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Melagros:
COMRADES, is this the reason why this op joined nairaland? Everytime creating threads about konji, konji, konji

He might be suffering from konjiditis. Very dangerous disease.🤣🤣🤣🤣.

That one no be wetin I want talk.

Who noticed that this boy who supported apc during election have refused to eat the rotten food he joined in preparing .

Demons and wicked people , you elect and campaign for a wicked man and next thing you leave the country for the people to suffer alone .

descarado:
English ladies no send black guys. EU, few yes but English, nah.
Them fit use you father a baby but refuse to put your name on child's birth cert therefore denying you fatherhood right. Unless you wan carry them go court.
They just wanted a sperm donor. A colleague successfully this this. Shame no gree the man, tendered resignation letter this Xmas.

But we noticed a very big thing. The moment the said lady announced she is pregnant by a black man on her page, her people hated her with deep passion that left us shocked. All turned their back on her. Some( as we all know who the father is), boldly said they can't wait to see the colour of the child. A black child( giggles) and this is to my presence.

I have said it here b4, a black man is a source of sexual fantasy to white ladies so they will want to sample and end it there or share you around. That is all. They will look for another cheerful giver.

It's easier for a white man to settle with black woman than the opposite.

Like Mine would say, every new black immigrant gets a successful free trial with a foreign woman. If there is anything, they wanna be your first because they know after the first failed relationship/marriage - you become wise in dealing with them. Except you are rich rich, 97% would most likely go back to their own. The remaining 3% are the true love women and the ones who do not stand a chance with their men - morbidly obese, drug addicts, lazy, dysfunctional...etc.

If you are a successful black man, they will stay and they are not anywhere innocent as portrayed on social media by guys who have never traveled, lived long with them or have the kinda money they want. If they are going to deal with the hate from their people for being with a black man, then they have to ensure it is worth their time. For the average guy, it would end at "I dated one Russian lady".

As for other African countries. He said those ones see Naija men as people that spend a lot on women in clubs. So once he is there for work, he claims he is Ghanian. Thankfully he doesn't travel for work with his Nigerian passport.

It is the same thing with white men. Nothing special about these people. I will just leave out my observation on them because black women do not go about putting down black men once they lay with a white man. It is BM with such inferiority complex most times.

ednut1:
Why is the focus only on women everytime? There are men in Nigeria and abroad 40-50 that are unmarried. Make una allow women rest abeg.

Konji is not really an issue for those women but commitment. Married men, male 9ja students, divorcees, church members etc dey for them to nack 😂

I love your comment. I don't know why some men feel every woman above 30 is lonely. If it is sex, that one is readily available, and it doesn't mean the woman is being cheated. She nack the man, the man nack am. How's that a big deal? Commitment may not be available, but men are also suffering from same. That's why we have lots of men who have decided to only keep baby mamas.
Life is not just about women being exactly one way at a certain age. And you'll see some of these men calling such women "left over" coming to these women's DMs to beg for money. It has become as bad as that for some men.
They should allow women rest abeg

descarado:
English ladies no send black guys. EU, few yes but English, nah.
Them fit use you father a baby but refuse to put your name on child's birth cert therefore denying you fatherhood right. Unless you wan carry them go court.
They just wanted a sperm donor. A colleague successfully this this. Shame no gree the man, tendered resignation letter this Xmas.

But we noticed a very big thing. The moment the said lady announced she is pregnant by a black man on her page, her people hated her with deep passion that left us shocked. All turned their back on her. Some( as we all know who the father is), boldly said they can't wait to see the colour of the child. A black child( giggles) and this is to my presence.

I have said it here b4, a black man is a source of sexual fantasy to white ladies so they will want to sample and end it there or share you around.
That is all. They will look for another cheerful giver.

It's easier for a white man to settle with black woman than the opposite.

The bold is very very true. Happened to a close friend of mine. He has literally abandoned the child at this point.

Though I feel he has not learnt his lesson.

pocohantas:
Like Mine would say, every new black immigrant gets a successful free trial with a foreign woman. If there is anything, they wanna be your first because they know after the first failed relationship/marriage - you become wise in dealing with them. Except you are rich rich, 97% would most likely go back to their own. The remaining 3% are the true love women and the ones who do not stand a chance with their men - morbidly obese, drug addicts, lazy, dysfunctional...etc.

If you are a successful black man, they will stay and they are not anywhere innocent as portrayed on social media by guys who have never traveled, lived long with them or have the kinda money they want. If they are going to deal with the hate from their people for being with a black man, then they have to ensure it is worth their time. For the average guy, it would end at "I dated one Russian lady".

As for other African countries. He said those ones see Naija men as people that spend a lot on women in clubs. So once he is there for work, he claims he is Ghanian. Thankfully he doesn't travel for work with his Nigerian passport.

It is the same thing with white men. Nothing special about these people. I will just leave out my observation on them because black women do not go about putting down black men once they lay with a white man. It is BM with such inferiority complex most times.

I disagree with the bold Pocohantas, Black women (Specifically Black American/British women) put down Black men too in the same proportions. We all tear down each other.

gtassure:
So you think people that do not express themselves sexually have good manner or self control? You know nothing 'snow'!

So u think people who sleep around like rabid dogs on heat have self control and good manners?

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! In the same abroad with subzero temperatures there are equally many asexual individuals who live and enjoy life there. Let's stop these need to color everyone abroad with our own private problems.

2. I have never met anyone here --- except for may e a bunch of still delusional/religious Africans--- going around thinking to find partners primarily with good manners and self control. People here look for way more than such superficial nonsense. Most of those out seeking partners typically look for personalities that complement theirs and someone they can live with. Good manners and self control in a partner are considered a plus where it is available, not a requirement. .

Good manners and self control is part of personality. The word self control doesn't mean perfect why are u guys getting worked up about the word??

if u want someone loose that's fine and ur prerogative.

Raalsalghul:
I disagree with the bold Pocohantas, Black women (Specifically Black American/British women) put down Black men too in the same proportions. We all tear down each other.

We attack black men on an individual basis. Just as we attack Nigerian men for the way they treat Naija women. But you rarely find a Naija woman start dating an American/European or even another African man, then center all her content on denigrating Nigerian/Black man. The one Cameroonian woman that did it on TikTok, it was black women that came for her. If I am able to trace her page, I will post it in my diary and tag you.

Same can't be said for Naija/black men. Once white women responds to their hi, the next day they have set camera and carry pen. All their life would be finishing black women.

When it comes to denigrating black men publicly to white men, black women withdraw. I dare say black women have a higher sense of awareness to subtle self-racism than black men.

That is the difference.

richiemcgold:
I concur 💯.

.. when weather is chilly, what mostly comes to mind of a jobless or idle man is s**x.

does it comes to mind or it's a natural phenomenon that is triggered due to the chilly season .. I don't think anyone pushes the thoughts of fvcking by themselves .. it hits on its own .. if one could push the thoughts of fvcking by himself, I think some people will be doing it by the hour...

luminouz:
Agba researcher!!!!

Leak kee you dia😂😂😂

about leaking .. I think that's called wet dreams .. I don't b know about turning to brown

1Sharon:
Once a black man gets successful, the next thing is to take a white woman as a trophy.

I don't think that should be any cause for pain to you Right 😋😋😋

pocohantas:
Like Mine would say, every new black immigrant gets a successful free trial with a foreign woman. If there is anything, they wanna be your first because they know after the first failed relationship/marriage - you become wise in dealing with them. Except you are rich rich, 97% would most likely go back to their own. The remaining 3% are the true love women and the ones who do not stand a chance with their men - morbidly obese, drug addicts, lazy, dysfunctional...etc.

If you are a successful black man, they will stay and they are not anywhere innocent as portrayed on social media by guys who have never traveled, lived long with them or have the kinda money they want. If they are going to deal with the hate from their people for being with a black man, then they have to ensure it is worth their time. For the average guy, it would end at "I dated one Russian lady".

As for other African countries. He said those ones see Naija men as people that spend a lot on women in clubs. So once he is there for work, he claims he is Ghanian. Thankfully he doesn't travel for work with his Nigerian passport.

It is the same thing with white men. Nothing special about these people. I will just leave out my observation on them because black women do not go about putting down black men once they lay with a white man. It is BM with such inferiority complex most times.

you know, some of us do not want to be with these white women per say.. some of us just wants the experience with laying one and that's all .. I wouldn't marry no white lady in her country where she can whisk my hard earned money/asset all in the name of divorce ..


Fvck no ...

descarado:
English ladies no send black guys. EU, few yes but English, nah.
Them fit use you father a baby but refuse to put your name on child's birth cert therefore denying you fatherhood right. Unless you wan carry them go court.
They just wanted a sperm donor. A colleague successfully this this. Shame no gree the man, tendered resignation letter this Xmas.

But we noticed a very big thing. The moment the said lady announced she is pregnant by a black man on her page, her people hated her with deep passion that left us shocked. All turned their back on her. Some( as we all know who the father is), boldly said they can't wait to see the colour of the child. A black child( giggles) and this is to my presence.

I have said it here b4, a black man is a source of sexual fantasy to white ladies so they will want to sample and end it there or share you around.
That is all. They will look for another cheerful giver..

As black men cannot develop functioning societies, isn't it better to nack around rather than hope these foreign women want to marry us? But Ndi TeamForeignWomen no go gree. Collect your share and go home.

Raalsalghul:
The bold is very very true. Happened to a close friend of mine. He has literally abandoned the child at this point.

Though I feel he has not learnt his lesson.

I never experience this ones una deh talk, though my girlfriend's sister has shown in many ways that she doesn't like me. I am not bothered though because the reason is something I have absolutely no control over. Their thoughts were the usual, residency one whenever they come across a black guy... Sha I no send them.

jaxxy:
So u think people who sleep around like rabid dogs on heat have self control and good manners?

In my experience, people like you who like to take position of moral judge are the most depraved, most corrupt and morally bankrupt individuals!
It could happen that you are a thieve, you steal everything in sight. But, somehow you feel your are better than the rest! What is this condition called in psychiatry?

Gerrard59:
As Ednut stated, getting sex isn't hard for a Nigerian woman regardless of where she resides. In fact, this applies to ALL women. In the Nigerian case for those in the abroad, the men are even in dire need of sex than the women. The preek of the average Nigerian man, regardless of location, is the cheapest commodity to get.

There's a reason why compared to men, women are demisexual. It's men that need sex more than women due to excess testosterone and more so for black men as prostate cancer would be prevented.

Folks keep forget the difference between having sex and making love...These 2 mindsets separate men from women.
Got it?

gtassure:
In my experience, people like you who like to take position of moral judge are the most depraved, most corrupt and morally bankrupt individuals!
It could happen that you are a thieve, you steal everything in sight. But, somehow you feel your are better than the rest! What is this condition called in psychology?

Lol I only said we should define objectively what good manners and self control is and ure loosing it?

I'm sure we all the the standards and moral codes required. If someone wants to sleep around with multiple sex partners because the weather is cold I don't even know what to say.

I'm sure there are multiples ways to deal with the cold besides the flimsy excuse of weather for 2 or 3.

jaxxy:
✓ Good manners and self control is part of personality. The word self control doesn't mean perfect why are u guys getting worked up about the word??
✓ if u want someone loose that's fine and ur prerogative.

No, they are not since they are both learned behaviors which can be abandoned or unlearned whenever the party in question chooses to. 😩😩😩

2. Nonsense statement as expected! 🙄🙄🙄

jaxxy:
Lol I only said we should define objectively what good manners and self control is and ure loosing it?

I'm sure we all the the standards and moral codes required. If someone wants to sleep around with multiple sex partners because the weather is cold I don't even know what to say.

I'm sure there are multiples ways to deal with the cold besides the flimsy excuse of weather for 2 or 3.

Oh....! ...now you don't know what to say? I thought you said people were dogs for been sexual! Who is actually " losing it"!

Tired of sex sex on nairaland
If you want sex, then marry.
If you no want marry, leave sex alone for married couples.
Abi you want end up for hell 🔥 ni?
........ you better repent before you died in your sins

1Sharon:
Once a black man gets successful, the next thing is to take a white woman as a trophy.

Many blackmen were also with white women before they got somewhat successful.I am a prime example

Hellisreal70:
Tired of sex sex on nairaland
If you want sex, then marry.
If you no want marry, leave sex alone for married couples.
Abi you want end up for hell 🔥 ni?
........ you better repent before you died in your sins

Sex related topics get alot of clicks not only on nairaland but on all social media platforms worldwide
Humans are generally obsessed with sex because we all came from it
If you dont like nairaland and its sex-related topics,go and join a monastery

gtassure:
Oh....! ...now you don't know what to say? I thought you said people were dogs for been sexual! Who is actually " losing it"!

Not just dogs but dogs on heat.

Kobojunkie:
No, they are not since they are both learned behaviors which can be abandoned or unlearned whenever the party in question chooses to. 😩😩😩

2. Nonsense statement as expected! 🙄🙄🙄

Personality can also change but fairly constant.

and yes some people want loose people who they carry out there perverse acts. It's not a criminal offence so fa it's lawful.

jaxxy:
➜Personality can also change but fairly constant.
➜and yes some people want loose people who they carry out there perverse acts. It's not a criminal offence so fa it's lawful.

1. Personality changes how? Are you certain you understand what personality means? In the majority of the cases, the only way that can change is in the case of brain trauma or damage. Other than that, what changes and can be changed is a person's behavior and that is what you keep confusing with the other.

2. Loose people? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
1. Personality changes how? Are you certain you understand what personality means? In the majority of the cases, the only way that can change is in the case of brain trauma or damage. Other than that, what changes and can be changed is a person's behavior and that is what you keep confusing with the other.

2. Loose people? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Some have dual personality traits.

2. wild people or easy virtue.

jaxxy:
➜Some have dual personality traits.
2. wild people or easy virtue.

Did you insert the dual personality traits in them yourself or what?

According to the American Psychological Association, personality refers to the enduring characteristics and behavior that comprise a person’s unique adjustment to life, including major traits, interests, drives, values, self-concept, abilities, and emotional patterns. And DID - dissociated identity disorder— remains a rare mental disorder.

2. Carry your virtue and enter the gutter somewhere if you have not realized by now that everyone has their private idea of virtue as well. Suggesting that all have to be weighed according to yours is indicative of your maturity level as an individual.

Gerrard59:
As black men cannot develop functioning societies, isn't it better to nack around rather than hope these foreign women want to marry us? But Ndi TeamForeignWomen no go gree. Collect your share and go home.

Easier said than done.
They hope on building a relationship but are deverstated when they noticed they are just there for sampling. You don't have the upper hand. They do. You want relationship for visa purpose and pride but that never happens. You now go back to Nigerian woman you refused to collect her number cos you have been used and dumped but the Nigerian woman has moved on.
You cone to nairaland to rant that Nigerian babes are this and that abroad. We see threads pop up everyday as regards this.

Kobojunkie:
Did you insert the dual personality traits in them yourself or what?

According to the American Psychological Association, personality refers to the enduring characteristics and behavior that comprise a person’s unique adjustment to life, including major traits, interests, drives, values, self-concept, abilities, and emotional patterns. And DID - dissociated identity disorder— remains a rare mental disorder.

2. Carry your virtue and enter the gutter somewhere if you have not realized by now that everyone has their private idea of virtue as well. Suggesting that all have to be weighed according to yours is indicative of your maturity level as an individual.

They never mature, do they?
Always sad to see adults with low level reasoning in this age and time

Kobojunkie:
Did you insert the dual personality traits in them yourself or what?

According to the American Psychological Association, personality refers to the enduring characteristics and behavior that comprise a person’s unique adjustment to life, including major traits, interests, drives, values, self-concept, abilities, and emotional patterns. And DID - dissociated identity disorder— remains a rare mental disorder.

2. Carry your virtue and enter the gutter somewhere if you have not realized by now that everyone has their private idea of virtue as well. Suggesting that all have to be weighed according to yours is indicative of your maturity level as an individual.

Haven't u heard of bipolar people?

2. I don't give a damn about ur private idea or opinion on virtues or morals. I'm talking about what is generally acceptable by basic standards.

When u meet a LovePeddler confused her for a good girl na u sabi. its ur choice

jaxxy:
➜Haven't u heard of bipolar people?
2. I don't give a damn about ur private idea or opinion on virtues or morals. I'm talking about what is generally acceptable by basic standards.
When u meet a LovePeddler confused her for a good girl na u sabi. its ur choice

1. Stop with the many attempts to deviate from the subject. 🙄

2. Again, carry your virtue and enter the gutter somewhere if you have not realized by now that everyone has their private idea of virtue as well. Suggesting that all have to be weighed according to yours is indicative of your maturity level as an individual.