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Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 5:35pm On Nov 19, 2024
Anytime I sleep with a girl. They immediately fall in love with me and start getting attached.

Not that it is a bad thing
It's just that I just want to knack and go.
Some of them even start sleeping in my house and washing my clothes for me.

But most times it doesn't end well
Because they know my house and come unannounced then they catch me with another girl.
Heartbreak begins, but truthfully I hate causing heartbreaks.

Why me??
Asin why can't I have sex without this girls falling in love. It is becoming scary

Immediately I sleep with a girl, she start falling in love.

Bosses, please how do I handle this
3 girls have sworn for me because i broke their heart. But I never wanted relationship just knack and Go!!!
Why all these wahala of girls falling in love and getting attached to me
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Nobody: 5:43pm On Nov 19, 2024
Probably because you don’t have a job and readily available.

If you had a job, plans and busy schedule, they automatically won’t fit-in.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Natbrowny: 5:58pm On Nov 19, 2024
They ain't falling in love with you but for what u can provide and offer and that's the FREE ACCOMMODATION


the sex and washing of ur clothes and d '' falling in love with you'' is the payment they can offer for rent

Or well maybe dey simply fell in love with your demeanour


What do i know sha.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by KmniAutos(m): 6:34pm On Nov 19, 2024
Lol, these are very basic things, and I hope you aren't seeing this as a flex , continue destroying your life ode.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Kingosytex(m): 6:59pm On Nov 19, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
Anytime I sleep with a girl. They immediately fall in love with me and start getting attached.

Not that it is a bad thing
It's just that I just want to knack and go.
Some of them even start sleeping in my house and washing my clothes for me.

But most times it doesn't end well
Because they know my house and come unannounced then they catch me with another girl.
Heartbreak begins, but truthfully I hate causing heartbreaks.

Why me??
Asin why can't I have sex without this girls falling in love. It is becoming scary

Immediately I sleep with a girl, she start falling in love.

Bosses, please how do I handle this
3 girls have sworn for me because i broke their heart. But I never wanted relationship just knack and Go!!!
Why all these wahala of girls falling in love and getting attached to me
How do you approach them? You can't approach someone with love knowing full well you feel nothing for them.
If na Bleep you wan Bleep, explain to them from the onset; be plain. If she accepts, then good. If she doesn't, then keep moving.
I'm sure you will meet someone who wants what you want too.
You don't play with people's feelings and emotions.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Bellotelli: 6:59pm On Nov 19, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
Anytime I sleep with a girl. They immediately fall in love with me and start getting attached.

Not that it is a bad thing
It's just that I just want to knack and go.
Some of them even start sleeping in my house and washing my clothes for me.

But most times it doesn't end well
Because they know my house and come unannounced then they catch me with another girl.
Heartbreak begins, but truthfully I hate causing heartbreaks.

Why me??
Asin why can't I have sex without this girls falling in love. It is becoming scary

Immediately I sleep with a girl, she start falling in love.

Bosses, please how do I handle this
3 girls have sworn for me because i broke their heart. But I never wanted relationship just knack and Go!!!
Why all these wahala of girls falling in love and getting attached to me
Did you tell them that you just wanted a sexual relationship with no strings attached? cool
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Nobody: 7:02pm On Nov 19, 2024
CoronaVirusPro:
Probably because you don’t have a job and readily available.

If you had a job, plans and busy schedule, they automatically won’t fit-in.
For this wonderful comment, let me put our differences aside and give you this.

Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by DeeScan: 7:02pm On Nov 19, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
Anytime I sleep with a girl. They immediately fall in love with me and start getting attached.

Not that it is a bad thing
It's just that I just want to knack and go.
Some of them even start sleeping in my house and washing my clothes for me.

But most times it doesn't end well
Because they know my house and come unannounced then they catch me with another girl.
Heartbreak begins, but truthfully I hate causing heartbreaks.

Why me??
Asin why can't I have sex without this girls falling in love. It is becoming scary

Immediately I sleep with a girl, she start falling in love.

Bosses, please how do I handle this
3 girls have sworn for me because i broke their heart. But I never wanted relationship just knack and Go!!!
Why all these wahala of girls falling in love and getting attached to me
i heard, shagging a girl brings her closer to you .. if you got a girl and you ain't never shagged her , in her mind, she not your gf yet ..
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 7:07pm On Nov 19, 2024
CoronaVirusPro:
Probably because you don’t have a job and readily available.

If you had a job, plans and busy schedule, they automatically won’t fit-in.
Boy calm down, I end work by 4pm
So wtf are u talking about??

I make out time and plans for each babe
So how do dullards like you reason sef
Unto say I knack plenty girls means I'm jobless

If I'm jobless
What will you call Baltazar that was a head in anti corruption ministry.
By your dumb logic Baltazar was jobless knacking 400 girls. See how dumb u sound
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 7:10pm On Nov 19, 2024
Kingosytex:
How do you approach them? You can't approach someone with love knowing full well you feel nothing for them.
If na Bleep you wan Bleep, explain to them from the onset; be plain. If she accepts, then good. If she doesn't, then keep moving.
I'm sure you will meet someone who wants what you want too.
You don't play with people's feelings and emotions.
You think a girl will say yes to sex just like that??
Una still be small pikin for dating
So you tell a girl you want only knack and you think she won't bill you just for the knacks??
See these small children..smh

You tell her what she wants to hear
Women love lies, sweet lies will make them spread their legs wide open.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 7:11pm On Nov 19, 2024
Bellotelli:
Did you tell them that you just wanted a sexual relationship with no strings attached? cool
50/50
Sometimes I let the feelings to naturally grow and if we are still compatible then take it serious
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Kingosytex(m): 7:11pm On Nov 19, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
You think a girl will say yes to sex just like that??
Una still be small pikin for dating
So you tell a girl you want only knack and you think she won't bill you just for the knacks??
See these small children..smh

You tell her what she wants to hear
Women love lies, sweet lies will make them spread their legs wide open.
She bills you to render the service you desire, everybody goes home happy.

Women love lies like you said, then keep up with the routine. Playing with people's emotions is dangerous, some don't leave judgment to God.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 7:26pm On Nov 19, 2024
Kingosytex:
She bills you to render the service you desire, everybody goes home happy.

Women love lies like you said, then keep up with the routine. Playing with people's emotions is dangerous, some don't leave judgment to God.
well first thing first
My house is not in town area, it's in a rural area and we don't Bleep girls with money!!!
NOOOO NOOO NOOO We don't do that

97% of the girls in the place I stay will gladly collect Bleep and I give them indomie and egg. They eat feel good and go home

But the problem is instead of them to go
They start falling in love with me.
Even one of them she dey para for other neighbours, you no fit send her message, stubborn girl.
I knack her she come dey fall in love dey send me love quotes on WhatsApp
I saw her fetching water one day and I jokingly told her to fetch water for me.

To my uptmost surprise, she filled all the drums and bucket in my house. I still give am Bleep that evening.

It is usually after knacking that I notice how girls start falling in love with me.
I hate it because it puts me in a position where I have no choice than to break her heart.

The only girl that didn't do all these was a runs girl I knacked in lodge. She even block my contact after that.

But about 98% of girls I knack always end up confessing LOVE to me.
Ever since 2011 I started becoming sexually active. From the first girl they all fell in love immediately.

One girl broke up with her bf the same night after I had sex with her.
I was sleeping when I overheard her quarreling with her bf then next thing I hear is she told her bf that she has found a new guy better than him.

Omo I had to wake up from bed and go meet her to ask her what's going on. It's crazy
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op):
It is well
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by pryme(m): 7:44pm On Nov 19, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
Anytime I sleep with a girl. They immediately fall in love with me and start getting attached.

Not that it is a bad thing
It's just that I just want to knack and go.
Some of them even start sleeping in my house and washing my clothes for me.

But most times it doesn't end well
Because they know my house and come unannounced then they catch me with another girl.
Heartbreak begins, but truthfully I hate causing heartbreaks.

Why me??
Asin why can't I have sex without this girls falling in love. It is becoming scary

Immediately I sleep with a girl, she start falling in love.

Bosses, please how do I handle this
3 girls have sworn for me because i broke their heart. But I never wanted relationship just knack and Go!!!
Why all these wahala of girls falling in love and getting attached to me
All these is happening because you lie to them, you dont have the balls to tell them your intentions.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 7:47pm On Nov 19, 2024
DeeScan:
i heard, shagging a girl brings her closer to you .. if you got a girl and you ain't never shagged her , in her mind, she not your gf yet ..
I don't want girlfriend
I just want to knack but I no wan go brothel
Or pay money to knack. The girls I meet in my area are normally gen z babes, so we flow and vibe well.
Then some girls have one night stand with me and the next day they start catching feelings or asking me where is this leading to.

The worst was a babe that owns a salon, despite the fact she told me to my face that she can never have sex with guys like me.
Las las we later knack and she catch feelings so bad to the point she beg me to impregnate her so she can born and take care of the child by herself. Very crazy babe but she fine ooo and men's dey pursue her. As in Rich men ohh

I'm beginning to view sex seriously now because this one don pass play play matter.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 7:50pm On Nov 19, 2024
pryme:
All these is happening because you lie to them, you dont have the balls to tell them your intentions.
No girl will give you sex for saying the truth
Just tell them what they like to hear. Simple!!

I don't know why you guys don't know this secret. Girls are not moved by logic.
Guys like me use words to move her emotions.
Shaa that's a talk for another day
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Desusi: 7:52pm On Nov 19, 2024
Kingosytex:
How do you approach them? You can't approach someone with love knowing full well you feel nothing for them.
If na Bleep you wan Bleep, explain to them from the onset; be plain. If she accepts, then good. If she doesn't, then keep moving.
I'm sure you will meet someone who wants what you want too.
You don't play with people's feelings and emotions.
f
If this trend continue you're indirectly digging your grave,becos most of those girls carry terrible spirit.The moment you hurt them,they would not mind putting your manhood in the mouth of YEMOJA.You may never have baby in life,except divine intervention
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by pryme(m): 7:57pm On Nov 19, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
No girl will give you sex for saying the truth
Just tell them what they like to hear. Simple!!

I don't know why you guys don't know this secret. Girls are not moved by logic.
Guys like me use words to move her emotions.
Shaa that's a talk for another day
Sorry I forgot.
You only fuqk girls not women.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 8:07pm On Nov 19, 2024
pryme:
Sorry I forgot.
You only fuqk girls not women.
What do you want me to call them??
Females??

I'm not proud of fucking a married woman
But I have done it and it was after the 3rd sex that she confess love to me.
Her husband live in Lagos but she was alone at pH with her 3 kids. Tho now she don go relocate to her hubby place for Lagos.

I bleeped her even inside a bar. We did crazy things. She even confess to me say she is Bisexual meaning she likes women too.

Forget, na my conscience made me stop
Because I started feeling bad for the husband.
She dey call me almost every night we talk for hours. Omo no be by women or girls.
Female na female. But as a Jew man wey you be i dont expect you to understand. Its well
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Nobody: 8:12pm On Nov 19, 2024
Nonexisting1:
For this wonderful comment, let me put our differences aside and give you this.
Fvck you!
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Nebes: 8:35pm On Nov 19, 2024
Kingosytex:
How do you approach them? You can't approach someone with love knowing full well you feel nothing for them.
If na Bleep you wan Bleep, explain to them from the onset; be plain. If she accepts, then good. If she doesn't, then keep moving.
I'm sure you will meet someone who wants what you want too.
You don't play with people's feelings and emotions.
Not always true. I've had women crying for me even after we had proper understanding of "just knack and go". It can be really frustrating.
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by HellVictorinho9: 9:05pm On Nov 19, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
You think a girl will say yes to sex just like that??
Una still be small pikin for dating
So you tell a girl you want only knack and you think she won't bill you just for the knacks??
See these small children..smh

You tell her what she wants to hear
Women love lies, sweet lies will make them spread their legs wide open.
u guys should


quit trying to explain girls please

nobody can satisfy every girl

she may reject you from d first approach

or keep coming 4 more

even while sucking other dicks

or maybe not



then please any amount


9163989689

opay


tho 10k would mean a lot to me right now
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Officialenocent(m): 9:47pm On Nov 19, 2024
Have you ever told them you wanna 👌👈 and go while approaching them,
Do they follow money or handsome
If you use relationship approach girl they’ll fall in love or maybe you get bad cassava
Abi you Dey handle them wella 😂
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Hehehehehe: 9:49pm On Nov 19, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
I just knack this babe on Saturday
Next thing she come dey talk say she don dey catch feelings
We know your type. You act loving you for the puss.y but you start pretending after Dem give you
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 9:55pm On Nov 19, 2024
Hehehehehe:
We know your type. You act loving you for the puss.y but you start pretending after Dem give you
Speak correct English, I can't understand the jargon u wrote up there
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 10:04pm On Nov 19, 2024
Officialenocent:
Have you ever told them you wanna 👌👈 and go while approaching them,
Do they follow money or handsome
If you use relationship approach girl they’ll fall in love or maybe you get bad cassava
Abi you Dey handle them wella 😂
I don't tell women I want to Bleep straight like that.. NO.
See, women don't like direct approach for sex.
It makes them feel like LovePeddler unless na Ashawo wey she be normally only Ashawo will give you sex with direct approach only if you pay her money.

I tell them, come to my house let's chill
If Dem no want, simple I move. No stress

If she come, I make sure I entertain her
I no go even knack am the first day
Na the next time she wan come I go tell her say I go like make we knack.

Doesn't work all the time but once she agrees to visit that 2nd time. You are 1000% sure una go knack.
That's my style for getting laid nothing special
This way everything is mutual.

The issue na after the sex, they start wanting to stay longer, and basically start playing girlfriend roles for me.

I love no string attach sex
I dey fear to break woman heart
Some women fit threaten to jump out of window because of guy.

May God never put me in such situation. Amen!
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Officialmrt: 10:29pm On Nov 19, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
well first thing first
My house is not in town area, it's in a rural area and we don't Bleep girls with money!!!
NOOOO NOOO NOOO We don't do that

97% of the girls in the place I stay will gladly collect Bleep and I give them indomie and egg. They eat feel good and go home

But the problem is instead of them to go
They start falling in love with me.
Even one of them she dey para for other neighbours, you no fit send her message, stubborn girl.
I knack her she come dey fall in love dey send me love quotes on WhatsApp
I saw her fetching water one day and I jokingly told her to fetch water for me.

To my uptmost surprise, she filled all the drums and bucket in my house. I still give am Bleep that evening.

It is usually after knacking that I notice how girls start falling in love with me.
I hate it because it puts me in a position where I have no choice than to break her heart.

The only girl that didn't do all these was a runs girl I knacked in lodge. She even block my contact after that.

But about 98% of girls I knack always end up confessing LOVE to me.
Ever since 2011 I started becoming sexually active. From the first girl they all fell in love immediately.

One girl broke up with her bf the same night after I had sex with her.
I was sleeping when I overheard her quarreling with her bf then next thing I hear is she told her bf that she has found a new guy better than him.

Omo I had to wake up from bed and go meet her to ask her what's going on. It's crazy
Wake up bro....it's your indomie and egg they are in love with....most definitely not you
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by SultanOfAbia(op): 11:47pm On Nov 19, 2024
Officialmrt:
Wake up bro....it's your indomie and egg they are in love with....most definitely not you
I go break this boy head angry

Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Hehehehehe: 5:51am On Nov 20, 2024
SultanOfAbia:
Speak correct English, I can't understand the jargon u wrote up there
Fake it till u make it. Hehehehehe
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Nobody: 6:15am On Nov 20, 2024
Kingosytex:
How do you approach them? You can't approach someone with love knowing full well you feel nothing for them.
If na Bleep you wan Bleep, explain to them from the onset; be plain. If she accepts, then good. If she doesn't, then keep moving.
I'm sure you will meet someone who wants what you want too.
You don't play with people's feelings and emotions.
What are U even saying? Most girls are stubborn and never follow their instincts. Even when U make it obvious U want nothing serious they will still be chooking head inside. Even runs girls will try to personalize U if they really like U after knacking. They don't care how U treat them but how they feel and how they have fantasized about U is all that matters to them. Be like U never even jam stubborn girl that doesn't take no before. What Op is going through is just normal for any sexually active guy. I just don't understand why he had to bring it here or why he seems amazed by it
Re: Why Does This Happen After Sex With A Girl by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:46am On Nov 20, 2024
- you're good in bed
- your indomie and egg.
These are the 2 things that make them fall in love with you.
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