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I keep reading stories about women that the only woman that love you truly is your mother.
I have read stories that investing in a lady is a waste of time and money.
I have also read that women only love you because you're a provider.
Please men In the house have you really met a lady who love you not because of your money but because of who you are.
Have you ever made an investment in a woman and never regretted it?

They take such women for granted.

Samantha125:
They take such women for granted.

Are you one of them taken for granted

All ended in former generation. All about money and benefits for this gen...

My ex was that kind of banny...

But unfortunately,I took her for granted,and now she's being mounted by an oldman old enough to be her father......

Wotoporiously speaking

Are you asking for this generation or in Nigeria?

Maybe dem dey but I can't tell

Nope.

Sirchiboy:
Are you one of them taken for granted

Yes we have them. Their love is sincere. No form of inducement. Just raw.

Finding reciprocal is almost impossible

On this journey to marriage, your waka remain 990billion miles

Yes there are... Seek God with your whole being, then ask Him for the kind of wife you really need and He'll lead you directly to her.

All women love unconditionally depending on if you are type of man FYI women don't joke with men they love because they love the butterflies you give them when they are with you.

There are women that loves genuinely. Although the younger they are, the most likely they can love selflessly. Genuine loves comes with a feature of innocence.

But usually boys takes such ladies for granted, until she lost the elasticity of her love after being burnt, and that's not the version of a woman's love you will want.

pansophist:
There are women that loves genuinely. Although the younger they are, the most likely they can love selflessly. Genuine loves comes with a feature of innocence.

But usually boys takes such ladies for granted, until she lost the elasticity of her love after being burnt, and that's not the version of a woman's love you will want.

I like your first paragraph and thatvlas sentence in particular....."genuine love comes with a feature of innocence"

They're endangered species now.....

Mryacks:
I like your first paragraph and thatvlas sentence in particular....."genuine love comes with a feature of innocence"

Yes.

Dating a younger girl comes with issues such as "natural expressions". Eg, posting you all over social media, doesn't matter if you guys just knew in a month.

Her mind is very pure, she just love, and all the novels and idea of love in her head will be poured on him. He will find himself pressing her break button, to avoid her posting or doing crazy things due to over-excitement.

She doesn't have much truckloads of emotional Baggage, or any unfinished deal with other guys, so no fear posting you, or wondering if she will spoil other romantic options if they see you.

There is no issue of exclusivity, it comes automatically. She will derive pleasure serving you, and if she cries ten times in a month, eight was probably because of him.

If she has any dependence at such age, it would be him. Her account transfer list will includes all his bank account details, and even his phone number for airtime loading.

She will revel and shines so brightly because she is in love. Love is light, and you can tell she is blossoming, glowing, and becoming.

Being loyal to him comes easy because she has no precedence of heartbreak. When he tells a lie, in her ears, it's the truth. Such innocence is also the ultimate gift a woman can give a man.

The older she grows, especially when different men have left trails of their toxicity, from breaking her heart and coming with wrong intentions, and with her analysis of the world around her, such natural expression of love dies slowly.

A man who knows this dynamic will take her very serious and seal the deal, but the foolish ones will exploit her and is ignorant of the gem he just miss.

Since she is young, her boundaries are still forming, she is not intentional in her desires, and she is like a cloud that rotates around him. He would feel like there is nothing more of her to see, since she has giving all, too soon.

It's easier to suspect a man who prefer a young woman, but in reality, he just want to avoid problems he didn't create. He wants a woman that can easily integrate into his program, which is easier if she is young.

Also, it is easier to just blame women for their inability to love, but in reality, she has once loved, was heartbroken, tried again, and the disaster even worse.

A woman's love elasticity is not infinite. If you stress it, stretch it, or punish it, it will slack, bend, or break, and when it does, it can't go back to its original form. The key is in prevention, not in repair.

Unlike before, women that love man genuinely, would preserve her body for such man alone, nowadays, lady still loves genuinely o, but but body won't be solely for him. Female too is polygamous in nature.

WE ARE IN GEN Z WORLD.

There's none , they only love you for who you can become , and if they wait and endure for too long and you are not fast becoming what they expect you to be come, then you are on your own.

Its only your mother that won't give up on you

pansophist:
Yes.

Dating a younger girl comes with issues such as "natural expressions". Eg, posting you all over social media, doesn't matter if you guys just knew in a month.

Her mind is very pure, she just love, and all the novels and idea of love in her head will be poured on him. He will find himself pressing her break button, to avoid her posting or doing crazy things due to over-excitement.

She doesn't have much truckloads of emotional Baggage, or any unfinished deal with other guys, so no fear posting you, or wondering if she will spoil other romantic options if they see you.

There is no issue of exclusivity, it comes automatically. She will derive pleasure serving you, and if she cries ten times in a month, eight was probably because of him.

If she has any dependence at such age, it would be him. Her account transfer list will includes all his bank account details, and even his phone number for airtime loading.

She will revel and shines so brightly because she is in love. Love is light, and you can tell she is blossoming, glowing, and becoming.

Being loyal to him comes easy because she has no precedence of heartbreak. When he tells a lie, in her ears, it's the truth. Such innocence is also the ultimate gift a woman can give a man.

The older she grows, especially when different men have left trails of their toxicity, from breaking her heart and coming with wrong intentions, and with her analysis of the world around her, such natural expression of love dies slowly.

A man who knows this dynamic will take her very serious and seal the deal, but the foolish ones will exploit her and is ignorant of the gem he just miss.

Since she is young, her boundaries are still forming, she is not intentional in her desires, and she is like a cloud that rotates around him. He would feel like there is nothing more of her to see, since she has giving all, too soon.

It's easier to suspect a man who prefer a young woman, but in reality, he just want to avoid problems he didn't create. He wants a woman that can easily integrate into his program, which is easier if she is young.

Also, it is easier to just blame women for their inability to love, but in reality, she has once loved, was heartbroken, tried again, and the disaster even worse.

A woman's love elasticity is not infinite. If you stress it, stretch it, or punish it, it will slack, bend, or break, and when it does, it can't go back to its original form. The key is in prevention, not in repair.

sir you are right, but most ladies like this are below 20. Ladies i know 20yrs and above are very intentional about whay they want

Sirchiboy:
I keep reading stories about women that the only woman that love you truly is your mother.
I have read stories that investing in a lady is a waste of time and money.
I have also read that women only love you because you're a provider.
Please men In the house have you really met a lady who love you not because of your money but because of who you are.
Have you ever made an investment in a woman and never regretted it?

You people conclude that women are incapable of loving but that go on to say the only women that love truly are mothers. Are mothers not women? Or where they born mothers with you in their wombs? You paint all women the same because of some bad eggs and you end up confusing yourselves and then fate brings you to end up with that thing you detest and fear so much because it has been built and imprinted in your subconscious. For whatever you think about constantly materializes into reality gradually. Never invest in anyone, man or woman without stating the clear terms and coming to a definite agreement this is the new world and not ancient times do things appropriately or end up fooling yourself. Be intentional and also ensure the other party is in line and shares same goals

Savagethe21st:
sir you are right, but most ladies like this are below 20. Ladies i know 20yrs and above are very intentional about whay they want

Most ladies who married that young tend to regret doing so later in life, as they grow older. They tend to feel that a part of their life was stolen from them by their husbands. They tend to wish they never married either the man or when they did.

There are actually.

Somehow, I believe we tend to attract the same kind of people into our lives. I can confidently say that with the kinda women have met back to back to back to back like Man city's 4-peat, no matter how horrible the dating pool is, I will keep meeting the good ones


Some would even do all they can to get you a high paying job like theirs and even facilitate your promotion in that job sef


God bless Amarachi

Sirchiboy:
I keep reading stories about women that the only woman that love you truly is your mother.
I have read stories that investing in a lady is a waste of time and money.
I have also read that women only love you because you're a provider.
Please men In the house have you really met a lady who love you not because of your money but because of who you are.
Have you ever made an investment in a woman and never regretted it?

Y'all Lucky you weren't raised by a narcissistic mother. ❤️

Sirchiboy:
Are you one of them taken for granted

Good question

Sonnobax15:

My ex was that kind of banny...

But unfortunately,I took her for granted,and now she's being mounted by an oldman old enough to be her father......

What do you mean take her for granted??

Yes, there are such women. Problem is that they may not come in a body type you like, and that's why some people may not give them the chance, instead they'll be chasing after people who wants transactional love.

If you commit it to God and pray about it, he will direct you to the right person, but please don't hurt or maltreat them. The right person doesn't mean a perfect person,but the one who will give you peace and love you the way you're.

Lastly, a woman looking for a man who can provide for her and her kids,does not mean she's a bad person. I mean how do you feel when you see a woman and her kids begging for food or money on the street.

pansophist:
There are women that loves genuinely. Although the younger they are, the most likely they can love selflessly. Genuine loves comes with a feature of innocence.

But usually boys takes such ladies for granted, until she lost the elasticity of her love after being burnt, and that's not the version of a woman's love you will want.

...women...love...
...love...comes...
...boys take...

No,they love yahoo boys

Bonab:
Yes, there are such women. Problem is that they may not come in a body type you like, and that's why some people may not give them the chance, instead they'll be chasing after people who wants transactional love.

If you commit it to God and pray about it, he will direct you to the right person, but please don't hurt or maltreat them. The right person doesn't mean a perfect person,but the one who will give you peace and love you the way you're.

Lastly, a woman looking for a man who can provide for her and her kids,does not mean she's a bad person. I mean how do you feel when you see a woman and her kids begging for food or money on the street.

very correct, they usually don't come in the containers men want. The earlier men focused on content rather than packaging, the better decisions they'd make in landing an ideal woman

Una still dey love for this T-pain regime? Una dey try oh🥹🥹

Oh boy, no woman can love a man romantically unconditionally.

Women can only love their biological children unconditionally.

Also remember that hypergamy in Women is a natural instinct. They don't have to learn it. It's just natural to them as they develop from a girl to a mature woman.

Due to this hypergamy nature, don't ever invest in a woman expecting her to be loyal to you because of that investment.

Yes,some women dey wey go love you for who you are,but before that kind woman love you for who you are,is either you dey knack her well,you dey give her advise,you are always there when she needs a shoulder,you know that type of woman no really need you to be extravagantly rich,they appreciate little things you do for them.
Make I no lie all these things wey I mention na inside movies I dey see am
I no sure say that kind woman go dey naija,especially LASIGIDI

No we don't