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Bendeco02:
Hope you understood my point at all?

If you feel misunderstood, explain your point.

You said and I quote, "Most women have low self esteem than men. So, anyone that has the confident can approach and get them."

Merry100:
If you feel misunderstood, explain your point.

You said and I quote, "Most women have low self esteem than men. So, anyone that has the confident can approach and get them."

But why are you angry?

I have role and observe your gender to some extense

Even the pretty ones you see out there have inferior mind/esteem inside.

Half of these pretty ones knows that the appearance they are displaying to the public is not their actual self, from hair to toe. Hence, this is part of the reason for the low self esteem. I don't even want to talk about average ones.

A lady can remove her wig and you can't recognise her again talk more of appearing without make up or fake Butt Hip.

Some of the Busty/Chubby ones, when they remove cloth you may throw up (Vommit). Forget, there's nothing speacial about women if not for the simps among men that made them feel important

Bendeco02:
But why are you angry?

I have role and observe your gender to some extense

Even the pretty ones you see out there have inferior mind/esteem inside.

Half of these pretty ones knows that the appearance they are displaying to the public is not their actual self, from hair to toe. Hence, this is part of the reason for the low self esteem. I don't even want to talk about average ones.

A lady can remove her wig and you can't recognise her again talk more of appearing without make up or fake Butt Hip.

Some of the Busty/Chubby ones, when they remove cloth you may throw up (Vommit). Forget, there's nothing speacial about women if not for the simps among men that made them feel important

As if most ladies are displaying their beauty online or finding dates online? The online world is so different; it is full of imaginations and fake information. Do most ladies even care about butts or hips? Forget the internet world; in the real world, ladies without big butts and hips are rocking themselves with great pride and confidence.

Merry100:
As if most ladies are displaying their beauty online or finding dates online? The online world is so different; it is full of imaginations and fake information. Do most ladies even care about butts or hips? Forget the internet world; in the real world, ladies without big butts and hips are rocking themselves with great pride and confidence.

Confindence when they are surrounded by simps that praise them for what they're not.

When they jam a real guy, they fall even if the guy is ugly.

Bendeco02:


Confindence when they are surrounded by simps that praise them for what they're not.

When they jam a real guy, they fall even if the guy is ugly.

🤣🤣🤣 You are only confusing yourself. What is your definition of a real man? I hope you don't think that simply having money automatically makes you a real man and will attract most ladies to worship and surround you like pests. There are certain women who will admire and surround you based on wealth, but it is not the majority. In Nigeria, the percentage of wealthy men is not even up to 5%. If there were many wealthy men, you would understand that there is actually a scarcity of desperate women.

Don't rely solely on online research. Venture out into the real world and conduct thorough research, and you will discover that many women prioritize love and other values over money while selecting their partners.

Merry100:
🤣🤣🤣 You are only confusing yourself. What is your definition of a real man? I hope you don't think that simply having money automatically makes you a real man and will attract most ladies to worship and surround you like pests. There are certain women who will admire and surround you based on wealth, but it is not the majority. In Nigeria, the percentage of wealthy men is not even up to 5%. If there were many wealthy men, you would understand that there is actually a scarcity of desperate women.

Don't rely solely on online research. Venture out into the real world and conduct thorough research, and you will discover that many women prioritize love and other values over money while selecting their partners.

When i say real men, am not referring to wealthy men.

I mean alpha male

On your last paragraph, maybe you thought you're talking to someone that is a novice. Like i told you earlier, i have run things with your gender and know them to some extent.

For this our generation, many don't enter marriage for true love. The last girl i dated, few months to her wedding, she still visits me and we keep having intimacy. The man about to wed her calls and she tells him she is in her room.

Don't even mention true love again, because i know some married women having affair outside their marriage with men below their husband status.

After marrying the so called true love or choice, you still go outside to Bleep

Bendeco02:
When i say real men, am not referring to wealthy men.

I mean alpha male

On your last paragraph, maybe you thought you're talking to someone that is a novice. Like i told you earlier, i have run things with your gender and know them to some extent.

For this our generation, many don't enter marriage for true love. The last girl i dated, few months to her wedding, she still visits me and we keep having intimacy. The man about to wed her calls and she tells him she is in her room.

Don't even mention true love again, because i know some married women having affair outside their marriage with men below their husband status.

After marrying the so called true love or choice. Tall, handsome man, you still go outside to Bleep shorter, ugly man

Whether you mean alpha men or wealthy men, it makes no difference.

One thing is certain: you haven't dated up to 0.00001% of the entire population of women in Nigeria, and the last girl you dated doesn't represent all the women in the country.

Certainly, not many women in Nigeria will still go out to bleep shorter, ugly men or even bleep any other man aside their husband.

LUAN:
All the girls keep saying they need a tall, dark man. It has become a serious matter. At first, I thought it was a joke, but now that I’m considering settling down, I realize that women are truly serious about their preference for a tall, dark man.

Goan make money, their preference go change. Then you will hear something like

"I didn't really mean it like that". What I was trying to say was that . . .

You go hear explanation

EmmyMaestro:
Goan make money, their preference go change. Then you will hear something like

"I didn't really mean it like that". What I was trying to say was that . . .

You go hear explanation

how much money go be enough, because i don't think i will everly make enough money that' will substitute the physical attributes and attract True love

Merry100:
If you feel misunderstood, explain your point.

You said and I quote, "Most women have low self esteem than men. So, anyone that has the confident can approach and get them."

Good morning Ma
Please check Sandralight profile

LUAN:
All the girls keep saying they need a tall, dark man. It has become a serious matter. At first, I thought it was a joke, but now that I’m considering settling down, I realize that women are truly serious about their preference for a tall, dark man.

……

You’ll be making a huge mistake if you judge women to be unrelentingly fixated on height. Ladies say everything they want to say but realities are very different.

People usually mature, and they leave behind fantasies and become realistic. Because the calculations an individual must score to secure a good partner leaves no room for unrealistic expectations.

To meet a good partner calls for the permutations of qualities such as genotype, religion, parental approval, good source of income, good family background, promising future, responsible, can lead themselves, good character, educated, etc.

You can’t be unrealistic with things like height when very important qualities is at stake. So if she meets a man with average height that score very high in the above qualities, she will dump him for someone who doesn’t just because he is tall ?

If you’re not dwarf short, then I see no reason why you’re worried. All you have to do is become the type of man a good woman is looking for.

ThorOdinson:
I am 6.3 tall and yet
I am single and no woman wan settle down or asked me out yet.
I feel all this tall guy stuff is horeshit myth

Your type are hotcakes in market is just that you are not in love with the type of women that comes your way.

Diamond098454:
Your type are hotcakes in market is just that you are not in love with the type of women that comes your way.

Madam men are not into market like women.

Men are the ones to choose women to marry and not the other way round.

There was never a time it is hard for a man to get a wife. But if a woman is old, all men run away from her.

Whether short, tall, ugly or poor, a man will get a woman once marriage is involve.

Even dwarf men still marry normal women, but you will never see dwarf woman marry normal man.

Men are the prize. Women only hype themselves online.

All a man need is to elavate his status and marry a woman of his choice.

Women don't buy men. So nothing like market for men.

Better face real life and stop staying online too much on TikTok and dating apps.

PreshMarvin:
I followed short fair skinned guy and he left me saying he’s not enough for me

Hey what's up

You are right though
Location matters too
I guess

Diamond098454:
Your type are hotcakes in market is just that you are not in love with the type of women that comes your way.

pulsa:
Hey what's up

you wan toast woman for my thread

Love don't exist in women dictionary when it comes to relationship or marriages.

So short and fair skin men will get them once he has "things" to offer them.

Helpout12345:
Love don't exist in women dictionary when it comes to relationship or marriages.

So short and fair skin men will get them once he has "things" to offer them.

what would you have to offer a woman that would be enough

You guys don’t have steeze that’s why you can’t get women..If a dwarf can get married then why can’t you guys find a woman..

LUAN:
what would you have to offer a woman that would be enough

Nothing can be enough for a woman. You can NEVER satisfy them. Eve had everything in eden but was still going after a fruit.

Where there is no love, there can NEVER be a satisfaction.

A short, fair-skinned man does not "find love" in the romantic sense. He finds a negotiated settlement. He either accepts solitude, enters a transactional dynamic where his resources buy companionship, or relocates to a market where his traits are more highly valued. The search for unconditional romantic love, is a fool's errand for men who do not meet the strict physical thresholds set by female hypergamy.