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Factcheck0001:
if I were to b d tailor, that's d same thing I will do

Because if I decide to call u n prolong d matter u will further attribute it to many things not working in your life n u might tell others n spoil his business

That tailor is wise, he removed d smoky wood from fire so he can enjoy his cooking

If he had called u since u already have a made up mind, u will probably blow it out of proportion

But now that he didn't answer u, u will think twice before telling another person that knows d man

100 likes for u

Antwan99:
If whites reason like this, believe me there wouldn't have been a phone like this for OP to what the baseless allegation he just laid out up there.

African and mysticism.

LOL

hotelMan:
Explain what exactly to you? Like others mentioned,your accusation is baseless! Have you considered your son is a wizard cos it's obvious say you don already chop winch. The person you buy the clothe from nko? Why isn't that one a suspect? You wey carry the clothe nko? Why is it the tailor? You are the fetish one from the jargons you wrote. Free your mind and stop being paranoid

The tailor is nice, if na me I will have you arrested so you can explain how you tested and confirmed he was fetish. That's how you go about spoiling people's business

Gbam!

MisterMan123456:
The twilight might not just have time for rubbish

Obviously not because there are many customers to attend to.

gunners160:
Even ur wig and eyelashes are fetish. Ur phone is also fetish. U AND D OP DEY MENT

LOOOOOOOOL

tsmith:
My 14yr daughter right from when she could speak doesn't like wearing nigerian cloths. She complains they itch (the sequins and finishing) and are generally uncomfortable. I can understand and relate (no pain no gain is my native motto) and also know many natives I've made for my boys that has been a struggle to get in and out of. We have a going joke that the cloths are constructed by carpenters not tailors. The OPs child might have had similar experiences with natives and is thus running and crying.

Ultimately, It takes one to know one, ie. A diabolic mind will often suspect others of such, and a untrusted soul will be distrusting of others

Gbam

Gggjhhj:
Your accusation without proof is baseless, kids do that always, they hate some, love some, some kids cry at the sight of some people, after sometime they end up loving who they seem to cry for. What if your kid was a witch been scared of the tailors annointing

LOL

Earthscience:
You are too quick in your judgement bro. Read my assertions and every comments on this thread you will get to know that you just made a fool of yourself through hasty generalisation that everyone is doubting him. The reactions so far have been the case of mixed feelings.

I guess you are exposed enough to know that two sides of a coin (head/tail) is key to probabilistic judgement.
Unfortunately the Tailor guy is not here to say his own side. Except you do not have a kid, because if you do, you should know kids will be unpredictable at times.

While calling everyone evil because everyone has different assertions about the situation that was analysed and feedback given based on OP's submission?

God bless you

GBPUSD:
He didn't call back for over a year to explain his own part to me. How is it baseless?

Are you one of them?

You don't just assume things out! You should have given him fair hearing first. If he didn't pick your calls, there is nothing bad in going there to hear him out first even if you are so sure he pits charm on the clothes. Wisdom is needed in this kind of case handling, unfortunately you didn't use it well to ascertain the matter and hold on concrete evidences.

What of if you presented good case in bad manner to him, how do we know that for fair judgement? You should have kept the clothes, buy one more or same new material he rejected without showing it to your child first, present new unsowed cloth (same material) or present sowed and unsowed to pick what he likes to wear. Later get it sow again and bring it to your son again to see if he will reject again. Rejection maybe on his choice of color or engraved image on the cloth he dislikes on the clothes. Your decision is too hasty, with patience; you could have unraven the truth better.

Your manner of approach and harsh presentation maybe the reason your tailor avoid picking your calls or call back or may base on any other reasons. However, whatever reason; you could have heard from him directly even if it warrants going to his shop to hear his side. You seem to be too hot temper and presented good case in bad way to him to rubbish his work.

Your tests are not too enough to hold the tailor responsible, apologize to him and even give him something because you bleeped up the whole thing; your reasons were too watery and you made hasty decision without concrete evidences. He may not even know how to present to you based on how you made him suspicious he charmed the cloths and his level of education or (lack of conflict solving skills on that matter of the moment between you)

FayaBall:
See more of them, dem don come to confuse op!

Hiss, what a generation that supports and makes excuses for evil even in spite of the tailor's fleeing.

Una wicked gon!

Make God come and wipe out this generation. Ah!

How old are you first??

Cus as an elder, u would wait for the tailor to tell you his side of the story.



Besides, in my intro, I said he might be right or wrong. U failed to see that??

StillDtruth:
This is where the problem is. The tailor was given an opportunity to clear the issue since suspicion has fallen on him but instead he ran away, exactly what the guilty do, which increases suspicion from suspicion to almost complete certainty.

Everyone knows that.

But rather, everyone is attacking the op rather than calling on the tailor to clear the suspicion that has fallen on him.

And this is very wicked. Exactly like blaming a maid who has been whipped and burnt by her evil madam by asking her whether she is not the one who whipped and burnt herself.

It's only a devil who will do that

I don't get you, so he should start defending himself he is not fetish and diabolic, because the man's child rejected a sewn cloth proves the tailor is evil, werey just keep defending on all fronts to just prove the tailor is evil

Did any spiritualist told him the man was evil, op is acting like he has not been with kids before, some even cry at the sight of there father carrying them when they are younger, so it should be assumed that the dad is evil, going by ops analysis

StillDtruth:
This is where the problem is. The tailor was given an opportunity to clear the issue since suspicion has fallen on him but instead he ran away, exactly what the guilty do, which increases suspicion from suspicion to almost complete certainty.

Everyone knows that.

But rather, everyone is attacking the op rather than calling on the tailor to clear the suspicion that has fallen on him.

And this is very wicked. Exactly like blaming a maid who has been whipped and burnt by her evil madam by asking her whether she is not the one who whipped and burnt herself.

It's only a devil who will do that

To the bolded, were you there? Did you witness it? Was this assertion not based on OP's narrative here? Think of my point when placing your judgement.

I have given the OP my humble submission (advice), that he should move on and that is the going forward

Caveat:
I am not discrediting OP's narrative, but the Tailor guy's counter narrative to corroborate OP's claim is key to arriving at informed decision

sreamsense:
You don't just assume things out! You should have given him fair hearing first. If he didn't pick your calls, there is nothing bad in going there to hear him out first even if you are so sure he pits charm on the clothes. Wisdom is needed in this kind of case handling, unfortunately you didn't use it well to ascertain the matter and hold on concrete evidences.

What of if you presented good case in bad manner to him, how do we know that for fair judgement? You should have kept the clothes, buy one more or same new material he rejected without showing it to your child first, present new unsowed cloth (same material) or present sowed and unsowed to pick what he likes to wear. Later get it sow again and bring it to your son again to see if he will reject again. Rejection maybe on his choice of color or engraved image on the cloth he dislikes on the clothes. Your decision is too hasty, with patience; you could have unraven the truth better.

Your manner of approach and harsh presentation maybe the reason your tailor avoid picking your calls or call back or may base on any other reasons. However, whatever reason; you could have heard from him directly even if it warrants going to his shop to hear his side. You seem to be too hot temper and presented good case in bad way to him to rubbish his work.

Your tests are not too enough to hold the tailor responsible, apologize to him and even give him something because you bleeped up the whole thing; your reasons were too watery and you made hasty decision without concrete evidences. He may not even know how to present to you based on how you made him suspicious he charmed the cloths and his level of education or (lack of conflict solving skills on that matter of the moment between you)

Thanks for this submission (the bolded). This has been my point to the OP

Exceed15:
God bless you

Amen sir!
Greetings to you.

FayaBall:
@ the bolded. Was the Tailor not given the opportunity to say his side?

Did he not flee like a guilty man?

So op gave him the opportunity and he fled like a thief does when caught!

So your trying to find excuses for him and trying to create doubts is suspicious in itself and is not working.

For the person you are defending has run away and did not stop to create defences and the doubts you all are trying to create in op's mind.

Sure sign you all are him and are simply standing for yourselves, for no innocent person nor reasonable person can find excuse for a person who himself did not excuse himself but fled.

Based on OP's narrative, you wrote the bolded words I guess? I can see you are king solomon...the best (flawless) judge on planent Earth

OlawaleBammie:
How old are you first??

Cus as an elder, u would wait for the tailor to tell you his side of the story.



Besides, in my intro, I said he might be right or wrong. U failed to see that??

Did he not give the tailor the opportunity to give his side of the story and he fled?

Abegi, you have nothing to say!

Earthscience:
Based on OP's narrative, you wrote the bolded words I guess? I can see you are king solomon...the best (flawless) judge on planent Earth

Did you not also write based on op's narrative?

Just say you don't have anything to say!

TUANKU:
I have lived and is still living a better life than anyone in your entire lineage has ever lived. You think everyone has a sad and miserable life like you? Dan Karuwa!

Your support for ritualist is proof that you are living a very miserable and cursed plenty plenty life.

E no go ever work for you!

You will continue to fail and fail in every endeavour you put your cursed filled hand into.

You go go thief, na there dem go put tire for your body, burn you alive!

Ritualist oshi!

GBPUSD:
He didn't call back for over a year to explain his own part to me. How is it baseless?

Are you one of them?

Of course he and all his supporters are one of them!

FayaBall:
Did he not give the tailor the opportunity to give his side of the story and he fled?

Abegi, you have nothing to say!

Guy, know that if u re giving me problem and u call me I won't pick and I won't call you back. The tailor might be in that position too

OlawaleBammie:
Guy, know that if u re giving me problem and u call me I won't pick and I won't call you back. The tailor might be in that position too

See it, after I answered you on your "you have not heard the tailor's side", now you have changed post and fled to em, if you give me problems bla bla bla.

Guy, you still do not have anything to say!

FayaBall:
See it, after I answered you on your "you have not heard the tailor's side", now you have changed post and fled to em, if you give me problems bla bla bla.

Guy, you still do not have anything to say!

I now understand I am talking with one 20yr old boy, if u don't know and can not decipher when someone is making an instance of a scenario.

Good luck on ur endeavour, byeee

FayaBall:
Did you not also write based on op's narrative?

Just say you don't have anything to say!

No offense , please read and learn to engage on critical and logical reasoning before commenting on a thread. I am convinced I am dealing with a sound mind. It is just an advice

Earthscience:
No offense , please read and learn to engage on critical and logical reasoning before commenting on a thread. I am convinced I am dealing with a sound mind. It is just an advice

Mr critical and logical reasoning that was completely stumped by my answer and couldn't counter

Shame on you, men. You better take your own advice, na you need am.

OlawaleBammie:
I now understand I am talking with one 20yr old boy, if u don't know and can not decipher when someone is making an instance of a scenario.

Good luck on ur endeavour, byeee

see more fleeing like Mr tailor!

Now you have run to scenario. What a joke. Shior!

Earthscience:
To the bolded, were you there? Did you witness it? Was this assertion not based on OP's narrative here? Think of my point when placing your judgement.

I have given the OP my humble submission (advice), that he should move on and that is the going forward

Caveat:
I am not discrediting OP's narrative, but the Tailor guy's counter narrative to corroborate OP's claim is key to arriving at informed decision

When you start saying '"were you there? Did you witness it?" It clearly means that you did not hear the matter or you do not believe the op.

And if you truly do not believe the op, then you would express the reason/reasons why you do not.

But, here you have not. And that is why you have a problem with me because to you, you are sitting on the fence, whereas there is no sitting on the fence in this kind of matter.

As proven by everyone who heard this matter, see how they have already concluded that they are guilty.

https://www.nairaland.com/7808255/course-rep-run-after-allegedly#125196215

And it is known the only people who never openly and directly condemn a wrong are the people who are guilty of it also. Exactly as no senator openly condemns the harassment of Natasha by Akpabio.

Gggjhhj:
I don't get you, so he should start defending himself he is not fetish and diabolic, because the man's child rejected a sewn cloth proves the tailor is evil, werey just keep defending on all fronts to just prove the tailor is evil

Did any spiritualist told him the man was evil, op is acting like he has not been with kids before, some even cry at the sight of there father carrying them when they are younger, so it should be assumed that the dad is evil, going by ops analysis

That is what the tailor should have done and would have done if he truly was not complicit.

There is no way that someone would accuse you of being a kidnapper that you won't defend it if you are truly innocent.

But if you truly, one of the reactions is for you to run away especially when you were not expecting to be caught. Exactly what the tailor did.

AllBlack:
Logic? Computer Logic or Mathematical or Philosophical? Please which university did you attend to learn the kind of LOGIC that helps you speak accurately on the behalf of others?

P.S - I am still in JSS1.

When you get to the university, you are supposed to learn it, hopefully

Op just trust your Guts

Only you and your Boy know the exact feeling

Trust your instincts. Chikena

Exceed15:
May be that's what u do . U suspect people of what you do.. mumu

Can you explain the 3-year old's behavior to the dress?

Can you also explain the refusal if the Tailor to respond to the call?

Who is the real mumu between u and the op?
Are you also a fetish tailor, using the destiny of your customers to boost your business?

2special:
explain what.... The tailor valued his Peace and Time

Why are you so sure of what the Tailor meant? Are you his partner? Do you live with the Tailor?

Factcheck0001:
so that's what makes him fetish?

See this one self

U didn't even tell us how u approached him, probably he got pissed off by your manner of approach n decided to let u dey your lane

Can you explain the 3-year old's reaction to the dress?