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Samantha125:
You're right, my English is not as good and I'm not even ashamed of it... I'm more fluent in other African languages than English and I'm proud of it...💃💃💃

And I don't get offended when someone tells me that my English is bad.

DeltaBachelor:
…..then why talk about the other person’s (Nigerian) English when yours isn’t perfect either ? Please remove the plank from your eyes, before removing a speck from his/her eyes. Shalom !!!!

skliz:
@Therock5555 check my profile I have never brought any issues online.

I have been on nairaland for probably 10 years.

If I bring an issue once in 10 years it just because I want to see things from another opinion. I already made my decisions on what to do.

Samantha125:
You're such a cry baby...🤦🤦🤦... Are you that sensitive that you can't even take a harmless joke?🤦🤦🤦

Because where I'm from, we make fun of each other's English all the time and no one ever takes offence in it, we instead laugh it off... You even just had to go biblical on me, wow!!!🤣🤣🤣

As an African, why should you be ashamed for speaking bad English?

DeltaBachelor:
There she goes again changing the narrative to suit her now. Harmless joke you say ? Anyways, since you call it a joke, let me just let it slide then. Do have a wonderful day !

Samantha125:
You're right, my English is not as good and I'm not even ashamed of it... I'm more fluent in other African languages than English and I'm proud of it...💃💃💃

And I don't get offended when someone tells me that my English is bad.

DeltaBachelor:
I don’t know where you are from , but I hope it is not S.A or Ghana, because as far as communicating in English goes, you guys are very bad communicators with foreigners, no offence . Only you guys will say something like this…..” One day, I was coming back from the market and Ugolo wen boho shushu wenkoloma before I alighted from the bus, enuku boge sina wenbisala “ God abeg o, wetin be this

Samantha125:
No, seriously, it is funny... But it wasn't my intention to offend anyone, you're the one who chose to be offended and that's not my problem.

I can speak about 7 African languages, while I understand some, even though speaking them is still a challenge... So there's no need for me to be always speaking English, I only use it when necessary.

I dey learn pidgin as well...

Antwan99:
It's called 'code mixing" in grammar. It's a linguistic tool of a bilingual.

Karleb:

DeltaBachelor:
Oga ITK, I know what it is. I am only saying it shouldn’t be used to communicate in places where there are foreigners who might be strangers to the other language. It makes communication and coherence difficult when a South African or Ghanaian does that on Facebook or Twitter, unless you want to tell me Code-mixing is only for them o. lol. Most times, FB and Google translations are not as correct as the OP, hence the need to use a more general way of communicating. That’s all Mr DJ Code(ine) Mixer

Antwan99:
The bold are Nigerian trademarks too. Name calling and denigration where not necessarily needed. It's typical of Nigerians to be polite and express themselves without being mean. You see, your country has an issue of expression which you just proved.

Therock5555:
Okay Boss, I respect what ever decision you've planned to take.


But no be my mouth you go hear am, if I was in your shoes, na the girl for open NL to ask for advice after I'm through with her.

Use this as a reminder - don't allow anybody shout for you in YOUR own house.

Your house na your safety zone, anybody wey do anyhow suppose see anyhow...

Antwan99:
It's called 'code mixing" in grammar. It's a linguistic tool of a bilingual.

DeltaBachelor:
I don’t know where you are from , but I hope it is not S.A or Ghana, because as far as communicating in English goes, you guys are very bad communicators with foreigners, no offence . Only you guys will say something like this…..” One day, I was coming back from the market and Ugolo wen boho shushu wenkoloma before I alighted from the bus, enuku boge sina wenbisala “ God abeg o, wetin be this

pansophist:
A woman you'll pay her bride price, provide for, protect, lead, and sacrifice for, acts like she's doing you a favour, and you accepted it?

The fact that she has the guts to threaten you with breakup everytime is a redline that once it has been crossed, should attract severe consequences.

Foolish women play a game of being intentionally difficult, because they think the onus is on you to keep tolerating, chasing and proving yourself , even if a man did that to the extent that his dignity is preserved.

But a wise woman understands that the real game being played is to make herself worthy enough for you to take her as your responsibility, and coordinate herself in such a way that makes such responsibility bearable for you not to leave.

A wise woman builds her home, a foolish one destroys it . Proverb 14.1

SourYoghurt:
hey Karleb, do you have to pay to use Leetcode?

Lalami3232:

The fact that you came online to seek for public validation shows you're not a man. I will be the last person on earth to seek public approval over a personal issue. Even if I want to, then I will take it to a more mature/experienced person, not dropping it on a faceless forum. But since you don bring the matter, make I give my input.
From the look of things eeh, your babe be like who get anger issues. But why live with a woman wey you never marry? But like they will always say "hear from both sides if you ever want to be a good judge".
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nation wide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooooo because non-virgins aka boreholes can't be trusted atall atall

skliz:
@ Lalami3232 hey man. I dont do public view honestly. I take decisions on my own. If you read my post. I always make it clear to her. This marriage thing is not by force. I have given her an open slate to take a decision. But the occurence is becoming too much. Any small argument. Let scatter everything. That got me wondering myself.

skliz:
So I am dating this lady and we intend getting married in January unfortunately there is this terrible signs I noticed.
Anytime there is any little misunderstanding she comes our ranting, "Let me know if this is not going to work so we scatter every thing". So I always ask a simple conversation that matured adults can seat down and resolve you end up shouting on me and telling me let scatter every thing. 99 percent of times I hear that statement, I always tell her that this is not a forced relationship or marriage. If you think you are not ok with this upcoming marriage. Kindly let me know and work away. Yesterday she came home arround 9pm which is far from close time. So I asked her when do you close in a polite way. This simple question ended up in me recieving alot of insults, shouting and let us scatter every thing, I am tired. You dont have time for me bla bla bla bla. This is someone that I am always indoor working from home 2 4 7. I run multiple jobs to ensure that I can provide and create a 5 year plan for the upcoming marriage. I explain everything to her as I make progress. Infact I am the one responsible for all her bills. I carry 100 percent financial responsibility. Honest I am just thinking.......

DeeScan:
omoh , i don miss those your stories from back when ... man , you was a legend ...


respect ..

Do you still write though??

Therock5555:
I've been trying to write but village people got my back

DeeScan:



Damn those village people....