₦airaland Forum

dominique:
Nigerian men expect women to contribute 50% financial upkeep and 100% domestic upkeep. Bunch of lousy scammers! If she's working and contributing to the family finances and she's unable or unavailable to cook all the time, you arrange your own damn meals. Heaven won't fall!

Mikespecialone:
That shows the kind of wife you are

Bahamas95:
Some things are better left unsaid.


The bride's father is a foolish man.

Lovelyflower:
The groom is in for a long thing. Though the man may be right but saying it publicly is wrong, he hurts the groom's ego

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Nothing way una one tell me!

Na the man SPONSOR that wedding from start to finish

dominique:
Nigerian men expect women to contribute 50% financial upkeep and 100% domestic upkeep. Bunch of lousy scammers! If she's working and contributing to the family finances and she's unable or unavailable to cook all the time, you arrange your own damn meals. Heaven won't fall!

GreatAchiever1:
I don't have problems if the Bride's father told me all these before marriage, it's his terms and conditions in marrying his beloved daughter, so it's left for me to sign it (of which I wouldn't even dare to request for a pen not to talk of signing it). But if it's during or after the marriage he is saying this one, I go tell am say, E don pass, you don already hand am over to me, and as the Head and authority in this new family, it's based on what I want her to do for us and not want you're expecting her to do for us.

Besides, mutual roles is about expectations and not just emotional feelings, those feelings gradually dwindle (but may not eventually die out) but the expectations would always be required of you. Either as a man or woman, if you're not ready to fulfill you own roles that is expected of you in marriage, abeg, just wait and work on yourself before entering the marriage covenant.

Mikespecialone:
That shows the kind of wife you are

Phyde:
Understanding wife won't buy this idea.

casualobserver:
she is not a wife. real men dont marry such women.

dominique:
Nigerian men expect women to contribute 50% financial upkeep and 100% domestic upkeep. Bunch of lousy scammers! If she's working and contributing to the family finances and she's unable or unavailable to cook all the time, you arrange your own damn meals. Heaven won't fall!

Bahamas95:
Some things are better left unsaid.


The bride's father is a foolish man.

1Sharon:
Poor people in Nigeria don't get it. Rich people hardly cook.
Don't be suprised to find out that DJ Cuppy can't cook. They have assistants that do everything for them.

Fetula4u:
just like your mother

casualobserver:
she is not a wife. real men dont marry such women.

GreatAchiever1:
I don't have problems if the Bride's father told me all these before marriage, it's his terms and conditions in marrying his beloved daughter, so it's left for me to sign it (of which I wouldn't even dare to request for a pen not to talk of signing it). But if it's during or after the marriage he is saying this one, I go tell am say, E don pass, you don already hand am over to me, and as the Head and authority in this new family, it's based on what I want her to do for us and not want you're expecting her to do for us.

Besides, mutual roles is about expectations and not just emotional feelings, those feelings gradually dwindle (but may not eventually die out) but the expectations would always be required of you. Either as a man or woman, if you're not ready to fulfill you own roles that is expected of you in marriage, abeg, just wait and work on yourself before entering the marriage covenant.