₦airaland Forum

cr7lomo:
So u think women without kids are the happiest....ur fish brain no be here ... why do u women love lying to urself....why?? ... why do u women love living in delusion

Kobojunkie:
This isn't about marriage being bad for young girls but the fact that the majority of said young girls are from a poverty background at this point in history and should not have any business with raising children of their own until after they have conquered the poverty issue first. Either that or risk cursing their family and children with poverty for generations to come.

DyshApp:
A young lady who identifies as a Christian woman has advised her fellow women to make enough money and desist from getting married in their 20s

In the video she posted, Faithful Femininity advised Christian women to stay away from early marriage especially when they can’t cater for themselves.

The young lady advised Christian women in their 20s to desist from getting married when they make enough money.

Her words: “As a Christian woman, I have decided that my 20s are not for marriage. My 20s are to make money. Christian women stop entering into marriage so early.”

”Go and make money. You don’t have a dime in your account. God and find a way to make money. In 20s, in your 30s, go and make money. Stop following men around. Some of you are doing Hallelujah Challenge and wearing bridal gowns.


“Have you made money? Like, I will not enter a marriage without money. And I’m talking about multiple sources of steady income. I’m not that kind of Christian woman that will enter her husband’s house with nothing in her account. God forbid. My 20s now na to work hard. My 20s is to make wealth.”

Merry100:
I’ve advised you before to do proper research before making baseless claims. Did you visit marriage registries, churches, mosques, or other wedding venues to verify whether up to 70% of brides are in their 20s before declaring that men hardly marry women in their 30s? Or you just pulled your claim out of thin air?

You sound like someone who skimmed through a high school biology textbook and now thinks he's an expert.

Since you seem so eager to learn ‘biology,’ let me educate you: while women’s fertility declines at 35-40, men’s sperm quality also starts deteriorating around the same time.

Aging sperm leads to lower motility, higher DNA damage, and increased risks of autism, schizophrenia, and genetic disorders in children.

Instead of obsessing over women, maybe advice your fellow men to get their sperm checked because a lot of them have sperm that get a head start but can’t even swim, let alone make a baby.

Many women in their 30s conceive naturally. Menopause, which happens around 45-50, is the real cut-off, not some imaginary ‘30-year expiration date’ you made up.

talented321:
There is one thing I realized some years ago and many people are just making a big mistake, you don't have to be rich before you can start a family.. Why I'm saying this is, I have seen many people who always brag around that they can't marry until they are rich, and while waiting for this wealth age and time wait for nobody...
My uncle was victim of what I'm saying and he is regretting his actions today...
All what I'm trying to say is, if you are managing with your life then just look for a sensible Man or woman and plan things together.. many things you have never achieved when you was alone with a sensible man or woman you might be able to achieve some..
YOU JUST NEED THE RIGHT PARTNER...

Kobojunkie:
Statistics show that the chances of poverty happening to those who first established themselves financially before marriage are significantly lower than poverty remaining the lot of those who entered into marriage while living in poverty. Again, you have Nigeria as a test case to work with. It is a country where the vast majority of those stuck in poverty today were not only raised in poverty themselves but also chose to get married and start a family before escaping the clutches of poverty. What we have today, with over 50 million families living under abject poverty and with many others struggling to keep from being dragged below by it, is not by chance.

Poverty does not follow people. Rather, poverty happens to people, and it does so in the form of shackles — their decision-making abilities, outlook, and way of life are impacted by it. But the good is that people can, even then, through self education/awareness, individuals can decide against poverty.

Felimax:
Fish brain nothing like enough money.
Too much money and you may attract the kind of men you will regret later.

Merry100:
Disagreeing with your baseless claims doesn’t mean I’m being emotional. I’m simply trying to educate you so you don’t keep spreading misinformation and blindly Googling things without actually understanding them.

If you recall, you started by falsely claiming that men rarely marry women in their 30s.

By the way, why is your focus often on women's issues? Why haven’t you ever advised your fellow men to cut down on sugar? Excessive sugar consumption negatively affects male fertility and sexual performance.

Stop acting like women reach menopause in their 30s or that all women in their 30s struggle with fertility issues.

While women do experience a gradual decline in egg count, fertility issues are less common in the early 30s.

Yes, fertility issues become more prevalent in the late 30s, but many women still conceive naturally at this stage.

Let me cite some examples, just as you did:

Rihanna gave birth to her second child at 35 with no issues.

My cousin gave birth at 37 with no issues.

Nicki Minaj gave birth at 37 with no issues.

I have friends who gave birth in their late 30s with no issues, some were even 38 or 39.


Though aging can lead to reduced sperm quality in some men over 60, some remain capable of fathering children. Similarly, although women's fertility declines after 35, with a more pronounced decrease after 40, some women in this age group can still conceive naturally. Everybody's biological clock is unique.

Susan Sarandon had her children between the ages of 39 and 45 with no issues.

Halle Berry gave birth at 47 with no issues.

Up to twenty of my acquaintances were over forty, and some were even up to fifty, and they gave birth without issues.

My grandma was over sixty when she gave birth to my dad without issues.

Kobojunkie:
She will have her money to keep caring for herself with until one finally shows up, I guess! Better than living in poverty with a man and even children before that point in time.

BloomingDale:
If you say so.

Smilleydr:
Am responsible,and wish to still more responsible, but seems am stringy, I don't wish to be stringy,

I just don't money to finish for my hand not that am intentionally stringy

Konquest:
[VicadiTalks | Maria Davids] on YT.

It’s normal for some women to regret getting married at some point in their marriages BUT they usually snap out of it down the road if things CAN be resolved. Better to quit a really bad and abusive relationship if situations CANNOT be resolved amicably than to manage it though.

BloomingDale:
I remember the story of a Nigerian woman saying she was happy in her marriage, and the married Nigerian woman came out to mock her saying she was lying, that no Nigerian woman married to a Nigerian man is truly happy in her marriage. They also hinted that marriage was just a task they endure due to societal pressures, so the matter of their issues being resolved down the line and snapping out of it just mean they are enduring and not truly happy. They are in a state of what I call a tolerable level of unhappiness.

DyshApp:
A young lady who identifies as a Christian woman has advised her fellow women to make enough money and desist from getting married in their 20s

In the video she posted, Faithful Femininity advised Christian women to stay away from early marriage especially when they can’t cater for themselves.

The young lady advised Christian women in their 20s to desist from getting married when they make enough money.

Her words: “As a Christian woman, I have decided that my 20s are not for marriage. My 20s are to make money. Christian women stop entering into marriage so early.”

”Go and make money. You don’t have a dime in your account. God and find a way to make money. In 20s, in your 30s, go and make money. Stop following men around. Some of you are doing Hallelujah Challenge and wearing bridal gowns.


“Have you made money? Like, I will not enter a marriage without money. And I’m talking about multiple sources of steady income. I’m not that kind of Christian woman that will enter her husband’s house with nothing in her account. God forbid. My 20s now na to work hard. My 20s is to make wealth.”

DyshApp:
A young lady who identifies as a Christian woman has advised her fellow women to make enough money and desist from getting married in their 20s

In the video she posted, Faithful Femininity advised Christian women to stay away from early marriage especially when they can’t cater for themselves.

The young lady advised Christian women in their 20s to desist from getting married when they make enough money.

Her words: “As a Christian woman, I have decided that my 20s are not for marriage. My 20s are to make money. Christian women stop entering into marriage so early.”

”Go and make money. You don’t have a dime in your account. God and find a way to make money. In 20s, in your 30s, go and make money. Stop following men around. Some of you are doing Hallelujah Challenge and wearing bridal gowns.


“Have you made money? Like, I will not enter a marriage without money. And I’m talking about multiple sources of steady income. I’m not that kind of Christian woman that will enter her husband’s house with nothing in her account. God forbid. My 20s now na to work hard. My 20s is to make wealth.”

Kobojunkie:
How does that amount to deceit?

Smilleydr:
nope by may like this I go clock 32

BloomingDale:
I remember the story of a Nigerian woman saying she was happy in her marriage, and the married Nigerian woman came out to mock her saying she was lying, that no Nigerian woman married to a Nigerian man is truly happy in her marriage. They also hinted that marriage was just a task they endure due to societal pressures, so the matter of their issues being resolved down the line and snapping out of it just mean they are enduring and not truly happy. They are in a state of what I call a tolerable level of unhappiness.

BloomingDale:
So women should live their lives according to what men find attractive? The same selfish men always insulting us and calling us fish brain? You are on a long tin.

Edusouls:
then keep quiet naah

cr7lomo:
Can't u see u are living in delusion.... we both both to give out what attracts the opposite gender.... imagine if men decided to be selfish and only think about what they want only....that means u women will suffer ... this shows reason women can't be leaders , u only think of what makes u happy even if it negatively affects the other party .... women are selfish beings ...but what men to sacrifice for them , they want men to go out of their way to please them .... if everyone becomes selfish....women and children will suffer terribly.... I really don't know how u women reason

talented321:
There is one thing I realized some years ago and many people are just making a big mistake, you don't have to be rich before you can start a family.. Why I'm saying this is, I have seen many people who always brag around that they can't marry until they are rich, and while waiting for this wealth age and time wait for nobody...
My uncle was victim of what I'm saying and he is regretting his actions today...
All what I'm trying to say is, if you are managing with your life then just look for a sensible Man or woman and plan things together.. many things you have never achieved when you was alone with a sensible man or woman you might be able to achieve some..
YOU JUST NEED THE RIGHT PARTNER...

idahme:
➜You are not smart, the reason for getting money supposedly is to achieve financial independence so you can cater for yourself and then in your 30s you still run into what you were afraid to run into in your 20s looking for a man to sponsor your financial liabilities, so i ask what then is the essence of rubbishing marriage and depending on a man in 20s when you will still run to that dame dependency when you are in your 30s?
➜This is the simple reason you see ladies in their 30s and 40s crying on social media after having the money but no man comes their way because they have passed their peak sexual market value, no one wants a woman has 98% pf her eggs dead. When will you ladies learn? Men and women aren't the same, the moment you build your life as a man forget it just continue to live that life as a man because that's how it will be.

Afolue:
➜upon that still. Na women marriage favour pas. E no help man by any standards. Even in wealth and poverty. Men are always at the loosing end. Many die before their time!
➜Menopause is the message that keeps ringing in them (the women) when they haven’t had the tot towards the direction of having kids