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badblackgod:
You be Fool, a very big one

psucc:
It's shameful how some of us do not have shame. Op, it's so shameful!

So your girlfriend has to wait until it takes another person to tell her to sweep or do some house chores? And you still get the effrontery to tell the world this? No!
Too shameful!

chris51:
I agree with you. A well brought up girl would sweep without being prompted.

folake4u:
Omggg what are these comments I'm reading!!! So mind boggling.

This is disrespectful in all ramifications but let Nairaland Alfa meils go on.

lionphil:
Look at it this way... What are two young men doing in a dirty environment to warrant them to wait for a girl to come and sweep it for them??

The girl was in his vicinity and decided to wait for him before heading home. Shit like that happens.

Let us be reasonable in our comments

We are still the same people that will insult ladies for chasing after rich guys. Now a lady has decided to stay with a guy that's just starting life and we are looking for how to crucify her or the guy, that's not right.

We all started from somewhere, this is his own beginning, there's nothing wrong with having a girlfriend, it depends on what she offers.


To the man in question, your guy didn't do well, he should have informed you to inform her or better still remain in the house like that. You did nothing wrong by informing him.

Still trying to talk to him that if it is about that issue, he should let it go and that you are guys not women, it is good to keep women wahala out of the way

Mom007:
Why should she, a visitor, sweep a room occupied by 2 grown ass men? Is it her room? Is it her boyfriends room? So between the 2 owners of the room, they cannot figure out how to clean it but she, a visiting acquaintance of 1 of the occupants of said room should come and clean room for them... how did you arrive at this conclusion? Are you OK?

viyon02:
Oga oil dey your head, the kind of men we have these days are all mumu men. In those days, my girl friend will even respect my friends more than me, because these friends will be the one to stand for her if I try to leave her.

erniok:
So if the girlfriend didn't show up that day, no sweeping. Are you lots that dirty?

Undilutedme:
I’m leaving early next year. I just got a work and I should just use all my savings to rent a house without planning or I should break up with my girlfriend who’s been loyal and understanding because I am sharing a room? I wonder why some of you think this way.

Undilutedme:
Hello, Nairalanders. Good morning, I’m going to be short.

I stay in Ondo and I just finished my youth service and currently, I’m staying with long time friend(We’re splitting the rent) till we are able to find our way. Something happened last week Friday that has brought a little misunderstanding (We don’t flow like before) and I want your opinion.

Okay, so I went to my work, I work from 8-5, sometimes 6 and that day, my girlfriend called me and said she was around the house and wanted to wait and see me, I told her it was fine that I would be back soon. I went back later to the house and I met her, my friend wasn’t around then. The house was very neat, but I knew she was the one who swept it, so I didn’t ask. But one talk led to another and she told me it was that my friend that told her to get broom and sweep the room. When she said it, I wasn’t so cool with it because I felt he didn’t have that right to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room. Even if she wanted to sleep it, I should be the one to tell her and not my room mate. I told him and he didn’t see anything wrong with it and insisted that I didn’t like it and he shouldn’t do it next time, because I found it a bit disrespectful to myself and my girlfriend. Since then, he hasn’t been so cool, we talk but not like before. Did I overreact? Do you think it’s okay or wrong for my roommate to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room?

NB; I do not tell my girlfriend to sweep the room when my roommate is around, so it doesn’t bring “see finish “ so, she’s never swept in his presence before, but she does it when he’s not around.

Also, he has his girlfriend that comes to the house too and I have never told her to do anything like that before. So, what do you guys think?

GloriousGbola:
Sharap dia!

Small geh feeling funky!!

Take this and wait for me in ze oza room!!!

psucc:
So it reach your end in those days? These generation are missing it

Isokoson:
Mehn, this is beyond local man logistics

Bros op, your roommate no be real guy, a real guy go keep calm and see whether she go sweep am or not, when I squat with someone then, my roommate girlfriend go come, we go just gist talk small, then I go dey look whether she go do am or not, if she no do am, I go lock up... Asking your girlfriend to sweep looks more like a disrespect to me, dat kind person no dey happy say u get loyal girl, Omo I go advice you to get your own apartment as you talk.... Nothing good like having your privacy.. Even if is just single room....

Seriously your guy no try

My guy then know me nah, even if him girl no do am I go do am, nah so shame go dey catch the girl, before you know, nah she dey do am without bein told.

psucc:
It's shameful how some of us do not have shame. Op, it's so shameful!

So your girlfriend has to wait until it takes another person to tell her to sweep or do some house chores? And you still get the effrontery to tell the world this? No!
Too shameful!

psucc:
It's shameful how some of us do not have shame. Op, it's so shameful!

So your girlfriend has to wait until it takes another person to tell her to sweep or do some house chores? And you still get the effrontery to tell the world this? No!
Too shameful!

Undilutedme:
Hello, Nairalanders. Good morning, I’m going to be short.

I stay in Ondo and I just finished my youth service and currently, I’m staying with long time friend(We’re splitting the rent) till we are able to find our way. Something happened last week Friday that has brought a little misunderstanding (We don’t flow like before) and I want your opinion.

Okay, so I went to my work, I work from 8-5, sometimes 6 and that day, my girlfriend called me and said she was around the house and wanted to wait and see me, I told her it was fine that I would be back soon. I went back later to the house and I met her, my friend wasn’t around then. The house was very neat, but I knew she was the one who swept it, so I didn’t ask. But one talk led to another and she told me it was that my friend that told her to get broom and sweep the room. When she said it, I wasn’t so cool with it because I felt he didn’t have that right to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room. Even if she wanted to sleep it, I should be the one to tell her and not my room mate. I told him and he didn’t see anything wrong with it and insisted that I didn’t like it and he shouldn’t do it next time, because I found it a bit disrespectful to myself and my girlfriend. Since then, he hasn’t been so cool, we talk but not like before. Did I overreact? Do you think it’s okay or wrong for my roommate to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room?

NB; I do not tell my girlfriend to sweep the room when my roommate is around, so it doesn’t bring “see finish “ so, she’s never swept in his presence before, but she does it when he’s not around.

Also, he has his girlfriend that comes to the house too and I have never told her to do anything like that before. So, what do you guys think?

Isokoson:
Mehn, this is beyond local man logistics

Bros op, your roommate no be real guy, a real guy go keep calm and see whether she go sweep am or not, when I squat with someone then, my roommate girlfriend go come, we go just gist talk small, then I go dey look whether she go do am or not, if she no do am, I go lock up... Asking your girlfriend to sweep looks more like a disrespect to me, dat kind person no dey happy say u get loyal girl, Omo I go advice you to get your own apartment as you talk.... Nothing good like having your privacy.. Even if is just single room....

Seriously your guy no try

My guy then know me nah, even if him girl no do am I go do am, nah so shame go dey catch the girl, before you know, nah she dey do am without bein told.

Undilutedme:
Hello, Nairalanders. Good morning, I’m going to be short.

I stay in Ondo and I just finished my youth service and currently, I’m staying with long time friend(We’re splitting the rent) till we are able to find our way. Something happened last week Friday that has brought a little misunderstanding (We don’t flow like before) and I want your opinion.

Okay, so I went to my work, I work from 8-5, sometimes 6 and that day, my girlfriend called me and said she was around the house and wanted to wait and see me, I told her it was fine that I would be back soon. I went back later to the house and I met her, my friend wasn’t around then. The house was very neat, but I knew she was the one who swept it, so I didn’t ask. But one talk led to another and she told me it was that my friend that told her to get broom and sweep the room. When she said it, I wasn’t so cool with it because I felt he didn’t have that right to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room. Even if she wanted to sleep it, I should be the one to tell her and not my room mate. I told him and he didn’t see anything wrong with it and insisted that I didn’t like it and he shouldn’t do it next time, because I found it a bit disrespectful to myself and my girlfriend. Since then, he hasn’t been so cool, we talk but not like before. Did I overreact? Do you think it’s okay or wrong for my roommate to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room?

NB; I do not tell my girlfriend to sweep the room when my roommate is around, so it doesn’t bring “see finish “ so, she’s never swept in his presence before, but she does it when he’s not around.

Also, he has his girlfriend that comes to the house too and I have never told her to do anything like that before. So, what do you guys think?

Undilutedme:
Hello, Nairalanders. Good morning, I’m going to be short.

I stay in Ondo and I just finished my youth service and currently, I’m staying with long time friend(We’re splitting the rent) till we are able to find our way. Something happened last week Friday that has brought a little misunderstanding (We don’t flow like before) and I want your opinion.

Okay, so I went to my work, I work from 8-5, sometimes 6 and that day, my girlfriend called me and said she was around the house and wanted to wait and see me, I told her it was fine that I would be back soon. I went back later to the house and I met her, my friend wasn’t around then. The house was very neat, but I knew she was the one who swept it, so I didn’t ask. But one talk led to another and she told me it was that my friend that told her to get broom and sweep the room. When she said it, I wasn’t so cool with it because I felt he didn’t have that right to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room. Even if she wanted to sleep it, I should be the one to tell her and not my room mate. I told him and he didn’t see anything wrong with it and insisted that I didn’t like it and he shouldn’t do it next time, because I found it a bit disrespectful to myself and my girlfriend. Since then, he hasn’t been so cool, we talk but not like before. Did I overreact? Do you think it’s okay or wrong for my roommate to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room?

NB; I do not tell my girlfriend to sweep the room when my roommate is around, so it doesn’t bring “see finish “ so, she’s never swept in his presence before, but she does it when he’s not around.

Also, he has his girlfriend that comes to the house too and I have never told her to do anything like that before. So, what do you guys think?

Undilutedme:
I’m leaving early next year. I just got a work and I should just use all my savings to rent a house without planning or I should break up with my girlfriend who’s been loyal and understanding because I am sharing a room? I wonder why some of you think this way.

santaclaws:
Your uncles for house be fool... If my comment pain you, hug transformer...

badblackgod:
Again, you are a fool, a very big one

santaclaws:
Shared 1 room, not apartment per se. Please it's uncomfortable... I am sure that's where he sleeps with the girl. Please learn to consider others when you people decide.

crossbreedwears:
Where did you grow up if i may ask?

Undilutedme:
Hello, Nairalanders. Good morning, I’m going to be short.

I stay in Ondo and I just finished my youth service and currently, I’m staying with long time friend(We’re splitting the rent) till we are able to find our way. Something happened last week Friday that has brought a little misunderstanding (We don’t flow like before) and I want your opinion.

Okay, so I went to my work, I work from 8-5, sometimes 6 and that day, my girlfriend called me and said she was around the house and wanted to wait and see me, I told her it was fine that I would be back soon. I went back later to the house and I met her, my friend wasn’t around then. The house was very neat, but I knew she was the one who swept it, so I didn’t ask. But one talk led to another and she told me it was that my friend that told her to get broom and sweep the room. When she said it, I wasn’t so cool with it because I felt he didn’t have that right to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room. Even if she wanted to sleep it, I should be the one to tell her and not my room mate. I told him and he didn’t see anything wrong with it and insisted that I didn’t like it and he shouldn’t do it next time, because I found it a bit disrespectful to myself and my girlfriend. Since then, he hasn’t been so cool, we talk but not like before. Did I overreact? Do you think it’s okay or wrong for my roommate to tell my girlfriend to sweep the room?

NB; I do not tell my girlfriend to sweep the room when my roommate is around, so it doesn’t bring “see finish “ so, she’s never swept in his presence before, but she does it when he’s not around.

Also, he has his girlfriend that comes to the house too and I have never told her to do anything like that before. So, what do you guys think?

Undilutedme:
They're just blindly attacking me and not even handling the issue I brought. All I want to know is if I overrated or not.

santaclaws:
Marrakech, Morocco. Why do u ask? 🤔