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ItisWell22:
You seem experienced in this field.

Did you overlook the part where he mentioned spreading a pastor's wife's legs and praying for forgiveness?

eastOFwest:
I have experienced life to an extent and come to certain conclusions. Sadly, there was a time that I viewed married women as easy targets and I wasn't proved wrong

Wow!

Ogbeni nack if you Wan nack and stop all these yeye ranting. She's not longing for anything, it is your hormones that are functioning normal. If u no nack her go home and soapy, u must choose one. Continue deceiving unaself

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
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I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
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The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
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It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
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I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

My dear fallen ignorant demon, no pastor should cancel a woman , married or not. No scripture supports this. Instead the older women are encouraged to advise and show good examples to the young ones.

You have no business talking to, advising or cancelling a married woman whether her marriage is in crisis. You're usurping the husband's authority.

Get older women in the church to counsel the women .

Stop hiding your lust and deception under pastor. You people are enjoying the vulnerability of these ignorant weaker sex

Fiscus105:
Pastor or no pastor,.... people should endeavour to stay distance from opposite sex who is not husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend.

Two people who are still sexual active and who aren't blood related, cannot come closer without sexual emotion spring out.

More reason you shouldn't take anyone who insist on opposite bestie serious.

Na so

FreeSpirited:
Really more sad that she's a worker in church
Her husband is like the pastors PA... With multiple designations
..
Things are happening o.
And if you see this shy soft spoken fine lady.. U will feel pity... Everything I was saying no enter her heart... She badly wanted an emotional tampoon to lean on, with sex to kill her sorrow..

I'm not saying you are lying, but from your story and some few replies I've seen, you said the husband work as P.A to a pastor and yet, husband is still locking her wife outside just because she goes to vigil, abeg, if you no clear this message well, I fit stone you Eba 😉

TheBreastSucker:
Next time you find yourself in such a situation just suck her breasts and move o because it is not considered as cheating

On point, this OP is a stupid fool for not doing the right thing. He probably went back home and jerked off to porn. Asshole.

FreeSpirited:
Really more sad that she's a worker in church
Her husband is like the pastors PA... With multiple designations
..
Things are happening o.
And if you see this shy soft spoken fine lady.. U will feel pity... Everything I was saying no enter her heart... She badly wanted an emotional tampoon to lean on, with sex to kill her sorrow..

Did she tell you she's seeking or desiring these or you're just assuming?

Fiscus105:
*Wife that claims to be born again, but ready to open legs for total stranger without even stress her an inch.

When you are clean these devils will fvck you in under 20 minutes of meeting you.

That was what happened to me when I decided to follow God purely. On my very first trip to the university, night bus, one beautiful devil stranger came for me.

And that was when I saw that the normal resistance and shit IS A BAD MOVE!

Zooposki:
Hmm

What about the woman’s biological clock and having children after reaching 40 years age

occfx:
How people get erection for married women is strange to me sha.

Married woman someone pounds every night with venom is what I will be aspiring for. I don't feel anything for married women at all. If you package without ring I may look at you and admire but immediately I found out you are married, I forget you instantly. A married ex ones sent me message one day say make I send her porrn video, I was like, which kind nonsense be that, talk to your husband abeg. She come dey beg oo, I shouted at her, she run. I will rather go for teenagers than any married woman, if you like naked.

Where you shut up there! Na people like una dey run follow people wives.

Zooposki:
I wonder what gender/devils roam around the world looking for whom to steal, kill, rape and destroy? The world would be 99% peaceful without them.

Don't go there oo. That is your gender. Your very same female gender.

You people have stolen and killed and raped more than men. So, talk dat one.

wunmi590:
I'm not saying you are lying, but from your story and some few replies I've seen, you said the husband work as P.A to a pastor and yet, husband is still locking her wife outside just because she goes to vigil, abeg, if you no clear this message well, I fit stone you Eba 😉

Only a wise person would see this inconsistency.

The husband would never lock his wife out, knowing fully well, she attended his OGA programme and that, if he locks her out, the wife would call oga (pastor) immediately, and oga' P.A, which is also husband knows the implications of such act from his boss, if he is being reported to big pastor.

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

There are a few rules to follow
1. Never ever touch a weeping woman you are counselling. If you have a handkerchief, hold it by the edge and give it to her like giving an infectious person
2. Any counselling that extend beyond two sessions must include your wife or better still, hand over such to your wife
3. The venue or location of your counselling must be where people are, and open place and where you can flee.

Some ladies married or not carry spirit of lust, those are the most dangerous. Once you are feeling tempted, it's time to flee with all your strength

anonimi:
What about the woman’s biological clock and having children after reaching 40 years age

Hmmm

Konjiboii:
Im not a man of God but I do try to live a righteous life as best as I can, there was a lady on a dating app in a new city I was in, we matched and got talking and I was straight with her that I won’t be in town for long and just want to knack.
She was down with it and came around 2hrs later, on our way from the junction were I directed and picked her from we head to a restaurant, after ordering and I was about to pay she refused and insisted on paying ,it was shocking to me but I allowed her since she was adamant.
we got home, ate and drank alcohol when she excused herself to take a shower. We took a shower together she got on all fours and sucked me dried while I played her her huge well rounded tits, without drying ourselves off we headed to the bedroom where I knack this woman wetin no good. This lady was thick in the right places and know how to vibrate well. After every ever we dozed off.
I woke up before she did and roll up one, while I was smoking my joint I saw her phone charging and casually picked it up to check the make when I realized it wasn’t locked. Brothers and sisters what I saw on her phone sent shivers down my spine , this lady was married with 3 kids and told her husband she was spending the night with her sick mother.
I confronted her about it and her excuse was that I never asked her if she was married. I’m a certified player but that shook even me. When she left I had to pray and beg for forgiveness so my act won’t place a curse on me. Be careful with this wayward ladies guys. They are out here ruining men

You picked up her phone and went straight to her chat?

FreeSpirited:
From our discussion, she says her husband is kind of mean... And lady is frustrated.. Seems a broke church man is an angry man.
She says husband has locked her out twice for going to church program. The last one that happened two days ago husband ejected some of her belongings to the verandaa before she came back from program btw 6 and 8pm....

You said he is a PA to pastor and he is almost a pastor himself so why will he lock her out for going to church? Don't they attend the same church?

thrillionaire:
Ahn Ahn...na person e kill? Why all these gibberish?
You sabi curse na him you never help us finish Fulani herdsmen wey dey kpai Nigerians on a daily? Gtfoh

You no know say hin just kill person with that talk?

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

Shut up my friend

That’s why I concluded that religious people are the biggest hypocrites on earth

Remove religion and see people’s true color

Did you refuse to bang her because you simply know it’s wrong or because you feel you are committing a sin against God and there are eyes watching you

I am not a pastor, I hate religion and I don’t believe in the Bible nonsense and yet, I will never touch another’ man’s wife, it’s just the right thing to do… so stop this holy than thou, temptation bullcrap… no devil is tempting you


And stop counseling people’s wife!!! Leave people’s wives alone… ole! Olojukororo

FreeSpirited:
Are you this stvpid or naive to not know many churchy religious men have bad marriage while maintaining fake love in public?.. I have seen many including pastors... This shows u are a baby...
And I never claimed I don't have deficiency.
The fact that I allow her to come to my place is one deficiency cos I could smell from her chats that she needed more than encouragement... I had to battle with my willpower to control my hormone..... Same lady first asked me about where to get hotel for cooling off..... I had to deflect it cos I know the meaning... telling her to come over was a risk... Instead of sit down and learn u are talking trash

your anger management as a so called man of God Is poor sir.

sylve11:
Where you shut up there! Na people like una dey run follow people wives.

LOL, be like na your full time job. Honestly, it doesn't make sense.

I don't associate with people who fuckkk people wife. They are generally greedy and can kill.

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

With the way you're talking, you go still fall for the temptation. Instead of working on yourself to be spiritually stronger, you brought one counselling session to social media to entertain people.

Zooposki:
Hmmm

Your avatar is enough to not pursue this discussion any further with you. Cheers

Fiscus105:
Only a wise person would see this inconsistent

The husband would never lock his wife out, knowing fully well, she attended his OGA programme and that, if he locks her out, the wife would call oga (pastor) immediately, and oga' P.A, which is also husband knows the implications of such act from his boss, if he is being reported to big pastor.

Spot on

anonimi:
Your avatar is enough to not pursue this discussion any further with you. Cheers

Ok

Omoawoke:
Shut up my friend

That’s why I concluded that religious people are the biggest hypocrites on earth

Remove religion and see people’s true color

Did you refuse to bang her because you simply know it’s wrong or because you feel you are committing a sin against God and there are eyes watching you

I am not a pastor, I hate religion and I don’t believe in the Bible nonsense and yet, I will never touch another’ man’s wife, it’s just the right thing to do… so stop this holy than thou, temptation bullcrap… no devil is tempting you

Why did you leave out the biggest issue of the RISK of being found out by someone else or the woman SPILLING the truth for whatever reason later on?

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

. It's the reason counselling is not done behind closed doors.

anonimi:
Why did you leave out the biggest issue of the RISK of being found out by someone else or the woman SPILLING the truth for whatever reason later on?

Part of it

People like Op are hypocrites…

They piss me off… holiest than thou looking feeling like a Demi god

He has no business in the first place counseling another man’s wife….

I blame those men that allow their wives turn their pastors to demigods

@ freespirited , if na me be the man and I catch you in private session with my wife, if I no remove your teeth, call me basteddd

Marriage itself iss not for the weak... It takes courage and true understanding of the concept of life and value for each other to go into marriage. Every marriage will be tried!

I will continue to say, marriage is so beautiful, and like every other things that is beautiful comes with a price!

I see many using this opportunity to downplay marriage

stickle:
Your choice of word, "naking" is nothing befitting an aspiring pastor

Where did they write in the Bible that as he used the word "nacking" that it is not befitting of a pastor?

God abeg

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
.
I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
.
The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
.
It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
.
I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

Semi pastor that knows how to use the word "knack"? Hmmmmmm