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| My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 7:12pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
I resumed work today where I will be learning to grill and make sharwama. So I met a pretty girl there today and I think she's trying to work with my boss though my Boss told me privately that he prefers a male(me) as there are some errands this girls can't do or do well but I will really like the girl to work with us sha but I don't have any say as I can't pay her salary and don't know if my boss can afford to pay her. Why I'm posting this is that it's funny how we just hit it off today, I thought she was my Boss babe until my Boss went to get something and left us together that I now ask her if she wants to work here, she said yes I now said I thought she was..... Before she completed it that "his babe?" "No I'm not o, you want to kill me" I just smile because I no understand how death enter matter. But she asked of my name I told her before she asked where I live. She told me her name too and where she lives after I told her sha but before the conversation I noticed she was comfortable sitting or standing close or should I say too close to me. And I just feel she is into me. When I wanted to leave sef she still told me to make sure I come back tomorrow. I like her too sha but I will just stay calm as I always do till the greenlight can't turn any greener. I will update after maybe 2 weeks to gist you guys how it goes. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by NiceBreezeHuh: 7:21pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
Acting nice does not mean she's into you. Give it time. Don't mistake likeness for intimacy. Wait till she's around other guys like you and see how she behaves. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Carndidlaydid(f): 7:22pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
Fattprince23:Happy you got yourself a job... If you need tips on making your shawarma superb ... Icould help cos I got a pub where they make wraps smoothies and juices Ps: try focus on your grind/grill... Why can't your gender type anything without having our gender as an excuse for distraction |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Lifestone(m): 7:43pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
Fattprince23:Your first day at work and you are already getting distracted. I think you need to reset your brain and pick if it's work you are there for or romance. This generation ! |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by peropoliet(m): 8:24pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
Fattprince23:S Dem go sack you |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by advanceDNA: 8:46pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
Fattprince23:U salary= 50k Her salary= 50k Every end of month when they pay you guys... Your account: 20k Her account: 80k |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by flokii: 9:08pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
This man learn work first before you start falling for woman. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Talkisneeded(m): 9:10pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
advanceDNA:Read and comprehend this,first day at work and you are already sighting green light... Focus son, this is not the best time for romance... I sell herbs tho |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Nicepoker(m): 9:30pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
Hard way. The only way. That's how you will learn. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Dexy4yah(m): 9:49pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
You obviously lack self discipline, first day at work and you're already catching feelings for a fellow worker. Your mind go touch ground soon |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by EzehFx: 10:00pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
advanceDNA:Savage ![]() |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Kobojunkie: 12:43am On Nov 16, 2024 |
Fattprince23:Your first day at work yet you are already considering whether a gal who is herself looking for a job is into you or not? How old are you? ![]() |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by advanceDNA: 7:21am On Nov 16, 2024 |
EzehFx:Baba...na so woman dey calculate..Dem dey ruthless especially when they have no feelings for who they are dealing with... ![]() |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Zonefree(m): 10:52am On Nov 16, 2024 |
Kobojunkie:So, because it's first day at work, he shouldn't find the love of his life?; ![]() |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 6:56am On Nov 20, 2024 |
Carndidlaydid:Well your gender was created to beautify the life of our gender if your gender could just stick to your role. Don't hate or compete with our gender because we are suppose to complement ourselves so we can live in heaven on earth. Thanks candid for your advice. That's very very nice of you. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 6:58am On Nov 20, 2024 |
advanceDNA:Bro ooo. Just that I'm always logical in my dealing with ladies. Maybe that's why I'm single for a long time. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 7:05am On Nov 20, 2024 |
NiceBreezeHuh:True, true. But trust me I know a green light when I see one. It's absolutely true what you say about giving it time, but trust me sir when a girl is being nice to you and getting comfortable then 80% she likes you, she might not know that's what she's doing, but it's somehow subconscious. I've had an experience like that at least 4 times. I thought they were just being nice and as a nice person too I decided to reciprocate then bam when we start dating they tell me they like me because I'm a very nice(please not mumu nice o) person, that's why they fall but as a nice man I don't remind them that they were being nice first. But I understand you sir. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by ObalendeCMS: 7:08am On Nov 20, 2024 |
How old are you, young fool? Don't worry naija girls will teach you sense. Better face your career & see what you can make out of it! |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by advanceDNA: 7:27am On Nov 20, 2024 |
Fattprince23:It's ur first day at work and u seem like u are losing focus..that's why we feel ur lust might lead to loss.... Still....I'm an advocate of having a girl when u are a nobody because that's the only time u can get woman wants you regardless of how much change u have |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 7:58am On Nov 20, 2024 |
Okay I see guys advising me to focus on work and leave romance, well that's good as you don't shit where you eat but I've decided to leave where I eat so as to come back and shit there. Just kidding I decided to stop the work because the stress is too much but because I don't just work I also calculate so as to work smart (I have to work smart because I'm a lazy person, I don't know why people hate us lazy people, we didn't and don't want to even do anything) I realized where I work before I make more daily money for way lesser stress, it's complicated why I left sha maybe I will share some other time but I'm going back to where I work before. So about the girl, I didn't see her again after Friday as the boss asked her to rest on Saturday and Sunday and resume on Monday, so I went to work on Monday to see her again before I stop, luckily for me she came. We talked and we enjoyed she other company and I became sure she was into me and the funny thing is I came to have this strong feeling for her. So how did I know and became sure. First, she is always thinking about me which I realized when something happened 2 times. 1. There was no much sales, so our boss was just playing about going back to the island and if she would love to go with him, her reply was no problem if Prince(me) will go with us. 2. Later in the evening about 7 p.m our boss told her to take a 30 min break by going to her sister place not far away from our work place, she said she doesn't want to go when the boss insisted next thing she said is that what about Prince, that she does not want to leave me there. She also became very comfortable with touching me and sitting too close to me, that our boss later noticed and ask if it's me she likes(because we all including her know the boss likes her) she said she doesn't want to be in a relationship for now but I know it's a womanese language of saying she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you now. There was even a time she placed her hand on my lap. I've come to like her sha. I will try to check on her later on as I will be more busy as I'm going back to my former work now. I just want to add this, when a girl likes you, you should look at her actions and acts towards you not what she says. She may say a lot of bullshit but if she acts nice towards you she's definitely attracted (at least 80% of the time) maybe when you have it had the back of your mind that a girl chooses to love you or not 3 secs after meeting you, don't think she's just being nice when they flirt, because she just may be doing just that, flirting. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 8:05am On Nov 20, 2024 |
ObalendeCMS:Well you sound like the fool. Why do people especially Nigerians think working and enjoying are mutually exclusive. That's the issue that brought me here sef. Loving someone and being loved back is one of the best experiences of life. Even if I'm still working there, flirting with each other here and there would not make the day at the end unproductive, will it? It will even make the day more productive because you will be in a better mood and feeling, which I believe you should enjoy whilst it last. Masculine and feminine energy, day and night, light and dark, work and rest, calm and chaos. It's all work together to make your life better. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by ShinjaWWest: 9:19am On Nov 20, 2024 |
Fattprince23:Rubbish ... |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 11:03am On Nov 20, 2024 |
ShinjaWWest:I agree. But always remember it's always about balance. On your death bed all you will have is your life experiences and the memories you make. Don't be like the rich man that has plenty assets and properties with riches but regretted not living life. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 11:05am On Nov 20, 2024 |
advanceDNA:No I'm not losing focus. I'm only human, and you know how we all feel when opposite gender finds us attractive. Nothing more, I'm not even thinking about getting into her pants. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by AllBlack: 11:26am On Nov 20, 2024 |
advanceDNA:where is that amplifier and loudspeaker? |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Azazyel: 5:31pm On Jun 05, 2025 |
Fattprince23:Don't mind all these people talking down on you and making you feel like loving a woman is a bad thing. When a woman loves you as much as you love her, it's actually a very nice thing. From your writeup, she truly loves you and wants to be around you at any given moment. If you have a place of your own, invite her over and start something serious. She might even be your wife. Don't forget to chop the cuntu.s and don't do deeper life relationship. Eat it well and she would love you more. Hope you both are still together though? |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 6:06pm On Jun 05, 2025 |
Azazyel:This is so funny and interesting. This was what I would have done if our Boss didn't intentionally parted us. On the last day of work (I didn't know it was her last day, as she didn't know it was mine, as I returned to my former place of work later) after we closed for the day. Our Boss released her to go home around 7 p.m as she was slightly ill but she insisted on staying till closing hour so we could go home together which I've planned to get all her details as she doesn't have a phone. But our Boss intentionally kept me back as he already saw the connection and feelings between us which he was jealous of as he already told me before of fvcking the girl. I knew he did that intentionally because after like 30 minutes that the girl has gone, he now asked if I will like to go home now then he finished the statement with" oh! I should have released the 2 of you together o". I just smiled. But I didn't blame him sha, I partially blame the girl for making it too obvious that she likes me. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Azazyel: 8:46pm On Jun 05, 2025 |
Fattprince23:Ahhhh otilor. Nah it's not her fault. She is an emotional being just like other women. You could have written your phone number in a paper or card for her since she didn't have a phone. She'd have called. Ladies would find a way to reach you. I hope she is mature sha. Hope she is not less than 22 |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 1:48pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Azazyel:Yeah, she should be about 24 or thereabout. She's matured. I would have done that, but I didn't know that was the last time we would be seeing. |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by SamuraiXXX: 1:40pm On Jun 07, 2025 |
Fattprince23:When you go to work in a place face your job and leave woman alone! |
| Re: My First Day At Work. by Fattprince23(op): 10:18pm On Jun 08, 2025 |
SamuraiXXX:I don hear sir. But women are among the pleasure on earth. |
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