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The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Pukkalolo(op): 11:29am On Feb 14, 2025
Why should Valentine’s Day be a one-way street?

I see only Men gifting women, but not the other way around.

Men have been lied to that they are the one to give, while women just receive.

If love is mutual, so should the gifts! Men deserve appreciation too.

No more simping.

A man who values himself inspires respect. So, gentlemen, ask for that gift—you’re not just a wallet, you’re worth it!

Remember women don't care about your investment in them. But they care about their investment in you.

Please for goodness sake, Ask your woman to gift you something too.

Common, Bro, don't you deserve to be spoilt too?

Gush! I feel pity for men.

Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by EmperorIsaac(m): 12:22pm On Feb 14, 2025
Some men like to be simps...and I pity them. They volunteer to be willfully blind even without manipulation.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Chillext(m): 12:33pm On Feb 14, 2025
SCAM celebration
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by twosquare(m): 12:33pm On Feb 14, 2025
That's true. Went to supermarket to get some things and possibly a Valentine card for my spouse.

That of "Happy Valentine to my wife" was sold out. The one with "Happy Valentine to my husband" was still in pile.

That was actually a visual fact again that men are least appreciated.

SMH.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Ehins22(m): 12:33pm On Feb 14, 2025
cheesy
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by danielbello(m): 12:33pm On Feb 14, 2025
For me I don't celebrate Valentine at all
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Acekidc4(m): 12:34pm On Feb 14, 2025
🧐
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by olatunji390(m): 12:34pm On Feb 14, 2025
Make God still punish those who use sex as Valentine's gift
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by AllBlack: 12:34pm On Feb 14, 2025
who is VALENTINE?
another well packaged WHITE MAN scam.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by bewisemasses: 12:34pm On Feb 14, 2025
Lol some men r scouring d internet to look for a logical and nice sounding excuse to avoid expending scarce resources on this day. My brodas no kill urself. If u must spend wetin u fit afford and fit de happy with urself tomorrow.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by SultanOfAbia: 12:35pm On Feb 14, 2025
Ok
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Manny21: 12:35pm On Feb 14, 2025
It is just a modern day interpretation. Valentine day does mean men expressing or proving love to women. It is generally an expression of love but they have turned to opportunity for women to bill
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by ganilas007: 12:36pm On Feb 14, 2025
Nothing is special about valentine. Boys just Dey use am collect pant from available opueh
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by raphy(m): 12:36pm On Feb 14, 2025
Na mumu guy no go ask.for gift na puna some girls go just give nothing again😂😂
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Domistar5(f): 12:36pm On Feb 14, 2025
My male friend received bundles of gift from his babe around this week before Valentine.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by AbuTwins: 12:37pm On Feb 14, 2025
VALENTINE DAY IS HARAM!

SHUN IT!
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Bahamas95(m): 12:37pm On Feb 14, 2025
I don't give a damn about Christmas, Valentine's day and others. I express my love anytime.


Person wey nor fit give me food on a normal day if he/she give me Xmas rice I nor go accept am......I regard it as fake love.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by bestman09(m):
What is Valentine?
If you surround yourself with serious matured minds that are not jobless, you won't even observe the so called valentine's day.

February 14 is just a normal day to me, nothing special.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by bewisemasses: 12:38pm On Feb 14, 2025
Men r wiser now. Thanks Hakimi and co
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by saphiere(f): 12:39pm On Feb 14, 2025
Pukkalolo:
Why should Valentine’s Day be a one-way street?

I see only Men gifting women, but not the other way around.

Men have been lied to that they are the one to give, while women just receive.

If love is mutual, so should the gifts! Men deserve appreciation too.

No more simping.

A man who values himself inspires respect. So, gentlemen, ask for that gift—you’re not just a wallet, you’re worth it!

Remember women don't care about your investment in them. But they care about their investment in you.

Please for goodness sake, Ask your woman to gift you something too.

Common, Bro, don't you deserve to be spoilt too?

Gush! I feel pity for men.
And you had to use a robot (chatgpt) to compose this rubbish?

Because you haven't seen does mean isn't happening.

Just google "women who buy their lovers gifts on val day" and see for yourself.

FYI: no man has ever bought a lady a private jet. Not even the richest men.

But a woman has bought her man a private jet.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by oluseyiforjesus(m): 12:39pm On Feb 14, 2025
Ok
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by OlawaleBammie: 12:39pm On Feb 14, 2025
Na u wan gift women ooh, me never buy shishi as val gift in my life, does that mean a no dey phuck??

Life is simple when u don't impose unnecessary pressure on urself.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Dhoneymix: 12:41pm On Feb 14, 2025
Scam
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by eepeepook: 12:41pm On Feb 14, 2025
Same hackneyed topics ever year.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by emmanuel596(m): 12:42pm On Feb 14, 2025
💯
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Anijay1212(m): 12:42pm On Feb 14, 2025
angry angry angry
Asking your woman for a gift is akin to begging because i am sure she doesn't ask before you give. So if she doesn't deem it fit to buy you a gift or at least take it upon herself to explain to you why she couldn't ,then know ye my brother that you are just a means to an end.
A woman that cares will move mountains for you at the slightest opportunity.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by JikSneh: 12:43pm On Feb 14, 2025
It's a day to remind my Yoruba neighbour that I'll knack her wet honey pot and spit on it.

Her husband has been away to Ghana for over 3 years and I have been the one that shines the young lady's Congo, even though I detest her but I have no option
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Airmate: 12:43pm On Feb 14, 2025
Wotoporiously tonyt grin grin grin street go full
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by whytediamond(m): 12:44pm On Feb 14, 2025
grin
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Dottore: 12:46pm On Feb 14, 2025
Ok
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by whytediamond(m): 12:47pm On Feb 14, 2025
OlawaleBammie:
Na u wan gift women ooh, me never buy shishi as val gift in my life, does that mean a no dey phuck??

Life is simple when u don't impose unnecessary pressure on urself.
Simps go say you're broke.

Omor, until men realise they are worth more than UEFA CHAMPIONS LEAGUE they will keep reversing the natural order.

Men with value no dey impress women with money. They will call you simp for spending on a borehole instead of their mother and father.
Re: The Valentine’s Day Lie No One Talks About (men, Wake Up) by Biggaboi(m): 12:49pm On Feb 14, 2025
I don already tell my babe sey "if I don't see any gift from u you too should forget Ur gift from me." Na she I dey wait for to fulfill her part cos she knows I have something ready to gift her.
This is 2025. Relationship must be a 2-way street. I don't simp for no banny anymore.
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