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Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.

No. It's not enough reason on its own.
Marriage is for two mature minded adults who have agreed to work together to make it work.
Marriage no be childs play o!

If you no want make God punish you, no go give "terrible" girl belle, then leave her O!
Leave her jeje make God work on her.
No go dey unfortunate.

Sonnobax15:

You, wetin you wan talk? 🎤

E no dey kuku hard you to yarn rubbish about "bannies"
Na there them dey quick see you.

NO.. but take care of the child if she doesn't deny you access to the child

Marrying a pregnant girlfriend is like studying a lifelong course just because you mistakenly walked into the classroom

Next they go about insulting single mothers, make them become single mother then follow single men to insult them. Why not avoid her when you observed those obnoxious behaviour.

Who you one keep her for, if you won't get married to her don't get her pregnant.

AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.

no dey knack release akamu inside person daughter if you no wan marry am.

No con dey disturb us with this nonsense wey you dey type here with baṣtard spirit.

Posts like yours are why abortion should be made legal, so that women will not fall victim to men without home training with an agenda to ruin destinies.

DrFunmisticGlow:
no dey knack release akamu inside person daughter if you no wan marry am.

No con dey disturb us with this nonsense wey you dey type here with baṣtard spirit.

Posts like yours are why abortion should be made legal, so that women will not fall victim to men without home training with an agenda to ruin destinies.

This native doctor. So you’re still on nairaland?.

Thanks for stopping by.

thesicilian:
Marrying a pregnant girlfriend is like studying a lifelong course just because you mistakenly walked into the classroom

Correct. But only if she’s not your choice.

If she’s the one you want as a wife and she has the required qualities, the belle will help speed things up.

Mariangeles:
If you no want make God punish you, no go give "terrible" girl belle, then leave her O!
Leave her jeje make God work on her.
No go dey unfortunate.

Noisemaker. She can’t do anything.

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Una don too abuse me o. It’s okay.

I say let me just put new topic after a few years. See insult everywhere.

Nawa o.

Anyway, in all you do, don’t treat your pregnant babe with wickedness. And if you know the baby is not yours, block her and move on.

Marriage is a defining moment in a person’s life. Don’t rush into it just because of belle. Check other factors too.

DrFunmisticGlow:
no dey knack release akamu inside person daughter if you no wan marry am.

No con dey disturb us with this nonsense wey you dey type here with baṣtard spirit.

Posts like yours are why abortion should be made legal, so that women will not fall victim to men without home training with an agenda to ruin destinies.

Women with zero accountability with victim mentality, what stops the girl from nit having sex if the man isn't with condoms? Always portraying women as victims pathetic

Who you want leave her for? This evil boy

Never let anyone blackmail you into a marriage unprepared, belle or not. She has the option to terminate the pregnancy if she does not want the title of a baby mama. When she had her legs raised in the air screaming, HARDER! HARDER! GIVE IT TO ME!, What was she thinking about? The sex was consensual and that was the end of business.

I REPEAT, never let the lady , her family, your family or ANYONE blackmail you into a marriage you are not prepared for. Having sex and marrying are two different kettle of fish. You may not even like her enough for marriage.

Wtf men!

You're right bro,craze for craze

idahme:
Women with zero accountability with victim mentality, what stops the girl from nit having sex if the man isn't with condoms? Always portraying women as victims pathetic

Why not terminate the pregnancy? She may have set a trap for the guy from the get go, I am sure she might even be ovulating when she tricked the poor guy into sex to trap him with a pregnancy. This is 2025 and not 1985. Never fall for that format.

idahme:
Women with zero accountability with victim mentality, what stops the girl from nit having sex if the man isn't with condoms? Always portraying women as victims pathetic

reproduction is a two way street oga. Both share equal responsibility. If a useless man now decides to dip out of his responsibility for putting her in harms way by getting her pregnant and expecting her to suffer alone, should she not terminate the contract?

Men have always been the one to aviod responsibility, women are the one more at risk.

Do you know that a clinical trial to come up with MALA hormonal birth control was terminated because the men dropped out. The study had 380 men and 20 dropped out because of the side effects. When asking for the side effects, it is the very same ones in women's hormonal birth control used today. Yet government agencies approved it for women. Women didn't drop out of clinical trial because they know that the benefits of having control of when to have children, of being put in harm's way with pregnancy for the wrong man and so on, outweigh the side effects. Men can never see the bigger picture and always expect women to sacrifice for them because they are the real selfish ones

Even research is coming out that how EASY a woman's pregnancy IS being tied to the man's health. Pre-eclampsia is being tied to the father too as his DNA is responsible for the placenta. There's also research underway that women who end up having multiple early miscarriages, it may be due to the man's defective genes by at least 50%. Yet you men don't want to take responsibility for reproduction and fertility.

They drink, smoke, don't exercise, eat poorly, sleep with multiple women who give them all sorts of nasty infections and use that defective rubbish they call sperm to impregnate someone's daughter and leave her to suffer severe morning sickness and harmful health conditions during pregnancy.

What of cases like reproductive coercion, and rape?. You are the one trying to deflect responsibility. Gaslighting will not work here, go for a vasectomy or wear a condom if you don't want pregnancy from a certain lady. Even that is too much for you all to do.

Talk about a case of talking to the locust tree while pointing to the mulberry tree.

Nnamdipapa:
Never let anyone blackmail you into a marriage unprepared, belle or not. She has the option to terminate the pregnancy if she does not want the title of a baby mama. When she had her legs raised in the air screaming, HARDER! HARDER! GIVE IT TO ME!, What was she thinking about? The sex was consensual and that was the end of business.

I REPEAT, never let the lady , her family, your family or ANYONE blackmail you into a marriage you are not prepared for. Having sex and marrying are two different kettle of fish. You may not even like her enough for marriage.

Wtf men!

her shouting harder! Harder! Give it to me! DOES NOT IMPLY THAT YOU SHOULD GIVE HER A PREGNANCY, IT MEANS YOU SHOULD GIVE HER GREAT SEX, which you were not giving at that moment. It is a plea to give her an orgasm, because yours is guaranteed, hers is not.

If the sex was that good she would shouting some else, not screaming at you to increase your efforts.

AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.

The best solution is to not sleep with who you can't marry. You men don't know it is not good for children to have single parents. Why not withhold your sexual urges?
Why are you tiny gbola things acquiring curses on your heads for putting vulnerable ladies in delirious situations?
This is 2025. Do well to see goodness.

Mariangeles:
If you no want make God punish you, no go give "terrible" girl belle, then leave her O!
Leave her jeje make God work on her.
No go dey unfortunate.




You, wetin you wan talk? 🎤

E no dey kuku hard you to yarn rubbish about "bannies"
Na there them dey quick see you.

Tell them o

Na when belle enter una go remember say she get bad character.

DrFunmisticGlow:
her shouting harder! Harder! Give it to me! DOES NOT IMPLY THAT YOU SHOULD GIVE HER A PREGNANCY, IT MEANS YOU SHOULD GIVE HER GREAT SEX, which you were not giving at that moment. It is a plea to give her an orgasm, because yours is guaranteed, hers is not.

If the sex was that good she would shouting some else, not screaming at you to increase your efforts.

harder, harder! And yet, the dic.k is without condom while she is ovulating, what was she thinking about? Is she surprised at the pregnancy?

I will not attempt to argue but will point out that we are talking about two consenting adults. When two lovers have sex, the last thing on their mind is marriage. Now, both are supposed to be adults and consenting so it is assumed that a woman will not allow sex without protection like a condom on the dude. This is to protect from pregnancies and STI's. Also, the lady is able to use after sex pills to prevent pregnancies if no protection, she also is to know her own ovulation cycle.

You see where I am going? The ultimate loser in an unwanted pregnancy is the lady therefore she needs to put in extra protection in my opinion.

Also, I would suggest guys have a protection before sex. The lady is receiving the di.ck and the onus on her to ensure it is protected.

I have seen a situation where a marriage is forced after a pregnancy and it crushed the lady. Abortion or being a single mama may be way better that a forced marriage.

Nnamdipapa:
harder, harder! And yet, the dic.k is without condom while she is ovulating, what was she thinking about? Is she surprised at the pregnancy?

I will not attempt to argue but will point out that we are talking about two consenting adults. When two lovers have sex, the last thing on their mind is marriage. Now, both are supposed to be adults and consenting so it is assumed that a woman will not allow sex without protection like a condom on the dude. This is to protect from pregnancies and STI's. Also, the lady is able to use after sex pills to prevent pregnancies if no protection, she also is to know her own ovulation cycle.

You see where I am going? The ultimate loser in an unwanted pregnancy is the lady therefore she needs to put in extra protection in my opinion.

Also, I would suggest guys have a protection before sex. The lady is receiving the di.ck and the onus on her to ensure it is protected.

I have seen a situation where a marriage is forced after a pregnancy and it crushed the lady. Abortion or being a single mama may be way better that a forced marriage.

abortion is better than being a single mama. But not having sex is the best option. The onus is on both of them to discuss what happens if there is a pregnancy before having sex. Both bear equal responsibility. But Men as usual will want to push more responsibility on women.

Yes oo

Quick question




Who impregnated her?

Yes.

In those days, her family would have killed you for defiling her.

I made a promise to myself years ago NEVER to impregnate any woman I ain't got plans to marry and I fulfilled that promise. I avoid any situation that would bring unnecessary noise.


I have noticed most women maltreat other women's children, don't wanna give birth to a child that would be at the mercy of my wife if it happens that the child is living with me. I don't trust some women to that extent, don't wanna take chances.

Is it by force to have sex with the girl when you're dating her?

It's not good omen to marry your pregnant girlfriend, except both have plan of taking your friendship to marriage.

Thisdays having sex doesn't mean you're dating, even boys and girls have sex with who gives the chance not who they love. Boyfriend and girlfriend nowadays is to satisfy the urge, and not more than that until he/she but usually he propose marriage to her and she accept. Even many girlfriend will still decline even after many years of cohabiting friendship because she doesn't see their relationship beyond friendship.

Make a good decision for your future,

This generation and sex.

AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.

.....and you started your life journey with married & remarried?

The reason why you guys, don't considering your own life utmost priority first, with proper planning, but always, so concerned about women is saying alot about Naija men, was this how our father did during their times?

Why won't we have disorganised and disjointed society? You know she would latter be a bad wife,yet you were doing flesh to flesh. You didn't flee the very first time you aware of her useless character.

If the people involved are teenagers then I would definitely say a big no to that but if they are more mature then I say it would depend on circumstances