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I saw a post where a man offed himself because an American mandated him to start paying $15,000 every month to his wife who want to leave him. And Nigerian men were crying about how this is evil. I mean I’m suprised to see Nigerians crying and complaining here about sainier clime. Same sainier clime with a perfect system. Same sainier clime where people don’t die because God isn’t capable of killing peopje three once they japa there. Same sainier clime where their women are better than Nigerian women and men should endeavour to marry them instead. Same clime where things are cheap and no one pays rent?

Why complaining? I think Nigerians are just ingrate. Dying in the sainier clime and losing all ur money is worth it. At least you didn’t lose it in Nigeria.

irumole1975:
I saw a post where a man offed himself because an American mandated him to start paying $15,000 every month to his wife who want to leave him. And Nigerian men were crying about how this is evil. I mean I’m suprised to see Nigerians crying and complaining here about sainier clime. Same sainier clime with a perfect system. Same sainier clime where people don’t die because God isn’t capable of killing peopje three once they japa there. Same sainier clime where their women are better than Nigerian women and men should endeavour to marry them instead. Same clime where things are cheap and no one pays rent?

Why complaining? I think Nigerians are just ingrate. Dying in the sainier clime and losing all ur money is worth it. At least you didn’t lose it in Nigeria.

What is the purpose of your rants?

Is there a pattern to your madness?

Nnamdipapa:
What is the purpose of your rants?

Is there a pattern to your madness?

No. But it’s better to die abroad than to be a billionaire in Nigeria

Where is the sense in this your post


What point are you trying to make exactly

irumole1975:
No. But it’s better to die abroad than to be a billionaire in Nigeria

What has that got to do with the original story?
Dude was probably born abroad or was taken there at an early age so very little Ties ro Nigeria. Someone like me, I would have moved to Nigeria after the divorce and not pay a dime.

F.vuck the judge.

Nnamdipapa:
What has that got to do with the original story?
Dude was probably born abroad or was taken there at an early age so very little Ties ro Nigeria. Someone like me, I would have moved to Nigeria after the divorce and not pay a dime.

F.vuck the judge.

And then what happens to your child ? when you cowardly run back to Nigeria

Carndidlaydid:
And then what happens to your child ? when you cowardly run back to Nigeria

Oh, I am the coward now for not waiting behind to be screwed in the US by the ex wife and her judge.

Tell, what is happening to the child now that the father is dead?

Orphans grew up and some become very successful, the child has the mother and I will make a new child without the encumberance of a marriage in Nigeria if it becomes necessary. FAFO.

Nnamdipapa:
Oh, I am the coward now for not waiting behind to be screwed in the US by the ex wife and her judge.

Tell, what is happening to the child now that the father is dead?

Orphans grew up and some become very successful, the child has the mother and I will make a new child without the encumberance of a marriage in Nigeria if it becomes necessary. FAFO.

Seriously

Ithink ilearn everyday

Carndidlaydid:
Seriously

Ithink ilearn everyday

Welcome to real life. Reason successful people sign pre-nups before marriage.

Love is a fleeting emotion which fluctuates, you are in love today and at each other's throats tomorrow. The guy is the ultimate loser not the lady who will find a new guy while still enjoying the ex husbands wealths
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Nnamdipapa:
Welcome to real life. Reason successful people sign pre-nups before marriage.

Love is a fleeting emotion which fluctuates, you are in love today and at each other's throats tomorrow. The guy is the ultimate loser not the lady who will find a new guy while still enjoying the ex husbands wealths
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God bless you. Save yourself first

So you're a coward?

Nnamdipapa:
What has that got to do with the original story?
Dude was probably born abroad or was taken there at an early age so very little Ties ro Nigeria. Someone like me, I would have moved to Nigeria after the divorce and not pay a dime.

F.vuck the judge.

irumole1975:
God bless you. Save yourself first

Even the kids will grow and forget about you here. As a man, you have to learn to take care of yourself and your investments first. Your wife ir husband may never become your family in the true sense of the world.
I will never die for a woman or a child. Life is too sweet for that.

Samantha125:
So you're a coward?

Yes, I will not stay around, work and hand over my sweat to a woman who spends with her new boyfriend.

I am past emotional manipulations of women. You can call me a coward but I will never pay $15k per month except I am a serious millionaire.
Marriage is not supposed to be an investment schemes for women.

But that money is for child support and not for the woman.

Nnamdipapa:
Yes, I will not stay around, work and hand over my sweat to a woman who spends with her new boyfriend.

I am past emotional manipulations of women. You can call me a coward but I will never pay $15k per month except I am a serious millionaire.
Marriage is not supposed to be an investment schemes for women.

Samantha125:
But that money is for child support and not for the woman.

$15,000 a month for the child?

Be realistic Samantha, we know how these things work out. The judgement is to punish the guy and make his life miserable.
I can pay $15k per month If I am still in love with you but a vindictive ex wife, ai will rather spend the money on an aggressive divorce attorney.
She may even not allow the guy access to the child after the $15k per month.

I won't screw you over on a divorce and will try as much as possible to be fair but, will not allow myself be a victim.

I will rather mover to a rural village in Thailand and change my two names.

irumole1975:
I saw a post where a man offed himself because an American mandated him to start paying $15,000 every month to his wife who want to leave him. And Nigerian men were crying about how this is evil. I mean I’m suprised to see Nigerians crying and complaining here about sainier clime. Same sainier clime with a perfect system. Same sainier clime where people don’t die because God isn’t capable of killing peopje three once they japa there. Same sainier clime where their women are better than Nigerian women and men should endeavour to marry them instead. Same clime where things are cheap and no one pays rent?

Why complaining? I think Nigerians are just ingrate. Dying in the sainier clime and losing all ur money is worth it. At least you didn’t lose it in Nigeria.

be centre too much of the best regards

Problem with you is that you're making this about the woman when it's about your children.

Will you rather let your innocent children suffer because you no longer get along with their mother?

Nnamdipapa:
$15,000 a month for the child?

Be realistic Samantha, we know how these things work out. The judgement is to punish the guy and make his life miserable.
I can pay $15k per month If I am still in love with you but a vindictive ex wife, ai will rather spend the money on an aggressive divorce attorney.
She may even not allow the guy access to the child after the $15k per month.

I won't screw you over on a divorce and will try as much as possible to be fair but, will not allow myself be a victim.

I will rather mover to a rural village in Thailand and change my two names.

Samantha125:
Problem with you is that you're making this about the woman when it's about your children.

Will you rather let your innocent children suffer because you no longer get along with their mother?

The problem I have is with women like you who always try to blackmail the husband with the child or children .

You think I should throw away my life because I have kids?

Maybe you should have thought about the children before divorcing and trying to stiff me for $15,000 per month.

Nnamdipapa:
Welcome to real life. Reason successful people sign pre-nups before marriage.

Love is a fleeting emotion which fluctuates, you are in love today and at each other's throats tomorrow. The guy is the ultimate loser not the lady who will find a new guy while still enjoying the ex husbands wealths
,

real life?

smh you men are something else........


and ido find this your input so one-sided.... you people believe when there is a divorce women are always on the winning side like they could easily get a new guy and move on


very shallow

Samantha125:
Problem with you is that you're making this about the woman when it's about your children.

Will you rather let your innocent children suffer because you no longer get along with their mother?

thank god you saw it too.... seems like the children doesnt even exist whereas they brought those kids to this now.. now you wanna run down to naija abandoning your own blood... total sense of irresponsibility... trust me sis most men are like that these days

iam not suprised

Carndidlaydid:
real life?

smh you men are something else........


and ido find this your input so one-sided.... you people believe when there is a divorce women are always on the winning side like they could easily get a new guy and move on


very shallow

With $15,000 a month, they could.

It is not fair for you to conclude my input has always been one-sided. I defended and never for once blamed the lady for the guys death.

I just state what I would have done if I were the guy instead of suicide.
I know you believe $15,000 per month is fair even if it ruins the man financially.

Nnamdipapa:
With $15,000 a month, they could.

It is not fair for you to conclude my input has always been one-sided. I defended and never for once blamed the lady for the guys death.

I just state what I would have done if I were the guy instead of suicide.
I know you believe $15,000 per month is fair even if it ruins the man financially.

what makes you think igive a shiiiit bout the money mr sir nnamdipapa..... idont care for the money... the man who killed himself is a wicked soul just like you who would have ran back to nigeria leaving your kid without a father

selfishness at it PEAKSTATE if you ask me


your problem is that you aint seeing pass the money

But you haven't answered my question.

Nnamdipapa:
The problem I have is with women like you who always try to blackmail the husband with the child or children .

You think I should throw away my life because I have kids? Maybe you should have thought about the children before divorcing and trying to stiff me gmfor $15,000 per month.

Carndidlaydid:
what makes you think igive a shiiiit bout the money mr sir nnamdipapa..... idont care for the money... the man who killed himself is a wicked soul just like you who would have ran back to nigeria leaving your kid without a father

selfishness at it PEAKSTATE if you ask me


your problem is that you aint seeing pass the money

Because your cash cow is dead. Hahaha. No more monthly $15k, now the dead guy is wicked and I am the coward?

Women always care about money so stop with the bs.

Also, women will always try to use children as a pawn to blackmail their husbands.

I have been blackmailed on several occasions with my kids and I vehemently resisted. If I love you with all my heart, be ready to love me back in an equal proportion or I pull back seek for my own interests.

I will find a way to bond with the child or the ex can send him to Nigeria. What I will not do is shell out $15k per month on an ex, I will neither kill myself nor allow myself be blackmailed with a child.

irumole1975:
I saw a post where a man offed himself because an American mandated him to start paying $15,000 every month to his wife who want to leave him. And Nigerian men were crying about how this is evil. I mean I’m suprised to see Nigerians crying and complaining here about sainier clime. Same sainier clime with a perfect system. Same sainier clime where people don’t die because God isn’t capable of killing peopje three once they japa there. Same sainier clime where their women are better than Nigerian women and men should endeavour to marry them instead. Same clime where things are cheap and no one pays rent?

Why complaining? I think Nigerians are just ingrate. Dying in the sainier clime and losing all ur money is worth it. At least you didn’t lose it in Nigeria.

well anything with an advantage has a disadvantage .. All he needed to do was be smart .. since he knows he is in a country that favours women ..

He has an option not to get married or to establish a prenuptial agreement...

Nnamdipapa:
What has that got to do with the original story?
Dude was probably born abroad or was taken there at an early age so very little Ties ro Nigeria. Someone like me, I would have moved to Nigeria after the divorce and not pay a dime.

F.vuck the judge.

I think you can still be arrested and extradited ..


Me, I'd rather not get married and if she insists, prenuptial agreement to the results .. I can't toil for nothing...

Nonsense post

Nnamdipapa:
The problem I have is with women like you who always try to blackmail the husband with the child or children .

[You think I should throw away my life because I have kids? Maybe you should have thought about the children before divorcing and trying to stiff me gmfor $15,000 per month.

sounds about right

Nnamdipapa:
Oh, I am the coward now for not waiting behind to be screwed in the US by the ex wife and her judge.

Tell, what is happening to the child now that the father is dead?

Orphans grew up and some become very successful, the child has the mother and I will make a new child without the encumberance of a marriage in Nigeria if it becomes necessary. FAFO.

enter any bar dey drink 🍷🍻 bills on me.you know life because when the father die the kids will move on

RPG2020:
enter any bar dey drink 🍷🍻 bills on me.you know life because when the father die the kids will move on

Even my teenage kids nor send me. They are with their computers and friends. Na me go kill myself.

Women don't realize men have wizened up. If they want, let them take the children, the kids will look for their father when they grow. I will not throw my life away for anyone.

Nnamdipapa:
Even my teenage kids nor send me. They are with their computers and friends. Na me go kill myself.

Women don't realize men have wizened up. If they want, let them take the children, the kids will look for their father when they grow. I will not throw my life away for anyone.

Fact

The guy is even talking proudly about how he'd abandone his children instead of being a responsible father...🤦🤦🤦

Carndidlaydid:
real life?

smh you men are something else........


and ido find this your input so one-sided.... you people believe when there is a divorce women are always on the winning side like they could easily get a new guy and move on


very shallow





thank god you saw it too.... seems like the children doesnt even exist whereas they brought those kids to this now.. now you wanna run down to naija abandoning your own blood... total sense of irresponsibility... trust me sis most men are like that these days

iam not suprised

Samantha125:
The guy is even talking proudly about how he'd abandone his children instead of being a responsible father...🤦🤦🤦

Feel free to term it whatever you like.

His kids aren't complaining or begging you for food.


Lastly people like you with no marital experience should stop putting mouth in discussions like this....obviously you can't relate