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Once some men see pussy they loose all the part of their brain to think logically. Second hand pussy for that matter. Tweeh!!!

Chemlite:
➜Can you reason well to disappoint people for once, just for once plsss. Instead of her to get a job ?

I know most of you love to live in denial of reality; the desire to choose ignorance over reality is in the blood of many of you. You are programmed to do so. So, I will leave you to it!

If the boy never fvck the girl ehn,upon every every he don spend ,he don mess up o,I don't know that mumu still dey among men sha

Ororocelemi:
Taa gbafuo mugu

Hope you don f^ck her sha?

Those nonsense he is saying dey vex me,the girl don open office for his head,as he don start,he go pay tire, after she don suck am dry finish ,she will move on fast fast,na wa o.

A man that can't use his head,na woman go help am use am last last, I just hope he has unfettered access to her Honeypot,if not he is just a big fool

Akanoaaa:
You dey ask God to give you money bcuz you want to take care of girl that has many options in this 2025? Will your parent be proud of this?

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

She is using your money to take care of her real husband somewhere. You still carry this mumu relationship enter 2025? You need to be flogged.

advanceDNA:
She doesn't love u....women don't make who they really care about uncomfortable ....

Btw...why the fvck will God give u money just to bankroll a woman exploiting you financially?

U better change ur prayer point

Some came from poor homes and genuinely need money or helper, if such girl know you have, she will ask for it. It doesn't mean she don't love you, she just don't have money to fix basic things in her life.

Bro use your sense.

Collected a girl's number on 23rd December. Called her on 26 make I no where she come from, omo na straight billing to fix her hair/nails. I come dey wonder if I no call am she no go fix her hair again.

Bro the lady no really love you she only need 90% of your income in a month

Have you ever ask God to give you money to take care of your parents Most especially your mum

If she can't fix basic things in her life ,she has no business in a relationship, relationship is all about sacrifice and support from both parties,if not had I known will be the last comment of a fool

yemmit90:
Some came from poor homes and genuinely need money or helper, if such girl know you have, she will ask for it. It doesn't mean she don't love you, she just don't have money to fix basic things in her life.

And your parents are there suffering and smiling u never ask God to give you money so that you can be able to take care of them

Riskymarvelous:
Bro the lady no really love you she only need 90% of your income in a month

A person has financial needs and asking for help means the person does not love? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

easytig:
➜If she can't fix basic things in her life ,she has no business in a relationship, relationship is all about sacrifice and support from both parties,if not had I known will be the last comment of a fool

Let's not tell this lie abeg! The traditional relationship model in Nigeria pretends the woman is to be supported by the man meaning that so long as a woman is ready for a relationship, the man is to give in and provide for all of her needs. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

It's weird when a man living and struggling in a third world country like Nigeria is talking about love ,hope he is aware that 90 percent of naija women are opportunistic desperados, can't you notice how desperate they are all over social media with daring nudity,if a Nigerian girl is struggling to take care of herself and she wants to push it to you , just sleep with her and dump her ,she is of no use at all in your future

Riskymarvelous:
And your parents are there suffering and smiling u never ask God to give you money so that you can be able to take care of them

No reasonable father or mother will let his or her daughter marry a man without something doing to support herself in the marriage
Make she no go shamelessly ask her hubby for sanitary pads money.

Kobojunkie:
Let's not tell this lie abeg! The traditional relationship model in Nigeria pretends the woman is to be supported by the man meaning that so long as a woman is ready for a relationship, the man is to give in and provide for all of her needs. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

easytig:
➜No reasonable father or mother will let his or her daughter marry a man without something doing to support herself in the marriage.
➜Make she no go shamelessly ask her hubby for sanitary pads money.

1. Yet, what you described happens over 20,000 times across Nigeria —at least 20,000 traditional marriages take place where unemployed women are sold into marriage by their families— to this day. So, what are you on about?

2. What has shame to do with a man consciously choosing for himself an unemployed woman as his wife, agreeing to buy her sanitary pads as well? These men are not forced into these arrangements so why do you feel the need to vilify the females in these setups?

Who love and understand your situation will not ask you for money .

Okay let's turn the table,a working class woman married an unemployed man, believe me that marriage won't last one month,it will scatter, because the woman will realize she is breadwinner and she will show the man shege.
She won't near any man that is not in her economic status again ,she will rather be single and live her best life.




As per the bolded ,na poverty and liability dem dey sow,and na serious suffer dem go reap later,it's not advisable for either partner tto be redundant in a marriage

Kobojunkie:
1. Yet, what you described happens over 20,000 times across Nigeria —at least 20,000 traditional marriages take place where unemployed women are sold into marriage by their families— to this day. So, what are you on about?

2. What has shame to do with a man consciously choosing for himself an unemployed woman as his wife, agreeing to buy her sanitary pads as well? These men are not forced into these arrangements so why do you feel the need to vilify the females in these setups?

yomi531:
Big lie. Say u be Ramsey Noah or wetin? Naija girls will always demand. No deceive urself

They will demand but not beyond your capacity if they love you.
He needs to be open and clear to her so she knows what he has. Then her response would determine if she loves him or not.

easytig:
➜Okay let's turn the table,a working class woman married an unemployed man, believe me that marriage won't last one month,it will scatter, because the woman will realize she is breadwinner and she will show the man shege.
She won't near any man that is not in her economic status again ,she will rather be single and live her best life.
➜As per the bolded ,na poverty and liability dem dey sow,and na serious suffer dem go reap later,it's not advisable for either partner tto be redundant in a marriage

1. Why does it matter whether it lasts a month or not? If she chose her volition to marry an unemployed man and later changed her mind—divorced him—, that is entirely her business. The point here is people are allowed to choose their burden in marriage and whatever comes of it is theirs to bear for as long as they see fit.

2. It is not advisable yet every day, across Nigeria, people living in abject poverty conditions continue to worship marriage and even enroll themselves in it even when it does not serve an advantage to them in any way. Nigeria currently has over 133 million people living smack in the middle of the poverty bracket. Guess what? many of those people will get married this year to unemployed spouses and even proceed to have babies, ensuring that poverty continues as a generational curse for themselves and their own children as a result. Who is to say they cannot do that?

XXCASH:
➜They will demand but not beyond your capacity if they love you.
He needs to be open and clear to her so she knows what he has. Then her response would determine if she loves him or not.

Stop telling this lie! Financial need is not measured against love. Has never been that way and never will be. Stop drawing connections between ideas that are in no way remotely connected.

No man in his right senses should settle with a lady that can't afford to change her sanitary pads with her own money.
What I am against is outright refusal of women not wanting to work to support her man,no matter the little she brings.

Kobojunkie:
1. Yet, what you described happens over 20,000 times across Nigeria —at least 20,000 traditional marriages take place where unemployed women are sold into marriage by their families— to this day. So, what are you on about?

2. What has shame to do with a man consciously choosing for himself an unemployed woman as his wife, agreeing to buy her sanitary pads as well? These men are not forced into these arrangements so why do you feel the need to vilify the females in these setups?

easytig:
➜No man in his right senses should settle with a lady that can't afford to change her sanitary pads with her own money.
➜What I am against is outright refusal of women not wanting to working to support her man, no matter how little she brings.

1. Yet in that same Nigeria, every year over 20,000 men settle for exactly the kind of women you described. OP is probably one of them so are you attempting here to deny him the right to go for what he seems to prefer?

2. The man is OK with a woman who does not work to support her man. The woman wants a man who would not mind her not working and is ready to support her needs. Demand & supply ... they are both available to each other. He is not a victim and she isn't a victim here— no crime committed by both in their choice.

Why attack the woman when she is the man's choice?

Kobojunkie:
Stop telling this lie! Financial need is not measured against love. Has never been that way and never will be. Stop drawing connections between ideas that are in no way remotely connected.

Financial needs are limitless for everyone. It's never enough

My point is the lady will be more understanding if she truly loves him and keep her needs within his capacity

There is no lie here. That's what it is

XXCASH:
➜Financial needs are limitless for everyone. It's never enough
➜My point is the lady will be more understanding if she truly loves him and keep her needs within his capacity. There is no lie here. That's what it is

1. That isn't necessarily true for all. There are people out there who don't even care for much.

2. You are instead attempting to assert a mere opinion as a fact. In the same way that a man's financial need is not limited to how much his father or mother can afford, a woman's financial need is equally not based on how much her father or mother can afford. This attempt to draw a connection between love and financial need is at best unreasonable.

Okay bro ,you don win

Kobojunkie:
1. Yet in that same Nigeria, every year over 20,000 men settle for exactly the kind of women you described. OP is probably one of them so are you attempting here to deny him the right to go for what he seems to prefer?

2. The man is OK with a woman who does not work to support her man. The woman wants a man who would not mind her not working and is ready to support her needs. Demand & supply ... they are both available to each other. He is not a victim and she isn't a victim here— no crime committed by both in their choice.

Why attack the woman when she is the man's choice?

yemmit90:
Some came from poor homes and genuinely need money or helper, if such girl know you have, she will ask for it. It doesn't mean she don't love you, she just don't have money to fix basic things in her life.

Baba forget that gist ...nor dey create justification for exploitation.....weda a girl is poor a rich ...a girl who cares about u won't make u uncomfortable..
.this guy clearly doesn't have it yet the babe is exploiting him and stressing him...

Kobojunkie:
1. That isn't necessarily true for all. There are people out there who don't even care for much.

2. You are instead attempting to assert a mere opinion as a fact. In the same way that a man's financial need is not limited to how much his father or mother can afford, a woman's financial need is equally not based on how much her father or mother can afford. This attempt to draw a connection between love and financial need is at best unreasonable.

Kobojunkie, you can argue sha
Humans' needs are insatiable. It's a known fact, so please just leave it as this.
True love brings understanding. Another fact you should also not argue
Now connect both. I hope you get the point

Then please leave that scam that people don't want more. Everyone wants it better than they have now. That some don't demand is part of the understanding

XXCASH:
✓ Kobojunkie, you can argue sha
Humans' needs are insatiable. It's a known fact, so please just leave it as this.
✓ True love brings understanding. Another fact you should also not argue. Now connect both. I hope you get the point
✓ Then please leave that scam that people don't want more. Everyone wants it better than they have now. That some don't demand is part of the understanding

1. You are clearly confusing ideas here.

The saying is rather that human desires -- not needs ---are insatiable. What you claim is what is not based on fact. That a person has many desires does not mean that person needs all those desires satiated.

2. This is another false claim. There is no direct connection between the notion of true love and understanding. Understanding instead stems from knowledge and wisdom both of which have nothing to do with the general notion that is true love.

3. Did you ever take the class explaining the difference between your needs and your wants, abi wetin? 😩

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .



I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

You should probably ask her to lend you some money one day and see how she fares. Love and giving is mutual

Kobojunkie:
1. You are clearly confusing ideas here.

The saying is rather that human desires -- not needs ---are insatiable. What you claim is what is not based on fact. That a person has many desires does not mean that person needs all those desires satiated.

2. This is another false claim. There is no direct connection between the notion of true love and understanding. Understanding instead stems from knowledge and wisdom both of which have nothing to do with the general notion that is true love.

3. Did you ever take the class explaining the difference between your needs and your wants, abi wetin? 😩

Hahaha. You wont kill me with laugh.

Please help him talk to the lady to convert some of those needs she keeps demanding for to wants abeg. You can help her with some knowledge and wisdom to better her understanding

Thanks for your help. Much appreciated

XXCASH:
➜Hahaha. You wont kill me with laugh. Please help him talk to the lady to convert some of those needs she keeps demanding for to wants abeg. You can help her with some knowledge and wisdom to better her understanding. Thanks for your help. Much appreciated

OP cannot meet her needs; he has admitted that much. He is the one who needs to let go of the woman since he simply cannot afford her.