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[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Decided by both party, not by society.[/quote]in your own opinion or by practise who do you think shld take the lowest ratio.

y me: Nice one
what is that?

Tanx.blanched veg, Yam cake and scrabbled eggs with vegetable.

MaisseD: Tanx.blanched veg, Yam cake and scrabbled eggs with vegetable.

do you cooked them?

haryhorku: do you cooked them?

It's a matter of principle,I must cook my food

haryhorku: in your own opinion or practise who do you think shld take the lowest ratio.

It doesnt really matter to me. I just don't wanna be held down with any obligation or societal's expecation of what a woman should be. I am me and I've done everything I can to avoid any vulnerable position to man, woman or soceity. I do what I want when I want, and ofcourse I try to use good judgment as much I can. (this is why I'm even reconsidering any child), because once you have one there goes the freedom)

In other words, It would be better to steer clear of percentages because that would still be defining an expectation. If he's hungry, he knows where the food is. I'll make sure there's enough food of variety in the fridge too. so it's not like I'm starving myself. . . .and him. I'd also love to come home to sweet sweet food aroma cooked by him.

I'm not a feminist, but I want a world where a role is not forced on me. Right now in my life, i'm in that place. I don't allow gender expectations and bias to stop me from achieving or doing whatever I want. I dumped every cultural, traditional and gender expectations in the dusbin since I turned 21. Anyone who minded have learned to leave me alone Esp those busybody family members

MaisseD: It's a matter of principle,I must cook my food

you must be a good cook. Do you like cooking a lot?

haryhorku: you must be a good cook. Do you like cooking a lot?

when I'm not working,I'm cooking. Cooking gives me the opportunity to discover and merge ideas.
Recipee 4 blanched veg
Cut ur carrot,marrow,cabbage,green beans,n broccoli. Then boil water as soon as it is boiled u add white onion diced very tinny n allow to boil 4 like 4mins add a pinch of salt not to taste this time but to help ur veg retain its colour n if u v baking powder u add like 3pinch it will make ur green veg look greener finally u start adding ur veg, startin with carrot,cabbage,beans,broccoli n marrow into the boiled water stir continuously 4 nt more than 2 mins then pour into ur strainer n then pour cold water on it to shock it n stop 4rm cookin even though nt on fire. finally u put in2 the fridge

nice talk. You talk like a real typical african woman with more or less western world exposure. My dear, this is africa mind you, you can't say and i quote 'I've done everything I can to avoid any vulnerable position to man, woman or soceity. I do what I want when I want' end of quote, its not done here in africa. Man provide food for the family and woman prepare food for the family, i wish you the very best in selecting your man and if you gotten one, all the best all the way.

Cooking gives you the
opportunity to discover and merge ideas? Opportunity to discover what and ideas in what sense?

haryhorku: nice talk. You talk like a real typical african woman with more or less western world exposure. My dear, this is africa mind you, you can't say and i quote 'I've done everything I can to avoid any vulnerable position to man, woman or soceity. I do what I want when I want' end of quote, its not done here in africa. Man provide food for the family and woman prepare food for the family, i wish you the very best in selecting your man and if you gotten one, all the best all the way.

Both the woman and man provides for the family.

Well, we can all see where African's mentality has taken Africa. . . . backwards

haryhorku: Cooking gives you the
opportunity to discover and merge ideas? Opportunity to discover what and ideas in what sense?

i do stuffs with my cooking. I often try out new meals and various cooking methods. For xample, instead of eba,I eat corn flour.Really nice and healthier than garri.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Both the woman and man provides for the family.

Well, we can all see where African's mentality has taken Africa. . . . backwards [/quote]. its not about african mentality like you said, but its how God created it from the very onset, He called eve an helper, a subordinate to adam

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]I dont like fish heads anymore.

looks good tho. I hope you're ready to cook for me [/quote]Stop derailing na i beat u o

[quote author=MaisseD]i do stuffs with my cooking. I often try out new meals and various cooking methods. For xample, instead of eba,I eat corn flour.Really nice and healthier than garri.[/quote . Corn flour? Hmmmm, i can imagine that, thats really something to experience.

[quote author=haryhorku][/quote]corn flour with vegetable soup, snail and crab too add...u just can't imagine! *i think this will be my lunch tmrw* I pray I'm less busy.

honeric01: Stop derailing na i beat u o

am Not, its the duty of a woman to put food on the table for the family, am not saying the man can't cook also but its not priority, i do cook also for my family

MaisseD: corn flour with vegetable soup, snail and crab too add...u just can't imagine! *i think this will be my lunch tmrw* I pray I'm less busy.

i wish you can be friend with my wife and teach her varieties of food.....

haryhorku: . its not about african mentality like you said, but its how God created it from the very onset, He called eve an helper, a subordinate to adam

LOL. Man wrote the Bible. Man created "God" from the figment of their imagination. Since not everyone shares your imagination, I think it's best to leave Santa out of this.

honeric01: Stop derailing na i beat u o

copied from sagamite

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuNVFUExiCA

haryhorku: i wish you can be friend with my wife and teach her varieties of food.....

are u indirectly saying ur wife is not in control of the spoon that stirs the soup? If that's the case,will be glad to show her where she can get a magnetic spoon. It will stick to her palm always.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]LOL. Man wrote the Bible. Man created "God" from the figment of their imagination. Since not everyone shares your imagination, I think it's best to leave Santa out of this.



copied from sagamite

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuNVFUExiCA[/quote]so Man created God from the figment of their imagination? Wow!!! can't watch the video now, my signal strength is poor, what about it?

MaisseD: i do stuffs with my cooking. I often try out new meals and various cooking methods. For xample, instead of eba,I eat corn flour.Really nice and healthier than garri.

I call that nsima. Its delicious with vegetables. And its not something "new". Malawians been eating it for as long as Nigerians eating Garri.

Nice Food....

Moi moi

Food

MaisseD: are u indirectly saying ur wife is not in control of the spoon that stirs the soup? If that's the case,will be glad to show her where she can get a magnetic spoon. It will stick to her palm always.

Lol, she is. I mean more varieties.

God bless Nigeria ,i live in a part of Canada where we don't even have a Nigeria restaurant and xmas is coming now i don't know wetin i go eat for xmas o,i beg post the moin moin to me o

this is how i do it!!:-P


1)cooked...mixed vegetable and meat soup!!!

and


2)baked mixed stuff!! yummy...stay healthy always!! (no oil added)cover with aluminium foil and bake or broil in a convention oven for an hour at 400C and remember to always check the meat with a thermometer to make sure its well done and soft!!

to be eaten with rice or pasta in sauce and salad!

once a girl visit, they refuse to leave or wanna cry when the weekend is over...guys try it!! but make sure u dont end up with a girl who will take you for granted and will not reciprocate sometimes...!

its all about balance! (in the food we eat and in love)

Hot Moi moi

ooooook na my own be this ooo

opone72: God bless Nigeria ,i live in a part of Canada where we don't even have a Nigeria restaurant and xmas is coming now i don't know wetin i go eat for xmas o,i beg post the moin moin to me o

Or do you prefer this one?
Jollof and goat meat

SniperInADiaper: The short version... boil water and remove from heat. Put noodles in water for a few minutes. Drain the water. Mix the flavours. Set aside. Heat oil. Saute onions. Add noodles. Cook for a few minutes. Them add mixed eggs. Don't stir the noodles until the eggs set. Once they are set stir and done.

this looks yummy