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"Why you should marry a kind man" – Nigeria Lady shares important advice with her gender


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L06j-EFEoug?

Haaa na big advice be this oooo. Nigeria ladies should be caring too

Truths9ja:
Haaa na big advice be this oooo. Nigeria ladies should be caring too

kind man with wicked woman, that's what you found around. Those wicked gender will humiliate the kind man until they kill him. Men should always look for kind woman as well. Most Nigeria men are kind and caring but women are not, anytime the men react, they acted victims mentality. Men are the most endangered species. That woman put her husband through alot. Allow the man to speak, u will pitied him. Every kind man, must marry a kind woman. Do not settle for less.

I'd rather be a good man to the entire society than be a kind man to a woman who wouldn't be appreciative of my kindness but would instead go behind my back and call me --"maga" or her "mugu".

Poor little man . These bannies of ours don't cherish kind men....Not even for a second when the man goes broke....

Her advice is very good, but she also said that women should marry men that loves them more, when in reality those men are already in the friendzone.

I dont think people go around looking for those that loves them more, it is actually the opposite.

pansophist:
Her advice is very good, but she also said that women should marry men that loves them more, when in reality those men are already in the friendzone.

I dont think people go around looking for those that loves them more, it is actually the opposite.

Ok I change my mind. I don think am well, and I can agree that men should love women more.

If you will pay her bride price, take her as your responsibility and still find her appealing as she go through all stages of life from pregnancy to childbirth, then you better love her really well.

While you are at it.

Please do all you can to avoid ewedu munching niggas with skull mining potentials.

As a man or a woman, if you don't take your prayer life seriously you will end up with an ewedu munching scumbag claiming Lagos state as state of origin when he or she ran away from ado Ekiti or osogbo forest

Idont understand


Who wouldn't want to marry a kind person

Her own husband is poor and she prefer dating a random rich man plus freedoms.

that's good .the ladies should be kind too

In other word, marry a real SImPle man

They don't value kind man...stop wasting ur time
Most ladies end up destroying kind men
The worst thing a man can do in marriage is make his wife his friend
Your wife is not ur friend
Friends are equal
Your wife is not ur equal
Never make ur wife equal with u in anything. Never...or else u will learn the hard way
Always draw a line, a boundary she can never cross....if she crosses...deal a great penalty
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A woman should be treated like your pet.
Time for discipline, time for reward, time to withdraw attention.
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Women dont need ur unsolicited kindness....they only need and respond to leadership
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If u fail in leadership, u will pay heavily for it.
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This is also not 100 percent guaranteed she will be well behaved forever, but at least it works far better than being a pvssy who wants to always please herbwomannor thinking a woman and u are equal

JikSneh:
While you are at it.

Please do all you can to avoid ewedu munching niggas with skull mining potentials.

As a man or a woman, if you don't take your prayer life seriously you will end up with an ewedu munching scumbag claiming Lagos state as state of origin when he or she ran away from ado Ekiti or osogbo forest

It just shows how much of a dunderhead you are. If you can't see the sense in this wonderful advice, then bring your bigotry and your insecurities into it. Some people are infantile for real. They just ooze negativity wherever they go. Yuck!

Men marry a kind woman too. It actually goes both ways.

pansophist:
Ok I change my mind. I don think am well, and I can agree that men should love women more.

If you will pay her bride price, take her as your responsibility and still find her appealing as she go through all stages of life from pregnancy to childbirth, then you better love her really well.

while men should love the women they marry, if we are to pick who to love the other more, it's better for the woman to love the man more...

so men should marry a wicked woman abi


these useless gender only cares abt themselves

if u are looking fr a kind man, make sure u are also a kind woman

kindness is not gender specific

Most Ladies loves bad boys. The unkind woman would want to marry the kind man they can manipulate

Hahaha and marry a decent woman or else u will suffer.

placeofallure:
It just shows how much of a dunderhead you are. If you can't see the sense in this wonderful advice, then bring your bigotry and your insecurities into it. Some people are infantile for real. They just ooze negativity wherever they go. Yuck!

There's nothing wonderful about the advice... you all are looking for stupid men who are wealthy and careless with their money, untop of it that can tolerate and sponsor your lazy asses and promiscuous lifestyles, that's the ideal man 90% women wants... a man who provides his resources at ease without checkmating you people, SHILOH 2025 awaits many of you cus lots of men are awakening to your gender's manipulations!

You can change a man from kind to unkind if you have a bad behaviour.

Whether male or female, if your partner is lacking in kindness, you are in trouble already. Mind you, this kindness should not just be towards you only but to others aswell.
As regards her advice number 2, Does it matter who loves who more? Love starts and is sustained with a decision of committment to the wellbeing of another.
Most times when people are looking for who loves them more, they are looking for someone they can be abusive towards and the person would still try to put up with such abuse.
Love in a relationship should be that both partners are committed to the wellbeing of each other. With this there is no need to measure who loves who more as both are committed to making their partners happy and flourishing.

Yes so. She is right here. A kind man deserved a kind woman

Alright

Kind man with wicked wife.

That's why we have many men dying before age 65

PeterObi4Presid:
They don't value kind man...stop wasting ur time
Most ladies end up destroying kind men
The worst thing a man can do in marriage is make his wife his friend
Your wife is not ur friend
Friends are equal
Your wife is not ur equal
Never make ur wife equal with u in anything. Never...or else u will learn the hard way
Always draw a line, a boundary she can never cross....if she crosses...deal a great penalty
.
A woman should be treated like your pet.
Time for discipline, time for reward, time to withdraw attention.
.
Women dont need ur unsolicited kindness....they only need and respond to leadership
.
If u fail in leadership, u will pay heavily for it.
.
This is also not 100 percent guaranteed she will be well behaved forever, but at least it works far better than being a pvssy who wants to always please herbwomannor thinking a woman and u are equal

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When you are kind to a naija woman your name is saved as maga 1 in her phone

Till date, I'm still haunted by the case of the pregnant woman whose husband pocketed the millions donated for her kidney diseases and took her to a church where she eventually died

Just marry a kind partner and be a kind partner

Somebody should watch the video and tell us what she said,

What will the man get in return for being kind??

By kind do you mean a 'SIMP' ?

Meanwhile note

it is only a Nigerian girl you will see preparing for marriage and she only has #5k or less in her account

With a mind blowing milage

"Marry a man that loves you more than you do."

So you can give him bastard children and he would still forgive you.

All this brain dead content creators that want to trend, I pity the Beta simp that falls for this stupid advice, you will see premium shege.

She as she's telling the whole world her husband is a simp. Zero intelligence, zero self awareness.

The cardinal rule of relationships is that the person with the most power in a relationship is the one who needs the other the least.

The Cardinal Rule of Sexual Strategies:
For one gender’s sexual strategy to succeed the other gender must compromise or abandon their own.