femmy2010:

I guess the social-Economic condition is not helping matters and our society is one that celebrate MONEY irrespective of how the money was gotten.
Even some parents have this natural tendency to show some unanticipated biased when dealing with their daughters boy friends.One that has it all seems to have a much welcoming welcome and he hustling boy friend get the least of the welcoming welcome.
[b]People orientation has changed and changing it back to a better one would be a very hard one.[/b]

madlady:

Money is very necessary but, using someone for it is shameful.

microgi@nt:

y me:

^^^thunder fire that ya CP wey you take type that rubbish

hackney:

Infact some girls do think that the more you spend = the more love you have for them.

manoy:

Yeah,Money is not everything but BRITGIRLEE can u date a someone who is not rich? Status and wealth should not be the real reasons why one would wanna go into marriage. Other things should be put into consideration.

britgirlee:

Hummm intresting

@ YME
fortunately im in a position that I'm able t support my self, and yes i have dated financially stable men, HOWEVER
I'm glad I'm in a position to see how selfish, selfcentered and also self absorbed SOME of these men are, who have had their egos blessed with money hungry women and now they think they are invincible.
That is till they meet a woman who can handle her own home, then its fumble all the way, lol

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chiogo:

It depends on how you define 'money grabber'. If a woman is successful(as in rich) and seeks to be with a guy who's also financially successful, I don't see that as being a money grabber. It's simply living up to one's standards. It's not gold-digging if you also have your gold.

britgirlee:

guess you didnt read one of my replies

hackney:

As far as money roles in a relationship:

Only childhood sweethearts can decide to manage if there's no food in the house.
People that are so used to themselves that material things dont even have much of a place.
Such cases where friendship alone is timeless and so rock-solid that even after trying to kill themselves they hold
hands and laugh about it.
but normal courtship of meet girl and start going out? iya. i ga asikwa!
Money must be there to facilitate a lot of moves and arrangements especially in nigeria.

Infact some girls do think that the more you spend = the more love you have for them.

cold:

The only beautiful abt this thread is that it has brought Chiogo out of hibernation.So true,when it's an issue of money,everybody is of the same religion.Welcome back