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Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by bixton(m): 12:13pm On Jan 01, 2025
CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done pass. Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already admire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum huh
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil
This your personal experience is from the angle of an unbeliever unbelieving christian.
Give your life to Jesus Christ.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by MyExpression(m): 12:13pm On Jan 01, 2025
Nifemy4:
any small thing , focus on making money. you better Bleep while hustling too. you wey focus , how much you worth
I swear I don even tell God say this 2025, I go bleep...or start real r/ship with whoever I bleep...but, bleep I must this year...coz was d hell happened last year...all the energy directed to work...yet seems I'm still not going fast enough.
I wan carry woman along jare.

Still double the hustle...this time, with a partner.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Carndidlaydid(f): 12:14pm On Jan 01, 2025
MyExpression:
Candidlady?
Dem ban your other account ni?
yeah my other account was sent on a very long eternal ban

Well, if you're not a man, don't talk bout manhood.
so since iam not a man iam not allowed to talk bout manhood guess that is one of the reasons we dont have male gynecologist undecided



...and stop normalising Masturbation.

I don't know how normal it is for you ladies, but it is not a general phenomenon for all men.
and what do you mean by me normalizing mastubation? lipsrsealed

idont undertsand you last paragraph
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by AlphaHakimi: 12:14pm On Jan 01, 2025
Sex is just like every other urge/need of a human body. The urge to sleep, to eat, to drink etc are all the same.

Men/women need sex as often as they want to just like nobody will purposely deprive themselves of sleep, or food or water. The problem is that alot of people secretly satisfy their sexual urge and come openly to condemn others. This is why I advocate for masturbation when you can't have sex.

Masturbation helps you to make good judgement.

Shalom.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by DaddyCoool(f): 12:14pm On Jan 01, 2025
BigDawsNet:
You focus, focus still you no get money reach Elon musk gateman… so abeg as una Dey focus, Dey change oil oh

God bless
But Elon was bleeping all over the place on his way to richest man. He has like a 12 kids with 4 women!
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Free2Fly: 12:15pm On Jan 01, 2025
CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done pass. Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already admire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum huh
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil
Don't generalize things about all men with your yeye personal experience
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Sermwell(m): 12:15pm On Jan 01, 2025
Cogs:
You are a respectable man OP, you can be far greater than you are right now, if only you would focus your energy on producing value, rather than producing cum.

Just one month and all these is happening to you? You're talking about fornication like it's a thing of pride and you're looking forward to it?

Please, this year, be determined to be a much more prosperous person.

If I were you, I will read the books of Proverbs 7, and see what will most likely be my future if I continue in this dirty act of fornication.

Cheers buddy 🥂
Religious bigots with their brainless approach to issues!! Instead of handing out some practical tips that might help him, you're here quoting Proverbs! grin cheesy
What if he is not a Christian? How does that help him?
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by ConDawah: 12:16pm On Jan 01, 2025
duduade:
Fix your mind on making money
Seriously?
Do you actually know the unsaid desires of every normal man?
People get up in the morning to work for some reasons. For young people, to impress and sleep with extremely beautiful women is one of the reasons. They might not want to admit it, but it's the hidden desire of every man, irrespective of financial status, to sleep with every beautiful women in the world.
So after hustling and getting the bag, what next? undecided
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by DaddyCoool(f): 12:16pm On Jan 01, 2025
Free2Fly:
Don't generalize things about all men with your yeye personal experience
Please tell him. With some people sex urge disappears after being celibate for a while
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Harddiskng(m): 12:22pm On Jan 01, 2025
DaddyCoool:
Tell me what? 100% certain he doesn't masturbate or see anyone else. Somehow sex is not naturally part of his make-up - he has to be reminded of sex
Lmao 🤣

I would only give you this piece of advice, however you know the saying you can force a horse to the river but you can’t force it to drink water.

Make sure your boyfriend or intended husband truly has low libido just like yourself. Sexual incompatibility is real, cuz one-day for whatever reasons you might get the idea of faking it throughout a relationship; so you can get married.

If you marry a sexually incompatible partner lol. Don’t think it is just to deny him sex, you would know how to spell “unhappiness” in different languages.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by MyExpression(m): 12:24pm On Jan 01, 2025
Carndidlaydid:
yeah my other account was sent on a very long eternal ban.

So since I am not a man I'm not allowed to talk bout manhood guess that is one of the reasons we dont have male gynecologist undecided

and what do you mean by me normalizing mastubation? lipsrsealed

idont undertsand you last paragraph
Show me a man that can live without se,x or SELF-SERVICE.

You really believe every young man out there masturbates every night...weekly...monthly?

We can live without these for a while...atleast, till marriage.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jan 01, 2025
Delightsome2023:
You're right about the wey dream part.
Even masturbators who stopped masturbating for weeks do witness wet dreams
It's now spiritual problem for una
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by laivwire(m): 12:30pm On Jan 01, 2025
Its okay to be religious but the truth is men anatomically need to shed that load from time to time. The only ways to conquer the urge is either through a strong mindset or hormonal imbalance.

If you don't deliver the package, especially when you are used to making such trips, your mind will hardly focus. This is why self service and sex usually make men relax/sleep. Its a need, not a want for mature human males.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Flamezreal(m): 12:30pm On Jan 01, 2025
shortgun:
Oga go and marry
Marriage can't solve lack of pain any. You might be married and still be staffed. Ask married men and you'll be marveled at the number of sexually starved married men.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by MyExpression(m):
AlphaHakimi:
Sex is just like every other urge/need of a human body. The urge to sleep, to eat, to drink etc are all the same.

Men/women need sex as often as they want to just like nobody will purposely deprive themselves of sleep, or food or water. The problem is that alot of people secretly satisfy their sexual urge and come openly to condemn others. This is why I advocate for masturbation when you can't have sex.

Masturbation helps you to make good judgement.

Shalom.
Stop advocating Masturbation.
Advocate for Discipline instead.

Ask your masturbating protégé if they really want to be doing that.

At some point, you don't want to do, but like other addictions, you still find yourself doing it.
When you cum that's when you'll come back to your senses
You cum and become weak...and experience brain fatigue.
It's no longer normal.


Maybe there's a healthy dose of Masturbation, I don't know...but as long as you keep doing what you do not want to keep doing, it is a problem to fix...not one to embrace.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by zombieHUNTER: 12:34pm On Jan 01, 2025
Carndidlaydid:
show me a guy who has stayed without sex for a year and id show how built one of his hands must be(thanks to selfservicing)
lies
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Proudlyngwa(m): 12:36pm On Jan 01, 2025
zombieHUNTER:
This is the summary of his problem

Guys stay without sex for years and they don't feel all this stuff he's yapping about
Dont worry when you get blueballs, you will know how far.

Just thank God you don't have it yet
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Proudlyngwa(m): 12:38pm On Jan 01, 2025
MyExpression:
Show me a man that can live without se,x or SELF-SERVICE.

You really believe every young man out there masturbates every night...weekly...monthly?

We can live without these for a while...atleast, till marriage.
If you don't mastubarte or have sex, the thing must find means to come out, even through urine, otherwise you have a medical problem
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Nifemy4(m): 12:40pm On Jan 01, 2025
MyExpression:
I swear I don even tell God say this 2025, I go bleep...or start real r/ship with whoever I bleep...but, bleep I must this year...coz was d hell happened last year...all the energy directed to work...yet seems I'm still not going fast enough.
I wan carry woman along jare.

Still double the hustle...this time, with a partner.
. my brother , knack ooo . i don call precious now she don enter bolt dey come. make we knack ourself till one person bone break. suceess is not by power or might o. na who universe chose to favour.

uni days for lasu, naso they say mk we no knack o mk we read book. i knack like mad . i still finish with 4.38.. all the ones wey no knack stilll finish below me. as you dey hustle. ensure you knack well well. it will make you understand women better and in turn you will become a better husband.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Maj196(m): 12:40pm On Jan 01, 2025
I swear OP na true oo, I want to reduce pu**y time this year so help me God.
E no easy oo ... Thunder fire konji
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Nifemy4(m): 12:41pm On Jan 01, 2025
MyExpression:
Stop advocating Masturbation.
Advocate for Discipline instead.

Ask your masturbating protégé if they really want to be doing that.

At some point, you don't want to do, but like other addictions, you still find yourself doing it.
When you cum that's when you'll come back to your senses
You cum and become weak...and experience brain fatigue.
It's no longer normal.

swear with your life say you never self-service in the last 30 days .. say make motor jam you . if e sure for you


Maybe there's a healthy dose of Masturbation, I don't know...but as long as you keep doing what you do not want to keep doing, it is a problem to fix...not one to embrace.
You c
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Osanoghodua1: 12:45pm On Jan 01, 2025
It's all demonic, go for prayers.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Letmecum: 12:49pm On Jan 01, 2025
Carndidlaydid:
show me a guy who has stayed without sex for a year and id show how built one of his hands must be(thanks to selfservicing)
grin na female write this kind think grin Kolo
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by ofuonyebi: 12:49pm On Jan 01, 2025
honestly...poverty is a curse...
get money...ego and get yourself out of Shilo
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Loveenthed: 12:55pm On Jan 01, 2025
CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done pass. Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already admire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum huh
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil
Combination of SAPA & Spiritual Ailments😂

I don't stay long on this kind of Threads.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by bluefilm: 12:56pm On Jan 01, 2025
CandyOps:
So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done pass. Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already admire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum huh
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil
If it is that bad with you, why don't you go and toss off on xvideos?
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by BigDawsNet: 1:00pm On Jan 01, 2025
DaddyCoool:
But Elon was bleeping all over the place on his way to richest man. He has like a 12 kids with 4 women!
And with that.. he no stop ham from becoming the world richest 😁😁😁
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by xandy84: 1:02pm On Jan 01, 2025
Money ain't everything. Go make money and you will realize there are more important things than money.







duduade:
Fix your mind on making money
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:04pm On Jan 01, 2025
Well, if u have ever tasted sex, abstaining from it for a longer period of time can easily come with its side effects, which is wetin una dey pinpoint here...

I can't relate, though...

Cos in a week, I dey fvck like 2 or 3 girls, depending on my mood and I fit go 3 rounds on one of dem girls...

I don't think I can practice any celibacy at all...

Even during our Ramadan period, I get one FWB wey dey always visit me twice in a week and only in the evening and we dey fvck ourselves well well...

Una dey try going one week without pussy...

When no be say I am sick... I fit get stroke if I try am...
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by MyExpression(m): 1:07pm On Jan 01, 2025
Proudlyngwa:
If you don't mastubarte or have sex, the thing must find means to come out, even through urine, otherwise you have a medical problem
Ok, this is correct...but happens like within 3 months interval...I was shocked and confused the first time I noticed it.
Re: What Happened To Me After 1 Month Of Abstaining From Sex by Mimiranky: 1:12pm On Jan 01, 2025
This one just dey develop stroke, him no know... If stroke never hold one person wey dey abstain from sex, the rest no go get sense
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