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Kobojunkie:
OP cannot meet her needs; he has admitted that much. He is the one who needs to let go of the woman since he simply cannot afford her.

Hahahaha. I enjoy your conversation. Clearly you must be a lady

Op over to you. Let go, the mutual love is not enough according to Kobojunkie

XXCASH:
➜Hahahaha. I enjoy your conversation. Clearly you must be a lady Op over to you. Let go, the mutual love is not enough according to ...

Does this mutual love thing pay the bills, hospital bills, school fees, house rent, put food on the table, buy clothes, books, shoes, etc? I have never heard or read of mutual love ever doing that for anyone. So why continue to insist it should be able to do what it has never been designed for?

Namaster:
Women never DEMAND money from a man they love.

She'd accept your little support if you offer it but she'd NEVER demand it.

Instead, she will make EXCUSES for your lack of money.
A woman who loves you is SATISFIED with your body and attention.

But when love wanes, the DEMAND for money takes its place.

The LOVE you claim she has for you is different from the LOVE you think it's the normal LOVE , Your own definition of Love is different...

You are being Manipulated, Does Love Hurts and makes you feel Less .

Mr Man stop Deceiving yourself .

this one go frustrate your life and You will be close to BP .. Run

Kobojunkie:
I know most of you love to live in denial of reality; the desire to choose ignorance over reality is in the blood of many of you. You are programmed to do so. So, I will leave you to it!

Kobojunkie no one is asking you for your ignorance , Your Wrong Realities you mostly Spew here is already recognized , so many members are aware of that .

If the High demanding lady wants more than what the guy can Provide , the Lazy Ass should go and work to add to the realities.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Run Away From Her, Are You her mama/Papa

Do you want to appear Under MR BLOGGER Publication, because Of Your Lack Of UNDERSTANDING towards your Girlfriend 😞

Man, Leave Woman, Go And Hustle For CASH

Namaster:
Women never DEMAND money from a man they love.

She'd accept your little support if you offer it but she'd NEVER demand it.

Instead, she will make EXCUSES for your lack of money.
A woman who loves you is SATISFIED with your body and attention.

But when love wanes, the DEMAND for money takes its place.

He should also know that any woman that constantly asks you of money doesn't love you

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

it's good you love her and she loves you, it's better for you to make her know you can't grow if you give her all you have, and also stop falling in love, clear your eyes and work on yourself. If gbege happen now the lady will look for someone better than you. I guess you started the relationship with spending money that is why you are in this crisis, ladies are often loyal to their feelings, know how to play your game well, you too start asking her for money

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

mumu

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

1. It’s a sign that you should date a girl who’s okay with your financial standard. Soon as you marry this one & can’t meet her financial demands, that will be the start of your problems.
2. (a)Why are the two of you playing house?
(b)Why are you financing the lifestyle of a girl you haven’t married as if you are her parent?
(c) What does she give in return for what you do for her & I mean material stuff? Relationships need reciprocating in order to thrive. If she just takes & gives nothing, you are in trouble.
(d) Love alone is not enough to sustain a marriage. You love this girl, but if she loved you, she’d be understanding & wouldn’t pressure you to give what you don’t have. In a matter of time, she’ll leave. If you are feeling drained now, think how much more that would be in a marriage.

[s][s][b][b]Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey[/b][/b][/s][/s]maybe because of this God do not gv you the money you are too mumu for God likes ,if you marry her if she ask you for money and you fail you are going to be another man child father and your family need to pray for you well

Why is she not working for her own money.
Smh
Go rob bank for her if you truly love her.
Receive sense by force.

try and check history of past date.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

The first thing to look out for in any relationship is love and both of you loves each other

The second thing to have in marriage is money which is thr strongest force of all things and you don't have the kind of money that will satisfy her demands

So you have to understand that, the love you have for her needs money to keep thr relationships else you may not enjoy the relationship due to lack of money

So what should be your concern now is, how not to trade your happiness and peace of mind by walking on a broken bottles

Look for what you can afford to keep and not what you can not afford to keep

She's just pretending to love you bro if she really did love you she will never demand money from you

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Simp! Simp! Simp! Simp! Simp!

at OP that girl; does not know her levels in relationship ...she is still a kid...thunking money will make her love you ....Oga better clear her...that she should learn how to also gve money if the two of you want something good...if not throw her back to the street

easytig:
If she can't fix basic things in her life ,she has no business in a relationship, relationship is all about sacrifice and support from both parties,if not had I known will be the last comment of a fool

Lolz, it amaze me how some of you reason, If you check well, men are the ones running after these broke girls and not the other way round. There is no logic in running after a broke girl and complaing she is demanding. Women will always demand, even your wife of 20 years, it is in their nature to do so as long as they don't have the means to do so themselves. You can only say she doesn't love or care about you if she earn well and still demanding as broke girls.

You know she is broke, you know she can't fend for herself, yet you chose to date her and start pounding the innocent girl with nothing to show for it. Naturally, men don't like their women to suffer no matter the circumstances, it so unfortunate some of you will come here to claim otherwise.

My point is that, some ladies are genuinely being battling with abject poverty, the ones that won't do a hookup will surely ask from their boyfriends. The best you can do for such a girl is to set her up if you know that the relationship is 99% heading to marriage.
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advanceDNA:
Baba forget that gist ...nor dey create justification for exploitation.....weda a girl is poor a rich ...a girl who cares about u won't make u uncomfortable..
.this guy clearly doesn't have it yet the babe is exploiting him and stressing him...

Some are battling with serious poverty and genuinely need help, that is my point here.

The only favour you can do yourself is to stay away from such girl because they will definitely ask.

BrotherJapa:
So, you want God to give you money so you can give to a girl is that correct?

These people wan turn God to a simp a swear

Thankfully God sef no fit turn simp.

The most high explicitly condemned simping both in the Quran and bible to show us being alpha is the natural order of things for a man.

yemmit90:
Some came from poor homes and genuinely need money or helper, if such girl know you have, she will ask for it. It doesn't mean she don't love you, she just don't have money to fix basic things in her life.

Wrong. You can hardly be the only man giving any the lady attention. If it's not offline,then the thousands of simps online will never fail to display their thirst.

Among the simpz,the girls can figure out one or two they shall be billing occasionally.

This is how ladies build up their billing list.

yemmit90:
Some are battling with serious poverty and genuinely need help, that is my point here.

The only favour you can do for yourself is to stay away from such girl because they will definitely ask.

Poverty doesn't make u put tension on others when u know they don't have plenty to throw around..

..it's being inconsiderate, wicked and unkind that makes u do so.....

This life no balance oooo

U want God to bless you so that u can take care of one nonsense woman?


Anyway. The simple truth is, if a woman love you, she will not ever ask of money from u. She wl rather be giving u everything u ever wanted

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

You made her realize that the only thing you can offer is MONEY..

And she is demanding lots of it.

Meanwhile,, God won't give you that kind of money you're asking for.
God knows you will waste the money on this girl.

Give her now, shebi no be marry you wan marry am?
So you expect her to be giving you money, abi.

It's one thing to demand.

It's another thing to release the money foolishly...and last time I checked, you aren't releasing the money on gunpoint...so it's still within your power to moderate.

obaidan:
Naija girls no too get capacity to love, as in proper love, for most of them its about money and u being a provider.

Spot on👍

Steve0979:
no mind am , Even if na Ramsey Noah him billing must involve

😅😅😅😅. Senior man🙌

Starzo:
It's obvious You've never been with a girl that TRULY LOVES you.

If you dey with babe wey truly love you,she fit dey collect from outside come give you.

The collect wey u talk still involve Outside Nyashing abi?? I don't want that kind of love abeg

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

She doesn't.
Don't giv her money & see what u have. She's only lovin ur strength, not ur weakness

Abi na,two can play the game,if she refuse to give at
least once in three requests, the babe no dey reason the man at all,na one chance the man enter so,he must run away from the babe,or else she go wreck am

Ynix:
it's good you love her and she loves you, it's better for you to make her know you can't grow if you give her all you have, and also stop falling in love, clear your eyes and work on yourself. If gbege happen now the lady will look for someone better than you. I guess you started the relationship with spending money that is why you are in this crisis, ladies are often loyal to their feelings, know how to play your game well, you too start asking her for money

BrotherJapa:
Oh!, It is me that is rambling?

You encouraged a grown-ass woman to be a leech to her bf/husband? I now have a perfect understanding of why you are a permanent resident of NL.

That Kobojun. kie .. You better Ignore that one , He turns Everything Upside Down..

If you meet her in abject poverty,you better leave her,let her marinate in her poverty ,or else she will drag the man into poverty too with unending billings, poverty is a contagious disease.never help who doesn't want to help herself

Let her papa and mama set her up bro,pls learn to play your cards safely.

yemmit90:
Lolz, it amaze me how some of you reason, If you check well, men are the ones running after these broke girls and not the other way round. There is no logic in running after a broke girl and complaing she is demanding. Women will always demand, even your wife of 20 years, it is in their nature to do so as long as they don't have the means to do so themselves. You can only say she doesn't love or care about you if she earn well and still demanding as broke girls.

You know she is broke, you know she can't fend for herself, yet you chose to date her and start pounding the innocent girl with nothing to show for it. Naturally, men don't like their women to suffer no matter the circumstances, it so unfortunate some of you will come here to claim otherwise.

My point is that, some ladies are genuinely being battling with abject poverty, the ones that won't do a hookup will surely ask from their boyfriends. The best you can do for such a girl is to set her up if you know that the relationship is 99% heading to marriage.
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