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30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by DyshApp(op): 11:45pm On Nov 08, 2024

A 30-year-old Nigerian woman has shared her frustration over being single, expressing that the men she’s interested in are not ready to settle down.

In a TikTok video gaining traction, she opens up about her relationship experiences with men.

She said: “I’m 30, does it mean that all my life, I’ve not met one perfect guy that I love and want to settle down with. I’m even willing to start from scratch, but the person that you love love, they’re not ready.”

When asked to clarify, she explained, “They’re not ready to settle. It’s not that I haven’t received marriage proposals—I have, but they’re always from the wrong people.”

Her comments have sparked reactions on social media, with many users taking to the comments section to share their thoughts as the video continues to trend online.

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by dawnomike(m): 11:56pm On Nov 08, 2024

Sorry Sis.... But nowadays, when a man thinks of the economy; marriage becomes less of a priority!!!

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by Wearetheugliest: 12:13am On Nov 09, 2024

Ahh shey na dis wan wey dey knack legend wan settle am... E be things

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by Lalami3232(m): 12:25am On Nov 09, 2024

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by helinues: 1:31am On Nov 09, 2024

You forgot good behavior hence complaining of not seeing good suitor

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by yomi007k(m): 2:09am On Nov 09, 2024

dawnomike:
Sorry Sis.... But nowadays, when a man thinks of the economy; marriage becomes less of a priority!!!

ABSOLUTELY!

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by Juliearth(f): 2:15am On Nov 09, 2024

dawnomike:
Sorry Sis.... But nowadays, when a man thinks of the economy; marriage becomes less of a priority!!!

This is the absolute truth. Intending couples need to be sure about sustenance before venturing.

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by floss(m): 3:33am On Nov 09, 2024

Make Una talk another thing abeg, if no one wants to marry you, then marry yourself… must everything be on marriage?… the married ones Dey knack EBANG, d single ones still DEY BANG, and you expect men to enter marriage when Tinubu and the economy Don BANG craze comot for single guys head, and you get mind to talk about marriage.

At this rate, my advice is try and get pregnant and have a baby to invest on now so that in future, d baby will invest in you, instead of looking for young men to finish kpata kpata

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by madridguy(m): 4:28am On Nov 09, 2024

Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by Tallesty1(m): 6:38am On Nov 09, 2024

The "future" and "prize" has seen that seeing a man to fvck is 1000x easier than seeing one with a ring.

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by richmond500: 6:49am On Nov 09, 2024

She said marriage proposals comes but they are from the wrong people.

Those that wants u are wrong people, who told u those that u want doesn't see u as a wrong person?
I remember a lady in her 30 too, my friend was so serious with her but she cheated on him and fell in love with a playboy, my friend was devastated, the playboy came for the pvssy only. 3months later the playboy dumped her. whenever I see her, I just hold a silent prayer that she never gets married

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by Nwaokunkpara: 7:04am On Nov 09, 2024

The irony of life is that you could be rejecting marriage when you were younger saying that you weren't ready for marriage now look at the results

I have had such experience with about 3 different girls age 23 22 and 19 respectively

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by bewla(m): 7:10am On Nov 09, 2024

dawnomike:
Sorry Sis.... But nowadays, when a man thinks of the economy; marriage becomes less of a priority!!!

and you condemn marriage at younger age

In the name of on ripe mango

Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by MrAmbrose(m): 7:55am On Nov 09, 2024

Madam, make good use of those dating apps, or better still, apply for those hunt game shows.

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by shortgun(m): 8:05am On Nov 09, 2024*

"It’s not that I haven’t received marriage proposals—I have, but they’re always from the wrong people"

This statement is what is keeping her and many other ladies single.

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by BareFacedLies(m): 10:15am On Nov 09, 2024

Nwaokunkpara:
The irony of life is that you could be rejecting marriage when you were younger saying that you weren't ready for marriage now look at the results

I have had such experience with about 3 different girls age 23 22 and 19 respectively

This argument is stale.

The main reason why most young ladies are not getting married is because the current state of the Nigerian economy scares most bachelors

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by tanigororo: 10:54am On Nov 09, 2024

She Never Ready, she dey point to guys that may not even want her.
Ahbi what does she meant by the wrong people are asking for her hand in marriage.

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by meobizy(m): 11:24am On Nov 09, 2024

At least she has men on her matter.

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by RedpillAnalyst: 1:13pm On Nov 09, 2024

When asked to clarify, she explained, “They’re not ready to settle. It’s not that I haven’t received marriage proposals—I have, but they’re always from the wrong people

Wrong people = Hardworking men making less than 100k doing legit hustle.

This lady will run quickly to become a concubine for scammers with other side chicks.

Whenever ladies say they are single. It doesn't mean they are not getting d**ked down. They are not just getting commitments.

Men triple your hustle.

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by EmmyMaestro(m): 1:26pm On Nov 09, 2024

Lalami3232:

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Re: 30-Year-Old Lady Laments Being Single, Says Men She Loves Aren’t Ready To Settle by franchasng: 1:49pm On Nov 09, 2024

It's easier for a woman to find sex mates or boyfriends but difficult for same woman to find a husband.

On the other hand, it's difficult for a man to find sex mate but easier for same man to find wives.

Life is funny grin