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| Dating A Single Mother by Oluwashina72(op): 8:04pm On Feb 12, 2025 |
Im 27 she’s 22 with a girl for a guy who is not in Nigeria,things are bad with mother inlaw. That they even spoilt her to the guy abroad He doesn’t care about her not a dime does she receive from him since she had the child I met her when I needed someone to help me sell my products,that’s how we met. But right now I stay with my parents planning to relocate and run my business and she wants to move with me with her child So she plans returning her to the guy family when she clock one year by August She will get a job when we relocate Just scared it won’t turn out bad for us if we stay together but she’s smart and lovely. She’s not promiscuous. And we kinda like each other So why im considering the deal is when the child clock one year she will return her to the guy parents and we will continue our life together. Is it a good idea to date to marry her? |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Love800(m): 8:17pm On Feb 12, 2025 |
Your life with be complicated in the long-run. Pls don't ask me why. Ponder about it and raise more questions for solutions to people who you think can advise you concerning my statement! |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by eepeepook: 8:30pm On Feb 12, 2025 |
Do whatever you want. Masculinity means taking your own actions and living with the consequences. |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Sonnobax15(m): 8:42pm On Feb 12, 2025 |
![]() This is the worst kind of race I can never even advise my enemy to embark on let alone a bro or a friend... Bro,abort mission.....Cuz that child will always be a point of connection between her and her baby daddy and trust me,you won't want to be in the midst of it all . |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by ObiaboAdoka(m): 8:44pm On Feb 12, 2025 |
Some of them are very caring nd nice. I used to date one some years ago but we later split due to reasons best known to us. |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Thugnificent(m): 8:48pm On Feb 12, 2025*. Modified: 6:14am On Feb 13, 2025 |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Babamide(m): 5:22am On Feb 13, 2025 |
Are you saying you are dating someone with a baby that is not up to a year old?? She is a nursing mother not a single mother. |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Nnamdipapa(m): 7:36am On Feb 13, 2025 |
You never start life and it is getting complicated already. |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Yugoslavia247(m): 7:56am On Feb 13, 2025 |
Oluwashina72:So u believe the cock n bull story. I am telling you from experience As a young man, your relationship with a gal while hustling is sex, emotional support and little financial support. Cohabitation works in temporary setting. Bro love is given to you because she wants you. Before you try putting yourself backward by 2 steps let me tell you, she will use you and dump you. You will not make friends and you will be doing things young guys are not doing or not doing things young guys are doing. That same girl check her whatsapp. Instagram and tell me u were shocked. She is replaying rhe same mistake that got her pregnant. When she sees you are comfortable in her eyes she tries to make it permanent. Bro dont choose that path. Please for you parent sake. Except you make 10million monthly. Please enjoy the sex, her fake good character, her kindness which will not last. Please dont become broke because of pussy. The money you are giving her, the food u are buying for her, the hair you do for her, the money she sees you are making na im entsr her eyes. Abeg run. After 1 year please thank me. |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Yugoslavia247(m): 7:59am On Feb 13, 2025 |
Oluwashina72:So u believe the cock n bull story. I am telling you from experience As a young man, your relationship with a gal while hustling is sex, emotional support and little financial support. Cohabitation works in temporary setting. Bro love is given to you because she wants you. Before you try putting yourself backward by 2 steps let me tell you, she will use you and dump you. You will not make friends and you will be doing things young guys are not doing or not doing things young guys are doing. That same girl check her whatsapp. Instagram and tell me u were shocked. She is replaying rhe same mistake that got her pregnant. When she sees you are comfortable in her eyes she tries to make it permanent. Bro dont choose that path. Please for you parent sake. Except you make 10million monthly. Please enjoy the sex, her fake good character, her kindness which will not last. Please dont become broke because of pussy. The money you are giving her, the food u are buying for her, the hair you do for her, the money she sees you are making na im entsr her eyes. Abeg run. After 1 year please thank me. She is willing to dump a child she born after 1 year. Shows you her kind of mind. I am sure you must like it. Imagine person wey fit dump child because of man. If another man give her better offer, who do you think you are that she wont dump you back. |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by obinna58(m): 8:27am On Feb 13, 2025*. Modified: 10:41am On Feb 13, 2025 |
Op na mumu, em eye go open soon if e no come out from slumber What kind of man believes a woman will willingly return her child to father after one year, if she’s willing to do that wouldn’t it be even scarier |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Zonefree(m): 10:29am On Feb 13, 2025 |
She'll not return the child. Match never start dem don dey win you 1:0. You're stuck, I pity you in advance. |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by EmperorCaesar(m): 10:50am On Feb 13, 2025 |
Why are most guys daft when it comes to their relationship with women? Are single mom so much that those are the type of men most of you now attract these days? Do whatever you want. You will later learn and join the queue of crying adults that has taken this same step in the past |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by rickleye: 1:37pm On Feb 13, 2025 |
Oluwashina72:I don’t see what the issue is ? Do you love her , do you see a future together. Don’t knock her down because she has a child who could turn out to become an amazing successful fellow with the right guidance and support . The child can be kept with her mum for a while and talk about your future together. It’s not for everyone if you are not open minded then perhaps you let her know how you feel and move on . |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:50pm On Feb 13, 2025 |
Oluwasina72, I want you to look at it from different perspectives: 1. What if the abroad guy comes back to her life that he want to correct all the anomaly treatment given to her from his family. 2. What if fund is not coming as she expected? How is she going to reacts 3. Give to the abroad guy family when the guy a year is No sir. Oluwashina72: |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Savedday2: 2:17pm On Feb 13, 2025 |
Why using you own hand to put yourself at a very disadvantage position? Will you ever allow any match start 2-0 with you Lossing? For not being a virgin that's 1-0 against you and then having child for another guy! One of the greatest disservice you can ever do to yourself as a man is this. |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Nobody: 3:19pm On Feb 13, 2025 |
Oluwashina72:real madrid match against man city match started at 0:0 |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Blitzking: 3:48pm On Feb 13, 2025 |
Oluwashina72:Men never learn..she will use your resources to train her child with the other man..when he comes to his senses he will contact her..they will chat and she will blame him..he will say he is sorry that he Is a changed man..he will say he want to be in the life of his child and she will feel the burden will be relieved a little..they will meet and he will knack the hellaout of hwrshe will come home and disrespect you and see you as less of a man for accepting her excesses and you will end up the fool. |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by Nobody: 4:48pm On Feb 13, 2025 |
Hehehe these boys never learn. I've stopped discouraging naive people from putting their hands inside fire. Experience is the best teacher and the best resetter of malfunctioning brain. Brother, move in with her, love her, feed her and train her child too. I want to beg you for just one favour though. Please don't forget to come back here and update us later on. Thank you
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| Re: Dating A Single Mother by favour32(m): 6:27pm On Feb 13, 2025 |
Nor start life with complications. You go old quick o! |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by michlins(m): 9:28pm On Feb 13, 2025 |
If you have to seek the opinion of strangers to be in a relationship with someone, you probably shouldn't be in the relationship to begin with You already have your reservations so no need trying to validate those |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by osazsky(m): 10:53pm On Feb 13, 2025 |
Handicap 1 na u dey so...when u done marry e go come be straight win for her why u own go be away loose both halfs |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by seanery: 1:53am On Feb 14, 2025 |
U KUKU READ MY MIND Babamide: |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by seanery: 1:55am On Feb 14, 2025 |
HIN NO GO LISTEN, TOTO DON BLOCK HIN EARS. Yugoslavia247: |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by seanery: 1:57am On Feb 14, 2025 |
GO GIVE DS BROTHERS DZ ADVICE AT HOME rickleye: |
| Re: Dating A Single Mother by seanery: 1:59am On Feb 14, 2025 |
U KUKU DON TALK AM FINISH Blitzking: |
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