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Please wife that your lady on time.
You know if she leaves it will be difficult for you to see who will love you like she do.
Also, think within and outside the box to ensure you have money to be taking care other needs. At least you are a man and you have to be up and doing.

Don't forget it's also part of your destiny to labor for her to enjoy. So fulfill your purpose.


Cheers!

Why God? Go and carry GUN to satisfy your girl.

Kobojunkie:
This notion is very wrong! 😏

As you rightly said, in marriage people come together to complement and support each other. Nothing wrong for a man with money to marry himself a woman whom he would support financially for her to complement and support him in other ways. I mean look at someone like Ned Nwoko and that gal he married. He provides her financial support while she supports him in other ways.

OP's particular issue here is that, without having the ability to financially provide he chose to date a woman who desires to have a man who will provide her with financial support. And after discovering this, rather than disengage, OP continues to hold on to her against common sense! The woman's desire isn't the problem but rather OP refuses to let go of what he is aware he cannot handle. Of course, the woman should also consider letting OP go but that does not in any way remove OP from fault here.

Like seriously

Namaster:
Women never DEMAND money from a man they love.

She'd accept your little support if you offer it but she'd NEVER demand it.

Instead, she will make EXCUSES for your lack of money.
A woman who loves you is SATISFIED with your body and attention.

But when love wanes, the DEMAND for money takes its place.

True

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

She doesn't love you. She's using you ni

nini007:
She doesn't love you. She's using you ni

She does not love him because she requires money to take care of her financial needs? My gosh! The way you folks reason ehn... 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Taa gbafuo mugu

Hope you don f^ck her sha?

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Who told you she loves you?
This is 2025 guys!
Stop S!mping...

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

... what's wrong with you? See signs like Neon billboards.

I don't really understand ladies, you love him, wants to marry him and yet you're still billing the shit out of him ..

Please that woman doesn't love you,she loves u because of Money,she doesn't love you for who u are,pls If I were u,I will run and break up with her,a woman that truly love you will not demand unnecessary,she can demand for a pressing need which she be seldon and if you don't give she shouldn't be angry,pls run

Please that woman doesn't love you,she loves u because of Money,she doesn't love you for who u are,pls If I were u,I will run and break up with her,a woman that truly love you will not demand unnecessary,she can demand for a pressing need which should be seldon and if you don't give she shouldn't be angry,pls run

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

when u go start fit differentiate between "Am" and "I am / I'm", na when I fit believe say u get small chance to understand d difference between asset and liability
na liability u carry

Simps like you don’t deserve pity. You need to learn the hard way.

Ndubuisipaul1

Dump her. You no get choice.

Your wife must learn how to empathise with her husband. She must also learn to suffer together.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Is your lady "jobless" ?

yomi531:
Big lie. Say u be Ramsey Noah or wetin? Naija girls will always demand. No deceive urself

no mind am , Even if na Ramsey Noah him billing must involve

Namaster:
Women never DEMAND money from a man they love.

She'd accept your little support if you offer it but she'd NEVER demand it.

Instead, she will make EXCUSES for your lack of money.
A woman who loves you is SATISFIED with your body and attention.

But when love wanes, the DEMAND for money takes its place.

OP this is your answer

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Are you taking care of your parents sha?

What benefits are you gaining from her? Please spare me the story she cooks and submit her body to you because both of you are involved. Use your sense bro

EmperorCaesar:
Na wetin dey make you dey disturb God for money be this?
To take care of her?
People like you are the reason I'm considering opening a church. I go too blow

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Leave him oo, him na caregiver.... She be orphan

Mister man let me tell you how it's suppose to be ,you hustle gather money,she hustle gather money,as you are spending she must support you in her own little way,if she refuse to support,my brother run oo.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Kobojunkie:
She does not love him because she requires money to take care of her financial needs? My gosh! The way you folks reason ehn... 🙄🙄🙄🙄

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She that will not work, let her not eat! She should work to meet her financial needs or is she handicap?
Can you see the young man is distracting God with nonsense prayer point?

Chemlite:
➜She that will not work, let her not eat! She should work to meet her financial needs or is she handicap?
➜Can you see the young man is distracting God with nonsense prayer point?

So, OP should date her but she should not eat?

She is to blame for OP's choosing to date a supposedly unemployed woman? Are you people OK at all?

Kobojunkie:
So, OP should date her but she should not eat?
She is to blame for OP's choosing to date a supposedly unemployed woman? Are you people OK at all?

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Op said she is demanding money too much, and he can't meet her demand. That means, op is supportive but she has chosen to be a liability, always demanding for more money.
Money doesn't grow on a tree, she can also was work to earn, that is the point!
Relationship shouldn't be parasitic or predatory but mutual, that is my belief.

If she is not working or hustling,and she is demanding money,tell her to get herself busy if she wants money from you.as she dey throw you responsibility ,you sef throw your own.

Even our dads where not this silly in their times ,our mum's can relate,can't you see how our mum's hustle to support their husbands.

Chemlite:
➜Op said she is demanding money too much, and he can't meet her demand.
➜That means, op is supportive but she has chosen to be a liability, always demanding for more money.
➜Money doesn't grow on a tree, she can also was work to earn, that is the point!
➜Relationship shouldn't be parasitic or predatory but mutual, that is my belief.

1. How much money is enough for a person in a relationship to demand from the other?

2. Does she not support him sexually, emotionally, and otherwise? Did you OP tell you what you claim or are you comfortably inserting yourself as a voice in the relationship? Why is financial aid the only sort of support you recognize in the relationship?

3. Money does not need to grow on trees for it to be used as a form of support in relationships. A person in a relationship can work to earn his/her own or depend on the other in the relationship for his/her monetary needs. Relationships provide such benefits too.

4. If OP feels the relationship has become parasitic then OP is free to quit the relationship. Making her out as the enemy here makes no sense since OP clearly admits that he himself is to blame for why they are still together. He has not made any concerted effort to let go of the relationship. So, why do you fault her?

OP knows he cannot afford her. Yet, OP holds onto her. Why? If he lets her go, she can easily go out and find herself who can afford her and has no problem supporting her financially. That is what should happen next. But as OP says, he has yet to grow the balls to let her go.

Last last she go dump am,water must always find it's level,I don't like guys that are not smart at all

Kobojunkie:
1. How much money is enough for a person in a relationship to demand from the other?

2. Does she not support him sexually, emotionally, and otherwise? Did you OP tell you what you claim or are you comfortably inserting yourself as a voice in the relationship? Why is financial aid the only sort of support you recognize in the relationship?

3. Money does not need to grow on trees for it to be used as a form of support in relationships. A person in a relationship can work to earn his/her own or depend on the other in the relationship for his/her monetary needs. Relationships provide such benefits too.

4. If OP feels the relationship has become parasitic then OP is free to quit the relationship. Making her out as the enemy here makes no sense since OP clearly admits that he himself is to blame for why they are still together. He has not made any concerted effort to let go of the relationship. So, why do you fault her?

OP knows he cannot afford her. Yet, OP holds onto her. Why? If he lets her go, she can easily go out and find herself who can afford her and has no problem supporting her financially. That is what should happen next. But as OP says, he has yet to grow the balls to let her go.

yomi531:
Big lie. Say u be Ramsey Noah or wetin? Naija girls will always demand. No deceive urself

Naija girls no too get capacity to love, as in proper love, for most of them its about money and u being a provider.

easytig:
➜Last last she go dump am,water must always find it's level,I don't like guys that are not smart at all

People need to learn to date responsibly. It is 2025 and there is no reason not to do so. OP is clearly in over his head and does not want to accept it. Rather, he would rather think to blame the gal for being honest with him about her needs. 🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
1. How much money is enough for a person in a relationship to demand from the other?

2. Does she not support him sexually, emotionally, and otherwise? Did you OP tell you what you claim or are you comfortably inserting yourself as a voice in the relationship? Why is financial aid the only sort of support you recognize in the relationship?

3. Money does not need to grow on trees for it to be used as a form of support in relationships. A person in a relationship can work to earn his/her own or depend on the other in the relationship for his/her monetary needs. Relationships provide such benefits too.

4. If OP feels the relationship has become parasitic then OP is free to quit the relationship. Making her out as the enemy here makes no sense since OP clearly admits that he himself is to blame for why they are still together. He has not made any concerted effort to let go of the relationship. So, why do you fault her?

OP knows he cannot afford her. Yet, OP holds onto her. Why? If he lets her go, she can easily go out and find herself who can afford her and has no problem supporting her financially. That is what should happen next. But as OP says, he has yet to grow the balls to let her go.

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Can you reason well to disappoint people for once, just for once plsss.
Instead of her to get a job ?

You dey ask God to give you money bcuz you want to take care of girl that has many options in this 2025? Will your parent be proud of this?