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DrFunmisticGlow:
Please how does a woman disturb a man by being childless.

There is a difference between being childless and childfree

May be when you read the quote from your fellow member in the struggle you will understand what I meant,

According to Aisha 2314 "I will lie to guys I'm dating about wanting children when I don't. Just string them along just to have someone to date for a (long) while". I guess you can now cure your ignorance as to what I meant

ExudeLoveToAll:
May be when you read the quote from your fellow member in the struggle you will understand what I meant,

According to Aisha 2314 "I will lie to guys I'm dating about wanting children when I don't. Just string them along just to have someone to date for a (long) while". I guess you can now cure your ignorance as to what I meant

Lying to guys about wanting children? She should date infertile guys now.

That's just all shades of wrong

aisha1314:
I will lie to guys I'm dating about wanting children when I don't. Just string them along just to have someone to date for a (long) while.

Don't deceive anyone, it's better to come out straight so the person can make his choice on whether to continue a relationship with you or not

Kobicove:
Don't deceive anyone, it's better to come out straight so the person can make his choice on whether to continue a relationship with you or not

I don't want them to make that decision till we've been together for years and maybe are thinking about marriage.
That's when I'll say I don't even want marriage, how much more children.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Lying to guys about wanting children? She should date infertile guys now.

That's just all shades of wrong

There's nothing wrong with it.

aisha1314:
There's nothing wrong with it.

it's wrong. It Like lying about being married

BigSarah:
Children aren’t a gift or blessing.... they’re wages of hard labor...not everyone’s wants hard labor.

You know nobody like the crying and weeing. Especially with the fact that women do a lot of the Job with little appreciation. But Children are lovely creatures with no malice , my own take is that if you must have them, do have a plan to make them happy and fulfil, remember you are in Africa, women with kids and no husband are judge, how much more with no husband and no kids. I don't want more than one kid myself , and I just want to amuse myself to see what concoction Baba God made with my genes.

Babangidapikin:
➜You know nobody like the crying and weeing. Especially with the fact that women do a lot of the Job with little appreciation. But Children are lovely creatures with no malice ,
➜my own take is that if you must have them, do have a plan to make them happy and fulfil, remember you are in Africa, women with kids and no husband are judge, how much more with no husband and no kids. I don't want more than one kid myself , and I just want to amuse myself to see what concoction Baba God made with my genes.

Lovely creatures with no malice yet millions of their litter, abandoned, on the streets of Nigeria, many of them with fathers and mothers still living?

2. And this is what you consider a plan?

Kobojunkie:
Lovely creatures with no malice yet millions of their litter, abandoned, on the streets of Nigeria, many of them with fathers and mothers still living?

2. And this is what you consider a plan?

I am beginning to feel that some people are just sitting around, looking for ways to witch-hunt whatever I wrote. Did you actually read what I wrote, or did the signals in your brain misinterpret it? I said "My own take" ,it doesn't mean everyone must agree or follow it.

Babangidapikin:
➜I am beginning to feel that some people are just sitting around, looking for ways to witch-hunt whatever I wrote. Did you actually read what I wrote, or did the signals in your brain misinterpret it? I said "My own take" ,it doesn't mean everyone must agree or follow it.

Did you refer to them as lovely creatures that are without malice or not?

2. So, this take of yours cannot be subject to scrutiny, even though it is posted on an open forum, is what you are insinuating?

Kobojunkie:
Did you refer to them as lovely creatures that are without malice or not?

2. So, this take of yours cannot be subject to scrutiny, even though it is posted on an open forum, is what you are insinuating?

Yes I did ? Should this be a problem