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Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by MrDoGood(m): 11:19pm On Jan 08, 2025
Another rubbish
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Helpout12345: 11:25pm On Jan 08, 2025
Everyone is complaining the guy wrote rubbish.

But the truth is that dating to marry in western countries is very complicated.

And yes, from the streets, he is right that konji is killing most women in western countries. If you are in doubt, go and research how much intimacy gadget industry is worth in these western countries. Most of the customers of intimacy gadgets are the women.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Helpout12345: 11:37pm On Jan 08, 2025
And yes, most men in western countries are also lonely and suffering from Konji.

You can also check into how much western men spend on online subscriptions to watch naked women.

Women spend alot on intimacy gadgets and men spend heavily on watching naked women online to masturbate.

If they are sexually satisfied generally, both men and women will not be spending heavily on intimacy gadgets and naked women websites like Onlyfans.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by YemyTemmy: 12:02am On Jan 09, 2025
madone:
Osahon i dont understand the last two paragraph
Didnt you do economics in Secondary school
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by dozymars(m): 12:07am On Jan 09, 2025
When will you kids discuss and deliberate on more important matters?
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Brilliancepower: 12:20am On Jan 09, 2025
Gerrard59:
As Ednut stated, getting sex isn't hard for a Nigerian woman regardless of where she resides. In fact, this applies to ALL women. In the Nigerian case for those in the abroad, the men are even in dire need of sex than the women. The preek of the average Nigerian man, regardless of location, is the cheapest commodity to get.

There's a reason why compared to men, women are demisexual. It's men that need sex more than women due to excess testosterone and more so for black men as prostrate cancer would be prevented.
Masturbation prevents prostrate cancer. If you store sperm without discharging for a long period of time, it changes colour, from white to light brown, from there it starts forcing itself when you take a leak. So it has to leave so that new sperm can come in.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by descarado: 12:22am On Jan 09, 2025
easytig:
It's easy to see a successful black man settle with a white lady,but it's hard to see a successful white man settle with a black lady.
That why I respect the Indians, everywhere they go ,they only settle down with dem selves.

Any matured Nigerian single lady that travel to find spouse in UK is just a slowpoke,that is jumping from frying pan to fire.ashewo is not even lucrative in developed countries,if you like naked for road dey waka, nobody go send you.
English ladies no send black guys. EU, few yes but English, nah.
Them fit use you father a baby but refuse to put your name on child's birth cert therefore denying you fatherhood right. Unless you wan carry them go court.
They just wanted a sperm donor. A colleague successfully this this. Shame no gree the man, tendered resignation letter this Xmas.

But we noticed a very big thing. The moment the said lady announced she is pregnant by a black man on her page, her people hated her with deep passion that left us shocked. All turned their back on her. Some( as we all know who the father is), boldly said they can't wait to see the colour of the child. A black child( giggles) and this is to my presence.

I have said it here b4, a black man is a source of sexual fantasy to white ladies so they will want to sample and end it there or share you around.
That is all. They will look for another cheerful giver.

It's easier for a white man to settle with black woman than the opposite.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Tradepunter2: 12:28am On Jan 09, 2025
2cribz:
Alaye work hard and speak for yourself .ypur giy,my cousin.u are so ashamed to talk abt yourself no achievement. U empty.
Fuc k off looser
Hahhahaha e pain you.... Why is it still painfulhuh eeeya pele
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by jaxxy(m): 12:40am On Jan 09, 2025
I hate to admit it but the op is right especially in the UK and not just Nigerian girls but all except for girl with good manners and self control.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Enskynelson(m): 12:44am On Jan 09, 2025
uche87:
I remember in Festac Town (Lagos State), in 2016, when a neighbour claimed he accidentally slept with the new female tenant. "We did it on this chair" he pointed with a grin on his face. "I swear I never expected it. She was crazy and she looked so innocent" he whispered in the ears of whoever cared to listen. Putting this in perspective, the weather temperature was just 22 degrees Celsius. This is the typical weather for two in Nigeria. It normally sends the social media into frenzy, with all manner of romantic memes flying around.

At this point, the telephone lines of some 'hospitality workers' popularly known as 'runs girls' start reading 'number busy' or 'switched off'. This is because the prodigal men with hot waists are on their trail, thereby driving up demand. My neighbour's experience of being gifted the cookie on a platter of gold, is not an isolated one. During the rainy season, harmattan and COVID lockdown, there were so many similar experiences. Acclaimed male best besties who have 'fattened the pigs' easily reaped the fruits of their labour.

The women who failed such tests of cold weather and loneliness in Nigeria are performing woefully in the UK where the conditions are worse. With the weather condition averaging between 3 and 5 degrees Celsius mostly, some women are being smoked out of their houses by increased sexual appetite. Life here is also extremely lonely. People hardly mix, they tend to overwork and forget living their normal lives. Also, many immigrants tend to be buying into the culture of individualism associated with the West.

Everybody suspects strangers. The implication of this is that you could either date online or take the highroad of workplace romance. In my opinion, office romance is like playing the Russian Roulette. Before you know it, someone who has never met you, will know the exact strands of pubic hair you have. This is because people kiss and tell.

In the UK, independent women who are doing well financially and career-wise abound. But society is infested with men who are scared of them. Their fears are very valid though. These men just want to have them for the moment, like an AirBnB.
With the chilly weather, loneliness, and unsatisfactory toys, most women tend to let their guards down when they meet interested men. And they end up paying dearly with their mid-sections. After two to three months of dating, the expected marital plan never comes up, and then they abandon these relationships. They hopefully start another which ends the same way. It's a vicious cycle!

Failure could be very demoralising when not well managed. Some ladies get sucked into the unholy system of sexual generosity out of frustration and bad habits. So they see no big deal in warming different beds like a weighted blanket.

I sampled the opinions of some single men about what the dating market looks like currently. The story is still the same. The women are just too vulnerable and their sexual appetite is on a record high. This is why some freak out or redact information whenever the issue of body count comes up. Single women in their 30s are throwing caution to the wind in a bid to find phantom happiness.

In recent times, most of these women have been falling back on their suitors back home in Nigeria for marriage. The same ones they once despised during their early days abroad. They offer them the golden 'Japa Ticket' and a promise of a better life which the men can't resist. These men see this golden opportunity as a sign of 'grace'. The men can't resist those glossy pictures in highbrow locations. They are blind to what is behind those photos, even with their glasses on. Also, the Tinubu administration which has pauperised Nigeria, makes the decision to 'escape' so easy for targeted men.

But the truth is that these women are only applying the basic principles of business to their lives. When your product is not valuable locally, export it to another country where it is scarce and experience a boom in turnover.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from England.
My gee... One of my guys with great talent.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Kobojunkie: 1:07am On Jan 09, 2025
jaxxy:
I hate to admit it but the op is right especially in the UK and not just Nigerian girls but all except for girl with good manners and self control.
Good manners and self control? Now I know for sure you are spitting tales... Good manners and self control means absolutely nothing abroad.. Stop telling people this useless lie!
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Konquest: 1:21am On Jan 09, 2025
uche87:
I remember in Festac Town (Lagos State), in 2016, when a neighbour claimed he accidentally slept with the new female tenant. "We did it on this chair" he pointed with a grin on his face. "I swear I never expected it. She was crazy and she looked so innocent" he whispered in the ears of whoever cared to listen. Putting this in perspective, the weather temperature was just 22 degrees Celsius. This is the typical weather for two in Nigeria. It normally sends the social media into frenzy, with all manner of romantic memes flying around.

At this point, the telephone lines of some 'hospitality workers' popularly known as 'runs girls' start reading 'number busy' or 'switched off'. This is because the prodigal men with hot waists are on their trail, thereby driving up demand. My neighbour's experience of being gifted the cookie on a platter of gold, is not an isolated one. During the rainy season, harmattan and COVID lockdown, there were so many similar experiences. Acclaimed male best besties who have 'fattened the pigs' easily reaped the fruits of their labour.

The women who failed such tests of cold weather and loneliness in Nigeria are performing woefully in the UK where the conditions are worse. With the weather condition averaging between 3 and 5 degrees Celsius mostly, some women are being smoked out of their houses by increased sexual appetite. Life here is also extremely lonely. People hardly mix, they tend to overwork and forget living their normal lives. Also, many immigrants tend to be buying into the culture of individualism associated with the West.

Everybody suspects strangers. The implication of this is that you could either date online or take the highroad of workplace romance. In my opinion, office romance is like playing the Russian Roulette. Before you know it, someone who has never met you, will know the exact strands of pubic hair you have. This is because people kiss and tell.

In the UK, independent women who are doing well financially and career-wise abound. But society is infested with men who are scared of them. Their fears are very valid though. These men just want to have them for the moment, like an AirBnB.

With the chilly weather, loneliness, and unsatisfactory toys, most women tend to let their guards down when they meet interested men. And they end up paying dearly with their mid-sections. After two to three months of dating, the expected marital plan never comes up, and then they abandon these relationships. They hopefully start another which ends the same way. It's a vicious cycle
Failure could be very demoralising when not well managed. Some ladies get sucked into the unholy system of sexual generosity out of frustration and bad habits. So they see no big deal in warming different beds like a weighted blanket.

I sampled the opinions of some single men about what the dating market looks like currently. The story is still the same. The women are just too vulnerable and their sexual appetite is on a record high. This is why some freak out or redact information whenever the issue of body count comes up. Single women in their 30s are throwing caution to the wind in a bid to find phantom happiness.

In recent times, most of these women have been falling back on their suitors back home in Nigeria for marriage. The same ones they once despised during their early days abroad.
They offer them the golden 'Japa Ticket' and a promise of a better life which the men can't resist. These men see this golden opportunity as a sign of 'grace'. The men can't resist those glossy pictures in highbrow locations. They are blind to what is behind those photos, even with their glasses on. Also, the Tinubu administration which has pauperised Nigeria, makes the decision to 'escape' so easy for targeted men.

But the truth is that these women are only applying the basic principles of business to their lives. When your product is not valuable locally, export it to another country where it is scarce and experience a boom in turnover.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from England.
The exact strands of public hair you have" got me cracking up here.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Nobody: 2:14am On Jan 09, 2025
meobizy:
Front page on Nairaland, without a doubt. Una too like rubbish for this trash heap.

Weather for two is always celebrated by jobless fellows. There is no weather for two in this country. All months of the year are scorching. The rainy season is the same apart from a few days of rainfall.
The evening newspapers would attack the message as usual.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Taiwo20(m): 3:20am On Jan 09, 2025
This is an update,
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by dollar124(m): 3:51am On Jan 09, 2025
Parydelegate:
This not coherent
Oya lets see your own coherent writeup.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by jaxxy(m): 3:54am On Jan 09, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Good manners and self control? Now I know for sure you are spitting tales... Good manners and self control means absolutely nothing abroad.. Stop telling people this useless lie!
So what matters abroad? The sub zero weather automatically turns everybody to a LovePeddler?

These are just excuses for people with character flaws and who refuse to work on themselves.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Kobojunkie: 4:12am On Jan 09, 2025
jaxxy:
✓ So what matters abroad? The sub zero weather automatically turns everybody to a LovePeddler?
✓ These are just excuses for people with character flaws and who refuse to work on themselves.
Stop lying! In the same abroad with subzero temperatures there are equally many asexual individuals who live and enjoy life there. Let's stop these need to color everyone abroad with our own private problems. undecided

2. I have never met anyone here --- except for may e a bunch of still delusional/religious Africans--- going around thinking to find partners primarily with good manners and self control. People here look for way more than such superficial nonsense. Most of those out seeking partners typically look for personalities that complement theirs and someone they can live with. Good manners and self control in a partner are considered a plus where it is available, not a requirement. . undecided
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by jojothaiv(m): 4:17am On Jan 09, 2025
trium:
.....the writer is good with his words.
He deserves his flowers.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by luminouz(m): 4:51am On Jan 09, 2025
Brilliancepower:
Masturbation prevents prostrate cancer. If you store sperm without discharging for a long period of time, it changes colour, from white to light brown, from there it starts forcing itself when you take a leak. So it has to leave so that new sperm can come in.
Agba researcher!!!!

Leak kee you dia😂😂😂
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by luminouz(m): 4:53am On Jan 09, 2025
descarado:
English ladies no send black guys. EU, few yes but English, nah.
Them fit use you father a baby but refuse to put your name on child's birth cert therefore denying you fatherhood right. Unless you wan carry them go court.
They just wanted a sperm donor. A colleague successfully this this. Shame no gree the man, tendered resignation letter this Xmas.

But we noticed a very big thing. The moment the said lady announced she is pregnant by a black man on her page, her people hated her with deep passion that left us shocked. All turned their back on her. Some( as we all know who the father is), boldly said they can't wait to see the colour of the child. A black child( giggles) and this is to my presence.

I have said it here b4, a black man is a source of sexual fantasy to white ladies so they will want to sample and end it there or share you around.
That is all. They will look for another cheerful giver.

It's easier for a white man to settle with black woman than the opposite.
UK yes...US? No!!! Canada? No
Different countries
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Nnamdipapa(m): 4:53am On Jan 09, 2025
Brilliancepower:
Masturbation prevents prostrate cancer. If you store sperm without discharging for a long period of time, it changes colour, from white to light brown, from there it starts forcing itself when you take a leak. So it has to leave so that new sperm can come in.
I endorse this message.

PREACH IT PASTOR!
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by gtassure: 5:06am On Jan 09, 2025
madone:
Osahon i dont understand the last two paragraph
I don't as well! The guy is writing rubbish!
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by gtassure: 5:19am On Jan 09, 2025
Helpout12345:
Everyone is complaining the guy wrote rubbish.

But the truth is that dating to marry in western countries is very complicated.

And yes, from the streets, he is right that konji is killing most women in western countries. If you are in doubt, go and research how much intimacy gadget industry is worth in these western countries. Most of the customers of intimacy gadgets are the women.
How is it my business that conji is killing women or anybody for that matter!
People complain about this writer because what he wrote is of no benefit to Nigerians, home and abroad! Correct application of good information can help and improve our lives!
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by gtassure: 5:29am On Jan 09, 2025
jaxxy:
I hate to admit it but the op is right especially in the UK and not just Nigerian girls but all except for girl with good manners and self control.
So you think people that do not express themselves sexually have good manner or self control? You know nothing 'snow'!
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Gerrard59(m): 5:41am On Jan 09, 2025
luminouz:
Another rubbish from you....why am I not surprised??
Let's discuss this as adults. Where is the rubbish in my post?

- That men due to excess testosterone crave more sex than women
- Women are demisexual when compared to men
- Frequent sexual intercourse prevents prostate cancer
- Nigerian men in the abroad are dire need of sex than their women

Which exactly?

This is 2025, let's try to make our conversations more stimulating and broad-based. Thank you.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by franchasofficia:
Shawarmagirl:
You can only think of weather for two when you don't have work doing or less busy. But if you go to work 8am and come back 8pm so tired and exhausted and still have to report to work the next day, you won't be thinking of sex how to rest, sleep and prepare for work tomorrow.
Because you are a robot manufactured just to work till you breakdown right?


The life of an average black African person is really risky and dangerously boring too, and the Nigerian women of today seem to make it worst abroad, no wonder intimacy gadget industry booms very well in all cities around the world; women trying to pretend away natural things until it leads them into making foolish, irrational decisions they always live to regret for the rest of their lives.



Just so you know, they don't work away konji neither do they wish it away; you either cure it via ma§turbation or via human penetration, you cannot pray, wish or work it away else you make a silly, dangerous mistake you will forever live to regret, sadly shocked



If you are a Nigerian lady abroad and unable to find a man for a committed relationship that can lead to marriage, swallow your pride, face the reality, head back to Nigeria and find yourself a great guy (struggling financially in Nigeria) that will be glad to commit to you and fūck you like a pørnstar, if you don't wanna spend to travel, you can try Nairaland, there are plenty well behaved mature broke single guys that will do a glorious thanksgiving to have you as their fiancee and wife. And remember you cannot eat your cake and still have it; when you decide to try guys in Nigeria, don't expect to get Dangote son, or guys doing well financially in Nigeria cos it wont work, those ones just want to fūck and go, focus on the broke guys that is where you will find love and a future husband.


You Nigerian ladies should learn from Nigerian men and stop being too stubborn. Naija men enjoy life a lot till they die once they become financially successful and it's because they are real with life and what it offers grin
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by omoluka: 6:00am On Jan 09, 2025
luminouz:
UK yes...US? No!!! Canada? No
Different countries
100%
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Omalicious1: 6:04am On Jan 09, 2025
uche87:
I remember in Festac Town (Lagos State), in 2016, when a neighbour claimed he accidentally slept with the new female tenant. "We did it on this chair" he pointed with a grin on his face. "I swear I never expected it. She was crazy and she looked so innocent" he whispered in the ears of whoever cared to listen. Putting this in perspective, the weather temperature was just 22 degrees Celsius. This is the typical weather for two in Nigeria. It normally sends the social media into frenzy, with all manner of romantic memes flying around.

At this point, the telephone lines of some 'hospitality workers' popularly known as 'runs girls' start reading 'number busy' or 'switched off'. This is because the prodigal men with hot waists are on their trail, thereby driving up demand. My neighbour's experience of being gifted the cookie on a platter of gold, is not an isolated one. During the rainy season, harmattan and COVID lockdown, there were so many similar experiences. Acclaimed male best besties who have 'fattened the pigs' easily reaped the fruits of their labour.

The women who failed such tests of cold weather and loneliness in Nigeria are performing woefully in the UK where the conditions are worse. With the weather condition averaging between 3 and 5 degrees Celsius mostly, some women are being smoked out of their houses by increased sexual appetite. Life here is also extremely lonely. People hardly mix, they tend to overwork and forget living their normal lives. Also, many immigrants tend to be buying into the culture of individualism associated with the West.

Everybody suspects strangers. The implication of this is that you could either date online or take the highroad of workplace romance. In my opinion, office romance is like playing the Russian Roulette. Before you know it, someone who has never met you, will know the exact strands of pubic hair you have. This is because people kiss and tell.

In the UK, independent women who are doing well financially and career-wise abound. But society is infested with men who are scared of them. Their fears are very valid though. These men just want to have them for the moment, like an AirBnB.
With the chilly weather, loneliness, and unsatisfactory toys, most women tend to let their guards down when they meet interested men. And they end up paying dearly with their mid-sections. After two to three months of dating, the expected marital plan never comes up, and then they abandon these relationships. They hopefully start another which ends the same way. It's a vicious cycle!

Failure could be very demoralising when not well managed. Some ladies get sucked into the unholy system of sexual generosity out of frustration and bad habits. So they see no big deal in warming different beds like a weighted blanket.

I sampled the opinions of some single men about what the dating market looks like currently. The story is still the same. The women are just too vulnerable and their sexual appetite is on a record high. This is why some freak out or redact information whenever the issue of body count comes up. Single women in their 30s are throwing caution to the wind in a bid to find phantom happiness.

In recent times, most of these women have been falling back on their suitors back home in Nigeria for marriage. The same ones they once despised during their early days abroad. They offer them the golden 'Japa Ticket' and a promise of a better life which the men can't resist. These men see this golden opportunity as a sign of 'grace'. The men can't resist those glossy pictures in highbrow locations. They are blind to what is behind those photos, even with their glasses on. Also, the Tinubu administration which has pauperised Nigeria, makes the decision to 'escape' so easy for targeted men.

But the truth is that these women are only applying the basic principles of business to their lives. When your product is not valuable locally, export it to another country where it is scarce and experience a boom in turnover.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from England.
A clear evidence of the whocup culture I've been talking about
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Maj196(m): 6:34am On Jan 09, 2025
Sex, sex, sex. Na the only thing wey dey black man head be that . No innovation nothing just sex
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by 1Sharon(f): 6:40am On Jan 09, 2025
easytig:
It's easy to see a successful black man settle with a white lady,but it's hard to see a successful white man settle with a black lady.
That why I respect the Indians, everywhere they go ,they only settle down with dem selves.

Any matured Nigerian single lady that travel to find spouse in UK is just a slowpoke,that is jumping from frying pan to fire.ashewo is not even lucrative in developed countries,if you like naked for road dey waka, nobody go send you.
Once a black man gets successful, the next thing is to take a white woman as a trophy.
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by Ashawoman82: 6:43am On Jan 09, 2025
Gerrard59:
As Ednut stated, getting sex isn't hard for a Nigerian woman regardless of where she resides. In fact, this applies to ALL women. In the Nigerian case for those in the abroad, the men are even in dire need of sex than the women. The preek of the average Nigerian man, regardless of location, is the cheapest commodity to get.

There's a reason why compared to men, women are demisexual. It's men that need sex more than women due to excess testosterone and more so for black men as prostate cancer would be prevented.
about the sex pass, a well healthy uncircumcised woman loves sex more than u o, just that women prefer to masturbate instead as most of the the time, men don't make them cum, but masturbation does, they reckon, what's the need of having sex with men that mostly can't satisfy them.. That's just the logic... Women don't need men to get sexually satisfied but they love sex like mad forget what society tells u.. I have dated someone like that so I understand...
Re: Uk-based Women And The Konji Issue by YelloweWest: 6:49am On Jan 09, 2025
suzzyboss:
Feminism caused all this .. it's already entering nigeria too they plenty single ladies at the age of 30 and above .. take it how you want it, I call them left over women
Your tag on single women is invalid.

You boys just can't accept that more and more women are choosing to be single and have a career instead of a lying cheating SOB
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