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Back in 2022, I met a corper and we became close friends, it was 2 months to her POP , she finished and went back to her state. We are from the same state, she started telling me to come back home so that we can see, I later went home after one year and 2 months and we had a romantic time together, there was no formal relationship between us but she started taking about marriage.

She mentioned something of such recently but I told her that am not ready yet.
She just messaged me that she have a certain amount of money she can give to me to add to my business that by 2027 I will return it back.
She is offering to give me 2 million naira but am afraid to take it cos I know that she wants marriage but am not ready yet.

If she can loose fat , I may consider her. She is not chubby but fat and she go quick old pass me if she born.

If I accept her money and later marry another girl, she may poison me

If she can loose fat , I may consider her. She is not chubby but fat and she go quick old pass me if she born.

FakeDoktor:
Does she have the qualities you want in a wife apart from just physical appearance alone?

Zonefree:
Collect the money and still do not marry her, Heaven will not fall.

Man dey sponsor woman for school, woman go graduate, dump the man and marry another person.

Two can play.

torqque7:
This is the difference between men and women...see how a man is been logical about this issue with conscience but trust me if the case was reversed,the lady will see it as an opportunity to chop the guys money and run away and latter say did I ask or force you to borrow me the money? They ALWAYS feel they can play smart...

Anyway bro why don't you ask her to loose weight if she wants you guys to be an item cos you have not told her that is your concern so tell her let her know.

22o62021:
I don't know the right way to tell her to loose weight

torqque7:
There is no right way na...just tell her babe the reason I am not keen about marriage is because I am not into big girls..I like you but your size is a problem for me ,if you can work on it and slim down then we can work things out because I really am into you..

Bro for a girl to offer you 2m just like that of her money it means she genuinely has your interest at heart..even your family no go give you money like that..the babe is a wife material cos girls and akagum dey drag who gum pass,very few are not selfish and extremely stingy. Yet they are quick to expect men to spend on them or give them money..

FakeDoktor:
Does she have the qualities you want in a wife apart from just physical appearance alone?

22o62021:
I no get that mind oo

Astonmartin:
Don't you ever take the money, even if you love her or don't love her...
She's a good lady but don't take advantage of her burning love for you.
Of course she's trying to trick you into marriage,maybe time is against but you have to apply your sense and give her a little space.Stop having sex with her,be honest and tell her that currently you don't think you're ready for marriage.
Girls respect honest men with a touch of street credibility and you should never forget that..
By the way you seems like one's that easily influenced or don't have much saying when it comes to women..You have to man up,build up your persona and always thinks twice when dealing with these women cos they've mastered the act of manipulation..Have confidence in yourself and be a man of your words ,not a babbling or indecisive man

22o62021:
I don't even know

FakeDoktor:
Find out bro. From the experience of more than 90% percent of people all the sex appeal, beauty and love that usually draws one to a partner tends to fade out within a year or 2 and what you're left with are these qualities that many people tend to ignore at the beginning: humility, patience, cooking skills, ability to support financially, emotional intelligence, being a caring person, sexual compatibility, honesty, integrity, even mental stability etc