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Because it genetically doesn’t make sense! If you choose a woman from a bad genetic pool , your generation will die out. And as a man expected to give extreme material and physical sacrifices even to the point of death, you MUST pluralize your options to give your genes chances that are worth your life literally.

Obviouslyblunt:
I met my wife six years ago. We were still dating then. Won’t lie, the first year, I was cheating because I didn’t take her serious then. Fast forward to 2025 I have not even fancied any other woman five years now. I don’t even find them attractive. I think if you marry a good faithful woman, you wouldn’t consider looking at any other Lady. I find cheating as a chore.

No lies told. I don't look at any man long enough to even notice if he is finer than Mine.

If you get a good one that you love and respect, it is 100% easy to stay faithful and committed. People that say otherwise are probably not with the one they truly desire or they are bad people.

Cheating is a chore. I can't be diving like de Gea because he touched my phone.

If one woman satisfies all our needs, we will stick to one, until then, sidechick things. You cannot eat your cake and have it. I have a date night tomorrow with my main side chicken.

Nicenancy:
Why?

Man and woman can't stick with each other forever it's either death or change do them apart.

IF YOU CHOP TODAY NO MEAN SAY YOU DONE BELLE FULL FOREVER....HUNGRY NA FOREVER UNTIL DEATH.

Exceed15:
Most Men who end up with two women never planned it. No man leaves a peaceful woman.

Women pretend alot. Judging from what I have seen in the society most second wives end up becoming worse than the first wives.

Do you advice the man to go for a third wife if he couldn't find peace in the second wife?

Men are polygamous in nature. Same with all male animals.

Na konji
+ shakara /rude wife

If she they flex muscle with you despite being the man of the house mah braddah, marry another one join her. Women love competition

Bahamas95:
Women pretend alot. Judging from what I have seen in the society most second wives end up becoming worse than the first wives.

Do you advice the man to go for a third wife if he couldn't find peace in the second wife?

I have not seen up to 10 second wives that are calmer than the first. It has absolutely nothing to do with peace of mind. After all, the second wife na person main babe. Tuface's peace of mild is currently rubbing him brown powder and posting the video online.

I can't be eating Amala and Abula everyday. I must eat pounded yam and Efo riro, ikokore elede, lafun and seafood okra soup.

There are too many fishes in the lagoon . Why should I be eating only tilapia?

Man is simply not designed to stay in one place, or be a mono in anything, that why nature provided him variety of everything.

Both men and women of this generation deserve each other. This is a generation that believe they are wiser than God, that believe God and his words are obsolete.
You don't need to complain or ask why because even if the man is a loyal husband of one wife, the wife may still be having extralmarital sex with other men. Most men and women are now children of the devil.
Life and marriage without Christ will be full of crisis.
You can not eat your cake and still have it

I will only marry one wife if i no get up to 40million naira in ma account before i reach 30 years

Have you seen a lion 🦁 stick to only one lioness ?

Kobojunkie:
History of wars and strife? Do you mean history such as of husbands either casting out their wives —sending them back to their fathers—, or abandonment of wives and children, or the demonizing of women who spoke up against their husbands — some going as far as labeling them witches, etc.,? History is filled with such stories given that the male-centric societies which existed then also gave men power to win over women in most cases.

2. I don't need to tarnish your history since it speaks loudly for itself that the polygamy scheme never did work even then for your forefathers. You only need to look at the Northern Nigerian horde to realize how polygamy most likely devasted life during the time of your forefathers, eventually leading to its decline.

You take the outliers and claim that as history.

Na wa for you.

This is only 2% True[/quote]. Men love peace and quietness in most women doesn't translate to peace. So the 2% you gave is wrong. The guy you quoted is 100% right. Am married with 2 kids, for 8 years I have and had never thought of cheating on my wife both in finance and sex, because I swore to myself to stay faithful since am from a polygamous home. Am in my mid 40s and she is in her early 30s . So men with 2 wives don't blame them, though am still faithful to myself, because my WORD IS MY BOND

Nicenancy:
Why?

Why should I stick to one type of food?

Variety is the spice of life...we are wired that way.

Same way your gender is wired to spend money

Majority are indisciplined.

Because only God’s fear can make a man have one wife.

Why Can't Men Stick To One Woman?

Because a lot of women lose interest in sex after 2 kids and they start using sex as a weapon of punishment and bargaining tool or use the man's demands for his conjugal rights as an avenue to ridicule and insult him.

It is 100% truth

StillDtruth:
This is only 2% True

Commentor:
➜You take the outliers and claim that as history. Na wa for you.

I believe you particularly mentioned a history of wars and strife in your previous comment, did you not? Those outliers are part and parcel of history and for the most part, influence the general trend and behaviors of people after all.

The culture of spousal abandonment in Southern Nigeria remains high though the official divorce rate struggles to push above 2%. Compare this to divorce rates in Northern Nigeria where abandonment is frowned upon and divorce is embraced, you find that the rate of abandonment in the South almost mirrors the rate of divorce in Northern Nigeria where polygamy continues strong to this day. It kind of gives you a picture of what most likely happened back during the time of your forefathers with polygamy and polygamous unions as a whole.

Women keep asking this until DNA Paternity test is mentioned

Omoawoke:
It’s simple nature

Don’t let modern people with their hypocrisy wannabe deceive you


That’s the way it is…

Men and women are different and never the same..
that’s why a man has penis with uncountable sperms

For any specie to survive, the females must outnumber the males…. The males must be strong enough to defend the clan while the females must be numerous enough to repopulate.

Imagine an ecosystem with 10 males and 100 females and compare to one with 100 males and 10 females, the later is prone to be wiped out faster due to lower rate of reproduction.

If you want to run an animal farm, you will get more females and very few males to make sure there’s faster reproduction and growth

As a man, your ultimate goal is to make money and populate as much as you can..

At the bolded,you're very wrong if you're talkinga bout humans.

Due to our aggression and violent nature,a war is likely to break out between the two factions.

Now 100 men vs 10 men,who do you think will win? The former of course. And they will take the woman along with them thereby ensuring the survival of there genes.

Nicenancy:
Why?

Manners

Nicenancy:
Why?

Men are polygamous in nature. Naso God create us. We just can’t help it.

Nicenancy:
Why?

Many Women too are now sharing the Secret Santa.
I beg park somewhere.

pocohantas:
No lies told. I don't look at any man long enough to even notice if he is finer than Mine.

If you get a good one that you love and respect, it is 100% easy to stay faithful and committed. People that say otherwise are probably not with the one they truly desire or they are bad people.

Cheating is a chore. I can't be diving like de Gea because he touched my phone.

Well is it vice versa 😋😋😋

pocohantas:
No lies told. I don't look at any man long enough to even notice if he is finer than Mine.

If you get a good one that you love and respect, it is 100% easy to stay faithful and committed. People that say otherwise are probably not with the one they truly desire or they are bad people.

Cheating is a chore. I can't be diving like de Gea because he touched my phone.

Nicenancy:
Why?

Marrying only one woman is good but it has its own disadvantages too.

pocohantas:
I have not seen up to 10 second wives that are calmer than the first. It has absolutely nothing to do with peace of mind. After all, the second wife na person main babe. Tuface's peace of mild is currently rubbing him brown powder and posting the video online.

Ya, most of them don't get second wives or more for peace of mind. The major reason why they do it is to have variety of kpekus to bang.

Secondly they also believe jealousy would make the women fight themselves for his attention making him feel like a king.

Badmashii:
At the bolded,you're very wrong if you're talkinga bout humans.

Due to our aggression and violent nature,a war is likely to break out between the two factions.

Now 100 men vs 10 men,who do you think will win? The former of course. And they will take the woman along with them thereby ensuring the survival of there genes.

Talking of modern warfare? It’s no longer by numbers but by tech…
And I’m talking of species not limited to humans, I’ve not seen where animals wage war on each other

If you have the money, Why keep just one Nigerian who could not have married you, if you were a wheelbarrow pusher, a vulcanizer! Only a fool does that! to enjoy you

Nicenancy:
Why?