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November24:
You married your mother spiritual leader.
That was exactly what the spirit told Me now.

Your wife is your mother's mother spiritually.
If you like listen,if you like keep whinning, you are in the fattening room.

Please kindly enlighten me more. There's nothing I complain about my wife that my mom listens to or support me.

flokii:
Maybe she got the infections from toilets and improper hygiene.. you know the female body is more prone to infections than males.
She should have gone for test and treatment before getting close to you the spouse.

@OP You both better submit yourselves to any government hospital for proper treatment.. they have to treat you both if not, the both of you will keep infecting one another everytime you meet.

She prob got it from her university toilet. We both treated the first one UTI(she infected me) and did another test to confirm it was no more. Was shocked to see her feeling sick again after sometime. Took her to the hospital again and discovered it was an infection. Treated it and now I'm also infected. Our sex is like once in a whole month.

And for those saying I'm telling lies.....I don't know how else to prove it to you.

And for those saying they need to hear from the other side.....you're right but I can assure you, she will accept I'm a nice man. No one blows his trumpet though

REALretep:
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You should get God involved to help you...if you can
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He turned deaf ears towards me since I was young, but I still pray to him though

FutureFocus:
Op problem are entirely different

Below are his real concerns and I finds them valid,


Nobody want a dummy as a wife, nobody want a door mat as wife, he said a village girl because an average Unilag or Lasu graduate is already an entrepreneur before graduation by default, compared to their counterparts who may just bunch of crammed formulas and unpracticalized theories

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wjxavier:
Don’t you have a father

He's late

purples25:
In the sense that her mentality might not have changed even with her education. That's actually possible. But if the story is true, let him let her go. It's so painful for someone who married you to be talking as if devil tied both of you together. They can separate since there are no children yet.

That's the problem. She doesn't want to go. Like she's ready to die here

emmyileri:
Where are you guys getting treatment from. Go to a specialist hospital or general hospital. What you're facing isn't new. The big problem is that love is not existing in your marriage which you need to work on

You cannot force love. It happens naturally

Nlandmodesfku:
Things aren't adding up. A master's degree holder who's still a virgin?
I don't believe you.

Honestly, I married her a virgin. She was a BSC holder when we got married, then she started the masters while married. I once asked if no guy ever wooed her in school, but she refused to answer. Even ugly girls gets d1cked in the university

Tekuzukite:
First of all, I don't feel this is a thing you should really exposed this way.
Secondly, if your wife is really as you claim, it might be an issue of hygiene. What did the doctor say?

The first was UTI

frozen70:
Seat your mum down and let her know what you are passing through and the emotional effect on you

She knows. She sees my every day tears. She just doesn't care. I'm just a sacrificial lamb. I've accepted my fate

egobetter4me:
She probably got it from her university toilet. We both treated the first one(she infected me) and did another test to confirm it was no more. Was shocked to see her feeling sick again after sometime. Took her to the hospital again and discovered it was an infection. Treated it and now I'm also infected. Our sex is like once in a whole month.

And for those saying I'm telling lies.....I don't know how else to prove it to you.

And for those saying they need to hear from the other side.....you're right but I can assure you, she will accept I'm a nice man. No one blows his trumpet though

You guys should return to a good hospital, get tested and treated again. Afterwards, hot wash your clothings and beddings and stay off sex until resolved.

Also, stay off MouthAction as saliva could cause it too if you don't clean up afterwards.

Finally, if you are truly unhappy in the marriage and your partner is unwilling to divorce you....you can completely relocate to unknown states/countries. Life is too short to live in this kind of frustration. Last last your mom will learn to never matchmake unwilling people.

sisisioge:
You guys should return to a good hospital, get tested and treated again. Afterwards, hot wash your clothings and beddings and stay off sex until resolved.

Also, stay off MouthAction as saliva could cause it too if you don't clean up afterwards.

Finally, if you are truly unhappy in the marriage and your partner is unwilling to divorce you....you can completely relocate to unknown states/countries. Life is too short to live in this kind of frustration. Last last your mom will learn to never matchmake unwilling people.

Thanks. Relocation is what I'm looking at. It means I'm starting afresh

egobetter4me:
Thanks. Relocation is what I'm looking at. It means I'm starting afresh

We all start afresh all the time. It is well my brother.

egobetter4me:
He turned deaf ears towards me since I was young, but I still pray to him though

[color=indigo] I don't know what transpired between you and Him, but you are actually the one that needs Him.
Make concerted efforts to enkindle/rekindle the relationship and He may turn His ears towards you and help you sort your problems.
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egobetter4me:
Thanks. Relocation is what I'm looking at. It means I'm starting afresh

Before you relocate, if you truly intend to end the marriage, cut all ties after calling elders as witnesses. You will explain what has been happening and your mom's behavior before you suddenly relocate.

egobetter4me:
Please kindly enlighten me more. There's nothing I complain about my wife that my mom listens to or support me.

I'm so sorry bro.
Right now,not much can be done,it battle is entirely spiritual.
I'm so busy with work now,just be prayerful and get friends praying with you

November24:
Goodmorning.
I just saw your message.


Give Me tonight, tomorrow I will be tell you here

I see that you couldn't come up with anything from your visions.

Maybe that's why you kept away. Alright then.

egobetter4me:
She prob got it from her university toilet. We both treated the first one UTI(she infected me) and did another test to confirm it was no more. Was shocked to see her feeling sick again after sometime. Took her to the hospital again and discovered it was an infection. Treated it and now I'm also infected. Our sex is like once in a whole month.

And for those saying I'm telling lies.....I don't know how else to prove it to you.

And for those saying they need to hear from the other side.....you're right but I can assure you, she will accept I'm a nice man. No one blows his trumpet though

Mr nice guy! We have heard. My question is how do we know that it wasn't you throwing off her Ph balance! Some men are DIRTY! They don't wash their stinking balls and go around spreading the unthinkable and then blame women for reaching to their disease. My friend! Wash your ass and your girl won't get 'toilet' disease every month she deals withyou. Spits

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

So your dirty aaah forgets to wash his hands, wash his aaah, and clean his mouth but the poor virgin village girl that his village mum forced him to marry is the reason he's sick instead of the obvious fact that he picks his nose, his ass, and scratches his balls all day every day. Okay we heard you.

Allthingswork:
I see that you couldn't come up with anything from your visions.

Maybe that's why you kept away. Alright then.

It's not competition.
I have nothing to prove

Sorry, I just want somebody to help me with good Christian name or Good name with mean for a Boy and Girl child

November24:
It's not competition.
I have nothing to prove

never said it was competition , did i??
just remove pride or ego and admit to not knowing how to genuinely see hidden things about random people , via visions or dreams. Not trial and error .

Allthingswork:
never said it was competition , did i??
just remove pride or ego and admit to not knowing how to genuinely see hidden things about random people , via visions or dreams. Not trial and error .

The pride was me saying I will tell you,it' doesn't work like that.
Again I have nothing to prove to you human

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

If you are tired, please quit now.... Don't get pressured into something that won't give you satisfaction....

November24:
The pride was me saying I will tell you,it' doesn't work like that.
Again I have nothing to prove to you human

Enjoy yourself dear. No pressure , no contest . Best wishes .