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Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by AbokiWam(op): 1:13pm On Nov 12, 2024
I had this girl I wanted to date sometime in 2020,

Because I was broke she turned me down..Fast forward to now that Man is out of school and now seeing Lil Cash here and there, she came back in.

This girl would always bill me for everything..ranging for hair money to money for nails and all sort

I use to turn up and send to her..But i wasnt interested in any relationship even as she was trying to be my main chick because my main chick is enjoying now..

To cut the long story short..This girl made a tiktok video (October dump)
I saved the video and converted it to pictures using an app (You know how fast those tiktok transitions are)

And then in one of the pictures she had took a screenshot of her account balance which showed approximately 440k (Four hundred thousand)..


I was furious and mad.this is someone begging me for money everyweek...10k..5k e.t.c
The dump also had pictures of shawarma eatinng ad fancy restuarant.

Guys...these girls have money, they wouldnt use theirs.
They would collect from you and other guys and save theirs for a business or something
Later you would be poor and miserable while they would establish a business.
I spoke to another female friend..she said Ladies have money..because little drops makes an ocean..so they collect from different guys

Wise up kings
Save that your Money today
I would spread the gospel..these farmtools have been using our heads
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by pryme(m): 1:21pm On Nov 12, 2024
Well as a man there is this inherent need to take care of a woman, cos it's built in you a man, call it primal instincts.
Luckily there are women that are worth taking care of.
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Seunpapa65: 1:27pm On Nov 12, 2024
Na today 😂😂
That was how I sent one 20k cause she called asking if I can lend her 50k that she will pay back instead I sent her 20k make e no pay back fast forward last month I decided to test her and ask her for 5k let me use for something not like I need it Omo it has been from one story to another lol 😂😂
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by EmperorCaesar(m): 1:40pm On Nov 12, 2024
AbokiWam:
I had this girl I wanted to date sometime in 2020,



This girl would always bill me for everything..ranging for hair money to money for nails and all sort

I use to turn up and send to her..But i wasnt interested in any relationship
cheesy
This is my main worry

Why would you willingly take this upon yourself?

To prove a point or thats how generous you are


You guys should stop taking useless responsibilities from those that really do not send you
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by dontrulee: 1:55pm On Nov 12, 2024
True, I agree with you.
Ladies especially beautiful ones hardly get stranded. I give people (male/female) money when they really need it but not at my own detriment or disadvantage. Ladies have format to bill guys and it's not worth giving your money to a girl that's not worth it except you've excess of cash to spare and you just want to play around. But if you're a struggling guy and you're giving girls money, then you're a big fool
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by idahme(m): 1:58pm On Nov 12, 2024
Seunpapa65:
Na today 😂😂
That was how I sent one 20k cause she called asking if I can lend her 50k that she will pay back instead I sent her 20k make e no pay back fast forward last month I decided to test her and ask her for 5k let me use for something not like I need it Omo it has been from one story to another lol 😂😂
Nice to know you tested her, me I don't even wait that much I discuss finance with them once I have an opinion equal to a parasite that person will never have help from me. Any relationship that isn't mutually beneficial to both parties should be frowned at by men.
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by AbokiWam(op): 2:00pm On Nov 12, 2024
EmperorCaesar:
cheesy
This is my main worry

Why would you willingly take this upon yourself?

To prove a point or thats how generous you are


You guys should stop taking useless responsibilities from those that really do not send you
There was a time she asked for 3500 in 2020..
I could not send

I am trying to show how how she would have enjoyed if she was patient

I am giving with limit sha
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Demigod22: 2:02pm On Nov 12, 2024
I have realized this mistake long time ago. As far as you are not my sister, girlfriend or worthy friend, as a girl, you won't get anything from me. I am not stingy nor mean, but I am reasonable enough not to be taken for a stupid person.
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Rexymania(m): 2:30pm On Nov 12, 2024
LoL una just dey enter adulthood for Nigeria
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by T0BY(m): 3:01pm On Nov 12, 2024
nah you get time to give woman anyhow. before i give woman my money, i go bleep her wella and nah money i fit afford to loose
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by oz4real83(m): 3:44pm On Nov 12, 2024
You have a main chick and also side chick(s) and you are advising us to wise up, we are also advising you too, wiseup and stay off unproductive relationships, they are all leakages to a man's finances, not worth it, either get married or stay in one productive, purposeful relationship cool
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Clevagal(f): 4:43pm On Nov 12, 2024
AbokiWam:
I had this girl I wanted to date sometime in 2020,

Because I was broke she turned me down..Fast forward to now that Man is out of school and now seeing Lil Cash here and there, she came back in.

This girl would always bill me for everything..ranging for hair money to money for nails and all sort

I use to turn up and send to her..But i wasnt interested in any relationship even as she was trying to be my main chick because my main chick is enjoying now..

To cut the long story short..This girl made a tiktok video (October dump)
I saved the video and converted it to pictures using an app (You know how fast those tiktok transitions are)

And then in one of the pictures she had took a screenshot of her account balance which showed approximately 440k (Four hundred thousand)..


I was furious and mad.this is someone begging me for money everyweek...10k..5k e.t.c
The dump also had pictures of shawarma eatinng ad fancy restuarant.

Guys...these girls have money, they wouldnt use theirs.
They would collect from you and other guys and save theirs for a business or something
Later you would be poor and miserable while they would establish a business.
I spoke to another female friend..she said Ladies have money..because little drops makes an ocean..so they collect from different guys

Wise up kings
Save that your Money today
I would spread the gospel..these farmtools have been using our heads
“Ladies have money” ontop 440k😭😅
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by AbokiWam(op): 4:56pm On Nov 12, 2024
Clevagal:
“Ladies have money” ontop 440k😭😅
Before nko

How would you be begging 5k when you have almost x100

no be juju be that
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Clevagal(f): 5:08pm On Nov 12, 2024
AbokiWam:
Before nko

How would you be begging 5k when you have almost x100

no be juju be that
I understand sha
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Sp1ritHusband(m): 5:50pm On Nov 12, 2024
Clevagal:
“Ladies have money” ontop 440k😭😅
Clevagal, will you be my side cheek? I will take care of all your needs nor mind op.
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by RealityKings: 7:12pm On Nov 12, 2024
Investor grin
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Mrwhite09: 7:17pm On Nov 12, 2024
AbokiWam:
I had this girl I wanted to date sometime in 2020,

Because I was broke she turned me down..Fast forward to now that Man is out of school and now seeing Lil Cash here and there, she came back in.

This girl would always bill me for everything..ranging for hair money to money for nails and all sort

I use to turn up and send to her..But i wasnt interested in any relationship even as she was trying to be my main chick because my main chick is enjoying now..

To cut the long story short..This girl made a tiktok video (October dump)
I saved the video and converted it to pictures using an app (You know how fast those tiktok transitions are)

And then in one of the pictures she had took a screenshot of her account balance which showed approximately 440k (Four hundred thousand)..


I was furious and mad.this is someone begging me for money everyweek...10k..5k e.t.c
The dump also had pictures of shawarma eatinng ad fancy restuarant.

Guys...these girls have money, they wouldnt use theirs.
They would collect from you and other guys and save theirs for a business or something
Later you would be poor and miserable while they would establish a business.
I spoke to another female friend..she said Ladies have money..because little drops makes an ocean..so they collect from different guys

Wise up kings
Save that your Money today
I would spread the gospel..these farmtools have been using our heads
I just seen a girl that was born infront of me with a 200k phone, while I use 16k phone. What hurts me the most is that I am richer than her father and the girl do nothing she is just 17
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by id4sho(m): 8:02pm On Nov 12, 2024
grin
Mrwhite09:
I just seen a girl that was born infront of me with a 200k phone, while I use 16k phone. What hurts me the most is that I am richer than her father and the girl do nothing she is just 17
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Sp1ritHusband(m): 8:06pm On Nov 12, 2024
As a guy, I hate to eat my money and love spending it on girls. I feen very uncomfortable any day I did not spend at least 50k as a gift to a fine girl. It's boring to eat my money alone.

WTF Man!
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Silentgroper(m): 8:08pm On Nov 12, 2024
pryme:
Well as a man there is this inherent need to take care of a woman, cos it's built in you a man, call it primal instincts.
Luckily there are women that are worth taking care of.
I might agree ...


Which is why I only I only give out 1k to these folks ..

Anything wey pass 1k , I no dey .


If you wan buy Brazilian wig, na 1k I get to give you add the rest yourself...
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Silentgroper(m): 8:10pm On Nov 12, 2024
Sp1ritHusband:
As a guy, I hate to eat my money and love spending it on girls. I feen very uncomfortable any day I did not spend at least 50k as a gift to a fine girl. It's boring to eat my money alone.
WTF Man!
My sister said to help her request 50k from you as a gift ..


Should she be expecting something??
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Sp1ritHusband(m): 8:11pm On Nov 12, 2024
Silentgroper:
I might agree ...


Which is why I only I only give out 1k to these folks ..

Anything wey pass 1k , I no dey .


If you wan buy Brazilian wig, na 1k I get to give you add the rest yourself...
You give out 1k because that is what you can afford. people change when money land. Can you swear if you have more than 50M for account that you will not give more than 1k.
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Sp1ritHusband(m): 8:11pm On Nov 12, 2024
Silentgroper:
My sister said to help her request 50k from you as a gift ..


Should she be expecting something??
I have been looking for your sister brotherly, where has she been. Wait, let me go cash the 50k.
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Silentgroper(m): 8:17pm On Nov 12, 2024
Sp1ritHusband:
You give out 1k because that is what you can afford. people change when money land. Can you swear if you have more than 50M for account that you will not give more than 1k.
bros .. if I get money pass dangote .. I give u 1k. If you no like am run me my money back .


The only exception is if the money is for a tangible thing ..
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Silentgroper(m): 8:18pm On Nov 12, 2024
Sp1ritHusband:
I have been looking for your sister brotherly, where has she been. Wait, let me go cash the 50k.
wait no cash am na ... Make I run paste aza na ..
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Kemzee01(m): 8:21pm On Nov 12, 2024
Silentgroper:
bros .. if I get money pass dangote .. I give u 1k. If you no like am run me my money back .


The only exception is if the money is for a tangible thing ..
Tangible thing wey em fit whine you on top?
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Sp1ritHusband(m): 8:21pm On Nov 12, 2024
Silentgroper:
bros .. if I get money pass dangote .. I give u 1k. If you no like am run me my money back .


The only exception is if the money is for a tangible thing ..
What is more tangible than a size 42 dd standing breast and a well rounded ass of a fine lady?
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Silentgroper(m): 8:23pm On Nov 12, 2024
Kemzee01:
Tangible thing wey em fit whine you on top?
na the one way I deem tangible ...

No be she go tell me say e tangible ..

So that whynin no fit work
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Silentgroper(m): 8:25pm On Nov 12, 2024
Sp1ritHusband:
What is more tangible than a size 42 dd standing breast and a well rounded ass of a fine lady?
Different strokes for different folks.
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Sp1ritHusband(m): 8:27pm On Nov 12, 2024
Silentgroper:
Different strokes for different folks.
So if a correct package babe off her clothes, you nor go go crazy? I dont want to believe you be okobo my bros.
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Mikuni(m): 9:01pm On Nov 12, 2024
If you see how these small girls dey do 30k weekly ajo(contribution), e go shock you
Re: Bro To Bro : Eat Your Money, Dont Spend It On Girls (my Experience) by Elzazzi: 5:08am On Nov 13, 2024
pryme:
Well as a man there is this inherent need to take care of a woman, cos it's built in you a man, call it primal instincts.
Luckily there are women that are worth taking care of.
Nonsense. So a young man should take full responsibility of taking care of a lady because she has cavity between her legs ? She can't do little things for herself or even get a job atleast, as most Nigerian girls don't want to work too. Guys like you make these ladies feel too entitled.
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