play" Na cheap drugs dey cause this kind thing 😂😂😂

It is well o.

Join the Responsible Men's Association today and say NO to drugs.

Merry100:
Wetin dey your wallet? You say "don't play" Na cheap drugs dey cause this kind thing 😂😂😂

It is well o.

Join the Responsible Men's Association today and say NO to drugs.

lol...

i wont come online to post such trash.
if u were rich, you will never post this thrash.

so no wahala... Enjoy.

entitled hungry girl

Codes151:
lol...

i wont come online to post such trash.
if u were rich, you will never post this thrash.

so no wahala... Enjoy.

entitled hungry girl

Guy, how you take know say I dey hungry? I no just dey hungry, I dey starve! As e be now, I dey crave chocolate cake and KitKat ice cream.

DeeScan:
woman , you can't have your cake and eat it .. it's either a traditional styled marriage/ relationship or a westernized one .. No mix up ..

Whichever it is, you may be able to throw whatever you like at your dependent partner but the fact that you are earning the major pay in the house doesn't make it right.

Nothing like 'eat your cake and have it', you knowingly chose the girl that wanted financial stability, then you don't abuse her rights. Anything like second wife or whatever will be agreed on beforehand.

Codes151:
lol...

i wont come online to post such trash.
if u were rich, you will never post this thrash.

so no wahala... Enjoy.

entitled hungry girl

You’re just boring me. I’m here to catch cruise, not to show off my financial success. When I even tell am say I dey rich, me I no rich o 😂

Rich in this humbling economy, in a country where fuel worth 70,000 naira (for car use alone) will barely last one through the week. Stop taking things personally, in this country nearly everyone is struggling😊

BluntCrazeMan:
There are relationships and marriages like that.

((A situation where the lady just got totally zero-classed -- Such a lady has no say in anything))

If it's a situation where the woman is totally looked down upon and intimidated because she chose money and has nothing, I'd still blame not only the woman, but the man. The man, because he saw what he was picking, willingly picked it, and now, decided to silence and belittle a woman with nothing, whom he picked with his sane mind.

The woman, I would blame for not having any small business before going in with her so called rich partner. As a woman it's good to have your own money, not even for the independent woman stuff, but with that, it will be easy to cope and not live in fear, as you know you can survive if the guy decides to boot you out or mistreat you. You build a little before going after the rich man.

Here guys are just going off at women saying they'll mistreat them simply for hearing that a woman should go for financial stability. Any man that goes crazy once he hears about women picking money without caring to know what sort of deal it is, is actually a scared man that doesn't even want to do anything. A lot of men that act like that don't want to do anything and they want to marry and have kids without any financial improvement which is unfair to any woman and most especially the innocent kids that will come into that union.

Merry100:
Don't just marry because it is the societal norm. There are irresponsible men out there; if you marry one of them, you will regret getting married. Whether it's 50% or 100%, choose a man who is ready to shoulder responsibilities.

If you would like to start from scratch with a man and work together to elevate your lives, make sure he is a true team player. There is no teamwork when you are married to a lazy and pompous man.

Your partner doesn't have to be wealthy, but he should be someone with visible potential or a clear vision, not a lazy man.

It is okay to marry a guy if you see signs that he is likely to be a family man. Family men are responsible and disciplined, making them unlikely to be lazy. Even if they don't have much, they work hard to provide for their families.

Is it that easy to have the money?

RealityKings:
Is it that easy to have the money?

I must confess that men who shoulder the entire responsibilities of the family are really trying. As an independent woman who relies on her own income, I can attest that making money is not easy.

Money is like a spirit; you can not understand how it moves. There are months when you find yourself with just five figures while facing six-figure bills. It took me time to find my balance, I had even almost started regretting my decision. Being a virgin in this era has advantages, but it also has disadvantages because there are certain decisions you have to make to remain focused.

It is not easy to make money, but a man doesn't have to be rich to be responsible. There are some women who are married to lazy and irresponsible husbands and are forced to shoulder the entire responsibility of the family. Many of these women struggle financially, and the frustrating part is that their husbands are often unwilling to work; when offered a job, they frequently decline it. One of my staff members is a victim of this situation; her salary is only forty thousand naira, and she has four children to support.

Merry100:
You’re just boring me. I’m here to catch cruise, not to show off my financial success. When I even tell am say I dey rich, me I no rich o 😂

Rich in this humbling economy, in a country where fuel worth 70,000 naira (for car use alone) will barely last one through the week. Stop taking things personally, in this country nearly everyone is struggling😊

no one is asking you to show. Na you dy talk about how I have nothing and I am cheap. No wahala.

If say you get, you no go type thrash

Merry100:
Guy, how you take know say I dey hungry? I no just dey hungry, I dey starve! As e be now, I dey crave chocolate cake and KitKat ice cream.

e no cost. Buy am na.

No be una say una no fit marry Broke men.

You no fit satisfy small craving na men you Dey talk about?

Merry100:
Don't just marry because it is the societal norm. There are irresponsible men out there; if you marry one of them, you will regret getting married. Whether it's 50% or 100%, choose a man who is ready to shoulder responsibilities.

If you would like to start from scratch with a man and work together to elevate your lives, make sure he is a true team player. There is no teamwork when you are married to a lazy and pompous man.

Your partner doesn't have to be wealthy, but he should be someone with visible potential or a clear vision, not a lazy man.

It is okay to marry a guy if you see signs that he is likely to be a family man. Family men are responsible and disciplined, making them unlikely to be lazy. Even if they don't have much, they work hard to provide for their families.

in my opinion I think every girl should be a virgin till marriage. Not after uselessly using your body as a kolanut or should I say free meat to different irresponsible men, you will now be looking for a responsible man to dictate for and later destroy.

Codes151:
no one is asking you to show. Na you dy talk about how I have nothing and I am cheap. No wahala.

If say you get, you no go type thrash

You call me thief, I no vex, but when I say make you show your wallet, you dey vex. A lot of people here too like to play the victim game. No lie for my head, I no talk say you have nothing.

Codes151:
e no cost. Buy am na.

No be una say una no fit marry Broke men.

You no fit satisfy small craving na men you Dey talk about?

Ordinary dessert, you don dey cry.

Who talk say e cost? Me, I don satisfy my craving already. You think say I go dey wait for you? 😂😂😂

Merry100:
If Mr. Responsible goes broke, it is easier to support him in rising again, but if you try to lift Mr. Lazy, you will also fall into the pity of failure.

You have changed the narrative.

A lazy man can be wealthy and an extremely hard working man can be poor.

Merry100:
You call me thief, I no vex, but when I say make you show your wallet, you dey vex. A lot of people here too like to play the victim game. No lie for my head, I no talk say you have nothing.

go read our chats. Show you my wallet?
Me vex??
😂

Even if, I no fit play useless play with you.

Codes151:
go read our chats. Show you my wallet?
Me vex??
😂

Even if, I no fit play useless play with you.

Good. You are now laughing. This is how it is supposed to be.

otherway:
You have changed the narrative.

A lazy man can be wealthy and an extremely hard working man can be poor.

No be only change the narrative, na super story.

There are obviously lazy men that are lucky, but they cannot be categorized as irresponsible unless they refuse to shoulder their responsibilities. There are also hardworking men that are struggling financially; they cannot be labeled as irresponsible as long as they are making every effort to fulfill their responsibilities.

Merry100:
Good. You are now laughing. This is how it is supposed to be.

was laughing since

Codes151:
was laughing since

Your previous laughter wasn't genuine; it was tinged with pain.

Merry100:
Your previous laughter wasn't genuine; it was tinged with pain.

I still want you to understand.
Everyone on nairaland isn’t living on your assumptions.

babajero:
in my opinion I think every girl should be a virgin till marriage. Not after uselessly using your body as a kolanut or should I say free meat to different irresponsible men, you will now be looking for a responsible man to dictate for and later destroy.

If guy dey responsible, shey na only the lady go benefit? No be both of them? If you like, born pikin and throw am away or leave your wife to dey care for am alone, na your business.

Wetin ladies wan benefit from your opinion? If virginity dey for sale, you fit buy am. One time sex for virgin for UAE alone na 500,000 dirhams.

If premarital sex no dey prohibited according to religious standards, how many ladies go keep their virginity? And premarital sex dey prohibited for both men and women, no be for women alone.