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Just yesterday, on Tuesday in the evening, this happened.


Guy man saw his babe entering into a car, and he suddenly rushed with full anger, hitting the car, raising his voice that she should come down.

Like, "this is my girlfriend o! Where are you taking her to! She should come down immediately."


The car stopped, and the atmosphere was tensed up, like really cooked!!


People gathered so much that you would think an accident just happened.


The girl came out, same as the guy driving the car. He appeared calm, not wanting a fight. Seems he never knew the girl is in a serious relationship.


He tried talking to the aggrieved boyfriend man to man, but with such rage, he has lost it already.

After much heated scene, a section of the crowd took the girl away from the scene.

The guy with car drove off.


The aggrieved boyfriend couldn't contain his calm no more, and was just panting to and fro.

Now, a section of the crowd were mocking him, saying that he hasn't married her, so she is free to go out with whomever she wants.


Another section of the crowd rebuked them, saying it's not fair, they are in a relationship and she shouldn't act in such manner.

Like it's a serious relationship, the boyfriend already making plans to marry her. He has been spending hugely on her, as long as they're in a relationship she's not supposed to act in such manner.


What's your take on this?

I am not an idle person, I even regret reading already

godliman:
I am not an idle person, I even regret reading already

Sure.
Just move on to your busy schedules

Very bad from the girl. The should break up and move on.

Very bad from the girl. The guy should break up and move on.

Baronthecelebri:
Very bad from the girl. The guy should break up and move on.

Abegi dont be too quick to blame the lady jor who no like better thing. Truth is the guy was total immature, He dated a LovePeddler and was fighting because of a LovePeddler and not because of money. He did not respect the Baltazzar theory and got what he deserved. A lady is only answerable to her need. Have money and dont have money, they willl always go to the highest bidder. The time he used in investing in the relationship, he should use it to invest in himself. If na me, i go just walk away as if nothing happened. He was mumuing himself up and down,. WHO NO LIKE BETA THING? THAT LADY SAW SOFT LIFE SO LEAVE R

lovediehatelive:
Sure.
Just move on to your busy schedules

I love that!

The guy should cut his loses

gunners160:
Abegi dont be too quick to blame the lady jor who no like better thing. Truth is the guy was total immature, He dated a LovePeddler Andrew was fighting because of a LovePeddler and not because of money. He did not respect the Baltazzar theory and got what he deserved. A lady is only answerable to her need. Have money and dont have money, they willl always go to the highest bidder. The time he used in investing in the relationship, he should use it to invest in himself. If na me, i go just walk away as if nothing happened. He was mumuing himself up and down,. WHO NO LIKE BETA THING? THAT LADY SAW SOFT LIFE SO LEAVE R

If it's you and you did what he did you won't walk away just as you painted it that's why no man should ever invest in a woman but himself. As you invest in yourself you increase your value making yourself more attractive to women around, they will fight to keep you because you are the price.
Most men think investing in women make them loyal? That's is a wrong wrong they will rather see you as a stepping stone to meet their desires partners who never invested in them.

We know it’s your girlfriend he chanced and collected from you. Even if you make more money, girl wey go knack another man go still knack another man, upon all your spending on her. I hope you’ve heard of that Equitorial Guenea guy and the quantum’s of big/ rich men women he knacked?

Baronthecelebri:
Very bad from the girl. The should break up and move on.

That's it o


Seems he really spent heavily on her, thinking it's an investment.

Now, it would be painful leaving her.

godliman:
I love that!

Mr busy what are you still doing here

gunners160:
Abegi dont be too quick to blame the lady jor who no like better thing. Truth is the guy was total immature, He dated a LovePeddler and was fighting because of a LovePeddler and not because of money. He did not respect the Baltazzar theory and got what he deserved. A lady is only answerable to her need. Have money and dont have money, they willl always go to the highest bidder. The time he used in investing in the relationship, he should use it to invest in himself. If na me, i go just walk away as if nothing happened. He was mumuing himself up and down,. WHO NO LIKE BETA THING? THAT LADY SAW SOFT LIFE SO LEAVE R

Looking at it from a different perspective, the guy was saved!

Now imagine if he didn't find out and wife her

pryme:
The guy should cut his loses

It's not easy o.


Maybe he has spent really much, thinking it's an investment.

Such stories makes me remember that spending on a lady is not an investment, and one should only give what he truly could afford to let go.

idahme:
If it's you and you did what he did you won't walk away just as you painted it that's why no man should ever invest in a woman but himself. As you invest in yourself you increase your value making yourself more attractive to women around, they will fight to keep you because you are the price.
Most men think investing in women make them loyal? That's is a wrong wrong they will rather see you as a stepping stone to meet their desires partners who never invested in them.

On point!!

Spending on her is never an investment.

Meteng:
We know it’s your girlfriend he chanced and collected from you. Even if you make more money, girl wey go knack another man go still knack another man, upon all your spending on her. I hope you’ve heard of that Equitorial Guenea guy and the quantum’s of big/ rich men women he knacked?

Not mine o.

I don't even know the lady.

I agree with your points sha. Spending on her won't make her loyal.


If you spend on her, wahala. If you no spend on her, trouble..

Seems this event happened to the OP

lovediehatelive:
Looking at it from a different perspective, the guy was saved!

Now imagine if he didn't find out and wife her

it is not about being saved but fighting because if lady to the extent of publicly disgracing urself

lovediehatelive:
Just yesterday, on Tuesday in the evening, this happened.


Guy man saw his babe entering into a car, and he suddenly rushed with full anger, hitting the car, raising his voice that she should come down.

Like, "this is my girlfriend o! Where are you taking her to! She should come down immediately."


The car stopped, and the atmosphere was tensed up, like really cooked!!


People gathered so much that you would think an accident just happened.


The girl came out, same as the guy driving the car. He appeared calm, not wanting a fight. Seems he never knew the girl is in a serious relationship.


He tried talking to the aggrieved boyfriend man to man, but with such rage, he has lost it already.

After much heated scene, a section of the crowd took the girl away from the scene.

The guy with car drove off.


The aggrieved boyfriend couldn't contain his calm no more, and was just panting to and fro.

Now, a section of the crowd were mocking him, saying that he hasn't married her, so she is free to go out with whomever she wants.


Another section of the crowd rebuked them, saying it's not fair, they are in a relationship and she shouldn't act in such manner.

Like it's a serious relationship, the boyfriend already making plans to marry her. He has been spending hugely on her, as long as they're in a relationship she's not supposed to act in such manner.


What's your take on this?

My advice to is simple. Always let a hoe be a hoe . This will give U peace of mind, clarity, no assumptions and U will get to see her for who she is and not who U have dreamt her to be. Never try to change a woman. Once U see that hoe nature in her just accept and play ball accordingly. Stopping her from entering the car doesn't mean the appointment was cancelled. U just delayed it as they will have to book another appointment more quietly this time. Most girls aren't worth the trouble. Just do Ur part and let other niggaz run theirs too since the kuntus is accommodating everyone and everything.

LoL....lick your wounds and plan your life very well. Throw her away for dying minutes of her life.

So we should add our own to this never ending debate. Ok, wait I'm cuming

dkidd:
My advice to is simple. Always let a hoe be a hoe . This will give U peace of mind, clarity, no assumptions and U will get to see her for who she is and not who U have dreamt her to be. Never try to change a woman. Once U see that hoe nature in her just accept and play ball accordingly. Stopping her from entering the car doesn't mean the appointment was cancelled. U just delayed it as they will have to book another appointment more quietly this time. Most girls aren't worth the trouble. Just do Ur part and let other niggaz run theirs too since the kuntus is accommodating everyone and everything.

Awesome advice. How I wish the guy saw this earlier.

But he let love overcome his sense of reasoning

THEGALADIMA:
Seems this event happened to the OP

Chai... How can it happen to me just two days ago And I'm here grinding teeth

lovediehatelive:
Mr busy what are you still doing here

Appreciating your good manners