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I’ve been seeing a trend lately—ladies calling out men in their 30s for dating women aged 18 to 22.

They say stuff like:
“It’s giving manipulation.”
“What do you see in someone that young?”
“Why not date someone your age?”

But let’s be honest:
Back in school, weren’t most of these same young ladies dating older guys? They liked the maturity, stability, and even the flex of saying “I don’t do boys.”

So now that the tables have turned, why the outrage?
Is it about concern… or double standards?

If a 21-year-old woman chooses to date a 33-year-old man, and both are adults—what exactly is the issue?

Let’s talk:
• Why is it cool when she chooses the older man, but creepy when he shows interest?
• Is it manipulation or mutual preference?
• Ladies, is this really about protection… or competition?

Let’s have an honest convo. Drop your thoughts.

Stop applying logic to women’s actions. You go only enter market.

mayDtolu:
I’ve been seeing a trend lately—ladies calling out men in their 30s for dating women aged 18 to 22.

They say stuff like:
“It’s giving manipulation.”
“What do you see in someone that young?”
“Why not date someone your age?”

But let’s be honest:
Back in school, weren’t most of these same young ladies dating older guys? They liked the maturity, stability, and even the flex of saying “I don’t do boys.”

So now that the tables have turned, why the outrage?
Is it about concern… or double standards?

If a 21-year-old woman chooses to date a 33-year-old man, and both are adults—what exactly is the issue?

Let’s talk:
• Why is it cool when she chooses the older man, but creepy when he shows interest?
• Is it manipulation or mutual preference?
• Ladies, is this really about protection… or competition?

Let’s have an honest convo. Drop your thoughts.

Not all of them say such ......inferiority esp for some them that are still single......they don't really know what they want cos at one time they had done such

They're just jealous because the older men skipped them to go for younger blood.

Because they want these older men for themselves. Or else they will never be married.

Now that these older men have money, they want to date them. But when these men were young and haven't made money, these same women rejected their advances, stating that they can't date men in the same age bracket as them.

I have female friends across all age groups because they willingly bring their breasts for me to suck

If you notice, most women saying such are outside the 18-22 age bracket. They’re not happy as men in their thirties are passing them over just for those young blood girls.

Some ladies are now raising alarm that younger guys are hitting on them. While some women find it repulsive, some find it wholesome and are willing to give these younger men a try.
This is as a result of their preferred men age-wise going for 18-22 y/o girls.

This thread will be helpful:
https://www.nairaland.com/7825442/what-pros-cons-dating-marrying

1sharon, I know we mostly have differing opinions on issues(on my prev account), I would love to have your take on this issue.

kpankpangolo:
Stop applying logic to women’s actions. You go only enter market.

🤣🤣

Albertone:
1sharon, I know we mostly have differing opinions on issues(on my prev account), I would love to have your take on this issue.

And what's your previous account?

Wby do old ladies (30s) and 40s hate it and not why do ladies hate it

1Sharon:
And what's your previous account?

I predicted this your response and I wasn’t disappointed.

If it were matters of relationships in the UK, you go don dey wet already

mayDtolu:
I’ve been seeing a trend lately—ladies calling out men in their 30s for dating women aged 18 to 22.

They say stuff like:
“It’s giving manipulation.”
“What do you see in someone that young?”
“Why not date someone your age?”

But let’s be honest:
Back in school, weren’t most of these same young ladies dating older guys? They liked the maturity, stability, and even the flex of saying “I don’t do boys.”

So now that the tables have turned, why the outrage?
Is it about concern… or double standards?

If a 21-year-old woman chooses to date a 33-year-old man, and both are adults—what exactly is the issue?

Let’s talk:
• Why is it cool when she chooses the older man, but creepy when he shows interest?
• Is it manipulation or mutual preference?
• Ladies, is this really about protection… or competition?

Let’s have an honest convo. Drop your thoughts.

The most illogical being of the two sentient being is woman.

mayDtolu:
I’ve been seeing a trend lately—ladies calling out men in their 30s for dating women aged 18 to 22.

They say stuff like:
“It’s giving manipulation.”
“What do you see in someone that young?”
“Why not date someone your age?”

But let’s be honest:
Back in school, weren’t most of these same young ladies dating older guys? They liked the maturity, stability, and even the flex of saying “I don’t do boys.”

So now that the tables have turned, why the outrage?
Is it about concern… or double standards?

If a 21-year-old woman chooses to date a 33-year-old man, and both are adults—what exactly is the issue?

Let’s talk:
• Why is it cool when she chooses the older man, but creepy when he shows interest?
• Is it manipulation or mutual preference?
• Ladies, is this really about protection… or competition?

Let’s have an honest convo. Drop your thoughts.

What thirty year old women are doing right now is called manipulation. Listen, women have been given too much freedom by modern standards. There is a reason why historically, women were not allowed to have certain rights. We're not smarter than our forefathers.

They've manipulated men into thinking they have to go for old cargoes, despite these old cargoes ignoring them like crazy when they were younger.

This is only the beginning.

They feel threatened and rejected.
Go to Universities, you will see this spinsters working in the varsities transferring aggression to the young female students.
Cuz, they are threatened by their beauty and youthfulness.
Why should I date my age mate?
I dey craze ni
Women over 30 has attained advanced maternal age.

Albertone:
I predicted this your response and I wasn’t disappointed.

If it were matters of relationships in the UK, you go don dey wet already

If you've insulted me on a previous account, why not maintain the same energy? Dey go abeg.

1Sharon:
If you've insulted me on a previous account, why not maintain the same energy? Dey go abeg.

I’ve never insulted you before. And I wonder where you got that impression from.

It’s no problem. I guess I rated you too much that’s why you could address me this way for inviting you to a discourse.

Albertone:
I’ve never insulted you before. And I wonder where you got that impression from.

It’s no problem. I guess I rated you too much that’s why you could address me this way for inviting you to a discourse.

Make una two get out abeg...