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No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by BUSINESSARENAA(op): 6:09am On Mar 22, 2025
Ordinarily there is no need for this thread but I saw a thread from FREESPIRITED about no sex before marriage, and Yesternight while I was hanging out, I saw a group of ladies at the lounge drinking and saying they will NEVER have sex with their guys until he pays their dowry, it reminded me of an encounter I had some years back.

MY EXPERIENCE

It was in my second year in the university, I always visit my mum's sister who stays in the next town after my school. I always visit her by weekends for two reasons. One, I will eat free food from Friday till Monday morning, secondly when going back to school, "Aunty M" will give me some pocket money, so its a win win situation for me each weekend I spend in her house.

One of those weekends I went to Aunty M's house, I met her friend whom I will call "Aunty Chi. Aunty Chi was transferred to the town temporarily. She is a very beautiful, classy smart and intelligent lady. She has a roboust waist and and intimidating breast. She is well over ripped for marriage. Since her stay in the town is temporal, she decided to stay in Aunty M's house.

Aunty Chi had a very sweet, clean, cool looking guy she was dating and I learnt she told him NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE which the guy agreed to. Though I think the guy was hoping that one day he will break that barrier and "knack" Aunty Chi. This guy was always complaining to Aunty M that Aunty Chi doesnt want to give him kpekus to which Aunty Chi responded that it was an agreement they had before she accepted to date him. One of those days, it led to serious argument and friction and my guy left in frustration.

At night something interesting happened. I and Aunty Chi sleeps in the parlour while Aunty M sleeps in the room with her adopted child as her husband died and she refused to remarry. Though I have one night woken up to find Aunt Chi's big, firm and succulent breast very close to my mouth, and I quickly jumped up from the foam, very scared that she was going to slap me or report me to Aunty M. I never knew she deliberately positioned her breast in my mouth.

While I was sleeping I felt a movement around my loins area and when I woke up, my hard dick was in Aunty Chi's mouth, I was shocked and confused as I was trying to comprehend what was going on. When she noticed my confusion, she whispered into my ears to stay calm. I relaxed a bit.

Aunty Chi started unleashing the demon in her on me. She sucked my dick aggressively like it was going to be her last time to do it, licking my balls area. When she was done, she climbed on me that night and rode me like a mad woman, she was moaning loudly I had to cover her mouth with my hands . After riding me for close to an hour, she started vibrating with so much squirt poured on me. She warned me seriously not to mention this to anybody.

In the morning her guy came and was apologizing, promising her that he was never going to demand sex from her again until they settle down. The guy even almost knelt down to beg her. As I was watching the both of them, I felt pity for the guy. If only he knew what transpired at night.

Our "sexcapades" continued throughout that weekend with Aunty Chi dragging me to her at any given opportunity she found in the house. We had sex almost everywhere in that house. When I was going back to school on Monday, she was all gloomy, tears almost dropping from her eyes. She gave me some good money and left to work in tears. She was constantly calling me shedding tears on phone telling me she cant stop thinking about me. The next weekend she asked if I was coming over, I told her I wont as I usually give Aunty M like three weeks interval so she doesnt feel am pestering her. She told me to come that she will fund my trip, of course money was not the problem. I reminded her that my coming back that week might arouse suspicion as I am scared of Aunty M so I didnt go.

Next weekend approaching I told her I wont come also because of Aunty M, she now told me to come that she was going to lodge me in a hotel and we will stay there all through the weekend. That I agreed to. That weekend was one hell of sex marathon weekend. It was there I realised that Aunty Chi was a sex maniac. In one of our sex sessions, I released quickly earlier than expected and she was so annoyed as my dick became flaccid, she warned me never to do that again, she then opened her bag and brought out a vibrator to continued. She has lots of vibrators she was using in that house and we did not know. She licked my anus, my ears, everywhere lickable.

On monday morning, She didnt allow me to go. She called her office and told them she wasnt feeling fine, meanwhile she told her guy she was traveling. While we were in the hotel, the guy was constantly calling. Twice my dick was in her pussy while she was answering the guy.

I eventually left for school on Tuesday. In the bus I was trying to fathom what was going on. They both later married but I refused to attend their wedding. They guy was annoyed with me why I did not, little did he know my conscience couldnt stand such a lie.

Guys pls becareful before agreeing to NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by immortalcrown(m): 6:21am On Mar 22, 2025
This post only highlights your naughtiness.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by SafetyFirst(m): 6:30am On Mar 22, 2025
No sex before marriage coming from a woman that is not a virgin is nothing but a well articulated plot to defraud the young man in question. It should only be for pure and untampered virtuous Virgin brides.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by LeeSmart: 7:03am On Mar 22, 2025
Story full of lies brother
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by JASONjnr(m): 7:11am On Mar 22, 2025
I'll not be surprised if this xxxrated story gets to the front-page....

Coz e get one mod weh him head no deh everly correct....
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Sonnobax15(m): 7:53am On Mar 22, 2025
lipsrsealed
Guys that date ladies like that can survive any kind of Lagos traffic no matter how long it would take.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by emoboy4u: 8:07am On Mar 22, 2025
Imagination wan kill this one
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by motymop: 8:42am On Mar 22, 2025
FAKE STORY grin
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by AllBlack: 8:42am On Mar 22, 2025
immortalcrown:
This post only highlights your naughtiness.
see what you choose to see
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by AllBlack: 8:44am On Mar 22, 2025
emoboy4u:
Imagination wan kill this one
what is fake about it?
even married women deny their hubby sex and fvck crazy outside then e come be woman wey still dey for dating? relax abeg.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Blackskinman007(m): 9:17am On Mar 22, 2025
If we take a look at it,she will be exploiting the naive guy heavily under the guise of manipulating him into marriage...
A wide borehole for that matter...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Blitzking:
BUSINESSARENAA:
Ordinarily there is no need for this thread but I saw a thread from FREESPIRITED about no sex before marriage, and Yesternight while I was hanging out, I saw a group of ladies at the lounge drinking and saying they will NEVER have sex with their guys until he pays their dowry, it reminded me of an encounter I had some years back.

MY EXPERIENCE

It was in my second year in the university, I always visit my mum's sister who stays in the next town after my school. I always visit her by weekends for two reasons. One, I will eat free food from Friday till Monday morning, secondly when going back to school, "Aunty M" will give me some pocket money, so its a win win situation for me each weekend I spend in her house.

One of those weekends I went to Aunty M's house, I met her friend whom I will call "Aunty Chi. Aunty Chi was transferred to the town temporarily. She is a very beautiful, classy smart and intelligent lady. She has a roboust waist and and intimidating breast. She is well over ripped for marriage. Since her stay in the town is temporal, she decided to stay in Aunty M's house.

Aunty Chi had a very sweet, clean, cool looking guy she was dating and I learnt she told him NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE which the guy agreed to. Though I think the guy was hoping that one day he will break that barrier and "knack" Aunty Chi. This guy was always complaining to Aunty M that Aunty Chi doesnt want to give him kpekus to which Aunty Chi responded that it was an agreement they had before she accepted to date him. One of those days, it led to serious argument and friction and my guy left in frustration.

At night something interesting happened. I and Aunty Chi sleeps in the parlour while Aunty M sleeps in the room with her adopted child as her husband died and she refused to remarry. Though I have one night woken up to find Aunt Chi's big, firm and succulent breast very close to my mouth, and I quickly jumped up from the foam, very scared that she was going to slap me or report me to Aunty M. I never knew she deliberately positioned her breast in my mouth.

While I was sleeping I felt a movement around my loins area and when I woke up, my hard dick was in Aunty Chi's mouth, I was shocked and confused as I was trying to comprehend what was going on. When she noticed my confusion, she whispered into my ears to stay calm. I relaxed a bit.

Aunty Chi started unleashing the demon in her on me. She sucked my dick aggressively like it was going to be her last time to do it, licking my balls area. When she was done, she climbed on me that night and rode me like a mad woman, she was moaning loudly I had to cover her mouth with my hands . After riding me for close to an hour, she started vibrating with so much squirt poured on me. She warned me seriously not to mention this to anybody.

In the morning her guy came and was apologizing, promising her that he was never going to demand sex from her again until they settle down. The guy even almost knelt down to beg her. As I was watching the both of them, I felt pity for the guy. If only he knew what transpired at night.

Our "sexcapades" continued throughout that weekend with Aunty Chi dragging me to her at any given opportunity she found in the house. We had sex almost everywhere in that house. When I was going back to school on Monday, she was all gloomy, tears almost dropping from her eyes. She gave me some good money and left to work in tears. She was constantly calling me shedding tears on phone telling me she cant stop thinking about me. The next weekend she asked if I was coming over, I told her I wont as I usually give Aunty M like three weeks interval so she doesnt feel am pestering her. She told me to come that she will fund my trip, of course money was not the problem. I reminded her that my coming back that week might arouse suspicion as I am scared of Aunty M so I didnt go.

Next weekend approaching I told her I wont come also because of Aunty M, she now told me to come that she was going to lodge me in a hotel and we will stay there all through the weekend. That I agreed to. That weekend was one hell of sex marathon weekend. It was there I realised that Aunty Chi was a sex maniac. In one of our sex sessions, I released quickly earlier than expected and she was so annoyed as my dick became flaccid, she warned me never to do that again, she then opened her bag and brought out a vibrator to continued. She has lots of vibrators she was using in that house and we did not know. She licked my anus, my ears, everywhere lickable.

On monday morning, She didnt allow me to go. She called her office and told them she wasnt feeling fine, meanwhile she told her guy she was traveling. While we were in the hotel, the guy was constantly calling. Twice my dick was in her pussy while she was answering the guy.

I eventually left for school on Tuesday. In the bus I was trying to fathom what was going on. They both later married but I refused to attend their wedding. They guy was annoyed with me why I did not, little did he know my conscience couldnt stand such a lie.

Guys pls becareful before agreeing to NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
Any gal that says no sex b4 marriage would have her years wasted...cos she would be dated..promised marriage...cheated on with several ladies and one day the guy will realise he found a good gal..who gives him great sex...clean...hardworking...a goal getter who doesn't see sex as anything..juicy and he is going to dump you and you would think why do 'good girl suffer' Good girls don't suffer..stupid gals do.
N.b this post doesnt support violence. And giving sex doesnt mean the guy will marry you. You need to have other great qualities.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Blitzking: 9:40am On Mar 22, 2025
BUSINESSARENAA:
Ordinarily there is no need for this thread but I saw a thread from FREESPIRITED about no sex before marriage, and Yesternight while I was hanging out, I saw a group of ladies at the lounge drinking and saying they will NEVER have sex with their guys until he pays their dowry, it reminded me of an encounter I had some years back.

MY EXPERIENCE

It was in my second year in the university, I always visit my mum's sister who stays in the next town after my school. I always visit her by weekends for two reasons. One, I will eat free food from Friday till Monday morning, secondly when going back to school, "Aunty M" will give me some pocket money, so its a win win situation for me each weekend I spend in her house.

One of those weekends I went to Aunty M's house, I met her friend whom I will call "Aunty Chi. Aunty Chi was transferred to the town temporarily. She is a very beautiful, classy smart and intelligent lady. She has a roboust waist and and intimidating breast. She is well over ripped for marriage. Since her stay in the town is temporal, she decided to stay in Aunty M's house.

Aunty Chi had a very sweet, clean, cool looking guy she was dating and I learnt she told him NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE which the guy agreed to. Though I think the guy was hoping that one day he will break that barrier and "knack" Aunty Chi. This guy was always complaining to Aunty M that Aunty Chi doesnt want to give him kpekus to which Aunty Chi responded that it was an agreement they had before she accepted to date him. One of those days, it led to serious argument and friction and my guy left in frustration.

At night something interesting happened. I and Aunty Chi sleeps in the parlour while Aunty M sleeps in the room with her adopted child as her husband died and she refused to remarry. Though I have one night woken up to find Aunt Chi's big, firm and succulent breast very close to my mouth, and I quickly jumped up from the foam, very scared that she was going to slap me or report me to Aunty M. I never knew she deliberately positioned her breast in my mouth.

While I was sleeping I felt a movement around my loins area and when I woke up, my hard dick was in Aunty Chi's mouth, I was shocked and confused as I was trying to comprehend what was going on. When she noticed my confusion, she whispered into my ears to stay calm. I relaxed a bit.

Aunty Chi started unleashing the demon in her on me. She sucked my dick aggressively like it was going to be her last time to do it, licking my balls area. When she was done, she climbed on me that night and rode me like a mad woman, she was moaning loudly I had to cover her mouth with my hands . After riding me for close to an hour, she started vibrating with so much squirt poured on me. She warned me seriously not to mention this to anybody.

In the morning her guy came and was apologizing, promising her that he was never going to demand sex from her again until they settle down. The guy even almost knelt down to beg her. As I was watching the both of them, I felt pity for the guy. If only he knew what transpired at night.

Our "sexcapades" continued throughout that weekend with Aunty Chi dragging me to her at any given opportunity she found in the house. We had sex almost everywhere in that house. When I was going back to school on Monday, she was all gloomy, tears almost dropping from her eyes. She gave me some good money and left to work in tears. She was constantly calling me shedding tears on phone telling me she cant stop thinking about me. The next weekend she asked if I was coming over, I told her I wont as I usually give Aunty M like three weeks interval so she doesnt feel am pestering her. She told me to come that she will fund my trip, of course money was not the problem. I reminded her that my coming back that week might arouse suspicion as I am scared of Aunty M so I didnt go.

Next weekend approaching I told her I wont come also because of Aunty M, she now told me to come that she was going to lodge me in a hotel and we will stay there all through the weekend. That I agreed to. That weekend was one hell of sex marathon weekend. It was there I realised that Aunty Chi was a sex maniac. In one of our sex sessions, I released quickly earlier than expected and she was so annoyed as my dick became flaccid, she warned me never to do that again, she then opened her bag and brought out a vibrator to continued. She has lots of vibrators she was using in that house and we did not know. She licked my anus, my ears, everywhere lickable.

On monday morning, She didnt allow me to go. She called her office and told them she wasnt feeling fine, meanwhile she told her guy she was traveling. While we were in the hotel, the guy was constantly calling. Twice my dick was in her pussy while she was answering the guy.

I eventually left for school on Tuesday. In the bus I was trying to fathom what was going on. They both later married but I refused to attend their wedding. They guy was annoyed with me why I did not, little did he know my conscience couldnt stand such a lie.

Guys pls becareful before agreeing to NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Rexymania(m): 11:42am On Mar 22, 2025
I'm trying hard to believe your story
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by ItisWell22(f): 12:04pm On Mar 22, 2025
Is this your encounter real?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Kobicove(m): 12:35pm On Mar 22, 2025
Rexymania:
I'm trying hard to believe your story
grin
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by COOL10(m): 1:12pm On Mar 22, 2025
The fact that the men on this thread are doubting this story shows that a lot of Nigerian men are yet to see women in their true, unadulterated, unapologetic sexual form. They still believe in the facade of innocence that Nigerian women love to display.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Harddiskng(m): 1:45pm On Mar 22, 2025
SafetyFirst:
No sex before marriage coming from a woman that is not a virgin is nothing but a well articulated plot to defraud the young man in question. It should only be for pure and untampered virtuous Virgin brides.
It is super easy but i don’t know why guys still fall for a fraudulent ruse.

She is NOT a virgin and say no sex before marriage. Leave her immediately, she has a plan; except you want to waste your energy, time & resources to find out what she is up; i would rather throw all my belongings into the beach. It would be more productive than wasting any more time with her.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by motymop: 2:03pm On Mar 22, 2025
Harddiskng:
It is super easy but i don’t know why guys still fall for a fraudulent ruse.

She is NOT a virgin and say no sex before marriage. Leave her immediately, she has a plan; except you want to waste your energy, time & resources to find out what she is up; i would rather throw all my belongings into the beach. It would be more productive than wasting any more time with her.
You look like someone obsessed about sex.

The story is fabricated, there are reasons why.

He wrote that she was moaning very loud in the parlor of his aunty house.

She squirted all over the place.

You think his aunty will not hear the moan or the dampness of her parlour the next day.

All the sex act was fantasy.

A mature woman that want to be very discreet won't have sex in her friends place. Knowing that her friend will catch her.

Even if the sex take place, it will be done codely.

All the stuff he wrote were fantasy in his own head.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Harddiskng(m): 2:13pm On Mar 22, 2025
motymop:
I have very low comprehension
This your epistle ehn lol.

If you could read you would have understood I was only validating the point of the person i quoted, I didn’t even completely read what the OP posted.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by motymop: 2:44pm On Mar 22, 2025
Harddiskng:
This your epistle ehn lol.

If you could read you would have understood I was only validating the point of the person i quoted, I didn’t even completely read what the OP posted.
So you literally change the reply.

My reply was for COOL10.

I just realized that.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by motymop: 2:45pm On Mar 22, 2025
COOL10:
The fact that the men on this thread are doubting this story shows that a lot of Nigerian men are yet to see women in their true, unadulterated, unapologetic sexual form. They still believe in the facade of innocence that Nigerian women love to display.
You look like someone obsessed about sex.

The story is fabricated, there are reasons why.

He wrote that she was moaning very loud in the parlor of his aunty house.

She squirted all over the place.

You think his aunty will not hear the moan or the dampness of her parlour the next day.

All the sex act was fantasy.

A mature woman that want to be very discreet won't have sex in her friends place. Knowing that her friend will catch her.

Even if the sex take place, it will be done codely.

All the stuff he wrote were fantasy in his own head.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Nobody: 2:45pm On Mar 22, 2025
I completely believe this story because I had an experience similar to this one. The woman in question has been bursted and currently in a fight with her husband. I heard they tried to travel abroad last year and DNA test revealed her husband did not father their son. When I heard it, I thanked God it was their son and not their first daughter. That evil woman took my innocence as a young boy. Even after marriage, she wanted to continue it but I told my elder brother who then threatened her to stop. We did the last one without me knowing that her husband had scheduled to marry her the next week. Next time I saw her, she was pregnant with their daughter. My brother tease me with that grown girl now and every time I've seen her, my heart stopped for some time. If she is my daughter, one day we will find out.

Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by BUSINESSARENAA(op): 2:46pm On Mar 22, 2025
motymop:
You look like someone obsessed about sex.

The story is fabricated, there are reasons why.

He wrote that she was moaning very loud in the parlor of his aunty house.

She squirted all over the place.

You think his aunty will not hear the moan or the dampness of her parlour the next day.

All the sex act was fantasy.

A mature woman that want to be very discreet won't have sex in her friends place. Knowing that her friend will catch her.

Even if the sex take place, it will be done codely.

All the stuff he wrote were fantasy in his own head.
U dont know women trust me. Those beings will shock you no jokes
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by BUSINESSARENAA(op): 2:51pm On Mar 22, 2025
motymop:
You look like someone obsessed about sex.

The story is fabricated, there are reasons why.

He wrote that she was moaning very loud in the parlor of his aunty house.

She squirted all over the place.

You think his aunty will not hear the moan or the dampness of her parlour the next day.

All the sex act was fantasy.



I laugh at you in Swahili. She squirted on my all over my body. Yes At a time I believed My Aunty was aware of our foolishness and just decided not to talk about it.

A mature woman that want to be very discreet won't have sex in her friends place. Knowing that her friend will catch her.

Even if the sex take place, it will be done codely.

All the stuff he wrote were fantasy in his own head.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by motymop: 2:52pm On Mar 22, 2025
Nonexisting:
I completely believe this story because I had an experience similar to this one. The woman in question has been bursted and currently in a fight with her husband. I heard they tried to travel abroad last year and DNA test revealed her husband did not father their son. When I heard it, I thanked God it was their son and not their first daughter. That evil woman took my innocence as a young boy. Even after marriage, she wanted to continue it but I told my elder brother who then threatened her to stop. We did the last one without me knowing that her husband had scheduled to marry her the next week. Next time I saw her, she was pregnant with their daughter. My brother tease me with that grown girl now and every time I've seen her, my heart stopped for some time. If she is my daughter, one day we will find out.
Your story and his are different.

I completely understand yours, it makes lot of sense but that guy owns is complete fiction
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by BUSINESSARENAA(op): 3:05pm On Mar 22, 2025
ItisWell22:
Is this your encounter real?
100 percent real. Trust me.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by TheBreastSucker(m): 3:05pm On Mar 22, 2025
No sex does not mean you should not suck brezz grin
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Juliearth(f): 3:13pm On Mar 22, 2025
immortalcrown:
This post only highlights your naughtiness.
I think he was taken advantage of. Maybe a tad bit naive.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Anenehi: 3:19pm On Mar 22, 2025
Any thing, a woman does not want from you, she is getting it else where
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by Adolak(m): 3:22pm On Mar 22, 2025
This story has been doctored to make it sweeter grin
Re: No Sex Before Marriage, My Encounter by padi94(m): 5:03pm On Mar 22, 2025
Na wa o
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