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I am writing this post from the deepest depths of my heart. I am not trying to insult or vilify Nigerian women, I am only speaking from experience.

I returned to Nigeria two years ago after living in the United States for over a decade, and ever since, I have been actively searching for a wife. At first, I was a bit naive, thinking it would be easy, but I have come to realize that most of the beautiful women I meet are either into "runs" or for the streets.

Let me be clear, money is not my problem. I am the head of a major company in Lagos, and I am ready to take care of my wife in every way possible. However, finding the right woman has been a struggle. Many ladies nowadays prioritize the wrong things, and I am tired of meeting the wrong ones. Every beautiful girl I meet is either a low key runs girl or very irresponsible. I don't want to be with a girl that clubs. I don't want to be with a girl that smokes and I don't want to be with a girl that keeps friends who spend nights out partying 3 times a week. I don't want to be with a girl that dresses scantily. I simply want a responsible girl that is good looking. Is that too much to ask?

That’s why I am turning to my fellow Nairalanders for help. If you know a lady who meets the following criteria, kindly recommend her to me:

Age: 23-30
Looks: Beautiful and not short
Body Type: Slim and preferably busty (I am very attracted to busty women)
Character: Responsible, well-mannered, and properly dressed
Education: Should speak good English and

To encourage serious recommendations, I will pay ₦50,000 for every relevant suggestion.
If you have someone in mind, please contact me via joetheman869@gmail.com
Make sure to include:
-A picture or a link to her social media so I can see what she looks like
-Her phone number or contact info so I can reach out and speak with her
- Your account number so I can send the money to you.

I trust the Nairaland community to help me find the right woman. I am looking for something serious, not games.

Looking forward to your suggestions. Thanks!

90%

In the nearest future, there will never be marriages anymore.... People will be having kids and be claiming babymama and babydaddies....

To find a woman that wants to marry and stay married is the most difficult thing to achieve in today's Nigeria......

If you mistakenly find her, the family of the girl will frustrate.you I to leaving her.....

E get one of my secondary school friend. You'll like the girl. She fits all these you said except say na very churchy girl o. Like she carries chirch on her head.

hunterezi:
E get one of my secondary school friend. You'll like the girl. She fits all these you said except say na very churchy girl o. Like she carries chirch on her head.

I don't mind if she is churchy, as long as she has good character and meets the criteria I laid out.

Please send me an email:

Op


You may end up marrying the wrongest person


You just have to calm down the first

Have prayed to God?

SmartManJoe:
I am writing this post from the deepest depths of my heart. I am not trying to insult or vilify Nigerian women, I am only speaking from experience.

I returned to Nigeria two years ago after living in the United States for over a decade, and ever since, I have been actively searching for a wife. At first, I was a bit naive, thinking it would be easy, but I have come to realize that most of the beautiful women I meet are either into "runs" or for the streets.

Let me be clear, money is not my problem. I am the head of a major company in Lagos, and I am ready to take care of my wife in every way possible. However, finding the right woman has been a struggle. Many ladies nowadays prioritize the wrong things, and I am tired of meeting the wrong ones. Every beautiful girl I meet is either a low key runs girl or very irresponsible. I don't want to be with a girl that clubs. I don't want to be with a girl that smokes and I don't want to be with a girl that keeps friends who spend nights out partying 3 times a week. I don't want to be with a girl that dresses scantily. I simply want a responsible girl that is good looking. Is that too much to ask?

That’s why I am turning to my fellow Nairalanders for help. If you know a lady who meets the following criteria, kindly recommend her to me:

Age: 23-30
Looks: Beautiful and not short
Body Type: Slim and preferably busty (I am very attracted to busty women)
Character: Responsible, well-mannered, and properly dressed
Education: Should speak good English and

To encourage serious recommendations, I will pay ₦50,000 for every relevant suggestion.
If you have someone in mind, please contact me via joetheman869@gmail.com
Make sure to include:
-A picture or a link to her social media so I can see what she looks like
-Her phone number or contact info so I can reach out and speak with her
- Your account number so I can send the money to you.

I trust the Nairaland community to help me find the right woman. I am looking for something serious, not games.

Looking forward to your suggestions. Thanks!

Do you have sisters or female cousins? Are they also into running, or are they ugly? You may never find a good lady o, those are the kind of ladies that will continue coming your way. Nigerian ladies are not the problem, the issue lies with you. Work on yourself.

He don happen

U need to be calm and patient in ur search o!

If they sense the desperation, you might go home with Delilah.

Go out more often; with friends, weddings, birthday parties even church too.

Good luck

DonEd:
U need to be calm and patient in ur search o!

If they sense the desperation, you might go home with Delilah.

Go out more often; with friends, weddings, birthday parties even church too.

Good luck

Exactly! Before smart man joe is outsmarted by the carnivorous daughters of eve.

[quote author=SmartManJoe post=134429367][/quote]I thought you toasted UyaiIncomparabl

She no gree

Manjoe you don come back from Dubai ??

And you no fit even tell us, I don dey message you for your WhatsApp you no dey reply

Hide your daughters o. OP na scammer.

Karlifate:
I thought you toasted UyaiIncomparab

She no gree

She didn't fall for it. She isn't stupid.

1Sharon:
Hide your daughters o. OP na scammer.

NL never disapoints
There must be a crack head with spoiler alert

Kosoco:
NL never disapoints
There must be a crack head with spoiler alert

You're free to give him your sister and take the 50k.

SmartManJoe:
I am writing this post from the deepest depths of my heart. I am not trying to insult or vilify Nigerian women, I am only speaking from experience.

I returned to Nigeria two years ago after living in the United States for over a decade, and ever since, I have been actively searching for a wife. At first, I was a bit naive, thinking it would be easy, but I have come to realize that most of the beautiful women I meet are either into "runs" or for the streets.

Let me be clear, money is not my problem. I am the head of a major company in Lagos, and I am ready to take care of my wife in every way possible. However, finding the right woman has been a struggle. Many ladies nowadays prioritize the wrong things, and I am tired of meeting the wrong ones. Every beautiful girl I meet is either a low key runs girl or very irresponsible. I don't want to be with a girl that clubs. I don't want to be with a girl that smokes and I don't want to be with a girl that keeps friends who spend nights out partying 3 times a week. I don't want to be with a girl that dresses scantily. I simply want a responsible girl that is good looking. Is that too much to ask?

That’s why I am turning to my fellow Nairalanders for help. If you know a lady who meets the following criteria, kindly recommend her to me:

Age: 23-30
Looks: Beautiful and not short
Body Type: Slim and preferably busty (I am very attracted to busty women)
Character: Responsible, well-mannered, and properly dressed
Education: Should speak good English and

To encourage serious recommendations, I will pay ₦50,000 for every relevant suggestion.
If you have someone in mind, please contact me via joetheman869@gmail.com
Make sure to include:
-A picture or a link to her social media so I can see what she looks like
-Her phone number or contact info so I can reach out and speak with her
- Your account number so I can send the money to you.

I trust the Nairaland community to help me find the right woman. I am looking for something serious, not games.

Looking forward to your suggestions. Thanks!

You sound desperate. Bro, calm down and continue the search on a low key. Dont try to rush things. Let it come naturally. You will be surprised how you will meet the girl you will marry. It may be at a grocery store or while chilling at a pub. These things come naturally. Don't force it. You be man, even if you're 40 yrs old, time still dey. So calm down. Make you no go rush in and rush out.

JASONjnr:
In the nearest future, there will never be marriages anymore.... People will be having kids and be claiming babymama and babydaddies....

To find a woman that wants to marry and stay married is the most difficult thing to achieve in today's Nigeria......

If you mistakenly find her, the family of the girl will frustrate.you I to leaving her.....

There are women who want marriage and want to stay married everywhere. I mean, everywhere. Well grounded women with great family values. But, you people have one or two experiences and suddenly box every woman into your dilemma.

1Sharon:
She didn't fall for it. She isn't stupid.

Fall for what

Who said anything about anyone being stupid

As for you OP, you and I know you're chasing clout and when you genuinely want to get married, you will. Except you lack social skills or have a general bias towards women, then that's a you thing. If you truly want a relationship, you should know how to go about it unless you want some distinct qualities that is/are hard to find, perhaps matchmaking and referrals can help? If you don't mind, you should start considering an arranged marriage.

Karlifate:
I thought you toasted UyaiIncomparabl

She no gree

?

Broke and irresponsible guys dey marry two at a time, na im you dey find am difficult with all your positive traits.

Fish dey smell.

SmartManJoe:
I am writing this post from the deepest depths of my heart. I am not trying to insult or vilify Nigerian women, I am only speaking from experience.

I returned to Nigeria two years ago after living in the United States for over a decade, and ever since, I have been actively searching for a wife. At first, I was a bit naive, thinking it would be easy, but I have come to realize that most of the beautiful women I meet are either into "runs" or for the streets.

Let me be clear, money is not my problem. I am the head of a major company in Lagos, and I am ready to take care of my wife in every way possible. However, finding the right woman has been a struggle. Many ladies nowadays prioritize the wrong things, and I am tired of meeting the wrong ones. Every beautiful girl I meet is either a low key runs girl or very irresponsible. I don't want to be with a girl that clubs. I don't want to be with a girl that smokes and I don't want to be with a girl that keeps friends who spend nights out partying 3 times a week. I don't want to be with a girl that dresses scantily. I simply want a responsible girl that is good looking. Is that too much to ask?

That’s why I am turning to my fellow Nairalanders for help. If you know a lady who meets the following criteria, kindly recommend her to me:

Age: 23-30
Looks: Beautiful and not short
Body Type: Slim and preferably busty (I am very attracted to busty women)
Character: Responsible, well-mannered, and properly dressed
Education: Should speak good English and

To encourage serious recommendations, I will pay ₦50,000 for every relevant suggestion.
If you have someone in mind, please contact me via joetheman869@gmail.com
Make sure to include:
-A picture or a link to her social media so I can see what she looks like
-Her phone number or contact info so I can reach out and speak with her
- Your account number so I can send the money to you.

I trust the Nairaland community to help me find the right woman. I am looking for something serious, not games.

Looking forward to your suggestions. Thanks!

The problem is your emphasis on beauty is too much! When I showed my wife(then fiancee) to my friends and family they felt she no fine! Just 2 years into our marriage na the same people dey talk say she too fine, seems like she dey chop my money too much.
There are still many good and beautiful ladies, you just have to tweak your requirements a little, the major problem you will face is that they may already be taken, I know a couple but my fear is that they're too good to be single.
Now here is my recommendation: move to urban or semi-urban area like lokogoma, Jabi, Utako, Wuse start attending local church you will see a nice girl either in that neighborhood or church, she must not be too beautiful (when you marry her she go fine die!) make sure she's living with her parents, make sure she is an undergrad in a private uni or just graduated from private uni, once you approach her go straight to talking marriage visit her family house often!

1Sharon:
Hide your daughters o. OP na scammer.

What can a man scam from 'i am looking for a man to pay my bills i am incapable of doing what adults are meant to do for themselves crew'

Same with finding a good husband is hard. Some men prefer a woman in niki minaj form with a small touch of chioma Jesus.

idahme:
What can a man scam from 'i am looking for a man to pay my bills i am incapable of doing what adults are meant to do for themselves crew'

Give him your sister for the 50k.

Karlifate:
Fall for what

Who said anything about anyone being stupid

Fall for his fake praises. Didn't you quote her based on his other thread ?

Honestly speaking, it is not just hard, it is very hard but it is possible.

SmartManJoe:
I am writing this post from the deepest depths of my heart. I am not trying to insult or vilify Nigerian women, I am only speaking from experience.

I returned to Nigeria two years ago after living in the United States for over a decade, and ever since, I have been actively searching for a wife. At first, I was a bit naive, thinking it would be easy, but I have come to realize that most of the beautiful women I meet are either into "runs" or for the streets.

Let me be clear, money is not my problem. I am the head of a major company in Lagos, and I am ready to take care of my wife in every way possible. However, finding the right woman has been a struggle. Many ladies nowadays prioritize the wrong things, and I am tired of meeting the wrong ones. Every beautiful girl I meet is either a low key runs girl or very irresponsible. I don't want to be with a girl that clubs. I don't want to be with a girl that smokes and I don't want to be with a girl that keeps friends who spend nights out partying 3 times a week. I don't want to be with a girl that dresses scantily. I simply want a responsible girl that is good looking. Is that too much to ask?

That’s why I am turning to my fellow Nairalanders for help. If you know a lady who meets the following criteria, kindly recommend her to me:

Age: 23-30
Looks: Beautiful and not short
Body Type: Slim and preferably busty (I am very attracted to busty women)
Character: Responsible, well-mannered, and properly dressed
Education: Should speak good English and

To encourage serious recommendations, I will pay ₦50,000 for every relevant suggestion.
If you have someone in mind, please contact me via joetheman869@gmail.com
Make sure to include:
-A picture or a link to her social media so I can see what she looks like
-Her phone number or contact info so I can reach out and speak with her
- Your account number so I can send the money to you.

I trust the Nairaland community to help me find the right woman. I am looking for something serious, not games.

Looking forward to your suggestions. Thanks!

Insist the lady must be a virgin so they dont package olosho as wifey for you.

SmartManJoe:
I am writing this post from the deepest depths of my heart. I am not trying to insult or vilify Nigerian women, I am only speaking from experience.

I returned to Nigeria two years ago after living in the United States for over a decade, and ever since, I have been actively searching for a wife. At first, I was a bit naive, thinking it would be easy, but I have come to realize that most of the beautiful women I meet are either into "runs" or for the streets.

Let me be clear, money is not my problem. I am the head of a major company in Lagos, and I am ready to take care of my wife in every way possible. However, finding the right woman has been a struggle. Many ladies nowadays prioritize the wrong things, and I am tired of meeting the wrong ones. Every beautiful girl I meet is either a low key runs girl or very irresponsible. I don't want to be with a girl that clubs. I don't want to be with a girl that smokes and I don't want to be with a girl that keeps friends who spend nights out partying 3 times a week. I don't want to be with a girl that dresses scantily. I simply want a responsible girl that is good looking. Is that too much to ask?

That’s why I am turning to my fellow Nairalanders for help. If you know a lady who meets the following criteria, kindly recommend her to me:

Age: 23-30
Looks: Beautiful and not short
Body Type: Slim and preferably busty (I am very attracted to busty women)
Character: Responsible, well-mannered, and properly dressed
Education: Should speak good English and

To encourage serious recommendations, I will pay ₦50,000 for every relevant suggestion.
If you have someone in mind, please contact me via joetheman869@gmail.com
Make sure to include:
-A picture or a link to her social media so I can see what she looks like
-Her phone number or contact info so I can reach out and speak with her
- Your account number so I can send the money to you.

I trust the Nairaland community to help me find the right woman. I am looking for something serious, not games.

Looking forward to your suggestions. Thanks!

You probably live in Lekki and environs, I have been there, and I understand your predicament lol


First you must avoid ladies that live on their own in Lekki and environs.


Look towards Lagos Mainland areas, those are the places you would find well raised single ladies that are living with their parents, relatives, etc.


Most single ladies on the island that are not raised there or living with parents/relatives came there for a target; to meet big fish (guys) like you lol.


Their daily routine is work, go back home, freshen up, dress up and head to club or high end lounges, bar, etc to spend the night and always with their pack of like minded female friends.


Those not working just stay indoors watching videos on TikTok, Facebook shorts, etc while pretending to be selling things online, when its night, they and their pack of friends head to the club to catch the day's big fish.



So try Lagos Mainland.

And stop letting people know your profile like you did here, if not, it will still attract the same leeches you are running away from lol


Another good place to find nice ladies is school environment. If you can, enroll for a postgraduate course in UNILAG, LASU, etc and see what happens. Also go for ladies 28yrs above, leave ladies below 28yrs if u want peace of mind lol.



I don't know your tribe, would have made more recommendations


I don't know why some guys find it hard to get good ladies, I am happily married with wonderful kids, but if I decide to marry again today, I will still marry one of the best ladies on earth. Maybe it's luck or Destiny or my ability to spot things and read people's personality from even a distance

franchasng:
You probably live in Lekki and environs, I have been there, and I understand your predicament lo


First you must avoid ladies that live on their own in Lekki and environs.


Look towards Lagos Mainland areas, those are the places you would find well raised single ladies that are living with their parents, relatives, etc.


Most single ladies on the island came there for a target; to meet big fish (guys) like you lol.


Their daily routine is work, go back home, freshen up, dress up and head to club or high end lounges, bar, etc to spend the night and always with their peck of like minded female friends.


Those not working just stay indoors watching videos on TikTok, Facebook shorts, etc while pretending to be selling things online, when its night, they and their peck of friends head to the club to catch the day's big fish.



So try Lagos Mainland.

And stop letting people know your profile like you did here, if not, it will still attract the same leeches you are running away from lol


Another good place to find nice ladies is school environment. If you can, enroll for a postgraduate course in UNILAG, LASU, etc and see what happens.



I don't know your tribe, would have made more recommendations


I don't know why some guys find it hard to get good ladies, I am happily married with wonderful kids, but if I decide to marry again today, I will still marry one of the best ladies on earth. Maybe it's luck or Destiny or my ability to spot things and read people's personality from even a distance

God bless the senior man 🙏💯