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Knelsoon:
If someone has 2 wives, does it sound strange to have sex (2some) together

Eyinju112:
Na the first wife I Dey pity 😂😂😂 I’m pretty sure the second wife won’t see anything bad in that because anyone who is comfortable marrying someone’s husband can do so many shit. It’s better to leave a crazy marriage than allow my husband and second wife trample on my dignity. An independent woman can never accept polygamy, Na hunger and long throat fit make you embrace polygamy. Check well, women in polygamous marriages are mostly lazy housewives and dependent women.

Blitzking:
Your comment made me remember ooni of Ife.. his wife are educated and powerful women..not just beauty and they choose to be no 3 4 5.

Knelsoon:
If someone has 2 wives, does it sound strange to have sex (2some) together

Eyinju112:
Na the first wife I Dey pity 😂😂😂 I’m pretty sure the second wife won’t see anything bad in that because anyone who is comfortable marrying someone’s husband can do so many shit. It’s better to leave a crazy marriage than allow my husband and second wife trample on my dignity. An independent woman can never accept polygamy, Na hunger and long throat fit make you embrace polygamy. Check well, women in polygamous marriages are mostly lazy housewives and dependent women.

otherway:
Who is this immature human being?

Ladies far better, finer, more educated and sophisticated than you are becoming co-wives every minute.

I'm sure you have been terribly used by many men yet you will be looking for a faithful man

Eyinju112:
Na the first wife I Dey pity 😂😂😂 I’m pretty sure the second wife won’t see anything bad in that because anyone who is comfortable marrying someone’s husband can do so many shit. It’s better to leave a crazy marriage than allow my husband and second wife trample on my dignity. An independent woman can never accept polygamy, Na hunger and long throat fit make you embrace polygamy. Check well, women in polygamous marriages are mostly lazy housewives and dependent women.

AfeezShomorin:
Who told you that it's lazy women that embrace polygamy?

Where did you hear that lie?

Eyinju112:
A woman who loves her husband will never share him. Then if she’s sharing, know there are reasons behind it other than love. Shalom

Remijuice:
Love?
Women are not created to love men. It's there even in the bible, that's the man's job.

Women only truly, love their offspring and pet.
Any other love she claim to have for a man, she no wetin she dey do...

Eyinju112:
I do not agree. I understand you might not have tasted true love from a woman, so my darling, speak for yourself. Women are Mumu when they are in love. I once loved one dude years ago. I can tell you it was real love, because I was the one spending in that relationship, dude never gave me 1 kobo. I would visit him, buy foodstuffs , cook, clean and all, Because I couldn’t open my legs then, dude left me for a lady who was willing to open her legs. The betrayal I felt then broke me into pieces. I promised not to love anyone but I was lying to myself. I kept loving and loving and still loving.
Even the bible mentioned Ruth who loved her husband till death. So don’t think every lady coming your way don’t love you, that mentality won’t give you a happy home. Love and be opened to be loved. Have a blessed day.

Eyinju112:
Na the first wife I Dey pity 😂😂😂 I’m pretty sure the second wife won’t see anything bad in that because anyone who is comfortable marrying someone’s husband can do so many shit. It’s better to leave a crazy marriage than allow my husband and second wife trample on my dignity. An independent woman can never accept polygamy, Na hunger and long throat fit make you embrace polygamy. Check well, women in polygamous marriages are mostly lazy housewives and dependent women.

Nadingo:
What would you say about Samia Suluhu Hassan, the Tanzanian President who has 2 co-wives and is still in the marriage? Is she hungry abi na long throat dey do am abi she fall amongst your classification of lazy women? All these NL small girls go just dey open mouth waaaa...

PantShifter:
I hope you have learnt to open your legs now, no be English grammar we go chop

Eyinju112:
Na the first wife I Dey pity 😂😂😂 I’m pretty sure the second wife won’t see anything bad in that because anyone who is comfortable marrying someone’s husband can do so many shit. It’s better to leave a crazy marriage than allow my husband and second wife trample on my dignity. An independent woman can never accept polygamy, Na hunger and long throat fit make you embrace polygamy. Check well, women in polygamous marriages are mostly lazy housewives and dependent women.

Eyinju112:
I do not agree. I understand you might not have tasted true love from a woman, so my darling, speak for yourself. Women are Mumu when they are in love. I once loved one dude years ago. I can tell you it was real love, because I was the one spending in that relationship, dude never gave me 1 kobo. I would visit him, buy foodstuffs , cook, clean and all, Because I couldn’t open my legs then, dude left me for a lady who was willing to open her legs. The betrayal I felt then broke me into pieces. I promised not to love anyone but I was lying to myself. I kept loving and loving and still loving.
Even the bible mentioned Ruth who loved her husband till death. So don’t think every lady coming your way don’t love you, that mentality won’t give you a happy home. Love and be opened to be loved. Have a blessed day.

Fiscus105:
I don't know, if you have heard it before, first wife asked his husband to marry another woman join her.
A woman was interviewed in Ekiti on TELEVISION several years ago, she was the one, who asked his husband to marry her closest friend.

So, stop generalising your own personal opinions.

Eyinju112:
Which country did this one happen? Gambia? Lol. Because if you wanna tell me this happened in Nigeria then jokes on you. The only reason a Nigeria woman would willingly tell her husband to marry a second wife is if she’s barren. She might pity her husband especially when she confirms she’s the problem. It’s normal and wise for her to implore her husband to marry a second wife. It is cultural believed by yorubas that children bring more children, she might be hoping that her paving way for her husband to get a co-wife and they bearing children might open the way of child bearing for her. And sometimes there are selfish ones that immediately they give birth through that process, because truly that process sometimes work, they begin to envy the Co-wife because she has the heir, and then problem begins in the household.

Fiscus105:
You didn't open your legs, yet you claimed to have true love for him?

Guy that never sleeps with you, you claimed shattered your heart?

Guy you didn't want to open your legs for, left you and you still rant betrayal?(meanwhile, you latter opened the same legs for another dudes)


You promised never to love again,but keep on loving and meeting disappointment?

Indeed,you are a complicated creature

Eyinju112:
Lol, so true love revolves around sex to you? Hahaha, your mentality is weird. You sound so much like a person who has never being in love. Love that will turn you into a complete fool, love that can make you a slave to it. Someone hurt you and you feel like you need to walk away and the next day you coincidentally meet the person with his bended knees apologizing then you forgive. This process can go on a 100 times until you find someone to drag you out of that bondage. True Love can’t be controlled, it’s a beautiful thing but at the same time the most dangerous thing. If you can’t relate what I just said to what happened to me please rest. Don’t quote me anymore.

Fiscus105:
As I said, stop thinking, your choice is the choice of the whole universe, and I can from your life story, that's why you are having relationship problems.

Life too complex than how you think of, anyway if you are still below 25, you may not understand.

Fiscus105:
I read ur first paragraph, I quickly left wen I noticed irregular personality trait........ as you claimed, " love that would completely turn you to fool, yet, you were not fool enough to open your legs, for the person, you love so dearly"?

You are the type, that allowing all these forum teenage to label a woman as gender who doesn't know what they want.



Any lady that claim to love a man so much and yet not willing to sleep with her, she only deceiving herself, infact, she needs psychologist

Eyinju112:
My upbringing might be the problem. I am a Jehovah’s Witness and we believe in sex after marriage. If I have sex before marriage, I have fornicated. And there is a huge punishment for that in the congregation and in my family. They all gonna disassociate from me including my family because I’m stained and i should be immediately removed from the congregation so I don’t pollute it. Yeah!!! I couldn’t forfeit my love for God, my family and the congregation. I love those 3 things and I watch them stand while I watch my romance life sink. I have no regret so far.

Eyinju112:
I do not agree. I understand you might not have tasted true love from a woman, so my darling, speak for yourself. Women are Mumu when they are in love. I once loved one dude years ago. I can tell you it was real love, because I was the one spending in that relationship, dude never gave me 1 kobo. I would visit him, buy foodstuffs , cook, clean and all, Because I couldn’t open my legs then, dude left me for a lady who was willing to open her legs. The betrayal I felt then broke me into pieces. I promised not to love anyone but I was lying to myself. I kept loving and loving and still loving.
Even the bible mentioned Ruth who loved her husband till death. So don’t think every lady coming your way don’t love you, that mentality won’t give you a happy home. Love and be opened to be loved. Have a blessed day.