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| Which Woman Do I Choose by paxx(op): 2:39am On Dec 29, 2024 |
My parents want me to marry a girl that they hand picked for me from my community. Shes drop dead gorgeous and our families are perfectly coupled together. My long term gf is from a different area, and I wanted to marry her. Yes we've only been together for 2 years but I know she LOVES ME. Who should I pick? The girl my parents picked is GORGEOUS and can bring our family alot of political connections and wealth. But my long term gf is obsessed with me, and I love her. The girl my parents picked claims she loves me. but I dont know how since we dont know each other. My dad said I should give her a chance, and went as far as to say that if I marry the girl im dating he will cut me off. I ended up marry the one from my community traditionally after my long term gf aborted my child. Since I live in a different country, when I went back home to where I stay with my gf. I married her in the court house. (Yes I'm crazy) Now I have two wives and I have to divorce one. If I divorce my long time gf, she will hate me. If I divorce the one from my community traditionally I'll be in trouble in my area, and it will affect my family. What should I choose? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Omoawoke(m): 2:53am On Dec 29, 2024 |
This case has been resolved several times Divorce the one with the smallest ass.. Simple as ABC 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by paxx(op): 2:55am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Omoawoke:LMAOOOO |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by fearle55(f): 2:57am On Dec 29, 2024 |
paxx:A man still manipulated and controlled by his parents for thier selfish interests is not a man. Put your self in her shoes if the tables were reversed. All you feminine men will come here screaming and call her names but here you are indecisive and worse off living your life on your father's terms. Most of you guys are weaklings. I bet you plait hair like women too. gay boy  11 Likes |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by IfyAwazie(f): 3:06am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Ofcos you're really crazy.. You married the person wey abort ur child... Hmm ok, continue.. 1 Like |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by paxx(op): 3:33am On Dec 29, 2024 |
IfyAwazie:can u abort the child of a man who loves u 1 Like |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by IfyAwazie(f): 4:06am On Dec 29, 2024 |
paxx:.. God forbid 1 Like |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by paxx(op): 4:23am On Dec 29, 2024 |
IfyAwazie:what if u suspect he will marry someone else |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Juliearth(f): 4:49am On Dec 29, 2024 |
paxx:You can go ahead and marry the lady selected for you. I totally understand that you are a child incapable of making life-long decisions, thus your parents must be applauded for stepping in. Don't worry about your two-year relationship. Just make sure you delete your address from Karma's visiting list. Do well to watch war room before marrying your highly connected wife. Congratulations and all the best. 1 Like |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by AngelicDamsel(f): 4:54am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Confusing write up.
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| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Blitzking: 5:22am On Dec 29, 2024 |
She took hard decision aborting your child..you too take hard decision divorcing her and follow the money...Good women no dey finish. 3 Likes |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by helinues: 5:25am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Gorgeous gorgeous without getting to know her Their are so many beauties without brain 1 Like |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Oluromantic: 6:54am On Dec 29, 2024*. Modified: 5:15am On Dec 30, 2024 |
You were not supposed to marry any of them in the first place until you've resolved the issue of your family's dominance over your choice as a grown up man. That's the foundation of your problems. If that isn't settled, you'll have a big problem in future like you're already having now and it may extend to your children if care is not taken and expect bigger problems still 1 Like |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by AllBlack: 7:07am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Look for a third one with bigger boobs and giant ass than the first two. 2 Likes |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Baronthecelebri(m): 7:44am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Which of them have good character |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by drstranged: 7:47am On Dec 29, 2024 |
The girl who aborted your child made the job of choosing easier for you. God knows I can never marry a girl who deliberately aborts my child, never. |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by IfyAwazie(f): 9:35am On Dec 29, 2024 |
paxx:... Say NO to abortion |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by marlow1962(m): 9:44am On Dec 29, 2024 |
What will make a lady abort the pregnancy of a guy she claims to love? Guy use ur tongue count your teeth. Abortion is a deal breaker for me( no matter how e be or what caused it). Secondly, you don't want to be at war with your family. Nobody will love u more than your family. Thirdly, think about the future. Ask questions before you leap, to avoid had I known. Happy Sunday 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Kimo21(m): 9:49am On Dec 29, 2024 |
paxx:Your post is the reason why your parents even chose for you….because you as a man don’t even know what you want for yourself. Imagine coming online to ask this silly question. Do what pleases you. |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by gunners160(m): 9:56am On Dec 29, 2024 |
paxx: |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Babangidapikin: 10:38am On Dec 29, 2024 |
Okay you need to face your reality and ask yourself one simple question, if your life went south, who among them would stay by you. Don't look at shinying objects, then don't last ..look at geniuness ...just carry a loyalty test ... 2 Likes |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Tallesty1(m): 12:00pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
Who else feels like hi-fiving this guy with a chair? |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by princefrank76: 1:00pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
A confused man. Enjoy your situation alone You didn't consult any of us before you made the foolish decision. Don't come and add to my anger today I doubt the authenticity of this story sha! Because who take such decisions without thinking about the possible outcome. 1 Like |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Yaiba: 3:57pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
You’re one STVPID idiot bastard devil fool Your STVPID pathetic putrid bastard shit eating demon of a LovePeddler BAs TARD idiot mother will rot and di.e with your STVPID pathetic foolish existence Fvcking STVPID idiot bastard devil bastard animal idiot bastard Blitzking: |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Fenrir(m): 4:05pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
fearle55:Perfectly said Bleep what your parents want They will forgive you in the end Marry the one that loves you and respects you That goes for the wedding too Her parents don't need to like you as a man Just how you treat her and you make her happy Your life Her life Your future Her future Your happiness Her happiness Your woman Her man So your decision And her decision And Bleep what anyone else says Your family won't be around forever and at some point your happiness has to come first 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Fenrir(m): 4:18pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
fearle55:Fathers in Nigeria are nothing but bullies and with bullies you have 3 options 1) shut up and take it like the bitch You are 2) learn to run but you learn to run fast because you'll be running forever 3) be a man and stand up for yourself 1 good blow to a glass jaw changes everything Most men are big not hard and mostly it's little men with big egos |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by ashawopikin(m): 5:24pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
paxx:which one get the biggest nyaash? |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Blitzking: 5:31pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
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| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Blitzking: 5:32pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
Yaiba:Are you male or female? Wetin I do? E pain you? |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Fiscus105(m): 6:03pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
paxx:I guess you are asking from who will always be referee whenever, two of you want to play bedmatic game. Still doesn't know, why someone who is mature to marry will be asking unseen multitude, the woman that she plans to be leaving with. |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Skippyvibes(m): 6:23pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
Marry both but don't let them live together in same house with you make war no go dey |
| Re: Which Woman Do I Choose by Gadafii: 7:29pm On Dec 29, 2024 |
Who asked you divorce any of them  Is this not a win win situation for everyone. As long as you can sustain it, you are free to marry two or more, ask Alhaji Ned. |
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