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I don dey hear of this marital rape something, abeg make person explain especially the ladies cuz I no understand wetin Una dey cap, Una go make women now go start to dey deny their husbands toto just to claim marital rape later.

All this new day theories of explaining situations is something I don't Bleep with, cuz he don cost a lot of chaos and misunderstanding in the society.

Too many words these days use to see describe situations and even making the situation more complicated than it already was

Drella:
If it takes her 1 year to feel like it, I should wait too? Very unrealistic if you ask me. Even just for a month, no man deserves to be constantly denied sex for no reason.

What the fückk are you saying? If I don’t feel entitled to my wife’s body, is it your body I should feel entitled to?

No, you're not entitled to anyone's body apart from yours. I'll say if your spouse denies you sex, it's a perfect ground for divorce if you're abroad, if you're in Nigeria then you can get it elsewhere without any repercussions. Me personally, if you deny me sex for two months without any valid excuse, I'll go and get it elsewhere.

Drella:
The focus of that Car analogy is not on “car” but “authority”.

And my reply based on your analogy is that no man has authority over his fellow man and even over children.

Even over animals, man's previous authority over them was reduced to "and the fear of you".

So, no husband has full and unfettered authority over his wife if she does not consent to it.

Drella:
The main message is a woman should not refuse her husband for no reason. A man is not meant to force it. If she doesn’t refuse her husband, there won’t be the issue of forcing to start with.

See where you guys are letting your penis think for you and how you people have made sex to over rule you.

The bible did not say "no reason" for there are lots of reasons and grounds why a wife can refuse you sex as aforestated by the bible.

Eg Menses: sex in menses is forbidden. Leviticus 18:19.;
When she is mourning/sorrow/pain, Deuteronomy 21:13;
immediately after child birth , Leviticus 12:2 etc

So, you see the bible is big on holiness, fairness, equality and reasonability.

Thus, if a wife has reasonable reasons to withhold or deprive you of sex, it is valid and lawful.

Drella:
As for you saying a marriage is over if she refuses sex, the only acceptable reason to end a marriage according to the bible is infidelity.

For the purposes of marriage and rape, if the marriage is going well, then a wife will always be opening up to her husband and a husband will never rape his wife.

So, by this reason every reasonable person can say that rape will never occur in marriage as the wife will always consent to having sex with her husband.

However, once she does not consent to sex, it also means that she does not consent to furthering the marriage, because marriage means sex (aside; which is why Okafor's law holds and side chicks, slay mamas and Prostittutes have a hold on each man they have had sex with [b]because sex is marriage. So many people have more than 1 wives and husbands[/b).

Thus, no sex, no marriage.

Which is why once a marriage starts lacking sex, the couples have divorced in spirit or are divorcing.

Thus, if you force a former wife to have sex with you, without her consent, you are raping her.

And when a wife does not want to have sex with you, is it not a sign of infidelity as you know that she must have sex with someone, even if it is not you?

So, you see there are many ways infidelity shows its ugly head.

Drella:
1. I see you don’t believe and follow the bible...

That guy is a devil and a Satanist! He is even below atheists.

budaatum:
But you don't have authority over your wife since you didn't buy a slave!

In fact, slavery, though sort of condoned by the book you quote from, has been abolished! Or would you like to bring it back with a Bible quotation?

Shut up devil. You are the ones who in slave people while God through the Bible is the one who came and freed them and broke the chains of slavery

https://www.nairaland.com/8224849/god-through-bible-what-stopped.slavery

Gotocourt:
Nothing like marital rape in Nigerian law. Spit on it, drill it and cum like a Boss. Zero apologies

Ha spit, drill and cum after cumming wetin? Please let's learn to respect ourselves, even the man should have the days he's not in the mood as well...
If the lady says No! then just leave her, but talk your mind if he too much make she find her way simple.

This life no balance Sha e get one of my neighbor wey marry her husband Sabi drink en, funny enough he will send her the ogogoro to buy. If this man piss that place wey him piss you no fit breath 😂😅,but if he dey house madam dey room 😂😂 chaii I come dey wonder how God created some women walai, I never see that man brush before ever. It's well if you no give that woman attention in this marital rape matters swears she will be the one looking for him and complaining about lack of attention, she should either chose to leave or balance everything somehow, period ✌️

Drella:
If you don’t have authority over a car in your possession, it means you can’t tell me when to drive it and when not to.
I can drive it when I wish!

na woman turn motor so God please help us do you love your woman really? Can you enter pussy wey no wet? How you go enjoy when your babe no dey touch you instead of moan na cry haba now, even some times car engine dey knock because of over drive... If the car no rest he go dey malfunction now!

Feminist work. No such thing as rape in marriage.

Drella:
A man has authority over his wife because a man is the head of his home.
A head without authority is nothing but a tail!

Parents have authority over their children, does that mean the children are slaves?

Is the house not his own? So why would he not have authority?

Did he have authority over her when she was in her father's house or her own house? No.

Is it not because she consented and allowed him to have authority over her, that he began to exercise authority over her?

If she did not consent did he have authority over her? No

So, you see her consent is fundamental to your supposed authority and the second/minute she refuses it, you have no authority over her.

Which is why you can keep to your own lawfull estate while she safely and lawfully returns to her own lawfull place.

It is not by force to be married or to continue being married even when you no longer want to.

Even a child is free to walk away from his parents, it is not by force to be parented.

So you see, authority over persons always requires the ruled to consent to it. Which is why Nnamdi Kanu is complaining about Government and that they are unlawful to him. And he is right.

"No man is good enough to govern another man without that other man's consent. Abraham Lincoln

Government itself is founded upon the great doctrine of the consent of the governed, and has its cornerstone in the memorable principle that men are endowed with inalienable rights. Leland Stanford

Exceed15:
Feminist work. No such thing as rape in marriage.

Easy man. Some husbands are stupid enough to think that there is no difference between a human being who made the mistake of becoming their wife and their mannequin intimacy gadgets, so they need to be put down.

This is Beastiality and it is a ground of divorce even in the Nigerian Law

Jozilinn:
na woman turn motor so God please help us do you love your woman really?

Imagine oo.

Jozilinn:
Can you enter pussy wey no wet? How you go enjoy when your babe no dey touch you instead of moan na cry haba now, even some times car engine dey knock because of over drive... If the car no rest he go dey malfunction now!

Do you not see the news? Rapists don't give a fvck. They take it by force

Dtruthspeaker:
Shut up devil.

Have you learnt about square roots yet?

budaatum:
Have you learnt about square roots yet?

Have you used it to buy garri, yet?

Dtruthspeaker:
Have you used it to buy garri, yet?

Is that what you were told square root was for, or have you still not learnt not to live by gari alone?

jaephoenix:
https://numberdyslexia.com/squares-and-square-roots-real-ife-examples/

https://unacademy.com/content/ssc/study-material/mathematics/how-square-roots-can-be-applied-in-real-life-situations/

https://byjus.com/question-answer/where-can-we-use-squares-and-square-roots-in-our-daily-life/

Instead of just keeping quiet and keeping us to guess about your dumbness, you had to open your mouth and make the doubts go away.
Guys, watch him talk more rubbish now

budaatum:
Is that what you were told square root was for, or have you still not learnt not to live by gari alone?

If not that you are mad, you would have read that the complaint is that no one has used square roots to solve any everyday problem

And that no one in that thread could show us how they used square root to solve any ordinary and natural problem including the stupid atheists you cited who is showing other people claiming to use square root to solve imaginary problems thereby showing that even he himself has never used square roots to solve any problem of his.

So stop derailing the thread, stupid devil.

Dtruthspeaker:
If not that you are mad, you would have read that the complaint is that no one has used square roots to solve any everyday problem.

Kind of shows your limit don't it, that you think everyday problems is all you have to solve when your life ought to be of more value than everyday food, and your body of more value than daily clothing.

As for derailing the thread, perhaps first stick to the topic yourself instead of pointing your filthy fingers at others.

Drella:
1Corinthians 7

The opinions of Paul are just that, opinions.

Gotocourt:
Nothing like marital rape in Nigerian law. Spit on it, drill it and cum like a Boss. Zero apologies

😔😔😔

Baronthecelebri:
If she refuse to give you sex divorce her

Simple!🤔

Drella:
✓ If you don’t have authority over a car in your possession, it means you can’t tell me when to drive it and when not to.
I can drive it when I wish!

And this is the core of the delusion that rapists dwell in...the notion that a women or wife is a possession one obtains authority over. -- a property or even slave.

budaatum:
Kind of shows your limit don't it, that you think everyday problems is all you have to solve when your life ought to be of more value than everyday food, and your body of more value than daily clothing.

As for derailing the thread, perhaps first stick to the topic yourself instead of pointing your filthy fingers at others.

Everyday problems is what occupies 95% of our lives and even a stupid person like you is not concentrating his life trying to use square root to solve Trump and Ramaphosa's problem.

And again evilatom, see how you prove you are an atom of Lies and evil? The thread shows it is you derailing it, all by your evil self

Dtruthspeaker:
Everyday problems is what occupies 95% of our lives ....

For some of us, that 5% you ignore is what is more important, as it tends to include and concern others, like ones neighbour or husband or wife, because God takes care of the 95% so we can concern ourselves with that 5% you don't have the capacity for.

budaatum:
For some of us, that 5% you ignore is what is more important, as it tends to include and concern others, like ones neighbour or husband or wife, because God takes care of the 95% so we can concern ourselves with that 5% you don't have the capacity for.

Only you are claiming "some of us". Clear proof you are a mad person.

Everyone else concern themselves with the 5% only when they are important and relevant and that is when they give it the attention it deserves.

And concern for other people whether neighbour, wife, husband, boss form part of the 95% of our everyday problems as the threads here show.

So you see you are talking rubbish.

Your own Bible must have it written in there somewhere that you must love your 95% self first, then your god, and only then, others. Its the reason you are so quick to insult others and ignore your god.

Dtruthspeaker:
Only you are claiming "some of us". Clear proof you are a mad person.

Everyone else concern themselves with the 5% only when they are important and relevant and that is when they give it the attention it deserves.

And concern for other people whether neighbour, wife, husband, boss form part of the 95% of our everyday problems as the threads here show.

So you see you are talking rubbish.

budaatum:
Your own Bible must have it written in there somewhere that you must love your 95% self first, then your god, and only then, others. Its the reason you are so quick to insult others and ignore your god.

My own bible says love your neighbour as you love yourself.

So I love myself so much that I am very intolerant of stupidity and foolishness. So I can not and do not accept it of my neighbour. How much more you.

And you are derailing the thread.

budaatum:
What you do not realise is the olosho you shag is shagging you for money, and you consider a wife as olosho on tap.

Guess all I can say is, may you have many daughters. They'd soon teach you to value women more, or you'd have to train them to be oloshos.

You've not said anything sensible or in connection to what i wrote
And I won't be caught exchanging words online
So enjoy

dhiqson:
✓
This is why i tell my guys. Go for hijabis. Go for muslim women. Most woke bastards are of Christian fold
Meet hijabis man. What is martial rape edakun? Sex in marriage was what the bible wanted from us. If you're bringing rape, then the purpose of marriage is defeated. As a single guy, i shag more. But i get married. Ya telling me it's only when ya in the mood u do? When payin bills I pay REGARDLESS HOW I FEEL. I DON'T FEEL GOOD I PROVIDe. I FEEL DOWN I PROVIDE. But somehow, women have coined another term rape Thank Jesus for hijabis abeg
Alhamdullilah

Violence hidden behind religion can go both ways.

Jozilinn:
na woman turn motor so God please help us do you love your woman really? Can you enter pussy wey no wet? How you go enjoy when your babe no dey touch you instead of moan na cry haba now, even some times car engine dey knock because of over drive... If the car no rest he go dey malfunction now!

The analogy explains concept of authority, not object.

I never supported forcing sexx. What I am saying is a wife shouldn’t turn down her husband unnecessarily.

Drella:
➜The analogy explains concept of authority, not object. I never supported forcing sexx.
➜ What I am saying is a wife shouldn’t turn down her husband unnecessarily.

What authority? Who you be wey you be authority abeg?
2. Because she loses her right to be a human as a result of having a husband? Are you people OK at all?

Have you people seen the mad judgement an Indian court just passed on spousal rape?

Forced unnatural s3x with wife without her consent not offence - Indian High Court rules after man s0domised his wife to d3ath: Linda ikeji

Forced unnatural s3x with wife without her consent not offence - Indian High Court rules after man s0domised his wife to d3ath

Unnatural s3x between a man and his adult wife does not merit punishment, the Chhattisgarh High Court in India said in a recent judgment.

The judgement was delivered by Justice Narendra Kumar Vyas, a Times of India report stated.

The case involves a 40-year-old man whose wife d!ed in hospital after unnatural sex.

The doctor said she had peritonitis and rectal perforation.

The man was arrested in 2017 and later convicted by a trial court in Bastar district under IPC Sections 376 (rape), 377 (unnatural sex), and 304 (culpable homicide not amounting to murder) following his wife's d3ath.

The prosecution stated that the woman had complained of pain and informed her family that her husband had engaged in unnatural s3x against her will.

Her dying declaration, recorded before an executive magistrate, stated that she became ill due to “forceful s3xual intercourse” by her husband.