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I am a serving Corps members serving in Kano state. I have never had a relationship through my time in school, NYSC gave me the opportunity to try new things.

In the means of getting customers as a new corps member in Kano, I joined a digital learning group, I noticed bayero university student are ones occupied the group. After some times, I started sending cold dm to all members to save my contact, that I will do well to save theirs, all in the name of getting buyers for my graphic design jobs.

After some weeks, I posted a joke that who ever have interest in me should like my status. I was so surprised to see a lady which happens to BUK student.

We chatted for some times, we discussed about her past relationship and what causes breakup between her last partner. The lady told me she's a feminist, I didn't see that as a red flag because I am engrossed in chattings with her.

As a novice in the relationship matter, I asked her if we can be dating which she accepted, within 10 days of meeting her, I invited her to my room where I had my first kiss with a lady, and other sorts of sexual play. Its very hard for me to Bleep her because I am still a virgin but I tried my best not to make it known to her I am still a virgin, but She noticed that I don't know how to kiss, 😂 am just trying to form what I am not. Hmmm

Throughout the time we being together, she has never say hi to me for once, I am the one messaging her throughout (red flag).

Recently she made a nonsense move which makes me realise the lady want to turn me to ATM(maga).

I didn't message her for like 7 days hoping she will message me one day, I waited for the time but it never comes so I messaged her to know how far about her, you can't believe after some lines of chattings the lady screenshot her data balance to me saying her data is about to finished. I told her my guy that used to sub for her is fast asleep(it's a lie). We chatted for some time till she stop replying, I guessed her sub finished that night.
Next day, I saw her WhatsApp status and I sent her a greetings but she refused to reply. I send another the next that why are you ignoring my message, she started saying rubbish things like I didn't sub for her, she was sick that's why she didn't reply. I asked her but you are updating your status every minutes.

She's started saying I am talking nonsense, if she type that it won't pain me like voice note she sent. Its being a long someone say rubbish things to me like that. How can I 200 level be addressing me that way. I wait till evening time before I took the decision to forget about her, so I didn't reply her nor block her, I just deleted her contact.

After two weeks, I discussed with my colleague, he told me I lose because I didn't have sex with her that she chop my money bla bla bla.
He told me either I forget about her for life or I should tried to connect with her again and say sorry to her just to invite her again to side in order to Bleep her badly.

I am the one to decide for myself though, I just want to seek advices from experience people here.

Even me no read am.. But Kpai the Morafucker

Alwizkidi:
....Next day, I saw her WhatsApp status and I sent her a greetings but she refused to reply. I send another the next that why are you ignoring my message, she started saying rubbish things like I didn't sub for her, she was sick that's why she didn't reply. I asked her but you are updating your status every minutes.
She's started saying I am talking nonsense, if she type that it won't pain me like voice note she sent. Its being a long someone say rubbish things to me like that. How can I 200 level be addressing me that way. I wait till evening time before I took the decision to forget about her, so I didn't reply her nor block her, I just deleted her contact.
After two weeks, I discussed with my colleague, he told me I lose because I didn't have sex with her that she chop my money bla bla bla.
He told me either I forget about her for life or I should tried to connect with her again and say sorry to her just to invite her again to side in order to Bleep her badly. I am the one to decide for myself though, I just want to seek advices from experience people here.

You and your colleague are utterly jobless human beings. In 2025 and with Nigeria the way it is, this is what continues to occupy your mind and time?

High time Nairaland begins to discard posts such as these from its pages abeg! Very irritating read... I wish I could unread this trash! 🙄🙄🙄

Is this the Kobojunkie i know? Or another?

Pidginwhisper:
I no read am but move on

Boom...

You aren't a simp

Tobichima:
Even me no read am.. But Kpai the Morafucker

Ahh boss

Joey4321:
Ahh boss

yes oh.... no time for shit

Kobojunkie:
You and your colleague are utterly jobless human beings. In 2025 and with Nigeria the way it is, this is what continues to occupy your mind and time?

High time Nairaland begins to discard posts such as these from its pages abeg! Very irritating read... I wish I could unread this trash! 🙄🙄🙄

Experience is the best teacher, now I understanding ladies behaviour.

Tobichima:
yes oh.... no time for shit

Wow, so I am not being serious with my life since 😭

calabaman:
Boom...

You aren't a simp

I am not a simp, it's better to have the experience now than later

Kobojunkie:
You and your colleague are utterly jobless human beings. In 2025 and with Nigeria the way it is, this is what continues to occupy your mind and time?

High time Nairaland begins to discard posts such as these from its pages abeg! Very irritating read... I wish I could unread this trash! 🙄🙄🙄

Lol, don't vex

Alwizkidi:
➜Experience is the best teacher, now I understanding ladies behaviour.

Experience? Dude, from your post, what is instead clear is that you are well on your way to a miserable relationship history. I suggest you stop spending your time stalking women who don't desire you and focus that energy instead on improving yourself by way of knowledge and understanding of information to build your brain and mind. Look at your mates in the West, Asia, and so on. How many of them spend that ridiculous amount of time on useless things like you do?

You mentioned a school. Locate the library and spend your time reading books to build your mind and brain abeg!

Alwizkidi:
I am not a simp, it's better to have the experience now than later

as you aren't a simp

WHAT NEXT

Weere , u wey never fork before naim u won bleep the girl badly …. Be playing , how much u spend for the girl self ?

Before you go on a revenge mission you must first dig two graves!

Hmm.. if you revenge sleep with her and she get belle, she go come avenge and destroy ur life with that billing you're running away from.

Alwizkidi:
I am a serving Corps members serving in Kano state. I have never had a relationship through my time in school, NYSC gave me the opportunity to try new things.

In the means of getting customers as a new corps member in Kano, I joined a digital learning group, I noticed bayero university student are ones occupied the group. After some times, I started sending cold dm to all members to save my contact, that I will do well to save theirs, all in the name of getting buyers for my graphic design jobs.

After some weeks, I posted a joke that who ever have interest in me should like my status. I was so surprised to see a lady which happens to BUK student.

We chatted for some times, we discussed about her past relationship and what causes breakup between her last partner. The lady told me she's a feminist, I didn't see that as a red flag because I am engrossed in chattings with her.

As a novice in the relationship matter, I asked her if we can be dating which she accepted, within 10 days of meeting her, I invited her to my room where I had my first kiss with a lady, and other sorts of sexual play. Its very hard for me to Bleep her because I am still a virgin but I tried my best not to make it known to her I am still a virgin, but She noticed that I don't know how to kiss, 😂 am just trying to form what I am not. Hmmm

Throughout the time we being together, she has never say hi to me for once, I am the one messaging her throughout (red flag).

Recently she made a nonsense move which makes me realise the lady want to turn me to ATM(maga).

I didn't message her for like 7 days hoping she will message me one day, I waited for the time but it never comes so I messaged her to know how far about her, you can't believe after some lines of chattings the lady screenshot her data balance to me saying her data is about to finished. I told her my guy that used to sub for her is fast asleep(it's a lie). We chatted for some time till she stop replying, I guessed her sub finished that night.
Next day, I saw her WhatsApp status and I sent her a greetings but she refused to reply. I send another the next that why are you ignoring my message, she started saying rubbish things like I didn't sub for her, she was sick that's why she didn't reply. I asked her but you are updating your status every minutes.

She's started saying I am talking nonsense, if she type that it won't pain me like voice note she sent. Its being a long someone say rubbish things to me like that. How can I 200 level be addressing me that way. I wait till evening time before I took the decision to forget about her, so I didn't reply her nor block her, I just deleted her contact.

After two weeks, I discussed with my colleague, he told me I lose because I didn't have sex with her that she chop my money bla bla bla.
He told me either I forget about her for life or I should tried to connect with her again and say sorry to her just to invite her again to side in order to Bleep her badly.

I am the one to decide for myself though, I just want to seek advices from experience people here.

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From your post, I didn't see anything that warrants you to take revenge.
Didn't you notice that she's a feminist and might allegedly even be a lesbian?
Why force love? It's better you back off and face other things.
Those kind of ladies hate men and can deal with you mercilessly.
You were lucky she didn't accuse you of rape.
Learn to go after those who truly love you. The love of the any lady you are pursuing should be greater than the one you have for them.
Don't waste your time trying to be a nice guy. Be good, focus and be friendly with so many ladies to gain experience.

Forget about her,or get ready for consequences.

9japride:
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From your post, I didn't see anything that warrants you to take revenge.
Didn't you notice that she's a feminist and might allegedly even be a lesbian?
Why force love? It's better you back off and face other things.
Those kind of ladies hate men and can deal with you mercilessly.
You were lucky she didn't accuse you of rape.
Learn to go after those who truly love you. The love of the any lady you are pursuing should be greater than the one you have for them.
Don't waste your time trying to be a nice guy. Be good, focus and be friendly with so many ladies to gain experience.

Op just try follow this advice

Most Nigerian girls don't know that "feminism" and "dependency" shouldn't be on the same line. How can you be depending on a guy and still be forming feminism . For you OP, somebody told you that she was a feminist but the simp in you didn't allow you to investigate what the statement implies, now she is gradually adding a touch of parasitism on top of the illegal feminism and you are still asking the public to tell you what to do, don't worry, give her what she needs, you are already a candidate of "had I known and why me?" 🤣🤣

Move on, life is too short wasting it on a revenge.

Should we advise him?
I rather use the time to advise men who married non-virgins a.k.a boreholes than to use it in advising you. The handwriting is already on the wall

Lalami3232:

Should we advise him?
I rather use the time to advise men who married non-virgins a.k.a boreholes than to use it in advising you. The handwriting is already on the wall

Are you a virgin?
Who hasn't sinned before should talk.

Goodlady:
Are you a virgin?
Who hasn't signed before should talk.

Are you a borehole??

Him advice no suppose vex you, unless if you are a borehole

Flows001:
Are you a borehole??

Him advice no suppose vex you, unless if you are a borehole

People like me in your kind are boreholes

Goodlady:
People like me in your kind are boreholes

So sorry, but my girlfriend is a virgin, boreholes don't attract me

Na seggs seggs full una head. Move on.

Alwizkidi:
I am a serving Corps members serving in Kano state. I have never had a relationship through my time in school, NYSC gave me the opportunity to try new things.

In the means of getting customers as a new corps member in Kano, I joined a digital learning group, I noticed bayero university student are ones occupied the group. After some times, I started sending cold dm to all members to save my contact, that I will do well to save theirs, all in the name of getting buyers for my graphic design jobs.

After some weeks, I posted a joke that who ever have interest in me should like my status. I was so surprised to see a lady which happens to BUK student.

We chatted for some times, we discussed about her past relationship and what causes breakup between her last partner. The lady told me she's a feminist, I didn't see that as a red flag because I am engrossed in chattings with her.

As a novice in the relationship matter, I asked her if we can be dating which she accepted, within 10 days of meeting her, I invited her to my room where I had my first kiss with a lady, and other sorts of sexual play. Its very hard for me to Bleep her because I am still a virgin but I tried my best not to make it known to her I am still a virgin, but She noticed that I don't know how to kiss, 😂 am just trying to form what I am not. Hmmm

Throughout the time we being together, she has never say hi to me for once, I am the one messaging her throughout (red flag).

Recently she made a nonsense move which makes me realise the lady want to turn me to ATM(maga).

I didn't message her for like 7 days hoping she will message me one day, I waited for the time but it never comes so I messaged her to know how far about her, you can't believe after some lines of chattings the lady screenshot her data balance to me saying her data is about to finished. I told her my guy that used to sub for her is fast asleep(it's a lie). We chatted for some time till she stop replying, I guessed her sub finished that night.
Next day, I saw her WhatsApp status and I sent her a greetings but she refused to reply. I send another the next that why are you ignoring my message, she started saying rubbish things like I didn't sub for her, she was sick that's why she didn't reply. I asked her but you are updating your status every minutes.

She's started saying I am talking nonsense, if she type that it won't pain me like voice note she sent. Its being a long someone say rubbish things to me like that. How can I 200 level be addressing me that way. I wait till evening time before I took the decision to forget about her, so I didn't reply her nor block her, I just deleted her contact.

After two weeks, I discussed with my colleague, he told me I lose because I didn't have sex with her that she chop my money bla bla bla.
He told me either I forget about her for life or I should tried to connect with her again and say sorry to her just to invite her again to side in order to Bleep her badly.

I am the one to decide for myself though, I just want to seek advices from experience people here.

GO AND DO SOMETHING MEANINGFUL WITH YOUR LIFE

Try to read your write up.
Don't just move on, pls improve yourself.

Kobojunkie:
You and your colleague are utterly jobless human beings. In 2025 and with Nigeria the way it is, this is what continues to occupy your mind and time?

High time Nairaland begins to discard posts such as these from its pages abeg! Very irritating read... I wish I could unread this trash! 🙄🙄🙄

Do you use Quota?

Shey make I send stories from Quota come make you see am


The inferiority complex is sickening

Person go think say na only technology dem dey discuss for Oyinbo forum

REGINALD001:
GO AND DO SOMETHING MEANINGFUL WITH YOUR LIFE

Useless opinion


Since when you don dey do something meaningful with your life, you turn Nigerian president or you get money pass Elon