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Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Marc3500: 5:01pm On Apr 10, 2025
Parizz:
so u like yashless gals
only if she is attractive
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Fab21: 5:12pm On Apr 10, 2025
LoneSoldier:
My perspective are this, women aren't important in any man's life period....
Hmmm!!
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by LoneSoldier: 5:12pm On Apr 10, 2025
chidiokay:
when i see Men that talk like you, i just laugh at una foolishness

So you think its by your might and doings you are successful, go to kirikiri prison and after yaba left you will see men far better than you in looks, IQ and physical

if you earn 500k monthly overtime you would have amasse wealth, if woman wey you wan marry bill you 200k your worth carry am ... Maybe not for wig or nonsensical things

Naa jew man dey reason my Money naa for myself alone .... only you go work But your people go follow share as you dey cash out. thats norm

Nothing rocks about Bachelor life, weytin you dey enjoy wey you think say married men no dey enjoy ... nothing like seein your wife and children reflect how responsible you are, You earn real respect in your society
First and foremost before I emphazise on the bolded, yes I will defend myself even in the highest court, that I don't need God to make it, I just need luck.... Luck is everything, am already blessed and luck with good efforts made it work, maybe you can give your making it to your fictitious God, who dont care a fuxking bit about your existence, if indeed he exists..... But as for me, I give it to Good Luck and Consistent Efforts.... That been said let's move to the bolded.....

You are one of those people who will critize a man for not getting married when he clocks 30, you see that type of man as been weak, afraid and fragile and out of his leagues.... This a pressure set by society to make a man look like his wise decisions of not getting married seems to be his mistake..... undecided

Trust me I have seen a lot of your type, who said same thing to me, when I told them my plans of being a bachelor for life, and they all laughed at me, I told them to follow me, they did not hacken, now they are suffering it, I spoke to one just last week, and he told me how his marriage is a total catastrophe and he wished he listened to me earlier....

So you see I have made a very big decision to be a bachelor and have peace with myself, no wife, no child.... Just me and my money, travelling to where I want and having fun, that is the benefit a bachelor have over a married man.... undecided
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by chidiokay: 5:33pm On Apr 10, 2025
LoneSoldier:
First and foremost before I emphazise on the bolded, yes I defend myself even in the highest court, that I don't need God to make it, I just need luck.... Luck is everything, am already blessed and luck with good efforts made it work, maybe you can give your making it to your fictitious God, who dont care a fuxking bit about your existence, if indeed he exists..... But as for me, I give it to Good Luck and Consistent Efforts.... That been said let's move to the bolded.....

You are one of those people who will critize a man for not getting married when he clocks 30, you see that type of man as been weak, afraid and fragile and out of his leagues.... This a pressure set by society to make a man look like his wise decisions of not getting married seems to be his mistake..... undecided

Trust me I have seen a lot of your type, who said same thing to me, when I told my plans of being a bachelor for life, and they all laughed at me, I told them to follow me, they did not hacken, now they are suffering it, I spoke to one just last week, and he told me how his marriage is a total catastrophe and he wished he listened to me earlier....

So you see I have made a very big decision to be a bachelor and have peace with myself, no wife, no child.... Just me and my money, travelling to where I want and having fun, that is the benefit a bachelor have over a married man.... undecided
You are even more funny than i thought, you believe God is fictitious but you believe in "lUCK" .. do you know "grace" make logical sense than "Luck" .. naa you sabi sha

Who is pressuring you here, no one will ask a Man struggling to feed himself to marry But what today society stand upon is if a child can afford a hoe Buy it .. thats like making hay yle the sun shines

Your friends that married might appear to be struggling But they are already moving on with there "task" in life, You wey get money just dey waste away naa lexus go call you daddy abi naa versace dining table go give you companionship at dire moments

Your case be like prisoner wey no get trial dey use immates wey get known sentenced time laugh ... whereas you dey follow dem old for cell
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by LoneSoldier: 5:41pm On Apr 10, 2025
chidiokay:
You are even more funny than i thought, you believe God is fictitious but you believe in "lUCK" .. do you know "grace" make logical sense than "Luck" .. naa you sabi sha

Who is pressuring you here, no one will ask a Man struggling to feed himself to marry But what today society stand upon is if a child can afford a hoe Buy it .. thats like making hay yle the sun shines

Your friends that married might appear to be struggling But they are already moving on with there "task" in life, You wey get money just dey waste away naa lexus go call you daddy abi naa versace dining table go give you companionship at dire moments

Your case be like prisoner wey no get trial dey use immates wey get known sentenced time laugh ... whereas you dey follow dem old for cell
Bolded one
How does grace and luck co-relate...?

Bolded two
Fulfilling what, didn't you see where I wrote one of them told me his marriage is in chaos, so he is knownly fulfilling his duties by having his throat cut off.... undecided

Bolded three
To each man his own, I have chosen that life.... And it suits my personality very well.... undecided
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by JustAndy(m): 7:57pm On Apr 10, 2025
chidiokay:
what friendship lion dey follow buffalo dey play


dey play undecided
Now I understand were you stand
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Mcslize: 9:55pm On Apr 10, 2025
chidiokay:
Oga you must be living in your head, Men wey truly rich no dey carry am for head i must marry a rich woman

i have so many examples of big men i know that took there wife from nothing, establish this women big time shop loaded cheesy we broke men go just dey agrue base on poverty

Everything naa grace, there are gurlz out there with good job, fat account, eloquent and everything but naa broke ass dey chase and dupe them

There is no sure formular to anything what works for A might not work for B- Z sef. naa from school one baba olowo collect my babe that year carry camry put for her yansh ... weytin undergraduate gurl get to offer that year

wo ! naa grace nd God know as e dey share am
You and I know, there are some men that are ozuor in the real world. We call them money miss road men.

Men that will appreciate a girl's beauty by crediting her account. Men that will credit a woman's account simply for accepting their friends request on Facebook.

Mumu men fool everywhere and that's why women are clamouring for marrying a rich man.

Mumu men plenty outside. And that's why some will marry rubbish put for house. All that any lady needs is to have yansh and breast she will bag one mumu money miss road man as husband.

If no be foolishness of some men, while will a reasonable man buy Ashani waka waka baby car and house and even go as far as proposing. No be JuJu be that?
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Mcslize: 10:01pm On Apr 10, 2025
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Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Gerrard59(m): 10:31pm On Apr 10, 2025
silibaba:
Speak for yourself coz honestly speaking, I don't.
You don't experience early morning erection?
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Tempulated:
silibaba:
Women even experience it more than men.

Desire for sex is more in women just that they know how to contain it.

But once you are about to get them laid, nah dem dey first pull off everything for dem body self.
You are so on point with your analysis. But i would like to put some touches on the bolded.

Yes it's true we all assume women know how to contain the urge, But the assertion isn't entirely true. Ladies/Women are the No One Masturbators in the world. So while we think they are containing it, They are secretly busy helping themselves. To buttress my point, Check the Ever Booming intimacy gadget Industry and tell me their biggest customersgrin

What makes this funnier is they can Masturbate literally anywhere and anytime. Observe and take a look at a lady or woman sitting down with her Legs crossed, Something is going on down there unnoticed. But it were to be a man, The bulge will be so visiblegrin

Secondly, The society is what is holding them back, Like shaming and all. Thirdly, They have discovered Most men are very aggressive when it comes to sex due to their High Testosterone. So they are leveraging on the situation.

Remove all these barriers and see Women start Raping men, Men always think they love sex lol but they have no idea. Women are BEAST when it comes to sex.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by chidiokay: 11:07pm On Apr 10, 2025
Mcslize:
You and I know, there are some men that are ozuor in the real world. We call them money miss road men.

Men that will appreciate a girl's beauty by crediting her account. Men that will credit a woman's account simply for accepting their friends request on Facebook.

Mumu men fool everywhere and that's why women are clamouring for marrying a rich man.

Mumu men plenty outside. And that's why some will marry rubbish put for house. All that any lady needs is to have yansh and breast she will bag one mumu money miss road man as husband.

If no be foolishness of some men, while will a reasonable man buy Ashani waka waka baby car and house and even go as far as proposing. No be JuJu be that?
Becos dey decide to spend fraction of there money a loved partner "Money miss road" so men like us that show gurlfriend shege b4 we drop TF naa Moneypoint cheesy

All those money we saw Ned splash on regina is just decimal fraction of his net worth... Odogwus are not as stupid as we think, b4 he waste 1m he knows 50m will enter, as he is spending he is calculating 7 doors money will come in from


LoL ! make God bless us tew, nothing wrong if you pamper and spoil your loved ones ... as long as the cash is flowing
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Tempulated: 11:08pm On Apr 10, 2025
Mcslize:
You and I know, there are some men that are ozuor in the real world. We call them money miss road men.

Men that will appreciate a girl's beauty by crediting her account. Men that will credit a woman's account simply for accepting their friends request on Facebook.

Mumu men fool everywhere and that's why women are clamouring for marrying a rich man.

Mumu men plenty outside. And that's why some will marry rubbish put for house. All that any lady needs is to have yansh and breast she will bag one mumu money miss road man as husband.

If no be foolishness of some men, while will a reasonable man buy Ashani waka waka baby car and house and even go as far as proposing. No be JuJu be that?
The sad reality we should all accept is This caliber of men will always be in majority of men, Most especially in a country like Nigeria.

Most Nigerian men regardless of their status will do anything to have Sex with women
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Tempulated: 11:22pm On Apr 10, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Bolded one
How does grace and luck co-relate...?

Bolded two
Fulfilling what, didn't you see where I wrote one of them told me his marriage is in chaos, so he is knownly fulfilling his duties by having his throat cut off.... undecided

Bolded three
To each man his own, I have chosen that life.... And it suits my personality very well.... undecided
grin grin grin

How do you guys Cope in conversing with Archaic and Low IQ People.

It's not every mention i respond to on here.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by chidiokay: 11:35pm On Apr 10, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Bolded one
How does grace and luck co-relate...?

Bolded two
Fulfilling what, didn't you see where I wrote one of them told me his marriage is in chaos, so he is knownly fulfilling his duties by having his throat cut off.... undecided

Bolded three
To each man his own, I have chosen that life.... And it suits my personality very well.... undecided
Gud question buh i doubt you will know the answer

Grace is getting or enjoying what others better than you deserve

Luck is all about getting something on a scale of 50/50 i.e it could have gone either ways but e favor you

Shey you can now see why i said Grace makes more sense smiley

no point discussing the marriage part , next of kin await people like you grin
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by AutomatedMoney: 12:58am On Apr 11, 2025
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Okay, Thanks For The Headsup... When I firstly registered with BluFX, They Did Well Though...

I'll observe all of your recommendations too.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by AutomatedMoney: 1:00am On Apr 11, 2025
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Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Brandiebird: 1:33am On Apr 11, 2025
The irony is that the poorest people are getting married and putting forth their genes while the educated and rich are here making excuses as to why their genetic materials will not survive. Marry don't marry, have children don't have children, the human race will still continue.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by LoneSoldier: 6:52am On Apr 11, 2025
chidiokay:
Gud question buh i doubt you will know the answer

Grace is getting or enjoying what others better than you deserve

Luck is all about getting something on a scale of 50/50 i.e it could have gone either ways but e favor you

Shey you can now see why i said Grace makes more sense smiley

no point discussing the marriage part , next of kin await people like you grin
Your misunderstood reasoning your problem, it got no effect on me....

All I know is Luck not Grace or God.... undecided
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by LoneSoldier: 6:54am On Apr 11, 2025
Tempulated:
grin grin grin

How do you guys Cope in conversing with Archaic and Low IQ People.

It's not every mention i respond to on here.
Is this response directed to me or the other dude I quoted...
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by chidiokay: 7:33am On Apr 11, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Your misunderstood reasoning your problem, it got no effect on me....

All I know is Luck not Grace or God.... undecided
you just erased all doubts .. pointless
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by LoneSoldier: 7:58am On Apr 11, 2025
chidiokay:
you just erased all doubts .. pointless
Like I said earlier, believe in your fictitious God alone, stop enforcing it on other people.... undecided
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by AmuEbule: 10:40am On Apr 11, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Your misunderstood reasoning your problem, it got no effect on me....

All I know is Luck not Grace or God.... undecided
You’re a confused atheist and that’s beginning to affect your reasoning. Go and seek help.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by LoneSoldier: 11:24am On Apr 11, 2025
AmuEbule:
You’re a confused atheist and that’s beginning to affect your reasoning. Go and seek help.
At least I have a good believe, where as you are cursed from birth.... I know you don't know the definition of luck.... Cause all your life, you have been miserable.... undecided
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by silibaba:
Tempulated:
You are so on point with your analysis. But i would like to put some touches on the bolded.

Yes it's true we all assume women know how to contain the urge, But the assertion isn't entirely true. Ladies/Women are the No One Masturbators in the world. So while we think they are containing it, They are secretly busy helping themselves. To buttress my point, Check the Ever Booming intimacy gadget Industry and tell me their biggest customersgrin

What makes this funnier is they can Masturbate literally anywhere and anytime. Observe and take a look at a lady or woman sitting down with her Legs crossed, Something is going on down there unnoticed. But it were to be a man, The bulge will be so visiblegrin

Secondly, The society is what is holding them back, Like shaming and all. Thirdly, They have discovered Most men are very aggressive when it comes to sex due to their High Testosterone. So they are leveraging on the situation.

Remove all these barriers and see Women start Raping men, Men always think they love sex lol but they have no idea. Women are BEAST when it comes to sex.
You nailed it bro.

What else can I say?
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by silibaba: 1:36pm On Apr 11, 2025
Gerrard59:
You don't experience early morning erection?
Anything special?
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Love800(m): 2:11pm On Apr 11, 2025
If i should get you correct, you are saying that you married three(3) different women and each of the women gave you one(1) kid? Am i correct?

And, you staying with only the children in your home, their mothers are outside staying on their own. Am i correct?
Brilliancepower:
Men in their 30s.. ? Are you just waking up from sleep.. Am 45, I don't have any gotham pressure to get married again. But I get three Pikins and only one is with me, he is 5, the eldest is 15 ( him mama dey form champion, me I face my work), I get a girl that is 2 (her mama dey form champion, she dey with am). I noticed bill killed my dad at 58.. unless if am to die early, bills nor fit kill me. Bills dey make men die!🙄
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Tempulated: 4:48pm On Apr 11, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Is this response directed to me or the other dude I quoted...
I presume you should already deduce i was referring to him and not you.

You did what's best for you and what will give you peace of mind and someone is questioning you about it. Yet you keep engaging him.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by osazsky(m): 4:50pm On Apr 11, 2025
RollinTNDA:
As economy hard like this..
With the rate of divorce

vvomen vvill soon start paying men
Groom Price before we take you women serious and marry you.

Only a woman that is serious about marriage will pay Groom Price.
Thats when you know she is serious

I will write my list and give you
If you dont pay, no marriage angry
how old are u..I thought of this when I was 11 like 33 yrs ago
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Tempulated: 4:54pm On Apr 11, 2025
silibaba:
You nailed it bro.

What more can I say?
🙏🙏🙏
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by LoneSoldier: 4:58pm On Apr 11, 2025
Tempulated:
I presume you should already deduce i was referring to him and not you.

You did what's best for you and what will give you peace of mind and someone is questioning you about it. Yet you keep engaging him.
Okay, am no more engaging him.... Let him roam freely with his mentality not my problem....
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Mcslize: 7:06pm On Apr 11, 2025
AutomatedMoney:
Okay, Thanks For The Headsup... When I firstly registered with BluFX, They Did Well Though...

I'll observe all of your recommendations too.
You're welcome.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Still Hesitant To Marry? by Mcslize: 7:10pm On Apr 11, 2025
Tempulated:
The sad reality we should all accept is This caliber of men will always be in majority of men, Most especially in a country like Nigeria.

Most Nigerian men regardless of their status will do anything to have Sex with women
The thing tire me brother. Pússy is the cheapest thing on this planet earth and some men won't seem to understand that. They will still go the extra length doing too much just to get laid.

If not for foolish men, many ladies will be languishing in hunger on a daily basis.

But you know, mumu men will always come to their rescue.
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